Ep 49: Oh No, One Day Our Parents Are Going to Die ft. Sis. Sylvia Bay

Navigating conversations about death can be challenging, especially with ageing parents. In this poignant episode, Sis. Sylvia Bay, esteemed Dhamma Scholar shares insights on how to approach the topic of death with our parents, particularly in cultures where discussing death is considered taboo:

🕊️Learn when is the best time and ways to discuss death with loved ones.

😔How to address feelings of regret and inspire ongoing positive actions in your loved ones.

🌱Understand the comforting concept of rebirth can transform the way we view death and mortality.

#FilialPiety #Family #Wisdom #ParentChild #Death

About the Speaker

Sylvia Bay has been dedicated to the study and practice of Buddha's teaching since 1992. She graduated with a B.A. (Hons) First Class, in Buddhist Studies, from the Buddhist and Pali University of Sri Lanka in 2000 and joined the teaching staff of the Buddhist and Pali College (Singapore) in 2001. Since 2002, Sylvia has also been a regular speaker on Buddhist doctrine, Buddhist history, and the practical application of the Buddha's teachings in daily life, at the invitation of various Buddhist organisations in Singapore. She published her first book in May 2014: the 1st volume of a 2-part series on the life of the Buddha which is titled, "Between The Lines: An Analytical Appreciation of Buddha's Life". Volume 2 was launched on Vesak day of year 2015. Sylvia also holds a B.Soc.Sci (Hons) from NUS and a Masters in International Public Policy (M.I.P.P) from School of Advanced International Studies (SAIS), Johns Hopkins.

Transcript: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/hol-ep49

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:20) Discussing Death with Loved Ones

(04:18) Addressing Regret and Making Amends

(08:01) Role of the Sangha

(10:02) Coping with Grief and Attachment

(13:20) Letting Go as an Expression of Wisdom

(18:06) Understanding Attachment and Self-Love

(22:07) Conclusion

Special thanks to our sponsors:

Buddhist Youth Network, Lim Soon Kiat, Alvin Chan, Tan Key Seng, Soh Hwee Hoon, Geraldine Tay, Venerable You Guang, Wilson Ng, Diga, Joyce, Tan Jia Yee, Joanne, Suñña, Shuo Mei, Arif, Bernice, Wee Teck, Andrew Yam, Kan Rong Hui, Wei Li Quek, Shirley Shen, Ezra, Joanne Chan, Hsien Li Siaw, Gillian Ang, Wang Shiow Mei, Ong Chye Chye, Melvin, Yoke Kuen

Editor and transcriber of this episode: 

Cheryl Cheah, Susara Ng

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