That Husband Podcast

That Husband Podcast
That Husband Podcast

Husbands trying to know better so that we can do better! Hosted by Blaque Nubon. New episodes every Wednesday!

  1. When “For Better or Worse” Becomes Real: Loving Through The Storm Of Mental Illness - Lesego Thulo

    20 HR AGO

    When “For Better or Worse” Becomes Real: Loving Through The Storm Of Mental Illness - Lesego Thulo

    Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 11: THE FIGHT FOR MY WIFE AND HER MIND What happens when the person you married isn’t the same person you wake up to every morning? In this deeply personal episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Lesego to unpack the raw realities of marriage when mental health challenges, life changes, and deep personal growth redefine the journey. From navigating the unexpected diagnosis of bipolar disorder in his wife to understanding what true headship looks like in the face of uncertainty, Lesego shares his story with honesty, vulnerability, and wisdom. Together, we explore the evolving nature of marriage—how love isn’t about fixing your spouse but walking with them through every season. We talk about the importance of routines in mental health, the silent battles husbands face, and why real leadership in marriage is about humility, sacrifice, and showing up every day. If you’ve ever wondered how to love your spouse when the road gets tough, this episode will challenge and encourage you. Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode! And if you appreciate what we’re doing, buy us a coffee—it helps us keep bringing these real, needed conversations to you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #marriagematters #husbandlife #mentalhealthawareness #bipolardisorderawareness #LoveThroughItAll #ThatHusbandPodcast #faithandmarriage #realtalk #MenNeedSupportToo #marriagematters #MarriageMatters #leadwithlove #marriagechallenges #strongertogether #PodcastForHusbands #christianmarriage #mentalhealthmatters #marriagejourney #sacrificiallove #HusbandLeadership #unfilteredconversations #LoveInAction #SupportYourSpouse #Headship #marriedlife #healingtogether

    1h 47m
  2. The Lie Men Believe About Supporting Women (And the Truth You Need to Hear) - Jabu Zwane

    26 MAR

    The Lie Men Believe About Supporting Women (And the Truth You Need to Hear) - Jabu Zwane

    Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Read ”The Success Women Want 2025 Report” by Momentum here - https://tinyurl.com/ypa5y5y9 Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband #TheSuccessWomenWant #MenForChange #GenderEquality #MentorshipMatters #MenSupportingWomen #breakingbarriers #LeadershipForAll #EquityInAction #SuccessForEveryone #podcast #NetworkingOpportunities #PartnershipNotPatriarchy #MenAsAllies #empowerwomen #supportmatters #createopportunities #RedefiningManhood #BeTheChange #FutureIsEqual #womeninleadership #ProgressTogether #opendoors #opportunityforall #InclusiveSuccess #MentorshipForGrowth #menwholead #realimpact #ActionOverIntentions #CollectiveResponsibility #ShiftTheNarrative #ChangeTheStats[S2] EPISODE 10: WOMEN’S SUCCESS! In a world where the numbers tell a sobering story, how can men step up to change the stats? Only 7% of women in South Africa believe that men actively enable their success, while financial constraints (45%) and a lack of mentorship and networking opportunities (32%) remain some of the biggest barriers to women’s growth. In this episode, we dive into a conversation that is not just about acknowledging the problem but about redefining the role men play in creating real change. Through storytelling, humour, and raw honesty, we explore how men can move beyond good intentions to tangible action. Jabu Zwane—helps us unpack what’s really at stake and why this issue isn’t just a ”women’s problem” but a collective responsibility. Without making this a lecture, we weave personal stories with hard-hitting truths, showing how everyday men can shift the narrative. What does it look like to be intentional about opening doors, offering mentorship, or creating financial opportunities? More importantly, what happens when men begin to see themselves as partners in progress rather than bystanders? This episode is more than just talk—it’s a call to action. We want to encourage you to walk away with practical insights on how you can be part of the solution. If we truly believe in a future where success isn’t defined by gender but by opportunity, then the real question is: what are we willing to do about it? Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

