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Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory talk about a**l sex, discussing the different types before answering questions like:

Who has anal sex? Why do people have a**l sex? How should we have anal sex to minimise risk and maximise pleasure?
Things also get a little heated as Cate and Diggory clash over their answers to listener questions about how to find a healthier balance between casual sex and commitment when dating and whether one man, whose girlfriend of 9 years has invited him to watch her and her friend have sex for the first time, is justified in feeling like he should be able to have sex with the friend, too.
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In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss:

Why some straight men have sex with menWhat defines someone's sexual orientationThe difference between your sexual and erotic orientationJoe's 4 questions he asks clients to help them understand their sexual orientation
You can find Dr Joe Kort here: https://joekort.com/
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:
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-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod
And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.
You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/
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Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory ask whether lesbian bed death (the idea that lesbians' sex lives become non existent in long-term relationships) is really a myth, throwing up other questions like:

Where did the idea of 'lesbian bed death' come from? How do lesbians sex lives compare to their counterparts in other relationship styles? What is responsive and spontaneous desire and which one do I have?
Cate and Diggory also answer two listener questions about whether its okay to fantasise about having sex with other people whilst you're in a relationship and getting into creampie with your wife.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:
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-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod
And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.
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In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to Lalalaletmeexplain about Modern Dating, discussing:

The issues with Dating Apps What are situationshipsHow porn is leading us to have deficit sex How to communicate what you want from your partnerHow celibacy can improve your sex life
You can find Lalalaletmeexplain here: https://www.instagram.com/lalalaletmeexplain/
And you can purchase Lalalaletmeexplain's book, Block, Delete, Move On: It's Not You, It's Them here: https://linktr.ee/blockdeletemoveon
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:
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-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod
And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.
You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/
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From 'Situationships' to 'Friends with Benefits', Cate and Diggory discuss why people have casual relationships and what are some best practices for them before answering questions sent in by listeners, including:

I sleep much better when my partner doesn't share a bed with me. Is it okay for a couple to sleep in separate beds? My partner is always asking me for sex and the more more I say no, the moodier they get. Am I being unreasonable?
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:
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-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod
And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.
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In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to fellow sex and relationship therapist Silva Neves. They discuss:

The reasons why LGBTQ+ have to be treated differently to heterosexual clientsThe importance of having a 'Pink' therapistBody Image Issues in the gay community
You can find Silva Neves here: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/
And you can purchase Silva Neves' book on Compulsive Sexual Behaviours here: https://www.routledge.com/Compulsive-Sexual-Behaviours-A-Psycho-Sexual-Treatment-Guide-for-Clinicians/Neves/p/book/9780367465483
Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:
-      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7
-      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com
-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod
And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.
You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/
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