Loving Much vs Loving Well

Becoming Me

EPISODE 48

Have you ever felt the frustration and bewilderment of why your love for someone pushes them away or why your beloved feels harmed by your best intentions?

Loving Much ≠ Loving Well. We can love much and harm ourselves and others if we do not also learn how to love well.

In this episode I share how loving well is something we simply cannot do unless we heal and integrate our core selves from the unconscious traumas we may have accumulated in our lives. 
 
You can find the video of the original sharing (without introduction and praxis)  from this episode on YouTube here.

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CHAPTER MARKERS
(00:00:23) - Introduction
(00:06:09) - Loving Much VS Loving Well
(00:08:35) - What Does Loving Well Look Like?
(00:14:26) - Do I Really Need Expert Help?
(00:21:47) - Our Core Self
(00:26:25) - An Invitation
(00:28:53) - PRAXIS: Listen. Ponder. Act
(00:33:44) - Conclusion
Available here.

TRANSCRIPT
Available here.

REFLECTION PROMPT
Listen.
- As you listened to my sharing earlier, was there anything that particularly resonated with you? What was it?

Ponder.
- Can think of an instance in which you feel that you have loved much?
- What relationship comes to mind?

Act.
- In what way may you have loved poorly this person that you love very much?
- List one or two ways that you suspect you're not loving him or her well. What is it?

For full details of this reflection prompt, please see transcript.


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