    2h 15m
  3. Do I Chase My Dreams or Secure My Family‘s Future? - Linde Sibanda

    19 MAR

    Do I Chase My Dreams or Secure My Family‘s Future? - Linde Sibanda

    Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 9: A HUSBAND’S DILEMMA In this heartfelt episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with comedian and husband, Linde Sibanda  ⁨@BallDropPodcast⁩  for a raw and insightful conversation about marriage, fatherhood, and the ever-evolving role of a man. From defining what it means to be a good husband to navigating the weight of responsibility, Linde shares how his faith has shaped his journey, providing an unshakable standard amidst life’s uncertainties. With humor and wisdom, the two dive into why so many men struggle without a blueprint, and how redefining masculinity through biblical principles can change the game. But this conversation isn’t just about marriage—it’s about fatherhood and the gut-wrenching realities that come with it. Linde opens up about a terrifying moment when his son suffered a seizure, shaking him to his core and forcing him to reevaluate everything. How do you balance pursuing your dreams while ensuring your family is secure? How does a man stay sensitive to the season he’s in without letting fear or pride dictate his steps? This episode is an unfiltered look at the tension between responsibility and ambition, and how true leadership sometimes means making the hardest choices If you’ve ever questioned your role as a husband or father, or wrestled with the pressure to provide while holding onto your dreams, this one’s for you. Join us as we unpack what it means to be present, to lead with sensitivity, and to trust God through every season of life. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—because real conversations like this are the ones that matter. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #MarriageTalk #HusbandRole #MenAndMarriage #Relationships #MarriageAdvice #HusbandWisdom #LeadingWithLove #MenOfHonor #MarriageMatters #Brotherhood #RealMen #MarriageJourney #LoveAndFaith #BuildingTogether #CommunitySupport #Adoption #MarriageRealTalk #blaque #FaithfulMarriage #MarriageWisdom #MarriageLessons #IntentionalLove #CovenantMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StrongerTogether #FaithAndFamily #LoveInAction

    1h 26m
  4. When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned: Infertility, Faith Crisis, Adoption & Family Struggles - Sifiso Pule

    12 MAR

    When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned: Infertility, Faith Crisis, Adoption & Family Struggles - Sifiso Pule

    Register for BEANS & BONDS - https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a Join That Husband’s Corner, mailing list, and community - https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 8: BATTLE TESTED In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Sifiso Pule opens up about his 15-year journey in marriage, offering invaluable insights on love, commitment, and the lessons learned through adversity. From infertility struggles to adoption, and navigating tough times with humility and grace, he highlights the importance of perseverance, sacrifice, and intentionality in building a lasting relationship. He shares how faith, community, and selflessness have shaped his marriage, emphasising that love isn’t about perfection, but about choosing to stay and grow together, brick by brick. With wisdom gained through years of navigating challenges—financial struggles, doctrinal disagreements, and personal failures—Sifiso reminds us that marriage is a covenant built on trust, sacrifice, and mutual growth. This episode reflects on the vital role of community and transparency, both in marriage and parenting, and how they have supported his journey. He offers powerful advice to couples facing infertility and adoption, and underscores the transformative power of a love that calls out wrong but still loves unconditionally. This episode is a must-watch for anyone seeking to understand the real, raw beauty of marriage and community. Whether you’re facing challenges in your relationship or simply looking for a deeper connection with your spouse, Sifiso’s honest reflections will inspire and encourage you to build something lasting, with love, faith, and commitment. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #MarriageTalk #HusbandRole #MenAndMarriage #Relationships #MarriageAdvice #HusbandWisdom #LeadingWithLove #MenOfHonor #MarriageMatters #Brotherhood #RealMen #MarriageJourney #LoveAndFaith #BuildingTogether #CommunitySupport #Adoption #MarriageRealTalk #blaque #FaithfulMarriage #MarriageWisdom #MarriageLessons #IntentionalLove #CovenantMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageGrowth #StrongerTogether #FaithAndFamily #LoveInAction

    1h 51m
  5. ⁠The Lies You Were Told About Manhood (And Why It’s Costing You Your Marriage) - Dj Mgabe Magabaza

    5 MAR

    ⁠The Lies You Were Told About Manhood (And Why It’s Costing You Your Marriage) - Dj Mgabe Magabaza

    Watch this episode with subtitles here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLUKgc6Nsx4&ab_channel=ThatHusbandPodcast Register for BEANS & BONDS 2nd Edition -https://thathusband.kit.com/90e84bd97a [S2] EPISODE 7: MISGUIDED MASCULINITY & HOW TO FIX IT Growing up without a father leaves wounds that shape a man’s view of himself, marriage, and fatherhood. Many men carry self-limiting beliefs rooted in abandonment, painful pasts, and distorted ideas of masculinity. In this episode, DJ Mgabe Magabaza dives deep into the journey of revisiting the ”crime scene”—the place where fatherlessness killed the husband and father you could have been. We’ll explore how society steps in to raise boys in the absence of their fathers, often leading them down destructive paths, and why healing from these wounds is crucial for becoming the man God designed you to be. Marriage isn’t just about love—it’s a responsibility, a calling to be a true image-bearer of God. Yet, too many men enter marriage emotionally unavailable, unprepared, and without accountability. We unpack why many men, raised by single mothers, unconsciously seek to marry their mothers and how this affects their ability to lead a household. The reality is, men who don’t show up as husbands and fathers do so by intention, but there’s hope. Through mentorship, accountability, and faith, men can rewrite their narratives and step into their God-given role as loving, present husbands and fathers. A new breed of men is rising—men who refuse to be absent, who prioritize their wives’ joy, who understand the weight of their financial and emotional presence. We’ll discuss the favor that comes with marriage, the cost of infidelity, and the importance of a money mindset in marriage. If men don’t heal, they’ll force their spouses and children to re-parent them. But for those willing to confront their past, a thriving marriage and a legacy of love await. Don’t miss this powerful conversation—your marriage, your children, and your future self will thank you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIKTOK: @thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: @thathusbandpodcast

