34 episodes

Welcome! We are Kalimba Bennett Tuck and Karen Valby, best friends for over a quarter century trying to survive this f****d-up world with our joy intact. We are mothers, writers, whiners, and strivers holding space for a weekly sleepover-style, deep, absurd and big-humored conversation with each other, and anyone else who can bear us. So if your own mother isn't available or can't offer unconditional ears...COME TO MAMA. If your friends have lost patience with your mess....COME TO MAMA. If you need reassurance that we too are struggling with some of the same crazy thoughts in your head... COME TO MAMA.

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Come To Mama Kalimba Bennett Tuck & Karen Valby

    • Comedy
    • 5.0 • 29 Ratings

Welcome! We are Kalimba Bennett Tuck and Karen Valby, best friends for over a quarter century trying to survive this f****d-up world with our joy intact. We are mothers, writers, whiners, and strivers holding space for a weekly sleepover-style, deep, absurd and big-humored conversation with each other, and anyone else who can bear us. So if your own mother isn't available or can't offer unconditional ears...COME TO MAMA. If your friends have lost patience with your mess....COME TO MAMA. If you need reassurance that we too are struggling with some of the same crazy thoughts in your head... COME TO MAMA.

Want the mama’s thoughts on your drama?
Email us: cometomamapod@gmail.com

Instagram: @cometomamapod
Twitter: @cometomamapod

    EPISODE 33: BE THE PANINI

    EPISODE 33: BE THE PANINI

    The Mamas are riding high this episode, with Karen celebrating a dear friend’s cancer-free scans. Just in case all this joy gets you sweaty, like Karen in her faucets-on 20s, Kalimba has a deodorant rec for you. In Listener questions, a bride wonders how much she owes her fiancé’s family when it comes to their demands and a friend wonders how to deal with a loose-lipped betrayal. The Mamas role play the art of awkward confrontation.

    • 1 hr 9 min
    EPISODE 32: BITCHES AND DITCHES

    EPISODE 32: BITCHES AND DITCHES

    It’s the last episode of the year so gather ‘round Listener for some conversational nog. As the Mamas turn the page on 2022, they share what they’re sick of,  what they’re releasing, what they want to heal, and what they’re ready to embrace. Onwards, upwards, sideways into the great unknown.

    • 43 min
    EPISODE 31: INCURABLE JOY

    EPISODE 31: INCURABLE JOY

    This week The Mamas welcome Joy Campbell - podcaster, writer, life coach, and mama living an accelerated life with an incurable diagnosis - to discuss the silver linings of Cancer 2.0, how to manage your most constant companion (your mind), how to love on those on a medical journey the right way, and how to get Oprah, Augusten Burrows and Misty Tripoli on your support dream team.

    • 1 hr 5 min
    EPISODE 30 WANTED: BABYSITTERS

    EPISODE 30 WANTED: BABYSITTERS

    This week, the Mamas turn their attention on their squalling, needy, tender, petty babies. Not their actual sons and daughters, mind you, but their dum dums within. Are our inner wounded babies a good hang? Not if you live with them! But maybe Listener could benefit from making a playdate for her baby with ours. No spanking. No time-outs. Lots of snacks. 

    • 1 hr 5 min
    EPISODE 29: LIFE AS WE KNOW IT

    EPISODE 29: LIFE AS WE KNOW IT

    Is there such a thing as dancing out your Daddy issues? Kalimba reports back from a movement therapy studio with a  tender review. Maybe there's room in that dance studio for Karen's family of four plus five animals, because after 15 years in a rent-stabilized house your Mama needs a new roof over her head. What is more destabilizing than a move? Death! The Mamas and Katherine Heigl are here to lecture and shame and bribe you with Halloween candy to put your estates in order if they aren't already. 

     

    • 57 min
    EPISODE 28: BEWARE OF "NICE GUYS"

    EPISODE 28: BEWARE OF "NICE GUYS"

    Listener, we’re back! Unfortunately we still have families, gross. Take a break from yours with a chat about birthday parties, boundaries, and a wellness culture that demands we claim our caption-ready worth even when we don’t feel it. In questions, a woman needs help dealing with her dead parents and a man doesn’t understand why he can’t get laid.

    • 1 hr

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
29 Ratings

29 Ratings

Supersonicstarshine ,

Mammas at their best!

This is hands down my favorite podcast. I listen to them over again and can’t wait for the next one to come out. As a mother I feel seen and as a human being I feel nurtured and nourished listening to Kalimba and Karen’s witty riparte. They have me in tears laughing one moment and then the next I am shot through the heart with their rawness and vulnerability. Never stop Mommas!

ananda1522 ,

Fun, Silly, Real, True…

Stumbled on this and have been delighted by Karen and Kalimba’s refreshing, hilarious, delightful perspective on motherhood and just generally being a person in a complicated, weird world! Enjoy!

Chillaxitive ,

Love so much!

I love these joyful, insightful and hilarious conversations between Kalimba & Karen. Every episode surprises me and makes me laugh. Karen is so very, very funny. Kalimba is so deliciously intelligent with such a refreshing perspective to everything. Please more!

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