Sex and Vancity Laryssa Vachon

How do we navigate love, sex and dating in a world where people love to disappear? In the short but sweet final episode of season 2, I take you through my inner thoughts and TikTok algorithm to discuss the psychology of ghosting - the what, the why, and the consequences it has on us long term. I also share the pros to singledom, and the messages that get me through hard times when I feel alone. I hope this message finds you in a good place. Thank you so much for listening. 

In the second part of a two-part series on anxiety - journalist, writer, and creative queen Dannielle Piper joins me to discuss our experiences with sex as people with anxiety. Connecting in J-school over a shared love of self-deprecating memes and dark humour, Dannielle has always been a comforting space to confide in. In this episode, we discuss our fear and anxiety surrounding experiences such as pregnancy, pleasure, and pain. We aim to bring awareness on the destigmatization vs. normalization on topics surrounding sex, and the importance of emotionally-informed* sex education. [This episode was recorded in May 2022].

In the first part of a two-part series on anxiety - journalist, writer, and creative queen Dannielle Piper joins me to discuss our experiences in dating as people with anxiety. Connecting in J-school over a shared love of self-deprecating memes and dark humour, Dannielle has always been a comforting space to confide in. In this episode, we discuss attachment styles, advice we've learned through our own personal experiences, and the importance of collective healing. But most importantly, to not shy away from your feelings! As Dannielle says best: "Your anxiety is a messenger and it's trying to tell you something about yourself." [This episode was recorded in May 2022]. 

Megan is back! After discussing consent and the importance of human connection in episode “3. The Sexual Grey Area” - we check-in one year later about our take aways and what she’s been up to since. In this jam-packed episode, we discuss sobriety, healing through childhood trauma, love languages, energy exchanges in relationships, and how to use all of that to pursue more authentic connections with others and yourself. (This episode was recorded on January 21, 2022. Content Warning for conversations surrounding nonconsensual sex, emotional healing, and sobriety). 

Unicorn hunters? Cuffed jeans? Unethical promiscuity? These are just SOME of the stereotypes of bisexuality. On the first episode of Season 2, I am joined by my friend Abi Hayward (Editor at Canadian Geographic) to discuss bisexuality - what it is, what it means to us, and the stereotypes we both hate and love. (This episode was recorded on October 16, 2021. Content Warning for conversations surrounding distress due to uncomfortable/unwanted sexual experiences.) 

Katie from "Cross Out Toxicity" is a sexual health advocate and future sex and relationship coach! Currently finishing up her sex and intimacy counselling certificate, she shares some of her life experiences and advice: from Lube 101 and safe sex toys (like ones from Sensuale Intimate Wellness), to proper communication, boundary setting, and knowing your worth in all kinds of relationships. Follow Katie on Instagram at @crossouttoxicity!