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Weekly conversations about how we dismantle diet culture and fatphobia, especially through parenting, health and fashion. (But non-parents like it too!) Hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith, journalist and author of THE EATING INSTINCT.

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    • 4.8 • 328 Ratings

Weekly conversations about how we dismantle diet culture and fatphobia, especially through parenting, health and fashion. (But non-parents like it too!) Hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith, journalist and author of THE EATING INSTINCT.

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    Fat People Don't Need Fat Hammers

    Fat People Don't Need Fat Hammers

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com

    It's time for your December Indulgence Gospel! Corinne is here. We’re getting into fat boots, fat travel challenges, and ofc, diet culture during the holiday season. We got you! 
    If you are already a paid subscriber, you’ll have this entire episode in your podcast feed and access to the entire transcript in your inbox and on the Burnt Toast Substack.
    If you are not a paid subscriber, you'll only get the first chunk. To hear the whole conversation or read the whole transcript, you'll need to become a paid Burnt Toast subscriber. Subscriptions are 20 percent off until Saturday December 23! Subscribe here.
    Also, don't forget to order Fat Talk: Parenting In the Age of Diet Culture! Get your signed copy now from Split Rock Books (they ship anywhere in the USA). You can also order it from your independent bookstore, or from Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Target, Kobo or anywhere you like to buy books. (Or get the UK edition or the audiobook!) 
    Disclaimer: Virginia and Corinne are humans with a lot of informed opinions. They are not nutritionists, therapists, doctors, or any kind of healthcare providers. The conversation you're about to hear and all of the advice and opinions they give are just for entertainment, information, and education purposes only. None of this is a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.
    BUTTER & OTHER LINKS
    Some of these are affiliate links. Shopping our links is another great way to support Burnt Toast! 
    Virginia's office painting is by Nancy Rutter
    Vince Camuto sweater from Nordstrom
    joggers from Beyond Yoga
    Beyond Yoga leggings
    ankles don’t get fat at the same rate as butts
    BT gift guide
    Alder Apparel overalls
    Madewell, Old Navy overall options
    Target overalls
    a fake tree
    underwear scientist
    Thunderpants.
    belly liners
    dress shields
    the one that has the purple on the tube
    ARQ
    Nisolo
    Torrid wide fit shoes and ASOS also has some wide fit shoes
    Lane Bryant, too
    Adelante Shoe Company
    as someone who recently had a high cholesterol reading
    fat girls traveling
    fat hacks series on Tiktok
    theater seating
    Sofie Hagen has a good video
    EeBoo puzzles
    Piecework Puzzles
    Breadhead
    Cavallini & Co’s vintage puzzle series
    Slow Horses
    our recent Friday thread about laundry
    the laundry hampers
    CREDITS
    The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith. Follow Virginia on Instagram or Twitter.Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting anti-diet body liberation journalism.

    • 2 min
    It's Time to Free the Jiggle

    It's Time to Free the Jiggle

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    Today Virginia is chatting with Jessie Diaz-Herrera. Jessie is a body affirming dancer, health and wellness influencer, and fitness enthusiast. You might know her on Instagram as @curveswithmoves, or from her Free the Jiggle classes.
    The first half of this episode is for everyone, and then paid subscribers will get to hear Jessie answering your listener questions about size-inclusive fitness. Here’s how to join us to hear the whole (amazing!) conversation! 
    If you want more conversations like this one, please rate and review us in your podcast player! And become a paid Burnt Toast subscriber to get all of Virginia's reporting and bonus subscriber-only episodes. 
    And don’t forget to check out our new Burnt Toast Podcast Bonus Content! 
    Disclaimer: Virginia is a journalist and human with a lot of informed opinions. Virginia is not a nutritionist, therapist, doctor, or any kind of health care provider. The conversation you're about to hear and all of the advice and opinions she and her guests give are just for entertainment, information, and education purposes only. None of this is a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.
    BUTTER & OTHER LINKS
    Jessie's plus-sized fitness company Power Plus Wellness
    Jessie as a Trampoline Mom
    You might have to make a tough call when dance or sports aren't body affirming
    Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, My Stroke of Insight
    Campaign for Size Freedom
    Maintenance Phase episode about wellness programming in workplaces
    the Britney memoir
    Michelle Williams narration. (Note: That’s an affiliate link to Libro.fm, the audiobook platform that supports indie bookstores!)
    Lauren Leavell’s workouts
    Corinne on powerlifting
    FAT TALK is out! Order your signed copy from Virginia's favorite independent bookstore, Split Rock Books (they ship anywhere in the US!). Or order it from your independent bookstore, or from Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Target, or Kobo or anywhere else you like to buy books. You can also order the audio book from Libro.fm or Audible.
    CREDITS
    The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith. Follow Virginia on Instagram.Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting anti-diet, body liberation journalism. 

