98. How You Can Be in Service to Others When "I'm So Sorry" Just Doesn't Seem to Cut It

In this heartfelt episode of the School of Midlife podcast, we dive into how you can make a meaningful difference in the lives of those facing life-altering challenges, both in the wake of the devastating wildfires in Los Angeles and in other personal struggles that many people are going through right now. Whether it's loss, cancer diagnoses, or any unexpected hardship, this episode provides practical and compassionate ways to support those in need.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• How to respond to the devastation in Los Angeles: The catastrophic wildfires have left entire communities destroyed. We discuss how you can help—whether you're on the ground in California or across the country.
  • Donate essentials: Items like soap, deodorant, clothing, and other basic needs are being collected for those impacted.
  • Send direct financial support: Whether through Venmo, PayPal, or GoFundMe, many people need help covering immediate expenses as they rebuild.
  • Trusted charities: Learn about reputable organizations like the Red Cross, Los Angeles Firefighters Foundation, and World Central Kitchen, which are providing on-the-ground relief.
• The importance of offering proactive help: Rather than saying "let me know if you need anything," find out how you can offer tangible assistance like:
  • Preparing meals, offering to walk pets, or helping with administrative tasks like insurance claims.
  • Using your special skills to help people navigate their challenges—whether you’re in real estate, caregiving, or even organizing skills.
• Emotional support matters: A simple text or note, offering no-expectation support, can make a huge difference for someone going through a tough time. It's not always about the big gestures—sometimes it's the small, thoughtful acts of kindness that mean the most.
• Don't hesitate to accept help when you need it: Women, in particular, often struggle with accepting help due to feelings of guilt or shame. But remember, those around you want to help! By allowing them to do so, you're giving them the gift of supporting someone they care about.

 LINKS + MENTIONS:
 GoFundMe for Maggie, Maddie and Lucy

Red Cross

Los Angeles Fire Foundation

World Central Kitchen

Pasadena Humane Society

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