Get Your Life Together, Girl Danielle A. Vann

Welcome to Pause & Affirm! This quick hit of inspiration is meant to remind you of your greatness, inner light, and peace!
TAKE A MOMENT TO RELAX AND ALLOW THESE WORDS TO SETTLE IN YOUR MIND, HEART, AND SOUL.
Affirming with me:  
I am capable of all things, in all ways, and in every single aspect of my life.Today, I willingly own my ability to show up and make this life work for me, because I AM WORTH my time and effort.
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A question was sent in asking how someone may identify repressed anger. It’s a great question, and the subject of this week’s Mindset Reset. While working with a licensed professional is the best way to uncover, accept, and process the things that make you angry, there are a few things you can do to help yourself get a jump start on uncovering what you’ve not yet worked through.
Learn more as we move through what repressed anger is, how to spot it, what triggers feel like, and how to move through it.
Repressed anger is a type of anger that you unconsciously avoid, deny, and hid from that can lead to mental, physical, and deep emotional issues, relationship problems, anxiety, depression and so much more.
I challenge you to listen and see where you fall in this scale of anger. Doing so is an essential life tool that helps elevate and reset your mindset.   
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We have all been hurt by someone we love. Engaging in relationships puts you at risk of heartache simply by the nature of giving of one’s self. Yet, when this occurs, do you know how to get over it? Do you know how to allow yourself to feel and move on? Many don’t; that’s why you and I are taking a one-on-one deep dive into what to do when someone hurts you, and the steps you may need to take to get over the things that have caused you pain. This week is part one of a two part series.
Let’s get right to it.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
00:00 Introduction
02:40 What it looks like to hurt because of a relationship
04:08 A definition of emotional pain
05:11 An example of emotional pain in broken friendships
07:52 First step in getting over emotional pain is being able to express yourself
09:34 Distance yourself from the moment
10:45 Continued contact with someone who hurts you keeps the pain going
11:39 Allow yourself to feel
13:16 Talk to someone who gets you and understands your feeling
16:50 All the elements of an experience are individual
17:10 The past is not always the blueprint for the future
18:45 You will not always get an explanation or an apology
20:16 Ditch the need to be right
21:50 Practice radical acceptance
23:20 Forgiveness includes the self
25:00 Asking yourself: Where is centered now?
28:38 What can you measure in gratitude?
31:25 If you want to love, you must know pain is possible, too
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I also invite you to check out the new 15-day Affirmation Course, where I take you on a journey through how to your brain chemistry and your greatest desires to your benefits. It’s available to start right now!
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Welcome to Pause & Affirm! This quick hit of inspiration is meant to remind you of your greatness, inner light, and peace!
TAKE A MOMENT TO RELAX AND ALLOW THESE WORDS TO SETTLE IN YOUR MIND, HEART, AND SOUL.
Affirming with me:  
Today starts a new chapter. A new chapter of me. One that I write from the place of limitless love and the greatest and fullest expression of all that I’ve been, all that I am, and all that I am working to become. This new chapter is being written in an entirely different book now. A new collection of stories written in and through gratitude. This new story thrives in possibility because I now know that everything is possible and available to me. I am openly choosing this story. I am openly choosing me. This is my time, and I’m inking this day through self-love, joy, and happiness. I am a master storyteller, and I am ready to live this grand, healed, motivated, and moving story of me.
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Find a comfortable position and take a full deep breath. Let your body settle from the crown of your head to the tips of your toes. Allow tension to flow from you with each exhale you take. Roll your shoulders down your back, settling in a space that feels natural and relaxed. If comfortable, place one hand over your heart and the other below your belly button—feel your chest rise with a slightly deeper inhale, holding its fullness for a moment, and let the air gently slip away. Find the rhythm of your breath, moving it into a slower, easy, gentle, and effortless pace.
As your body settles, invite your mind to slow down, too. No matter what has occurred today, yesterday, this week, or last, remember that you can choose to hold space for yourself and honor what you need every moment. When you give yourself permission to settle in stillness, in the anchoring of your breath—in and out—you give yourself to release stress, worry, and anything inside or outside of you.
Take another full deep breath and let it go.
Slip away with my words, allowing them to guide you into a space of inner calm, the subconscious mind, the gap between where you’ve been and where you're going—that gap is the here and now.
Take another full deep breath and let it go.
We often forget that our lives are lived in moments, in the now. We allow yesterday to own us—find its ways into our thoughts, emotions, and actions. We bring forth broken pieces while we refuse to hold on to the good. When we are in the good, we easily concentrate on where we want to be—the goals, intentions, and the pieces that drive us forward while failing to remember that we need today to prosper.
The reality is each day is a teacher. Each moment has something for you inside of it. When we are unaware, focused on everything but the moment, we are likely to miss the magic in which is the key for our abundance, ability to thrive, the very opening of our purpose, courage, and highest, truest, most authentic, greatest self.
To fully claim your life, you must be IN your life. And your life is now.  
Take another full deep breath and let it go.
Repeat after me if it serves you:
I exist and live in the here and now. This beautiful understanding reminds me that I have the power to live within this moment instead of all the moments that have been or have yet to be.
While my existence in this world, in the space I’ve created for myself, is the total of many things, my physical makeup, the people I’ve grown with, my culture, my community, education, thoughts, background, feelings, the past, in all of that, there is a universal truth, I am the embodiment of all of my experiences and each day offers something new to add to the whole of me.
Whatever I feel, do, think, and experience is done in the present moment. I cannot live in the past or the future. I may think about the past and plan the future, but the present is the only place my existence creates change.
From now on, my aim is to accept my life as it is, in each moment, without judgment, overthinking, or concern. Because what is, is what is meant to be. Everything I’ve encountered can be used for my highest good. Everything I know has the power to shift me into something better, into more in a way that pulls forth every lesson and action. The only way to do that is to make the choice today. Now.
Take a full deep breath and let it go.
In this now, I am shifting my mindset. I know that everything I need is already inside of me. I also know I cannot escape the past. I realize I cannot evade the outcome of the future. Instead, I intend to live with my highest value at the forefront of everything I do.
I am an intentional creator with the pursuit of my greatest happiness and interest at hand. This interest is my purpose—my reason for being. I am the author of my story. My mission today is to pick up my pen and write the story of now. Each page, each day, builds into a full life story that I’m simply not re