    • 29 min
    "We Needed To See a YA Heroine with PCOS."

    "We Needed To See a YA Heroine with PCOS."

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com

    Today Virginia is chatting with Crystal Maldonado, a YA author who writes inclusive rom-com novels about fat brown girls.
    If you want more conversations like this one, please rate and review us in your podcast player! And become a paid Burnt Toast subscriber to get all of Virginia's reporting and bonus subscriber-only episodes. 
    Don’t forget, you can always take 10 percent off that purchase if you also order (or have already ordered!) Fat Talk! (Just use the code FATTALK at checkout.)
    Or you can take 10 percent off if you order all three of Crystal’s books, or any three books from the Burnt Toast Gift Guide with the code TREAT.
    And don’t forget to check out our new Burnt Toast Podcast Bonus Content! 
    Disclaimer: Virginia is a journalist and human with a lot of informed opinions. Virginia is not a nutritionist, therapist, doctor, or any kind of health care provider. The conversation you're about to hear and all of the advice and opinions she and her guests give are just for entertainment, information, and education purposes only. None of this is a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.
    BUTTER & OTHER LINKS
    last time Crystal was on the pod! 
    Fat Chance, Charlie Vega
    No Filter and Other Lies
    The Fall of Whit Rivera
    The problems with “just lose weight and it’ll fix itself" as a treatment for PCOS
    With all of these menstrual conditions, there is just so much stigma
    the Britney memoir
    Michelle Williams narration. (Note: That’s an affiliate link to Libro.fm, the audiobook platform that supports indie bookstores!)
    the audio version of Michelle Williams impression of Justin Timberlake saying fo shiz, fo shiz?
    The MTV Diary of Britney Spears
    Virginia wrote about Britney's hair for the newsletter.
    Butter is paywalled this week! To get all of our tween/teen and YA fan gift recs, subscribe to the Burnt Toast newsletter! 
    FAT TALK is out! Order your signed copy from Virginia's favorite independent bookstore, Split Rock Books (they ship anywhere in the US!). Or order it from your independent bookstore, or from Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Target, or Kobo or anywhere else you like to buy books. You can also order the audio book from Libro.fm or Audible.
    CREDITS
    The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith. Follow Virginia on Instagram.Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting anti-diet, body liberation journalism. 

    • 37 min
    The Bonkers TikTok Diet Nobody Needs

    The Bonkers TikTok Diet Nobody Needs

    This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com/subscribe

    Welcome to Indulgence Gospel After Dark! It's time for your November Extra Butter! We are dissecting 75 Hard (it's not a diet, it's about mental toughness). And Virginia has thoughts on her post-divorce body. 
    If you are already an Extra Butter subscriber, you’ll have this entire episode in your podcast feed and access to the entire transcript in your inbox and on the Burnt Toast Substack.
    Otherwise, to hear the whole conversation or read the whole transcript, you'll need to join Extra Butter. It's $120 per year, and is the hands down best way to keep Burnt Toast an ad- and sponsor-free space. 
    PS. Don't forget to order Fat Talk: Parenting In the Age of Diet Culture! Get your signed copy now from Split Rock Books (they ship anywhere in the USA). You can also order it from your independent bookstore, or from Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Target, Kobo or anywhere you like to buy books. (Or get the UK edition or the audiobook!) 
    Disclaimer: Virginia and Corinne are humans with a lot of informed opinions. They are not nutritionists, therapists, doctors, or any kind of healthcare providers. The conversation you're about to hear and all of the advice and opinions they give are just for entertainment, information, and education purposes only. None of this is a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.
    BUTTER & OTHER LINKS
    SellTradePlus
    Last month's Extra Butter: The anti-diet to alt-right pipeline.
    Chrissy King on the podcast
    That Instagram post
    the scene in the Barbie movie when all the Kens played Push
    Tamara Malas Normandie Top
    Anthropologie Lace Layering Turtleneck
    Virginia's new little French press
    one good pair of cords at Target 
    CREDITS
    The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith. Follow Virginia on Instagram. Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting anti-diet body liberation journalism! 

