Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine
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Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box. 

  1. Graceful Rejection: The Art of Saying No Without Burning Bridges

    12 DE DEZ.

    Graceful Rejection: The Art of Saying No Without Burning Bridges

    Send us a textHow do you turn someone down romantically without creating awkwardness or burning bridges? In this episode, my partner, Danny, and I tackle one of the trickiest aspects of non-monogamous relationships: rejection. Inspired by a question from one of our Patreon supporters, we explore how to say "no" in a way that’s respectful, kind, and true to your own boundaries.Key Topics We Cover:Why Over-Explaining Hurts More Than It Helps: Learn how to set boundaries without feeling the need...

    29min
  2. Beyond Swiping Finding Authentic Connections in Seattle

    28 DE NOV.

    Beyond Swiping Finding Authentic Connections in Seattle

    Send us a textAre You Ready to Rethink How You Date?Tired of endlessly swiping on dating apps and feeling like you're spinning your wheels? In this episode, I sit down with Rozie Erlewine, a compassionate matchmaker and polyamorous community organizer who’s been helping people connect in the Seattle polyamory scene since 2017. Rozie, the founder of Seattle Inclusive Matchmaking and host of polyamorous speed dating events, brings fresh ideas to creating real, intentional connections outside th...

    30min
  3. Catapults and Consent: When Kink and Polyamory Overlap with Still

    14 DE NOV.

    Catapults and Consent: When Kink and Polyamory Overlap with Still

    Send us a text Are you ready to get an in-depth look into navigating kink and non-monogamy together? This episode is your ultimate guide to understanding the fascinating intersection of kink, polyamory, and non-monogamous relationships. I’m sitting down with Still, a veteran kink community organizer and co-host of Tasty!—South Seattle's monitored monthly kink night at The Lumber Yard Bar. Together, we unpack what it really takes to create safe, trusting, and authentic experiences in thes...

    1h3min
  4. Boundaries, Bedrooms, and Beyond, Navigating Non Monogamous Dating with Shannon Whaley

    31 DE OUT.

    Boundaries, Bedrooms, and Beyond, Navigating Non Monogamous Dating with Shannon Whaley

    Send us a textCurious about what it really takes to date in the non-monogamous world? In this episode, I’m joined by Shannon Whaley, an anti-hustle business coach and newly-out polyamorous explorer, as we dive into the challenges and breakthroughs of non-monogamous dating. Together, we break down the nuances of setting clear boundaries, asking the tough but essential questions, and finding self-worth after surviving toxic relationships.Shannon opens up about her journey and how embracing both...

    53min
  5. Beyond Vanilla The Intersection of Polyamory and Kink with Maeve McBride

    17 DE OUT.

    Beyond Vanilla The Intersection of Polyamory and Kink with Maeve McBride

    Send us a textEver wondered what happens when kink and non-monogamy collide with trauma healing? In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Maeve McBride, a kink and ENM educator, erotic coach, and the Executive Director of Kinkfest 2025, to talk about how these worlds intersect—and it’s not just about the fun stuff (though there’s plenty of that too).Maeve takes us on a journey, from supporting polyamorous families through childbirth to becoming a powerhouse in the kink community. We di...

    1h3min
  6. Sex Geeks Get Real: Consent Talks Before Getting Busy with Reid Mahalko

    3 DE OUT.

    Sex Geeks Get Real: Consent Talks Before Getting Busy with Reid Mahalko

    Send us a textEver wondered how sex educators navigate their own intimate encounters? In this candid and eye-opening episode, I sit down with renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for an intimate conversation about the intricacies of communication, consent, and safer sex practices.As we chat on a hotel bed (where else?), Reid shares his wealth of experience and practical wisdom on navigating hookups, casual encounters, and the complexities of intimacy in non-monogamous relations...

    51min
  7. Managing Jealousy in Open Relationships with Therapist Ann Russo

    19 DE SET.

    Managing Jealousy in Open Relationships with Therapist Ann Russo

    Send us a textNavigating the complexities of non-monogamous relationships can be challenging, especially when it comes to dealing with jealousy. In this conversation, I sit down with Ann Russo, a licensed clinical social worker and therapist specializing in non-monogamous relationships, to explore the intricacies of love beyond traditional boundaries.Ann shares her unique perspective, having grown up in a non-monogamous household, and offers valuable insights into the world of ethical non-mon...

    48min
  8. Shuffling Relationship Dynamics with a Deck of Cards, Ep. 83

    5 DE SET.

    Shuffling Relationship Dynamics with a Deck of Cards, Ep. 83

    Send us a textImagine a game that sparks deep conversations, fosters understanding, and strengthens your relationships. That's exactly what the brilliant minds behind The Non Monogamy Card Game have created. This innovative tool is designed to help you explore the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships in a fun and approachable way.In this episode, I sit down with Ayala & Kristen, the creators of this game-changing resource. As professional psychotherapist...

    45min
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Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, tantra and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box. 

Informações

  • Criado por
    Ellecia Paine
  • Anos de atividade
    2021 - 2024
  • Episódios
    91
  • Classificação
    Explícito
  • Copyright
    © 2024 Nope! We're Not Monogamous
  • Site do podcast
    Nope! We're Not Monogamous

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