Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

George Lizos
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Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. FEB 14

    Ep.63: Queerness, Sacred Orgies, and Being a Radical Faerie with Omri

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, Omri takes us inside the world of the Radical Faeries, a queer spiritual movement that blends sexuality, mysticism, and countercultural rebellion. We explore their history, rituals, and the role of erotic energy in Faerie gatherings. What really happens in these spaces of radical love and uninhibited self-expression? How do Faeries challenge mainstream LGBTQ+ norms and create utopian queer sanctuaries? Join us as we dive into the sensual, sacred, and subversive world of the Radical Faeries. ABOUT OMRI Omri is a certified massage therapist with over seven years of experience in the healing arts, blending deep tissue, trigger point therapy, energy work, and relaxing strokes to create a transformative experience. Trained at Hawaii Massage School in Swedish, Deep Tissue, Thai Massage, and Lomi Lomi, Omri combines physical, energetic, and emotional healing techniques, drawing on his expertise as a yoga instructor, reiki master, and EFT practitioner. Omri's website: https://www.omrinavot.com/ MMX NYC: https://www.mmxnyc.com/ MMX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mmx_nyc/ Omri's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oms_o_o/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    35 min

  2. JAN 31

    Ep.62: Cock Worship, Naked Yoga, and Sensual Touch with Omri

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, George Lizos and guest Omri explore the transformative power of sacred sensuality and intimacy. From the benefits of naked yoga in fostering connection and vulnerability to practical ways of experiencing sensual pleasure without sex, they uncover tools for deepening relationships and self-awareness. Learn how to transition from performative sex to authentic intimacy, express love through your unique love language, and embrace Cock Worship as a sacred practice. Omri also shares the importance of understanding your desires and communicating them openly with partners for more fulfilling connections. ABOUT OMRI Omri is a certified massage therapist with over seven years of experience in the healing arts, blending deep tissue, trigger point therapy, energy work, and relaxing strokes to create a transformative experience. Trained at Hawaii Massage School in Swedish, Deep Tissue, Thai Massage, and Lomi Lomi, Omri combines physical, energetic, and emotional healing techniques, drawing on his expertise as a yoga instructor, reiki master, and EFT practitioner. MMX NYC: https://www.mmxnyc.com/ MMX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mmx_nyc/ Omri's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oms_o_o/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    39 min

  3. JAN 21 · BONUS

    Gays, I need your help...

    If you're up for helping me with my new book on gay/queer sex and relationships, send me a DM on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgelizos/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    2 min

  4. JAN 17

    Ep.61: Throuples, Thirst Traps, and Cuddle Puddles with Manuel Betancourt

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this episode of Can't Host, we dive deep into the labyrinth of modern queer intimacy with Manuel Betancourt, author of Hello Stranger. From fleeting connections in steamy bathhouses to poetic sexts and longing glances, we explore how ephemeral encounters teach us about ourselves in ways long-term relationships cannot. Manuel shares his insights on the evolution of liminal queer spaces in the age of apps, the intoxicating possibilities of strangers, and the surprising discoveries of embracing our inner “stranger.” Whether you’re navigating throuples, redefining monogamy, or just curious about the magic of cuddle puddles, this conversation will leave you questioning what intimacy truly means in a digital world. ABOUT MANUEL BETANCOURT MANUEL BETANCOURT is a queer Colombian culture writer and film critic. His work has been featured in The New York Times, BuzzFeed Reader, Los Angeles Times, Film Quarterly, Los Angeles Review of Books and GQ Style, among others. Manuel is the author of The Male Gazed (Catapult, 2023), Judy Garland's Judy at Carnegie Hall (Bloomsbury Press, 2020), and a contributing writer to the Eisner Award-nominated graphic novel series, The Cardboard Kingdom (Knopf Books for Young Readers, 2018 & 2021). Hello Stranger book: https://a.co/d/6DR2Fh6 Manuel's website: https://mbetancourtcom.wordpress.com/ Manuel's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bmanuel/ Manuel's first episode on the podcast (Toxic Masculinity Pop Culture Stereotypes): https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/cant-host-gay-bisexual-and-queer-mens-sex-and-relationships/id1653398819?i=1000632854071 CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    57 min

