Awesome Marriage Podcast

Dr. Kim Kimberling
  • 4.9 (784)
  • RELATIONSHIPS
  • UPDATED WEEKLY
Awesome Marriage Podcast

Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for 53 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40 years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage and 14 Keys To Lasting Love. Dr. Kim is joined by co-host Lindsay Few, Content Director for Awesome Marriage. She has been married for 20 years. Her husband is a church planter, and they love ministering to married couples together. Tune in each week to hear practical ways on how to have an awesome marriage! This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    Answering Porn Recovery FAQ: Betrayed Spouse | Ep. 652

    Today we’re answering listener questions about how to handle the pain of a spouse’s porn use.  Unfortunately, this is a pretty common issue we hear about from couples, but the good news is that you CAN heal and move forward. So today we’re answering listener questions about healing and recovery from pornography in marriage. We’ll talk about the process for forgiveness, what to do if you just cannot forgive and move on, how to rebuild trust, and practical strategies to combat intrusive thoughts.  Listen for practical ways to heal and recover your heart and your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  How to forgive and move forward when it feels impossible  Changing your view if you can’t separate your spouse from the hurtful behavior  The balance of feeling safe and willingness to be vulnerable  Boundary setting to allow for healing Getting out of the comparison trap and starting to feel beautiful and desirable again  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  When your marriage is recovering from porn use, repentance is the first step. Forgiveness allows you to heal, and boundaries help facilitate marriage healing. You can rebuild your marriage even better than before.  Questions to Discuss:  What does your spouse do that helps you trust them? Are there any areas where you need to build or repair trust with your spouse?  What can you do together to help that process?  QUOTES  “Until you forgive, you’re still giving a lot of power to what happened.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “One of the best prayers is asking God to help you see your spouse through His eyes.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “We want assurance that nothing will ever hurt us again, but that’s not possible.” Lindsay Few   “Look for Jesus in your spouse. When you see that, things are probably going to be pretty good.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  This is not a hurdle to get through: this is a lifestyle change.   - Dr. Kim Kimberling There’s nothing wrong with being accountable, not because you ‘have to,’ but because you love your spouse.   - Dr. Kim Kimberling “You’ve got to be completely open and transparent with each other. You can’t have trust without that.”   - Dr. Kim Kimberling MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Sign up for the Free 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal to learn the steps you need to take to live a marriage undefiled and experience closeness and intimacy again Past podcast episodes on healing your marriage after porn:  How to Regain Trust With Your Spouse After Porn | Ep. 561 How to Rebuild Intimacy With Your Spouse After Porn | Ep. 562 Has your marriage been damaged by the effects of porn? Not sure what’s next? Download the 8 Steps To Heal Your Marriage After Porn to learn your next steps to healing.

    45 min

  2. NOV 15

    Equip Your Kids to Fight Porn with Kristen Jenson | Ep. 651

    Are your kids protected from p*rn? Do they know how to fight back? What if they’ve already been exposed to it?  So many parents do not know how to protect their kids from porn, or how to equip them with what to do if they are exposed to it. We are so pleased to hear from Kristen Jenson today on the podcast with the answers to your questions. Equip yourself so that you can equip kids well.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  The hidden mental health dangers of p*rn  The scripts parents need to discuss p*rn with their kids’ Tips for digital safety in today's technology-driven world. When should you start talking to your kids about p*rn? Which phones are safer for kids?  Resources that will help you guide your kids or grandchildren  The need for open conversations that can protect children's innocence.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  Your kids & grandkids need a plan in place to protect them from the danger of porn exposure and addiction. Today’s episode will equip you to make that plan.  Questions to Discuss:  Have you taken the time to equip your kids with what to do if they are exposed to porn?  Do you have a plan to resist the temptation of porn or explicit materials?  If not, use the resources below to develop a plan today.    QUOTES   “If you’re worried about what to do with your kids about p*rn, this podcast is for you.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “P*rnography is fueling a huge rise in child-on-child harmful sexual behavior.” - Kristen Jenson  “How do you talk to kids about it in a way that doesn’t scare them, doesn’t scare the parents and gives them a real plan?”  - Kristen Jenson  “We all need scripts for certain life situations. There are no scripts passed down for this problem.” - Kristen Jenson  “We live in a world awash with addiction. We need to teach our kids how to protect their brains from addiction.” - Kristen Jenson  “P*rnography is the tool of choice. If kids know what to do, they’re going to be that much safer.”  - Kristen Jenson  “We have an opportunity to say, no this isn’t normal. No, this isn’t healthy.”  - Kristen Jenson    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Purchase Kristen’s books: Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids, Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr., and the Guidebook for Counseling Kids Learn about our the brand new curriculum Brain Defense: Digital Safety Keep current with empowering articles From Defend Young Minds  Use the instantly-downloadable guides to help you teach your child  Follow Defend Young Minds on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, & LinkedIn

