How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

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How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

Seth Nelson is a Tampa based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective — saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.

  1. Co-Parenting Strategies: Supporting Your Kids After Divorce • Your Divorce Case with Leanne Tran

    2天前

    Co-Parenting Strategies: Supporting Your Kids After Divorce • Your Divorce Case with Leanne Tran

    Parenting Across Two Homes: Strategies for Success After Divorce In this installment of our Your Divorce Case series, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright continue the conversation about parenting plans by exploring the realities of co-parenting children across two households after divorce. They are joined by Leanne Tran, a registered psychologist who specializes in working with children and families dealing with autism, ADHD, and learning disorders. Building upon the previous episode about crafting effective parenting plans, Seth and Pete dive deeper into the impacts of divorce on children and strategies for successful co-parenting, with a special focus on the unique considerations for neurodivergent kids. Leanne shares valuable insights on the key factors that influence how children cope with the changes brought by divorce, such as the level of parental conflict, disruption to routines and sense of identity, and the emotional and behavioral signs of distress parents should watch out for. The discussion also touches on the additional challenges faced by neurodivergent children, who may struggle more with transitions, need for sameness, and sensory sensitivities. Leanne emphasizes the importance of parents being on the same page, providing consistency across households, and being mindful of the impact on siblings as well. Questions we answer in this episode: What signs indicate a child is struggling emotionally with divorce?How can parents best support neurodivergent children across two homes?What should be considered when introducing a new partner to the family dynamic?Key Takeaways: Changes in behavior, emotions, sleep, appetite, and interests can signal distress.Consistency, predictability, and catering to sensory needs are crucial for neurodivergent kids.Clear communication and gradual introductions help children adjust to new partners.Through the lens of her expertise, Leanne provides valuable guidance for parents navigating the complexities of co-parenting, both for neurotypical and neurodivergent children. This episode offers practical tips and compassionate advice to help families thrive after divorce, building upon the foundation of a well-crafted parenting plan discussed in the previous episode. Tune in for insights that can make a real difference in your post-divorce parenting journey. Links & Notes Find Leanne on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, and her websiteListen to Leanne’s podcast Parent Like a PsychologistSchedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - Meet Leanne Tran (04:21) - Impact on Kids (06:20) - Signs of Distress (07:51) - Changing Their Own Identity (11:11) - Changes in Routine (13:35) - When They’re Neurodiverse (18:43) - Autism (21:03) - Splitting Time (23:03) - Finding a Sense of Regulation (23:48) - Impact on Siblings (25:14) - New Partners (28:26) - Therapeutic Options (32:13) - Handling Parenting Plan (33:51) - Priority Dilution (38:17) - Finding Leanne (39:32) - Wrap Up Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    41 分钟
  2. Parenting Plans 101: Building a Strong Foundation for Co-Parenting • Your Divorce Case

    11月5日

    Parenting Plans 101: Building a Strong Foundation for Co-Parenting • Your Divorce Case

    Parenting Plans: The Foundation of Co-Parenting After Divorce In this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright dive deep into the crucial topic of parenting plans as part of their season-long series, Your Divorce Case. Seth shares his expertise on the essential components of a parenting plan and how they can help establish a solid foundation for co-parenting after divorce. Navigating the Complexities of Parenting PlansSeth and Pete discuss the key aspects of parenting plans, including parental responsibility, time-sharing, and addressing the unique needs of children at different ages. They explore how the court determines the best interests of the child using various factors and delve into the implications of relocation cases. The hosts also touch on the importance of flexibility and adaptability in parenting plans while maintaining clear and enforceable guidelines. Questions we answer in this episode: What are the essential components of a parenting plan?How do courts determine the best interests of the child?What happens when one parent needs to relocate for work?Key Takeaways: Parenting plans should be clear, unambiguous, and enforceableFlexibility and adaptability are crucial for successful co-parentingSubstantial changes in circumstances can warrant modifications to the parenting planThis episode offers invaluable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce with children. Seth's expertise and Pete's thoughtful questions provide listeners with a comprehensive understanding of parenting plans and how they can help establish a strong foundation for co-parenting after divorce. By tuning in, you'll gain the knowledge and tools needed to create a parenting plan that prioritizes your children's well-being and fosters a healthy co-parenting relationship. Links & Notes Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - PEACE: Parenting Plan (03:08) - Essential Components (05:58) - Legal Terms (07:49) - Determining What’s Best for the Child (11:27) - Weight for the Factors (12:52) - Geography (15:51) - How Detailed? (18:32) - Allowing for Flexibility (20:39) - Modifying It (23:19) - Enforceability (26:18) - Education, Healthcare, Extracurriculars, Etc. (29:14) - Changes in FL Law (31:01) - It’s About the Child, Not You (33:03) - Wrap Up Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    36 分钟
  3. Temporary Relief Unpacked: What It Is, Who It Helps, and Why It Matters • Your Divorce Case

