Q Marriage Mentors

Jeff Lutes
  • 5,0 (13)
  • SOCIEDADE E CULTURA
Q Marriage Mentors

Psychotherapist Jeff Lutes holds candid conversations with remarkable lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender couples about what makes great relationships really work. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

  1. #35: MARK & DANA

    09/12/2019

    #35: MARK & DANA

    "AN ABUNDANCE MENTALITY" - Mark Holzbach and Dana Friis-Hansen from Grand Rapids, Michigan, have been together 30 years. In this episode, they share how they first met, the vast differences in their coming out experiences, and how art, high tech, world travel, and creating friendships in multiple communities have strengthened their bond. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    32min
  2. #34: JENELL & ANGELA

    11/11/2019

    #34: JENELL & ANGELA

    "HAWK FEATHERS AND FIERCE VULNERABILITY” - Some people hold their first date in a fancy restaurant on a cruise ship. Not Jenell and Angela. After connecting online, they decided to meet halfway between Houston and Austin and proceeded to spend the next 10 hours getting to know each other at a taco stand in a gas station, over a piece of pie at a restaurant, at open mic night in a bar where Angela performed, and during a stroll under the moonlight. You'll love the energy of this couple and the work they are doing to create a relationship based on respect, trust, and love without control. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    31min
  3. #33: GARY & RICHARD

    18/06/2019

    #33: GARY & RICHARD

    "ALMOST STONEWALL, ALMOST WOODSTOCK, ABSOLUTE LOVE" - For nearly 36 years, Gary Cooper and Richard Hartgrove have loved one another, faced multiple challenges, and given unselfishly to the LGBTQ community in many ways. They first met when Gary lived in Honolulu and Richard was in New York. For about 4 years their connection was primarily sexual, but that all changed one night when they went to a party in Austin. In this episode, they talk about HIV, cancer, previous relationships, guilt, forgiveness, massage, music, and the surprising way their intimacy improved after sex stopped. Listen closely to the emotion in their voices; the love is palpable. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    37min
  4. #32: KELLY & SARAH

    30/05/2019

    #32: KELLY & SARAH

    "LONGEVITY AND A KING-SIZE ELECTRIC BLANKET" - In this episode, Kelly and Sarah Ross talk about their 17 relationship and how they persevered despite the death of Kelly’s mom, the rejection when Sarah came out to her parents, and the challenges of supporting each other in very different career paths. The secret to their longevity seems to be rooted in the tremendous amount of respect they have for one another, tons of fun on their boat, and unwavering support to each other when life throws them a curve ball. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    34min
  5. #31: DENICE & MARY

    08/05/2019

    #31: DENICE & MARY

    "NOTHING SAYS LESBIAN LOVE LIKE A PEZ DISPENSER" - In this episode, Jeff talks with Denice Bain and Mary Priddy from Bastrop County, Texas. Denice and Mary have been together 16 years, after a colleague at Dell played matchmaker. Don't miss the heartwarming story about their 3rd date, and how they ended up putting a homeless man in a hotel for 3 nights and giving him money for food. This was the moment they knew their values were in alignment, and they've been caring for animals and the elderly ever since. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    34min
  6. #30: TERRY REAL

    08/04/2019

    #30: TERRY REAL

    "CHALLENGING GRANDIOSITY AND PATRIARCHY IN COUPLES & COUPLES THERAPY" - Today Jeff takes a break from the usual format of interviewing couples to welcome a very special guest. Terry Real is the founder of the Relational Life Institute in Arlington, Massachusetts. He is a nationally recognized family therapist, teacher, and author and he will be the keynote speaker at the 6th Annual Contemporary Relationships Conference on May 4th in Austin, Texas. In this conversation, Terry talks about the importance of addressing grandiosity, as well as shame, in intimate love relationships. He discusses trauma and the three parts of the self - the wounded child, the adaptive child, and the functional adult - that operate within all relationships. You'll love this teaser, but to hear more from Terry, get tickets to the conference at www.contemporaryrelationships.com.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    31min
  7. #29: TONY & ROSS

    01/04/2019

    #29: TONY & ROSS

    "SOMETIMES COMMITMENT TRANSCENDS THE SELF" - Tony Shelton and Ross Smith from Houston, Texas,  have been together 28 years. Have you ever heard of someone meeting their husband at the very first party after they come out? That's what happened to Ross! In this episode, Tony and Ross talk about how they met and what they've learned over the years about happiness and relationship longevity. They highlight the importance of staying calm during conflict, finding common interests, staying active, and creating a life with focus and purpose. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    29min
  8. #28: KAREN & JENA

    20/03/2019

    #28: KAREN & JENA

    "FROM UNREQUITED CRUSHES TO THE GIRL SCOUTS" - In this episode, Jeff talks with Jena Recer and Karen Phemister. Karen is a water quality scientist for the City of Austin and Jena is soap maker and a pet sitter. In fact, they were pet sitting when we spoke and you'll hear "Lil Bit", a teacup Chihuahua/Terrier mix in the background. Karen & Jena talk about being roommates at Texas State University, engaging in social activism instead of going to class, and meeting again 8 years later through a chance encounter. Jena and Karen have been leaders in the Girl Scouts for many years and they share the value of giving back to their community. Enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

    28min
Ver tudo (35)

5
de 5
13 avaliações

Sobre

Psychotherapist Jeff Lutes holds candid conversations with remarkable lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender couples about what makes great relationships really work. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jefflutes/support

Informações

  • Criado por
    Jeff Lutes
  • Anos de atividade
    2018 - 2019
  • Episódios
    35
  • Classificação
    Livre
  • Copyright
    © Jeff Lutes
  • Site do podcast
    Q Marriage Mentors

Para ouvir episódios explícitos, inicie sessão.

Fique por dentro deste podcast

Inicie sessão ou crie uma conta para seguir podcasts, salvar episódios e receber as atualizações mais recentes.
Selecionar um país ou região

África, Oriente Médio e Índia

Ásia‑Pacífico

Europa

América Latina e Caribe

Estados Unidos e Canadá