It's About DAMN Time

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It's About DAMN Time

Welcome to 'It’s About DAMN Time' with Jarratt DAMN, the podcast dedicated to your journey of self-improvement and personal growth! Join Jarratt as he fearlessly dives into the depths of mental health, fitness, relationships, and mindset shifting, sharing his own transformative experiences and insightful conversations to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. From conquering fears to finding motivation, each episode is packed with practical advice and motivational insights to empower you to tackle challenges, whether it's focusing on your fitness goals, launching a business, or living in your truth and loving yourself. Tune in to 'It’s About DAMN Time' and let Jarratt guide you on your path to unlocking your full potential and living a life without limits. Your journey to a better you starts now!

  1. It's All in My Head:  When Overthinking Becomes Self-Sabotage

    9 HR AGO

    It's All in My Head: When Overthinking Becomes Self-Sabotage

    Welcome back, DAMN FAM, to It’s About DAMN Time! This week, I'm diving deep into a topic that hits home for a lot of us—overthinking. If you’re anything like me, you've probably spent nights replaying conversations, analyzing your every move, or holding yourself back from making big decisions because of that internal critic. Well, let’s talk about how overthinking is more than just a mental loop; it’s straight-up self-sabotage. In this episode, I get real about my struggles with overthinking and how it’s impacted my growth, my creativity, and my confidence. You’ll hear my story of battling the urge to second-guess myself, the weight of overanalyzing what I post on social media, and the stress that comes with questioning if I'm “enough” for the dreams I'm chasing. Here’s what I cover in today’s episode: What Overthinking Looks Like for Me: I share what it’s like to be the “king of overthinking,” from creating content to showing my true self.Overthinking and Social Media: How fear of judgment kept me from being authentic online, and why I realized showing “Pure Jarratt” matters more than perfect posts.The Impact of Overthinking on Self-Worth: How I began to recognize that my harshest critic was the one in the mirror.How Overthinking Becomes Self-Sabotage: I break down how we can unintentionally block our own progress by holding onto the “what ifs” and “maybes.”Why You Shouldn’t Police Yourself: We talk about why life’s too short to constantly question every move, especially when the biggest regrets often come from things we didn’t do, not the ones we did.This Week’s DAMN Challenge: I’m challenging you (and myself) to find just one thing you've been overthinking and take action on it, without second-guessing! If you’ve ever felt trapped in your own mind or found yourself doubting every decision, this episode is for you. Let's stop letting overthinking keep us from the lives we deserve. Let's reclaim our confidence and move past the endless self-questioning. Keywords: Overthinking, self-sabotage, confidence, mental health, personal development, social media, self-worth, authenticity, regrets, personal growth, self-acceptance, mental loop, inner critic, authenticity on social media, overcoming self-doubt. Ready to join the challenge? Hit me up on social media @itsaboutdamntimepod on IG and let me know how you’re stepping out of the overthinking cycle. Let’s work on this together and stop letting our minds be the reason we hold back from what we truly want. Listen, share, and let’s grow together! Follow me on Facebook, Twitter, IG, & more @DaWholeDamnShow Follow this on Facebook, Twitter, IG, & more @ItsAboutDamnTimePod Damn University Merch now available click link → Here

    20 min
  2. Can We Get Kinky Tonight? How to Tell Your Partner What You Really Want (Featuring Safiya Darling)

    29 OCT

    Can We Get Kinky Tonight? How to Tell Your Partner What You Really Want (Featuring Safiya Darling)

    This week’s episode dives into an essential but often unspoken topic: How to share your sexual desires and fantasies with your partner—without the shame or awkwardness. Just in time for the final days of National Kink Month, I’m sitting down with Safiya Darling, a Black Sex Educator and BDSM/Kink Specialist, who’s here to break it all down. Safiya shares her expert insights into what kink is, common misconceptions, and why so many people struggle with opening up about their fantasies. We talk about everything from the basics of kink to building the confidence to express your true desires. Safiya’s practical advice covers everything from setting boundaries to making sure you and your partner are on the same page with a “yes, no, maybe” list. Whether you’re curious about body worship, sensual play, or even a little role play, this episode is packed with guidance on communicating openly and honestly to bring your relationship to a deeper level. What We Cover:What Is Kink? Understanding kink as an umbrella term and how it differs from traditional sexual practices.Breaking Down Misconceptions: Why society’s views (hello, patriarchy!) make people feel embarrassed about their desires.The Difference Between Fetish and Kink: Safiya explains how fetishes are needs, while kinks are “wants.”Soft vs. Hardcore Kinks: Examples of gentle ways to explore kink, from body worship to sensual massage.Communication 101: How to start the conversation with a “yes, no, maybe” list and what to consider when discussing boundaries.Cultural Influences on Sexuality: Why discussing kink is especially tough in Black communities and how to overcome these barriers.Role-Playing and Sensual Intention: Adding intention to everyday acts can bring a kinky edge that deepens intimacy.Creating a Safe Space: Setting up a non-judgmental, open environment to encourage honest conversation. Top Quotes from This Episode:“Most of us are probably more kinky than we think we are.” – Safiya Darling“It’s about taking your power back and exploring what makes you feel good without shame.”“Education before participation.” – Safiya’s golden rule for kink and BDSM exploration. Why You Should Listen:If you've ever felt too shy, awkward, or uncertain about discussing your desires, this episode will give you the confidence to have those conversations. With Safiya’s compassionate guidance, you’ll learn how to create a comfortable space to express your needs and explore new ways to connect with your partner. Safiya’s approach balances history, empowerment, and practical advice to help you and your partner bring your relationship to the next level. Key Takeaways:Understanding the Basics: Kink doesn’t have to be hardcore—it’s about finding what excites you, in or out of the bedroom.Safe Communication: Why it’s essential to establish a safe, open space with your partner and the importance of mutual respect.Exploring Soft Kinks: Ways to introduce sensual, non-intimidating practices into your relationship.Permission to Be You: Give yourself the green light to explore your desires without fear of judgment or embarrassment. Resources Mentioned:The