    1h 7m

  3. NOV 12

    Answering Porn Recovery FAQ: Recovering Spouse | Ep. 650

    If porn has damaged your marriage, healing is possible. And you are not alone…This is unfortunately a common issue we hear from couples about. So today on the podcast, we’re answering listener questions about healing and recovery from pornography in marriage. We’ll talk about the need for forgiveness, what to do when a spouse cannot forgive and move on, how to rebuild trust, and practical strategies to combat temptation.  Listen for practical ways to engage in healing and recovery for you and your marriage. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What to do if a spouse can’t forgive past porn use  How to make a plan for dealing with temptation. Necessary steps in the trust-rebuilding process  Help to understand the impact on a wife’s self-image  How shame and isolation impact recovery   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  Porn use can really damage the trust in marriage, but recovery is possible. Learn how and do what it takes to rebuild trust and does not    Questions to Discuss:  What are the areas of vulnerability in your marriage?  How can you make a plan to protect your marriage where you need it most?  Is there anything you need to come clean about with your spouse? Do it today.    QUOTES  “The things a spouse needs to do for recovery are good for them AND good for the marriage. It really works together.” Lindsay Few  “Most men I talk to have no idea how devastating their p*rn use was for their wife.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “It’s so important to have a plan in place.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “Remember that temptation itself is not sin. It’s what you do once you are tempted.”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “You can use temptation as a red flag to drive you toward things that are good for you.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling   “God doesn’t want us stuck in shame, but the enemy sure does.” - Lindsay Few    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Podcast episode:  We mentioned this episode with Matt Cline  Other helpful episodes: How to Regain Trust With Your Spouse After Porn | Ep. 561 How to Rebuild Intimacy With Your Spouse After Porn | Ep. 562 Sign up for the Free 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal to learn the steps you need to take to live a marriage undefiled and experience closeness and intimacy again

    42 min

  4. NOV 5

    Emotional Intimacy Do's and Don'ts | Ep. 649

    How is the emotional intimacy in your marriage? Do you feel safe telling your spouse anything? Do you feel loved, heard, and understood?  Marriage is meant to be a refuge…a place where you each feel safe sharing deep personal feelings and confident you will be graciously received by your spouse. The problem is that many of us don’t talk about or even understand our own emotions. And if we can’t properly process our emotions, it will be very hard to build true emotional closeness in marriage.  Tune in today to learn the Do’s and Don’t of emotional intimacy. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Surprising behaviors that may shut our spouses down emotionally What wives tend to get wrong about emotional intimacy  What husbands often get wrong about emotional intimacy  What we miss out on when emotional intimacy is missing in marriage  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  Emotional intimacy is being able to share your thoughts, feelings, hopes, fears, and more with your spouse and be loved and accepted. It is a building block of great connection in marriage.  Questions to Discuss:  How safe do you feel sharing anything you need to with your spouse?  What could you do to better accept your spouse as they are?   What helps you feel emotionally close and connected?    QUOTES  Wives may experience more of the feeling of the lack of emotional intimacy. - Lindsay Few  I promise you, after 54 years of marriage, that your spouse cannot read your mind. -  Dr. Kim Kimberling  A lot of times we think our spouse thinks like we think. Dr. Kim Kimberling  Our assumptions really get us in trouble. - Lindsay Few  Instead of thinking your spouse is a terrible person, realize they’re just different. They don’t see things the same way you do. - Lindsay Few  God didn’t give feelings and emotions to women that He didn’t give to men. He gave us the same feelings and emotions. It changes your life when you get in touch with that. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  We’re all emotional. We’re just not all in touch with them. - Lindsay Few  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Take the 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy challenge to learn practical steps to growing emotional intimacy with your spouse.  FREE Awesome Marriage Feelings Chart Printable FREE Married couples card game  Heart-to-Heart is a game designed to deepen emotional intimacy and connection between you two.

