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You Don’t Love Me Podcast with Amir and Aamir. Life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. We discuss many things from race, sexuality and our struggles with an aim to be a voice and get some representation out there! It does get better and there is always light in your life and we find that through every bit of darkness. There are some rude and crude jokes on the way too so...be warned! Leave a review, subscribe and enjoy.!
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You Don’t Love Me Podcast Aamir and Amir

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.4 • 106 Ratings

You Don’t Love Me Podcast with Amir and Aamir. Life from the perspective of a gay South Asian couple. We discuss many things from race, sexuality and our struggles with an aim to be a voice and get some representation out there! It does get better and there is always light in your life and we find that through every bit of darkness. There are some rude and crude jokes on the way too so...be warned! Leave a review, subscribe and enjoy.!
You will find us on apple podcasts, spotify, google podcasts and many more places! (reviews welcome)!

Do not forget to follow us on socials and see what we are up to:
Instagram- @youdontlovemeboys
Twitter- @YDLMBoys

    Our Mental Health

    Our Mental Health

    You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple.
    In this episode we speak about the importance of looking after our mental health, the lack of mental health support growing up in South Asian communities and Aamir gets emotional speaking on something very personal to him. We always try to be as open and honest as possible so please do listen and hopefully somebody out there can relate to the things we have spoke about and know they aren’t alone. 
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    • 45 min
    To Travel Again

    To Travel Again

    You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple.
    In this episode we talk about our love for exploring the world, touch upon climate change and Aamir talks a little about turning 30! Enjoy us being a mess and listen as Amir gets progressively more poorly :')

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    • 41 min
    Halloween Special!

    Halloween Special!

    You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple.
    In this episode we are super poorly but talk about some of our rational and irrational fears! We're also interrupted a few times by a super spooky guest!

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    • 33 min
    Time for Diversity

    Time for Diversity

    You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple.
    In this episode we end up ranting and gossiping a hell of a lot about what diversity is, what it looks like out there as well as some of our own experiences of 'diversity and inclusion'.
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    • 48 min
    The Shows That Shaped Us

    The Shows That Shaped Us

    You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple.
    In our brand new episode we talk about our experiences at Queer Talk Live, shows on tv that shaped us growing up and things we watch now that impact our lives! It's a super silly and super fun episode, enjoy!

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    • 48 min
    Self Love

    Self Love

    You Don't Love Me Podcast is life from the perspective of a Gay South Asian married couple.
    In this weeks brand new podcast episode we speak on all things self love and self care. We talk about our own self care rituals, the importance of loving yourself as well as realising that it's not all just about moisturising!
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    • 49 min

Customer Reviews

4.4 out of 5
106 Ratings

106 Ratings

Aam_Has ,

Slay

Slay queens slay x xxxx you are the best x

Biloo_01 ,

Not a great start

These girls are basic.
Only heard the pilot episode and so far we've empathised with Therese May🤦🏾

We've massively generalised about people who enter arranged marriages "that's all THEY know grrl".
Failure of these marriages is often due to girls expectations of "I'm going to go on holiday I'm going to wear a bikini"🤔
(Some of this is potentially excusable because these guys are very young).

But the saddest part was towards the end and equating modernity with whiteness. "Indians are light years ahead, really ahead" of Pakistani's and Bengalis because - they go to the pub.

"An Indian couple offered us a glass of wine" - "it was just normal, how normal people are".

"India is 50 years ahead" - no mention of Modi, hard right takeover of India, cast, rape pandemic, Suttee, anti Muslim violence etc.

If you've ever thought Boris or Farage make some reasonable points, this is the podcast for you.

I do hope there is some personal growth and nuance going forward but I'll be giving this a miss.

JasminHx ,

My fave!

Love this podcast, gives a great insight into some of the issues faced by South Asian members of the LGBTQIA+ community. Always entertaining with a mix of light hearted comedy and deeper topics. Keep doing you because we love it! 💛

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