What does it mean to be in balance? That’s a question many have been seeking the answer to, and more importantly, the feeling and overall life impact of finding that balance.
While there are many ways to get there, one ancient medicine and lifestyle may hold the secrets and tools you seek.
That’s why I sat with Ayurveda expert and teacher Emilie Berger to chat about balance and how our lives interconnectedness, mindset, body, and harmony are found and created in small, purposeful increments. Emilie’s insights and daily tools can change your relationship with calm.
 KEY TAKEAWAYS
01:55 Emilie’s story and why
04:54 What Ayurveda is and its roots
06:42 Balance is a tricky word and life action
09:10 Balance through the lens of Ayurvedic practices – where to start
11:00 What it means to live seasonally and how          
16:06  Daytime and Evening time cleansings that nourish the mind and body
24:55 How self-compassion and kindness can bring guilt into your thought process if not done correctly
25:45 Sleeps job when it comes to balance
27:57 Tools of Ayurveda
34:28 The importance of touch
37:44 The desire to be taken care of by the self and others
40:05 The self-assignment list
45:50 The resilience of center and balanced
52:18 Google the Ayurvedic clock and check out the overall benefits
55:20 Emilie’s three
To connect with Emilie, her website is the www.holisticinitiative.com. You can also follow her on Instagram or Insight Timer @holisticinitiative or by searching her name Emilie Berger. You can also find a variety of classes and meditations on Insight Timer.

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