    37 min

  5. OCT 29

    Building a Foundation of Spiritual Intimacy for a Marriage That Lasts with David & Meg Robbins | Ep. 648

    We’re so happy to have David and Meg Robbins from FamilyLife joining us on the podcast today. The Robbins have been in ministry for many years and have learned so many important truths about what it takes to create a marriage strong enough to stand strong through the years.  Today they share their wisdom and experience. You don’t want to miss this conversation, full of wisdom and practical application that will benefit you and your marriage.  We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  The unique strengths of Gen Z when it comes to pursuing marriage  The 3 threats every marriage faces The power of the Holy Spirit to stand strong  Daily habits to fight the drift that busyness creates in marriage Scheduling habits to keep your marriage connected  How to find an encouraging community of support - and why it matters    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: Don’t neglect the health of your marriage: Keep short accounts when things need to be addressed between you, and cultivate supportive community.  Questions to Discuss:  Are you aware of the spiritual battle for your marriage?  Are there any ways you’re viewing your spouse as your enemy, and neglecting to protect your mind and heart against the real enemy?  Where would your life and marriage benefit from community? What step can you take today to nurture your friendships, mentorship and fellowship?  QUOTES  Younger generations are doing a lot of deep story work. - Meg Robbins  We all have ingrained sin patterns that we bring into marriage. - David Robbins  Vulnerability does involve risk. It’s not status quo. Yet vulnerability is the pathway to deeper intimacy. - David Robbins  You have to take risky steps to take down the walls around your heart. - Meg Robbins  With little things, we can be hard on ourselves. But when you spend time with other people, you realize these are normal things. - Meg Robbins  Most people want to talk about their marriage, it just requires someone else to start the conversation. Anyone of us can crack open the conversation.  - David Robbins  A healthy marriage is one that’s repenting often. - David Robbins  No marriage is going to naturally drift towards awesome oneness.  - Meg Robbins MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Find marriage-building resources and events at www.FamilyLife.com  Find and follow FamilyLife on YouTube Utilize FamilyLife’s The Art of Marriage small group course Nurture your marriage with our FREE 15 Better Assumptions to Make About Your Spouse printable.

    59 min

  6. OCT 22

    Using the 5 Levels of Communication & Avoiding Communication Breakdowns | Ep. 647

    Are you familiar with the 5 levels of communication and where they fit in your marriage? Do you use all 5 levels in your marriage? The basics of communication sound simple on paper, yet most couples are struggling to communicate effectively. And when communication falls short, your connection suffers, conflict ramps up, and marriage isn’t the partnership you hoped for.    Today Dr. Kim shares these levels and how to use them, so you can access all 5 types of communication your marriage needs and avoid common communication breakdowns with your spouse. Tune in to learn more!    We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  5 communication levels you and your spouse need Simple tips for avoiding common communication breakdowns  Getting to deep communication with a less talkative spouse  Common mistakes husbands and wives make with deeper communication How to respect your spouse’s personal communication style   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:    Main takeaway:  When you talk, be mindful of communicating in ways that your spouse will be able to really hear you. When your spouse talks, listen well, and don’t neglect any of the 5 communication levels.   Questions to Discuss:  Which levels of communication come more naturally in your marriage?  Which levels are harder to use?  What is one thing you can do today to make sure you communicate in a way your spouse will be able to receive well?    QUOTES  “Communication is so essential. I don’t know if there's ever a couple that comes in for counseling and it’s not an issue.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling   “It sounds simple enough, but at the same time most couples are struggling with communication.” - Lindsay Few  “It’s important that you pay attention to each other. That you value it and listen to each other.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “There are so many distractions in life. It’s important to tune in.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling   “Instead of blaming our spouse because they’re not listening well, ask how well am I communicating with them?”  - Dr. Kim Kimberling   “We have a responsibility to grow in self awareness, and marriage is a beautiful way to do that.“ Lindsay Few      MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Turn to God and ask him to renew your mind with our NEW resource, 11 Prayers To Stop Thinking Negatively About Your Spouse 15 Better Assumptions To Make About Your Spouse is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here!  Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram for more marriage tips!

