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A podcast from two guys who survived hard times, how they got through it and became successful adults, and how you can, too.Astonished by the cruelty and suffering captured by the documentary film “Bully,” Tyler Copenhaver-Heath immediately knew he had to be a part of the solution. But how? His friend, Clifford Starks, also wanted to join the effort, so they started talking about how to help put a stop to the unwanted, intentional, and repeated attacks bullying victims endure: shoving, rumors, name-calling, exclusion, cyberbullying, and more.For the men, the mission is personal. The successful entrepreneurs, ASU grads, and martial arts training partners (Starks is a professional middleweight fighter), grew up knowing adversity. Copenhaver-Heath barely had enough money to get by. And Starks was among the one in five youth in the United States who experience bullying.Acutely aware of the pain, shame, and damage bullying causes, they want children and families to know that there is always help, that there’s always a solution.“It’s maddening to me that any child had to suffer the way Alex Libby and other students did in the documentary ‘Bully’ by Lee Hirsch. Punched. Shoved. Poked. Called names. Isolated. Deeply alone and with his suffering invisible to a school staff that failed him, he withdrew from friends, family, and his grades slipped. He was giving up. Imagine how much sooner children will reach their full potential when they’re full of confidence and curiosity, instead of dread and worry? Helping just one kid hang on through a tough time would be amazing. And if we help one, more are sure to follow. The magnitude of that is awe-inspiring,” Copenhaver-Heath said.The podcast “Bully This” brings the two men together, along with experts in the field, to talk about their individual life experiences, bringing forward proven insights children and families can put to use right away to make a difference. Former bullies and bullying victims alike will share how they made the journey from troubled youth to successful adults, and what it is they think would have made a difference.Statistics link bullying to increased life struggles, including mental health, substance use, poor eating habits, sleep disruptions, and more. They also show bullied kids are themselves at risk of becoming bullies, and that bullies also need intervention – role modeling and tangible skills they can use to build confidence, empathy and meaningful friendships.Not ones to sit on the sidelines, the Copenhaver-Heath and Starks are stepping out of the training ring and onto the airwaves to fight for those who may feel they can’t fight for themselves.“Bully This” brings real-life techniques and inspiration to help young people and their families feel seen, heard, included, experience kindness and gain positive reinforcement – key strategies in bullying prevention.Through their podcast, Copenhaver-Heath and Starks hope to spread resilience one kid, one family at a time, to be voices that uplift and give strength through times of struggle.Stark’s will tell you “Tough times never last, but tough people do.” It’s a favorite quote of his from Robert Scheuller, and one he lives by.“Being great within is about being your very best self and treating others with the respect they deserve. It is also about knowing as a person that you deserve proper respect as well, and to come from a place of love and empathy,” Starks has said.Listen to “Bully This” wherever you find your favorite podcasts.

Bully This - A Hero's Journey Elliot Uriah

    • Education
    • 5.0 • 16 Ratings

A podcast from two guys who survived hard times, how they got through it and became successful adults, and how you can, too.Astonished by the cruelty and suffering captured by the documentary film “Bully,” Tyler Copenhaver-Heath immediately knew he had to be a part of the solution. But how? His friend, Clifford Starks, also wanted to join the effort, so they started talking about how to help put a stop to the unwanted, intentional, and repeated attacks bullying victims endure: shoving, rumors, name-calling, exclusion, cyberbullying, and more.For the men, the mission is personal. The successful entrepreneurs, ASU grads, and martial arts training partners (Starks is a professional middleweight fighter), grew up knowing adversity. Copenhaver-Heath barely had enough money to get by. And Starks was among the one in five youth in the United States who experience bullying.Acutely aware of the pain, shame, and damage bullying causes, they want children and families to know that there is always help, that there’s always a solution.“It’s maddening to me that any child had to suffer the way Alex Libby and other students did in the documentary ‘Bully’ by Lee Hirsch. Punched. Shoved. Poked. Called names. Isolated. Deeply alone and with his suffering invisible to a school staff that failed him, he withdrew from friends, family, and his grades slipped. He was giving up. Imagine how much sooner children will reach their full potential when they’re full of confidence and curiosity, instead of dread and worry? Helping just one kid hang on through a tough time would be amazing. And if we help one, more are sure to follow. The magnitude of that is awe-inspiring,” Copenhaver-Heath said.The podcast “Bully This” brings the two men together, along with experts in the field, to talk about their individual life experiences, bringing forward proven insights children and families can put to use right away to make a difference. Former bullies and bullying victims alike will share how they made the journey from troubled youth to successful adults, and what it is they think would have made a difference.Statistics link bullying to increased life struggles, including mental health, substance use, poor eating habits, sleep disruptions, and more. They also show bullied kids are themselves at risk of becoming bullies, and that bullies also need intervention – role modeling and tangible skills they can use to build confidence, empathy and meaningful friendships.Not ones to sit on the sidelines, the Copenhaver-Heath and Starks are stepping out of the training ring and onto the airwaves to fight for those who may feel they can’t fight for themselves.“Bully This” brings real-life techniques and inspiration to help young people and their families feel seen, heard, included, experience kindness and gain positive reinforcement – key strategies in bullying prevention.Through their podcast, Copenhaver-Heath and Starks hope to spread resilience one kid, one family at a time, to be voices that uplift and give strength through times of struggle.Stark’s will tell you “Tough times never last, but tough people do.” It’s a favorite quote of his from Robert Scheuller, and one he lives by.“Being great within is about being your very best self and treating others with the respect they deserve. It is also about knowing as a person that you deserve proper respect as well, and to come from a place of love and empathy,” Starks has said.Listen to “Bully This” wherever you find your favorite podcasts.