    10月29日

    Temporary Relief Unpacked: What It Is, Who It Helps, and Why It Matters • Your Divorce Case

    Temporary Relief in Your Divorce In the latest installment of the Your Divorce Case series, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright dive into the complex world of temporary relief. Join them as they explore what temporary relief is, who it helps, who it hurts, and why it matters in the grand scheme of your divorce proceedings. Navigating the Choppy Waters of Divorce Seth and Pete break down the concept of temporary relief, a legal lifeline designed to keep families afloat during the tumultuous divorce process. They discuss how temporary relief can address critical issues like parenting plans, alimony, child support, and attorney's fees. The hosts also delve into the pros and cons of seeking temporary relief and the potential impact on the final outcome of your case. Questions we answer in this episode: What is temporary relief and how can it help during a divorce?How do you request temporary relief and what can you ask for?What are the potential drawbacks of pursuing temporary relief?Key Takeaways: Temporary relief can level the playing field in contentious divorcesRequesting temporary relief involves filing motions and attending hearingsSeeking temporary relief can be costly and time-consuming, so weigh the pros and consSeth and Pete emphasize that while temporary relief can provide much-needed support during a divorce, it's crucial to consider the financial and emotional costs involved. They offer valuable insights into the strategic decisions you'll face when contemplating temporary relief in your own divorce case. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating divorce. With their trademark wit and expertise, Seth and Pete provide the guidance you need to make informed decisions about temporary relief and protect your interests during this challenging time. Links & Notes Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - Temporary Relief (03:35) - What It’s Supposed to Do (16:38) - Why to Consider It (17:25) - The Process (20:06) - Pros and Cons (26:06) - Review (27:59) - How Influential (29:47) - Wrap Up (30:03) - Listener Question Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    37 分钟
  4. Courtroom Cast: Understanding the Key Players • Your Divorce Case

    10月22日

    Courtroom Cast: Understanding the Key Players • Your Divorce Case

    Meet the Key Players in Your Divorce In this seventh installment of the "Your Divorce Case" series on How to Split a Toaster, Seth and Pete dive into the various court personnel and professionals you might encounter during your divorce proceedings. From judges to forensic accountants, they break down the roles and responsibilities of each key player, helping you navigate the complex world of divorce court with greater ease and understanding. Throughout the episode, Seth and Pete discuss a wide range of court personnel, including trial judges, appellate judges, judicial assistants, bailiffs, court reporters, and clerks of the court. They also explore the roles of professionals outside the courtroom, such as divorce attorneys, paralegals, forensic accountants, guardians ad litem, mediators, and more. By understanding the function of each individual, you'll be better prepared to work with them effectively throughout your case. Questions we answer in this episode: Who are the key players in a divorce case, both inside and outside the courtroom?What roles do court personnel and professionals play in the divorce process?How can understanding these roles help you navigate your divorce more effectively?Key Takeaways: Familiarize yourself with the various court personnel and professionals involved in your case.Understand the responsibilities of each key player to work with them more effectively.Respect and be courteous to all individuals involved, as their actions can impact your case.As part of the "Your Divorce Case" series, this episode is a must-listen for anyone going through a divorce or considering one. By gaining a clear understanding of the key players in your case, you'll be empowered to make informed decisions and work more productively with your legal team. Seth and Pete's insights will help you feel more confident and prepared as you navigate this challenging process. Links & Notes Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - Court Personnel (04:06) - Pop Quiz (10:55) - Appellate Judge (14:04) - Trial Judge (14:45) - Judicial Assistant (15:19) - Bailiff (16:39) - Court Reporter (17:32) - Paralegals, Legal Assistant, Scheduler, Clerk of the Court (18:55) - Mediation (23:22) - Forensic Accountant (26:33) - Corporate Counsel (28:04) - Social Investigator (29:07) - General Magistrate (31:30) - Lawyers (33:13) - Other Roles (38:24) - Wrap Up Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    40 分钟
  5. Motion Mastery Part II: Navigating Hearings & Common Motions • Your Divorce Case