    40 min

  7. OCT 15

    Don’t Fight About the Wrong Things, Find Your Real Marriage Issue | Ep. 646

    Are you truly resolving your marriage issues? Most couples experience recurring arguments that never truly resolve. This cycle leaves you with two problems: 1, You never solved the issue, and 2, now one or both are hurt and angry. Plus you’ve got some baggage around the issue, too. Today we’re going to help you learn how to resolve the actual issues.    We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What NOT to do in a recurring argument  Communication tips to help you prevent conflict Conversation hacks to prevent defensiveness  The process to understand the REAL underlying issues    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: If you have recurring arguments (most couples do!) there’s probably a deeper issue you’re not aware of. Get under the surface to resolve the real issue.    Questions to Discuss:  On a scale from 1-10, how well do you and your spouse resolve your marriage conflict?  Better communication helps you address the real issues you need to resolve. What is one step you can take to grow your communication today?    QUOTES   "Most couples have recurring arguments that never truly resolve" - Lindsay Few  "Being vulnerable builds intimacy and trust." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  "Using 'I' statements takes ownership and responsibility." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  "Learning to resolve conflict in a healthy way is a gift to your marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is a printable resource to help you address conflict the healthy way. Grab the free cheat sheet HERE! Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more! Has infidelity damaged your marriage? Sign up for Dr. Kim’s webinar Rebuilding Trust and Establishing Healthy Boundaries After an Affair and learn what steps to take next. 15 Better Assumptions To Make About Your Spouse is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here! Follow Awesome Marriage on Instagram for more marriage tips!

    43 min

  8. OCT 8

    How to Choose Your Battles Well | Ep. 645

    How well do you choose your battles? If you struggle with recurring conflict in marriage, you might need to work on choosing your battles. On the other hand, if you’re feeling resentment but you’re not sure how to address it… you might need to work on choosing your battles. Today Dr. Kim is going to help you learn how to choose your battles well. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Knowing when to stand your ground vs. when to let go The underlying message in your recurring marriage issues How to balance love and grace with speaking the truth  The path to build trust for open and honest feedback   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: Some things are not worth arguing over! You can reduce the tension in your marriage by learning to choose your battles better.    Questions to Discuss:  What situations tend to end in recurring arguments in your marriage?  Are any of those battles you can let go of, instead of fighting?   Is there any resentment you need to let go of today?    QUOTES  Instead of being critical, learn to work together. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  Stay faithful to agreements you’ve made. The things you agreed on affect one another. - Lindsay Few  It doesn’t have to be a battle. - Lindsay Few  Getting defensive just never works. - Dr. Kim Kimberling    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more! Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is a printable resource to help you address conflict the healthy way. Grab the free cheat sheet HERE! Has infidelity damaged your marriage? Sign up for Dr. Kim’s webinar Rebuilding Trust and Establishing Healthy Boundaries After an Affair and learn what steps to take next. 15 Better Assumptions To Make About Your Spouse is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here!  What situations tend to end in recurring arguments in your marriage?  Are any of those battles you can let go of, instead of fighting?   Is there any resentment you need to let go of today?    QUOTES  Instead of being critical, learn to work together. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  Stay faithful to agreements you’ve made. The things you agreed on affect one another. - Lindsay Few  It doesn’t have to be a battle. - Lindsay Few  Getting defensive just never works. - Dr. Kim Kimberling    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more! Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is a printable resource to help you address conflict the healthy way. Grab the free cheat sheet HERE! Has infidelity damaged your marriage? Sign up for Dr. Kim’s webinar Rebuilding Trust and Establishing Healthy Boundaries After an Affair and learn what steps to take next. 15 Better Assumptions To Make About Your Spouse is a free printable to help you set your mind on what is true, right and good. Learn more here!

    46 min
See All (782)

Trailers

4.9
out of 5
784 Ratings

About

Far too many couples are just surviving their marriage when it was meant to thrive. This is the place for practical tips on how to build an awesome marriage. Our passion is to help you strengthen your marriage. Dr. Kim Kimberling hosts the show. Dr. Kim is the President of Awesome Marriage, has been married for 53 years, and has been a professional counselor for 40 years. He is the author of 7 Secrets to An Awesome Marriage and 14 Keys To Lasting Love. Dr. Kim is joined by co-host Lindsay Few, Content Director for Awesome Marriage. She has been married for 20 years. Her husband is a church planter, and they love ministering to married couples together. Tune in each week to hear practical ways on how to have an awesome marriage! This podcast is brought to you by the ministry of Awesome Marriage.

Information

  • Creator
    Dr. Kim Kimberling
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2024
  • Episodes
    782
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dr. Kim Kimberling
  • Show Website
    Awesome Marriage Podcast

You Might Also Like

To listen to explicit episodes, sign in.

Stay up to date with this show

Sign in or sign up to follow shows, save episodes, and get the latest updates.
Select a country or region

Africa, Middle East, and India

Asia Pacific

Europe

Latin America and the Caribbean

The United States and Canada