The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz

Thank you for correcting the get the your ex back advice from other coaches I am so relieved to finally find a dating coach that explains EXACTLY how I feel - if someone leaves it’s a message a very clear message - but come other coach advice online just wasn’t sitting with me and then I found you and heard you say the same I am so relieved to have solid sound advice confirming my gut and intuition that if someone leaves it’s a broken trust for me and that to me is a red flag whether they do it nicely amicably or painfully - walk away into finding someone that not only ‘‘not leaves’ but WANTs to stay with me make time for me and create space for me. I broke up with someone recently who said they were so busy work, family, divorce coming up, new home plans, he said I really like you I know I’ll regeret it and of we only met 1 year down the line - as mature and healthy as the break up was I replied, I want someone who doesn’t leave energetically and physically I felt the pull back and we were dating 6 months I began falling for him and then the pull back happened when we met he said he felt pressure in all areas of his life and our relationship and I realised hang on a second have I just been a distraction or a fun - listening to your podcast now realising we got to the fifth stage where I was never integrated into his world and I felt that when I brought it up as one of my concerns is a loving way - the pull back started - what I realised when we spoke that he was was putting it all on me for asking for my needs but I was grounded enough to point out the push pull that happened at the end of our relationship and that was a two person thing not only on me after 6 months I felt it was ok to address this part - I’m still processing the loss as we were very close and had a good friendship it had all the signs of the what was needed to make it but then he pulled away - tried to blame me thankfully I’ve done a lot of work on myself to know I can come back to my own experience in a relationship and when is true for me and not join the other in blaming me for having needs and more asking for them. thank you I find your podcast so grounded and helpful ! Appreciate you and glad you found your wife I hope to one day find my life long partner and not settle for crumbs which I feel I no longer will and will continue to follow you keeping myself updated on learning and growing! From a loving lady in Ireland 🇮🇪