    • 1 min
    "It Felt Like I Could Never Be Healthy Enough."

    "It Felt Like I Could Never Be Healthy Enough."

    Today Virginia is chatting about body autonomy, diet culture, and chronic health conditions, with Leigh Kamping-Carder, who writes The Heart Dialogues.
    If you want more conversations like this one, please rate and review us in your podcast player! And become a paid Burnt Toast subscriber to get all of Virginia's reporting and bonus subscriber-only episodes. 

    And don’t forget to check out our new Burnt Toast Podcast Bonus Content! 
    Disclaimer: Virginia is a journalist and human with a lot of informed opinions. Virginia is not a nutritionist, therapist, doctor, or any kind of health care provider. The conversation you're about to hear and all of the advice and opinions she and her guests give are just for entertainment, information, and education purposes only. None of this is a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.
    BUTTER & OTHER LINKS
    Virginia's story as a mom to a 10-year-old with a heart condition
    Not everybody wants to be known as a “heart warrior.”
    How to advocate for yourself at doctors’ offices
    It is only shockingly recently that pain management has become as big of a focus as it is in pediatric care.
    the weird history where doctors thought babies didn’t really experience pain
    For a deep dive into how intense medical experiences impact children and what recovery can look like, Virginia loves this book.
    There are definitely small things parents can do to improve that dynamic.
    Leigh interviewed a model about her scar.
    an essay Virginia wrote about having to let go of medical mom guilt.
    Heavyweight by Jonathan Goldstein
    FAT TALK is out! Order your signed copy from Virginia's favorite independent bookstore, Split Rock Books (they ship anywhere in the US!). Or order it from your independent bookstore, or from Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Target, or Kobo or anywhere else you like to buy books. You can also order the audio book from Libro.fm or Audible.
    CREDITS
    The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith. Follow Virginia on Instagram.Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting anti-diet, body liberation journalism. 


    This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com/subscribe

    • 41 min
    Not Every Piece of Nutrition Advice is B******t

    Not Every Piece of Nutrition Advice is B******t

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com

    It's time for your November Indulgence Gospel! Corinne is here. We’re getting into fat fashion, fat hair, and Fat Friends. Plus a divorce update from Virginia. 
    If you are already a paid subscriber, you’ll have this entire episode in your podcast feed and access to the entire transcript in your inbox and on the Burnt Toast Substack.
    If you are not a paid subscriber, you'll only get the first chunk. To hear the whole conversation or read the whole transcript, you'll need to become a paid Burnt Toast subscriber. 
    Also, don't forget to order Fat Talk: Parenting In the Age of Diet Culture! Get your signed copy now from Split Rock Books (they ship anywhere in the USA). You can also order it from your independent bookstore, or from Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Target, Kobo or anywhere you like to buy books. (Or get the UK edition or the audiobook!) 
    Disclaimer: Virginia and Corinne are humans with a lot of informed opinions. They are not nutritionists, therapists, doctors, or any kind of healthcare providers. The conversation you're about to hear and all of the advice and opinions they give are just for entertainment, information, and education purposes only. None of this is a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.
    BUTTER & OTHER LINKS
    SellTradePlus
    Gap jeans
    Madewell skinny jeans
    one good pair of cords at Target 
    Puracy stain remover
    grow light by Soltech
    Corinne's mini infinity hoops
    CREDITS
    The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith. Follow Virginia on Instagram or Twitter.Burnt Toast transcripts and essays are edited and formatted by Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, an Instagram account where you can buy and sell plus size clothing.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Jeff Bailey and Chris Maxwell.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting anti-diet body liberation journalism.

    • 14 min

Customer Reviews

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328 Ratings

328 Ratings

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I am so glad I have found this podcast through another eye opening podcast. I have never embraced who I really am and have felt ashamed till recently. Thank you for what you all do.

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Opt out of diet culture anxiety

Thanks to this podcast I’ve been able to stop the endless search for a whole grain bread that my child will eat, let him have white bread, see that this did not affect his health, and move on with my life. Thank you!!

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Essential for all bodies

Not just for parents, not just for marginalized bodies. Great info presented in a fun and interesting way.

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