    10月15日

    Motion Mastery Part II: Navigating Hearings & Common Motions • Your Divorce Case

    Effortlessly Navigate the Motions Maze in Your Divorce Case In this sixth installment of our series, Your Divorce Case, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright dive deeper into the world of motions in divorce proceedings. Building upon the foundation laid in Motions Part I, we explore the differences between evidentiary and non-evidentiary hearings, discuss various types of motions you may encounter, and provide valuable insights to help you navigate this crucial aspect of your divorce case. Seth and Pete break down the key distinctions between evidentiary and non-evidentiary hearings, highlighting the importance of understanding what to expect in each type of hearing. They also discuss common motions, such as temporary orders, restraining orders, and motions to compel, providing real-world examples and practical advice for listeners facing these challenges in their own divorce cases. Questions we answer in this episode: What's the difference between evidentiary and non-evidentiary hearings?Do I need to testify at every hearing during my divorce?What are some common motions filed in divorce cases?Key Takeaways: Always be prepared to answer questions in court, even if it's a non-evidentiary hearing.Evidentiary hearings are like mini-trials, with witnesses, evidence, and cross-examination.Familiarize yourself with the types of motions that may arise in your divorce case.This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce. Seth and Pete's insights and practical advice will help you understand the motions process, prepare for hearings, and make informed decisions throughout your case. Whether you're just starting your divorce journey or in the thick of it, this episode will provide the knowledge and confidence you need to move forward. Links & Notes Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:09) - Motions Part II (02:54) - Catch-Up on Last Week (04:24) - Motions Quiz (14:02) - Evidentiary vs. Non-Evidentiary Hearings (27:24) - What to Expect as the Client (29:50) - When They’re Filed Against Me (36:38) - Next Week: Court Personnel Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    39 分钟
  6. Motion Mastery Part I • Your Divorce Case

    10月8日

    Motion Mastery Part I • Your Divorce Case

    In part 5 of the Your Divorce Case series, Seth and Pete dive deep into the world of motions in divorce law. They explore what motions are, why they matter, and how the right move can dramatically impact your case. Seth and Pete break down the different types of motions, from motions to compel and for contempt, to emergency motions and motions for temporary relief. They discuss the requirements and strategies for each, sharing insider tips on how to effectively present your case to the judge in the limited time you have. Questions we answer in this episode: What are motions and why are they important in divorce cases?How do I get a hearing scheduled for my motion?What types of motions are common in divorce proceedings?Key Takeaways: Motions are requests for the court to take action before the case is finalizedThoroughly prepare for your motion hearing as time with the judge is limitedUnderstand the specific requirements and procedures for different types of motionsWhether you're seeking temporary alimony, exclusive use of the marital home, or enforcement of a prior court order, this episode arms you with the knowledge to confidently navigate the maze of motions in divorce court. Seth and Pete's expert insights and practical advice make this a must-listen for anyone facing divorce litigation. Links & Notes Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - Motions (03:57) - What Are They? (13:01) - Emergency Motions (14:47) - Motion for Temporary Relief (19:22) - Scheduling a Hearing (27:44) - After the Ruling (35:41) - Next Week: Motions Part II (36:47) - Wrap Up Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    39 分钟
  7. You Asked, We Answer: Listener Questions