    55 min
  3. Redefining Life at 40: Navigating After Divorce and Starting Anew (Featuring Shanna Stevenson)

    15 OCT

    Redefining Life at 40: Navigating After Divorce and Starting Anew (Featuring Shanna Stevenson)

    Welcome back to another episode of It’s About DAMN Time! This week, I’m diving deep with Shanna Stevenson, who is entering a new chapter in her life at 40. We talk about everything from the emotional journey of going through a divorce to what it means to truly find yourself after years of putting everyone else first. This episode is all about transformation, self-discovery, and the importance of mental health. Shanna opens up about her own personal experience with marriage, counseling, and ultimately, her decision to end the relationship and start fresh. She shares what it was like to search for a bilingual therapist and the cultural complexities that played a role in her marriage. We also get into how COVID-19 reshaped her perspective on life, her struggles with balancing motherhood, and how counseling became a game-changer in understanding relationship dynamics. We talk a lot about what it means to embrace your femininity, reclaim your independence, and be unapologetically authentic after a life-changing event like divorce. Shanna’s story is one of resilience and rebirth, and whether you’re approaching 40, navigating a divorce, or simply looking to reconnect with your true self, there’s something in this conversation for you. Tune in for an episode that’s packed with heartfelt advice, inspiring stories, and practical tips for navigating life’s toughest transitions. Whether you’re in the middle of your own life shift or supporting someone who is, this episode will resonate. Follow Shanna on IG → here Follow Ride or Lie Podcast on Instagram → here Visit Trip With Shan → here Follow me on Facebook, Twitter, IG, & more @DaWholeDamnShow Follow this on Facebook, Twitter, IG, & more @ItsAboutDamnTimePod Damn University Merch now available click link → Here

    59 min
  4. A Different Road:  Why Going Vegan is More Than Just a Diet Change (Featuring Marquita Henderson)

    8 OCT

    A Different Road: Why Going Vegan is More Than Just a Diet Change (Featuring Marquita Henderson)

    In this episode of It’s About Damn Time, I sit down with Marquita Henderson, who recently celebrated her first anniversary of going vegan, to explore her journey of self-discovery through a plant-based lifestyle. We dive into how switching to a vegan diet has not only transformed her relationship with food but also improved her overall health and well-being. We talk about the health implications of our family histories and how that pushed Marquita to rethink her diet. For her, going vegan was more than just changing what was on her plate—it was about taking control of her health, prioritizing self-care, and reconnecting with food in a more meaningful way. Marquita shares some real talk about the obstacles she faced when going vegan, especially living in a small town where finding plant-based options isn't always easy. Spoiler: Meal prep and time management were key! We also get into the emotional side of the transition: how she navigated possible pushback from family and friends and what it means to stay committed to a lifestyle change, even when it’s tough. Plus, we discuss the pros and cons of going vegan—everything from health benefits to the surprising challenges that many don’t consider. Whether you’re curious about adopting a plant-based diet or just looking for some inspiration on how to make meaningful changes in your own life, this episode is packed with insight, practical tips, and a whole lot of heart. Key Points Covered in This Episode:The health benefits of switching to a vegan lifestyle and how it impacted Marquita’s lifeOvercoming challenges like family dynamics and small-town living while staying veganThe importance of meal prep, time management, and staying consistentWhy Marquita believes veganism is more than just a diet change—it’s a shift toward self-care and prioritizing healthPractical advice for anyone considering a similar transitionThe emotional and physical rewards of sticking to a plant-based lifestyle If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to walk a different road by going vegan, you don’t want to miss this conversation! Listen now to learn:How Marquita’s family health history inspired her lifestyle changeThe power of meal prep and time management for staying on track with a plant-based dietThe pros and cons of going vegan, from real-world experienceHow committing to your health can lead to self-discovery and long-term benefits Follow Marquita on IG → here Purchase Marquita's products → here Visit Gracious Reflections Site → here Follow me on Facebook, Twitter, IG, & more @DaWholeDamnShow Follow this on Facebook, Twitter, IG, & more @ItsAboutDamnTimePod Damn University Merch now available click link → Here

    49 min

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Welcome to 'It’s About DAMN Time' with Jarratt DAMN, the podcast dedicated to your journey of self-improvement and personal growth! Join Jarratt as he fearlessly dives into the depths of mental health, fitness, relationships, and mindset shifting, sharing his own transformative experiences and insightful conversations to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. From conquering fears to finding motivation, each episode is packed with practical advice and motivational insights to empower you to tackle challenges, whether it's focusing on your fitness goals, launching a business, or living in your truth and loving yourself. Tune in to 'It’s About DAMN Time' and let Jarratt guide you on your path to unlocking your full potential and living a life without limits. Your journey to a better you starts now!

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