    1h 37m
  6. Your Marriage Can't Be A Graveyard For Your Wife's Dreams, Personality & Peace - Themba Tom Ntuli

    26 FEB

    Your Marriage Can't Be A Graveyard For Your Wife's Dreams, Personality & Peace - Themba Tom Ntuli

    Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 6: A PARTNER, NOT AN OWNER What does it truly mean to be a husband? In this episode we sit down with Themba Tom Ntuli for an eye-opening conversation about the weight of marriage, the responsibility of leadership, and the art of drifting—how men often don’t realize they’re slipping until they’ve fallen. We talk about how men leave relationships when they’re hurting, but women leave when they’ve healed. By the time she stops fighting, stops asking, stops including you in her future, she’s already gone. But what if you could recognize the signs before it’s too late? We also dive into the role of accountability—who is leading you as you lead your family? From the pressures of success to the temptations that come when a man starts drifting, we break down why every husband needs a brotherhood, mentors, and a spiritual covering. Real men don’t walk alone. When life gets heavy, when temptation knocks, who do you call? In this episode, we explore practical ways to stay anchored, fight for your marriage, and be the husband your family needs. Finally, we talk about serving our wives—not just in words, but in action. Too many women pour into their husbands’ dreams only to be forgotten when it’s their turn. A husband isn’t just a provider; he’s a supporter, a protector, a safe space. If marriage isn’t a graveyard for a man’s dreams, why should it be one for a woman’s? Let’s talk about what it really means to build, honor, and uplift our wives the way they do for us. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

    1h 42m
  7. How Would Your Marriage Change If You Saw Your Husband Differently? - Eleanor Nasasira

    19 FEB

    How Would Your Marriage Change If You Saw Your Husband Differently? - Eleanor Nasasira

    Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 5: THE ”PERFECT HUSBAND” TRAP In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It’s easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong. This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating. As Blaque and Eleanor explore the intricacies of marriage, they dive deep into the importance of communication and prayer during seasons of disconnect. Wives, who may feel overwhelmed or distant, are encouraged to share their needs and feelings with their husbands. Change starts with vulnerability, and in these moments, prayer becomes a powerful tool for both spouses to navigate through tough times. We close the episode with a reminder to join us at Beans and Bonds, a special monthly gathering for the community, where you can share your own reflections over coffee and connect with others who understand the challenges and joys of marriage. Don’t miss out—seats are limited, so be sure to book yours soon. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 5: THE ”PERFECT HUSBAND” TRAP In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It’s easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong. This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

    1h 13m
  8. My Divorce Woke Me Up: It Wasn’t Just My Husband’s Fault - Jabulile Mazibuko

    12 FEB

    My Divorce Woke Me Up: It Wasn’t Just My Husband’s Fault - Jabulile Mazibuko

    RSVP for our first-ever live event - Beans & Bonds Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 4: A SERIOUS WAKE-UP CALL In this episode, Blaque sits with Jabulile of Men Speak With Jabulile who grew up believing that men were unreliable, untrustworthy, and ultimately dispensable in marriage. Raised by a feminist mother who lowered her expectations of men and was discipled by a divorced female pastor who unknowingly passed down unhealthy marital habits, she entered marriage with a mindset that slowly unravelled her relationship. But when divorce forced her to confront her own shortcomings, she realized a sobering truth—her expectations, beliefs, and behaviours had contributed just as much to the breakdown of her marriage as her ex-husband’s actions. Now, after deep personal work and accountability, Jabu is on a mission to change the conversation. Instead of silencing men, she wants to empower them to speak up, lead with confidence, and take their rightful place in shaping stronger marriages and families. Through her journey, she’s discovered that men aren’t the problem—silencing them is. In this episode, she shares what she’s learned, the painful realisations she faced, and why she now believes that men hold the key to changing the future of marriages in our country. If you’ve ever felt unheard in your marriage or struggled with the weight of unrealistic expectations, if you’re a husband struggling to be heard, or a wife who wants to understand marriage from a new perspective, this episode is for you. Join us as we unpack the lessons Jabulile learned the hard way and explore how husbands can reclaim their voice, their role, and their impact in building thriving marriages. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

    2h 8m

About

Husbands trying to know better so that we can do better! Hosted by Blaque Nubon. New episodes every Wednesday!

You Might Also Like

To listen to explicit episodes, sign in.

Stay up to date with this show

Sign in or sign up to follow shows, save episodes and get the latest updates.

Select a country or region

Africa, Middle East, and India

Asia Pacific

Europe

Latin America and the Caribbean

The United States and Canada