    10月1日

    You Asked, We Answer: Listener Questions

    Divorce Questions Answered: Navigating the Complexities In this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth and Pete dive into listener questions, addressing a wide range of divorce-related topics. From the financial implications of staying married on paper to the impact of alcohol consumption on custody, Seth and Pete provide insightful guidance to help you navigate the complexities of divorce. Throughout the episode, Seth and Pete tackle real-life scenarios submitted by listeners, offering practical advice and legal perspectives. They discuss the pros and cons of staying married for financial benefits, the factors considered in relocation cases, and the potential consequences of winning the lottery during a divorce. Seth and Pete also address the emotional challenges of dating during a divorce and the importance of focusing on your children's well-being. Some questions we answer in this episode:• What are the financial pros and cons of staying married on paper?• How does alcohol consumption impact custody decisions?• Can a judge force a parent to return after relocating without filing? Key Takeaways:• Timing and legal nuances play a crucial role in divorce proceedings.• Prioritize your children's well-being and seek legal advice before making decisions.• Be mindful of the long-term consequences of your actions during a divorce. Whether you're considering a divorce or currently going through one, this episode provides valuable insights and guidance. Seth and Pete's expertise and relatable approach make complex legal concepts accessible, empowering you to make informed decisions. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the divorce process and discover strategies to protect your interests and maintain healthy relationships. Links & Notes Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - Listener Questions (02:55) - Married-ish in Malibu (09:17) - Alcohol and Custody (13:20) - Muddled by Moving (16:08) - Lucky Lotto Limbo (18:39) - Longing for Love (21:04) - Pregnant and Perplexed (24:40) - Pension Ponderer (27:03) - Retirement Percentage Perplexed (28:50) - Dissolution Deliberator (31:59) - Sam (33:27) - Family Law Fixer (37:23) - Saddled with Spousal Support (41:11) - Reconciliation Rollercoaster (42:58) - Falsely Accused Father (45:23) - Endless Ex Entanglement (49:55) - Commingled Cash Conundrum (50:24) - Breathalyzer Burden of Proof Puzzled (51:37) - Wrap Up Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    54 分钟
  8. Pleadings: Setting the Stage for Divorce • Your Divorce Case

    9月24日

    Pleadings: Setting the Stage for Divorce • Your Divorce Case

    Navigating the Complexities of Pleadings in Divorce In this episode of "How to Split a Toaster" – part three of our Your Divorce Case series – Seth Nelson and Pete Wright dive into the intricate world of divorce proceedings, focusing on the crucial role of pleadings. Seth and Pete aim to demystify the legal jargon and provide valuable insights to help listeners navigate their divorce cases more effectively. We explore the emotional and legal significance of filing for divorce, discussing the various documents involved, such as petitions, counter-petitions, and answers. They shed light on the importance of properly drafting and filing these documents, as they set the stage for the entire divorce process. The hosts also delve into the nuances of residency requirements and how they can impact the court's jurisdiction over a case. Questions we answer in this episode: What are pleadings and why are they important in a divorce case?How can the way pleadings are drafted influence the outcome of your divorce?What should you consider when deciding whether to file for divorce first?Key Takeaways: Pleadings are crucial documents that set the foundation for your entire divorce case.It's essential to work with your lawyer to ensure your pleadings accurately reflect your goals and desires.Understanding the legal terminology and process can help you make informed decisions throughout your divorce.This episode provides a wealth of information for anyone considering or currently going through a divorce. By breaking down complex legal concepts and offering practical advice, Seth and Pete empower listeners to take a more active role in their divorce cases and work towards achieving the best possible outcome for themselves and their families. Links & Notes Schedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - Pleadings (03:15) - The Filing (05:40) - A Pleading (06:56) - Petition and Answer and Counter Petition (11:10) - Residency (15:48) - Notice Pleadings (18:03) - Amended Positions (22:43) - Getting Pleadings Right (26:17) - Boilerplate Items (30:38) - When Pleadings are Closed (32:29) - Your Answer (38:25) - Wrap Up Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT.

    40 分钟
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Seth Nelson is a Tampa based family lawyer known for devising creative solutions to difficult problems. In How to Split a Toaster, Nelson and co-host Pete Wright take on the challenge of divorce with a central objective — saving your most important relationships with your family, your former spouse, and yourself.

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