59 episodes

A therapist recommended podcast for cycle breakers by someone who has lived the experience. Host Harriet Shearsmith knows first hand how challenging it can be to navigate estrangement, toxic family and dysfunctional dynamics in a digital age where setting boundaries and protecting your peace is harder than ever. 
In 2023 we’re unfollowing mum. We’re breaking the cycle, unsubscribing from the drama by healing generational trauma and putting ourselves and our mental health first. 
Each week I will answer your anonymous questions, discuss experiences and tackle the issues surrounding estrangement, generational trauma and navigating toxic families. Sometimes I’ll speak to experts, people with lived experience and other cycle breakers to share their point of view.
You’re not alone, there is a community of people navigating parenthood without solid role models, learning to love themselves after emotional abuse whilst breaking the cycle for the future generations 💜

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Unfollowing Mum Harriet Shearsmith

    • Health & Fitness

A therapist recommended podcast for cycle breakers by someone who has lived the experience. Host Harriet Shearsmith knows first hand how challenging it can be to navigate estrangement, toxic family and dysfunctional dynamics in a digital age where setting boundaries and protecting your peace is harder than ever. 
In 2023 we’re unfollowing mum. We’re breaking the cycle, unsubscribing from the drama by healing generational trauma and putting ourselves and our mental health first. 
Each week I will answer your anonymous questions, discuss experiences and tackle the issues surrounding estrangement, generational trauma and navigating toxic families. Sometimes I’ll speak to experts, people with lived experience and other cycle breakers to share their point of view.
You’re not alone, there is a community of people navigating parenthood without solid role models, learning to love themselves after emotional abuse whilst breaking the cycle for the future generations 💜

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Ep58 Father's day - the aftermath.

    Ep58 Father's day - the aftermath.

    On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks about Father's day and what that might have looked like for different people. Remember: you're not alone.
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    • 33 min
    EP57 Religious abuse & estrangement

    EP57 Religious abuse & estrangement

    On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks to author Lyn Smith Gregory about religious trauma, abuse and the resulting estrangement from stepping out of the church.
    You can find more about Lyn here: https://lynsmithgregory.com/about/

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    • 42 min
    EP56 Bi cultural straddling & the unhealthy family dynamic with Sahaj Kohli

    EP56 Bi cultural straddling & the unhealthy family dynamic with Sahaj Kohli

    On this episode host Harriet Shearsmith speaks with Sahaj Kohli, therapist, author of But what will people say? and founder of @browngirltherapy. Sahaj shares her wisdom about setting boundaries and navigating dysfunctional family dynamics as a bi-cultural child of immigrants and breaking generational trauma cycles within collectivist, multicultural families.
    You can find Sahaj's book here:
    https://amzn.to/3Vawj0N
    And follow @browngirltherapy on instagram

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    • 34 min
    EP 55 Scapegoating, estrangement & lies with Harriet Gleeson

    EP 55 Scapegoating, estrangement & lies with Harriet Gleeson

    On this episode, host and coach Harriet Shearsmith talks to psychotherapist Harriet Gleeson about her experiences of estrangement due to lies and scapegoating. You can find Harriet at https://www.harrietgleesontherapy.co.uk or follow her on instagram at @the.good.enough.therapist
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    • 40 min
    Ep54 Fight response, anger & shame

    Ep54 Fight response, anger & shame

    On this episode, host and coach Harriet Shearsmith talks about fight response, anger and shame.
    You can find her here: https://www.instagram.com/unfollowing_mum

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    • 27 min
    Ep53 Self care, boundaries & guilt for cycle breakers with Emma Benyon

    Ep53 Self care, boundaries & guilt for cycle breakers with Emma Benyon

    On this episode, host and coach Harriet Shearsmith chats with coach Emma Benyon about self care, guilt and setting boundaries as a cycle breaking parent.
    You can find Emma here: https://www.instagram.com/emmabenyon.coach and https://emmabenyoncoaching.co.uk/

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    • 37 min

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