  5. 12/21/2024

    Ep.60: Most Underrated Gay Traveling Destinations with the Nomadic Boys

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this exciting episode, we sit down with the Nomadic Boys, the dynamic duo behind the ultimate guide to LGBTQ+ travel. They share how their journey as travel bloggers began and how their relationship has flourished on the road. We explore their favorite destinations, including cities and countries that hold a special place in their hearts, and discuss what makes LGBTQ+ travel so unique. Discover their insights into the gay community, what they've learned about themselves through their adventures, and the destinations that surprised them the most. From the sexiest spots to the most underrated and overrated places, they don’t hold back! Plus, they spill the tea on where they had the best intimate moments during their travels. ABOUT THE NOMADIC BOYS Nomadic Boys has grown to become one of the premier online gay travel resources and has been featured in prominent LGBTQ media around the world including Gay Times, Attitude, Gaycities as well as other non-gay-specific publications like Lonely Planet, The New York Times, The Guardian, and The Huffington Post. Out In The World book: https://a.co/d/ecfIlto Website: https://nomadicboys.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nomadicboys/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 5m

  6. 12/06/2024

    Ep.59: Fuck Boys, Red Flags, and Dating Games with Ryan Sheldon

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this refreshingly honest episode, body positivity advocate and dating coach Ryan Sheldon joins us to dive into the chaos of modern dating. We break down what it means to be a f**k boy, how to shift from casual flings to meaningful relationships, and ways to create your own relationship rules outside heteronormative norms. We also tackle body image struggles, recognizing red flags, and setting deal breakers to avoid toxic patterns. Plus, Ryan shares a toolkit for healthier dating habits, creative date ideas, and tips to keep your relationship thriving once you’ve found the one. ABOUT RYAN SHELDON Ryan Sheldon is a renowned speaker, brawn model, and a fervent advocate for eating disorder awareness and self-love. He has appeared in prominent media outlets such as the Today Show, BBC, Huffington Post, and Teen Vogue, and passionately addresses body image, self-acceptance, and self-esteem in high schools. He also co-hosted a weekly radio segment on Love Line with Dr. Chris Donaghue, focusing on body image issues, and inspires young adults by discussing masculinity, identity, and body confidence. Website: http://theyryansheldon.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realryansheldon/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    49 min

  7. 11/22/2024

    Ep.58: Zodiac Signs in Bed: Kinks, Fetishes, Dick Size with Danny Santos

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this steamy episode, astrologer Danny Santos joins us to explore the cosmic connection between astrology and sexuality. We unpack the surprising link between trauma and sexual preferences, reveal which Sun signs are most likely to cheat, and discuss the planetary influences that shape your sexual nature. From kinks and fetishes to how Pluto’s transit through Aquarius is transforming relationships, we leave no celestial stone unturned—including which signs might have the “biggest Ds.” Tune in for an astrological deep dive into what really happens in the bedroom! ABOUT DANNY SANTOS Santos is the host of the Astro Daddy Podcast where he discusses astrology, shamanism, plant medicine, and other spiritual topics with guests. Santos is also involved with the leather community and is an advocate for Pineapple Support - a non-profit organization that offers mental health support to performers in the adult entertainment industry. Website: http://santoscrystalvisions.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/santoscrystalvisions/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 6m

  8. 11/08/2024

    Ep. 57: Manual Foreskin Restoration Techniques with Tim Hammond

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, we’re joined by Tim Hammond, a renowned expert in foreskin restoration. We explore the motivations behind choosing to regrow your foreskin, discussing both the physical and emotional benefits. Tim breaks down the pros and cons of manual versus surgical restoration methods, offering insights into what each approach entails and which might be the right fit for you. Curious about the time commitment? We’ll cover how long it typically takes to see results and dive into the most effective devices and tools available for manual restoration. Whether you're considering restoration for yourself or simply interested in learning more, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to reclaiming your body naturally. ABOUT TIM HAMMOND Tim was the co-founder in 1989 of the National Organization of Restoring Men (NORM). He later founded the National Organization to Halt the Abuse and Routine Mutilation of Males (NOHARMM), In 1995 he produced Whose Body, Whose Rights?, the world's first full length documentary to question circumcision and which is now in the American Archive of Public Broadcasting. From 1999 to 2023 Tim has published three large scale surveys of circumcision sufferers and foreskin restorers. Tim is currently Executive Director of the Genital Autonomy Legal Defense and Education Fund (GALDEF), a non-profit organization that seeks to use the U.S . legal system to achieve equal protection of the bodily integrity and genital autonomy of all children, regardless of sex or gender. Foreskin Restoration info: https://foreskinrestoration.info/ National Organization of Restoring Men (NORM): https://norm.org/ Circumcision harm surveys: https://circumcisionharm.org/ Genital Autonomy Legal Defense & Education Fund (GALDEF): https://www.galdef.org/ CONNECT WITH ME   Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   MY BOOKS   Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    44 min
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Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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