143 episodes

Hoarding disorder is stigmatised and people who hoard feel vast amounts of shame. This podcast began life as an audio diary, an anonymous outlet for somebody with this weird condition. That Hoarder speaks about her experiences living with compulsive hoarding, she interviews therapists, academics, researchers, children of hoarders, professional organisers and influencers, and she shares insight and tips for others with the problem. Listened to by people who hoard as well as those who love them and those who work with them, Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder aims to shatter the stigma, share the truth and speak openly and honestly to improve lives.

That Hoarder: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding That Hoarder

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 75 Ratings

Hoarding disorder is stigmatised and people who hoard feel vast amounts of shame. This podcast began life as an audio diary, an anonymous outlet for somebody with this weird condition. That Hoarder speaks about her experiences living with compulsive hoarding, she interviews therapists, academics, researchers, children of hoarders, professional organisers and influencers, and she shares insight and tips for others with the problem. Listened to by people who hoard as well as those who love them and those who work with them, Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder aims to shatter the stigma, share the truth and speak openly and honestly to improve lives.

    How to tackle a laundry backlog - or how to summit Mount Washmore

    How to tackle a laundry backlog - or how to summit Mount Washmore

    Today, the daunting task of tackling a laundry backlog. In this episode, I discuss practical strategies to conquer Mount Washmore and take control of the laundry chaos. From decluttering to creating a laundry system, I look at ways to streamline the process and prevent clothes from piling up. I also touch on the environmental impact of overwashing and share experiences of managing overwhelming laundry situations. So if you’re ready to conquer that laundry mountain and reclaim some peace, hit play for some valuable tips and insights.

    • 47 min
    The lies, contradictions and justifications we tell ourselves about our stuff - I dissect and debunk 19 of them!

    The lies, contradictions and justifications we tell ourselves about our stuff - I dissect and debunk 19 of them!

    In this episode I talk about 19 lies we tell ourselves about our stuff that help us to remain hoarders rather than break free from drowning in stuff.

    • 53 min
    Don't know where to start? 31 things you can dehoard today

    Don't know where to start? 31 things you can dehoard today

    Sometimes you want to get something done, but you just need somebody to tell you where to start, right? You need a nudge. Because if we have too much choice in front of us, it can become overwhelming.

    • 49 min
    What therapists and mental health professionals need to know about working with hoarders, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

    What therapists and mental health professionals need to know about working with hoarders, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

    Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribePodcast transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/Today with Dr Jan Eppingstall, I look at the nuanced approaches needed for effectively supporting people with hoarding disorder. Jan provides valuable insights for therapists, emphasising the importance of curiosity, collaboration, and empathy in therapeutic sessions. The episode explores evidence-based interventions, the significance of exposure therapy, and the challenges counsellors may face when working with hoarding clients. Additionally, practical tips for building trust and understanding the unique needs of hoarders are shared. Listen for the tools you need to make a meaningful difference in the lives of your clients.Therapeutic Approach to Hoarding DisorderImportance of Collaboration in TherapyHands-On Support and In-Home VisitsExposure TherapyPatience, Empathy, and Understanding in TherapyDifferent Modes of Therapy (CBT, ACT, Person-Centred Therapy)Education and Support for Mental Health ProfessionalsMinimal Education on Hoarding Disorder in Clinical Psychology ProgramsBuilding Expertise in Hoarding DisorderSeeking Supervision Need for an Eclectic Approach in TherapyValues Clarification, Problem SolvingChallenges for TherapistsGeneralist vs. Specialist CounsellorsAddressing Co-Occurring Mental Health IssuesImpact of Hoarding on Other Mental Health IssuesPreparedness of Therapists to Deal with HoardingEffective Therapies (Exposure Therapy, Cognitive Techniques)Collaboration with Professional OrganizersBuilding Trust with ClientsGeneralist counsellors deal with common mental health issues.Open dialogue and willingness to share knowledge.Understanding clients holistically Struggles with hoarding and perfectionism in therapy.Assisting clients with letting go of possessions.Exposure technique for easing attachment to possessions.Tiny habits Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    • 1 hr 8 min
    What to prioritise when you can only do the absolute basics