    Bullied to Advocate: Lisa Arnett's Journey Through Foster Care and the Quest for Reform

    Bullied to Advocate: Lisa Arnett's Journey Through Foster Care and the Quest for Reform

    Lisa Arnett's story is a testament to human endurance and the transformative power of advocacy—a narrative we had the privilege of exploring in our latest episode. Her journey through the foster care system, her fight against homelessness, and her triumph over abuse is an inspiring call to action for foster care reform. As we unpack the complexities of a system fraught with challenges, from the 'foster care to prison pipeline' to the heart-wrenching realities of aging out without support, Lis...

    • 1 hr 8 min
    A Symphony of Strength Lenny J's Battle with Bullying

    A Symphony of Strength Lenny J's Battle with Bullying

    When the melodies we cherish become the very thing for which we're ridiculed, the journey of a musician can be a battlefield of the soul. Shawn Mendes' story of triumph over those who once mocked him serves as the backdrop to our heart-to-heart with the remarkable Lenny J, who sheds light on his own musical voyage, the strength found in unity within the music realm, and the dark shadow cast by online trolls. Drawing from his work with luminaries like Nick Jonas and Mendes himself, Lenny J imp...

    • 58 min
    Bullied to Champion: The Knockout Impact of Mentorship and Resilience

    Bullied to Champion: The Knockout Impact of Mentorship and Resilience

    When Taylor Swift turned the scars of bullying into the stardust of stardom, it wasn't just a fairytale—it was a roadmap for triumph. This season, we're kicking off with a bang, celebrating our ascent into the podcasting elite and our recent accolade for Best Co-hosts, all while preparing to unravel the success stories that emerged from adversity's tight grip. We're joined by Ryan Diaz, an MMA dynamo, who throws a one-two punch into the heart of bullying, sharing how the very thing that once ...

    • 1 hr 12 min
    Episode 8: Bullied to Hero

    Episode 8: Bullied to Hero

    How To Overcome Bullying | Bully This A Hero's Journey Episode 8: Bullied To Hero. Subscribe to our channel for more bullying to motivational success podcast episodes like this. In this eighth, we interview Rachel Weinstock. Did you ever wish for a hero that never came? Rachel did. But when her hero didn't show she decided she would grow up and be that hero for others.Miss Rainbow Fairy has a superpower and it's the power to break kids out of their shells with love. Join us a...

    • 1 hr 7 min
    Episode 7: Bullied To Writer

    Episode 7: Bullied To Writer

    How To Overcome Bullying | Bully This A Hero's Journey Episode 7: Bullied To Writer. Subscribe to our channel for more bullying to success podcast episodes like this. In this our seventh episode, we interview Gail Cornwall. What if you did something in your youth that changed your path forever? In a moment of gaining power, the bullied became the bully, however this experience would have long-lasting effects. Gail is uniquely positioned to understand the complexiti...

    • 1 hr 28 min
    Episode 6: Bullied To Comedian

    Episode 6: Bullied To Comedian

    How To Overcome Bullying | Bully This A Hero's Journey Episode 6: Bullied To Comedian. Subscribe to our channel for more bullying to success podcast episodes like this. In this our sixth episode, we interview Yasmin Elhady. Yasmin is the first guest we would bet on over Cliff in the ring. A fiery personality, she is a vehement defender of the bullied people of the world. What the USA channel taught her about living in America also taught her how to deal with bullies. Join us ...

    • 1 hr 24 min

Customer Reviews

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16 Ratings

16 Ratings

Elliot.Hutch ,

Life Changing, A Must Listen for Any Parent!

The second episode is full of Gold for any parents, even if your child isn't currently experiencing bullying.

This podcast has already been life-altering for me.

As a parent, despite what our children may think, we're often winging it when it comes to parenting. While we may have some basic instincts, most of our parenting knowledge comes from the way we were parented. Which in many cases is a weakness in our society, because bad parenting habits are passed down from generation to generation.

Tools like this podcast are extremely helpful for any parent to be aware of and armed with.

When I went to pick up my son from pre-school the other day, the first thing he told me as I was placing him in his car seat, was that another "friend" of his had punched him at school.

Normally I wouldn't know how to respond to his statement other than to say "next time that happens, you need to tell a teacher." However, because of the knowledge I've gained in just the first two episodes of this podcast, I was able to handle things differently.

Thanks to Clifford Starks insights, I was able to tell my son, "the next time that happens, you need to tell the kid you hit you that he hurt you, and ask him why he's hurting you." This will help the other child understand the impact of his actions and perhaps, stop a bad habit at a young age.

While I'm not positive how impactful this experience will be on a 4-year-old, the earlier I can get my son to use these tools, the more equipped he'll be to handle situations as he grows older.

I highly encourage any parents to listen and subscribe to the podcast. Please check it out!

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