    What to prioritise when you can only do the absolute basics

    Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribePodcast transcript: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/podcast-ep-133-what-to-prioritise-when-you-can-only-do-the-absolute-basics/Today, I talk about prioritising when you're facing a hoarding situation and can only manage the absolute basics, with guidance for people struggling with motivation, energy, and overwhelming emotions like depression or grief. Tackling the challenges of hoarding when feeling depleted, the episode explores practical ways to approach the situation. Tune in for strategies to navigate hoarding with compassion and practicality, understanding that even the smallest progress is a step forward.Prioritising tasks and setting realistic goalsIdentifying the most effective tasks with limited time and energyBeing objective and evaluating what can be done with available energyAvoiding busywork and focusing on tasks that push the needleAdjusting high standards and expectations to avoid disappointmentFinding motivation in something you care slightly aboutIdentifying and prioritising safety concernsSetting tiny, achievable goals to avoid feeling like a failureUsing the hummingbird method to set yourself up for successOpting for tasks that require less emotional energy and decision-makingMaking tasks easier and setting up for successIncorporating comfort TV or music to make tasks more manageableEstablishing a single daily taskSeeking help to understand the reasons behind challengesExploring available options for support and improvementSetting up a reward system without resorting to purchasing itemsPracticing gentleness and self-compassionOvercoming obstacles and taking small stepsRecognising that small progress is still progressImplementing tasks that take only a few minutes to accomplishUnderstanding that self-care can involve both urging yourself to do things and allowing yourself to restConsider effective use of limited time and energy.Find one thing you care about.Being kind to your future self.Consider options for small impactful actions when lacking energy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    • 19 min
    How to dehoard when you’re really, really busy: tackling clutter in tiny time slots

    How to dehoard when you’re really, really busy: tackling clutter in tiny time slots

    Subscribe to the podcast: https://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/subscribePodcast transcript: http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk/In today's episode, I talk about trying to dehoard when life is jam-packed with commitments. I share practical tips for making the most of those precious spare moments, tackling small areas at a time, and procrastination. I discuss productive procrastination, setting achievable goals, and seeking help, as well as valuable insights on time management, priorities and self-compassion.Strategies for Dehoarding When You're Really Really BusyUtilising small pockets of time for dehoardingWaiting for a call, boiling the kettle, or other short intervalsMaking a list of tasks for different time durationsFocusing on small areas and celebrating small victoriesSeeing visible progress and maintaining motivationProductive procrastination and not making things worseHarnessing time spent on other useful tasksSaying no to new items and time commitmentsGamifying decluttering and being consistentSetting daily goals for items to get rid ofSeeking help from others with time-consuming tasksTracking time to save time and prioritiseTracking time for analysis and identifying areas for saving timeUsing data to approach work about schedule changesPrioritising and understanding personal motivations for declutteringThe importance of rest and downtime while working on declutteringDeclutter efficiently using small pockets of time.Small victories lead to progress.Productive procrastination: using time for useful tasks.Learn to say no to new commitments.Consistency is key for successful project completion.Delegate tasks, track time for better efficiency.Balancing work and leisure is essential for well-being.Forgive yourself, prioritise and seek self-compassion.Reframe busyness as even more reason to simplify and declutterSmall victories help to spur further progressMaking the most of odd bits of time.Commitments and requests you don’t want to doConsistency over time is more productive than sporadic bursts.Delegating tasksRest and downtime are essential for mental and physical health. It's not about suffering, but finding balance. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    • 40 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
75 Ratings

75 Ratings

DrLAST1276 ,

Not just for hoarders!

I do not experience compulsive hoarding nor does anyone in my life. However I find this podcast so valuable. Just hearing That Hoarder’s insights and commitment to growth and change fills me with hope and admiration. Jan Eppinstall is so respectful and kind as well as deeply knowledgeable. I have absolutely used tips from the show in my own life to help me let go of items or forgive myself for throwing things away. Thank you, That Hoarder. I am rooting for you and am grateful for your willingness to put your story in the world.

LinusRox ,

Like having a good friend who understands you 1000%

I am so glad ThatHoarder filled the gap between “Look!! I’ll show you how I overcame my mess and now successfully keep my home and 5 children in perfect order!”And “… well, we know that hoarding has to do with loss and pain….”.

I find her calm and self-effacing tone rejuvenating. Her guests are helpful and she knows how to interview them without the usual condescension to the audience.

I do not understand those who say they “Don’t have time to listen” to a podcast. This is the perfect thing to keep you company while you do the dishes, or plan to do them.

rosylemon ,

Great

Great to listen to while decluttering

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