Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons

Jason and Lauren Vallotton
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Dates, Mates and Babies with the Vallottons

We’re the Vallottons, and we’re passionate about people! Every human was created for fulfilling connections in relationship and family, but it’s not always what comes easiest! We know this because of our wide range of personal experiences as well as years of working with people. So we’re going to crack open topics like dating, marriage, family and parenting to encourage, entertain and equip you for a deeply fulfilling life of relational health.

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    108. A New Era of Breakthrough: Lauren's Message at the 2025 Bethel Church Prophetic Conference

    Episode 108 is a special treat! In this episode, the Vallottons share a powerful message that Lauren preached on February 20, 2025, at the Bethel Church Prophetic Conference. Rooted in her personal journey of motherhood and the shifting landscape of 2025, Lauren believes this moment marks the dawn of a new era—one defined by breakthrough for followers of Christ. Drawing from the story of the Israelites’ journey to the Promised Land, Lauren unpacks how God invites us to trust, take risks, beli...

    1h 10m

  2. FEB 17

    107. The Power of Friendship: Strengthening Marriages and Families Through Intentional Connections

    In this episode of Dates, Mates, and Babies with the Vallottons, Jason and Lauren Vallotton explore how friendships impact marriage, parenting, and relational health. While friendships often take a backseat to family life, they are crucial in shaping emotional well-being and offering support. As life gets busier with marriage and parenting, friendships are often neglected. However, research shows that maintaining strong friendships improves marital satisfaction and reduces parenting stress. J...

    37 min

  3. FEB 12

    106. Blending Well: Stories and Strategies for Blended Family Success

    Blending a family is both rewarding and challenging, requiring intentionality, patience, and a strong foundation. In this episode of Dates, Mates, and Babies with the Vallottons, Lauren and Jason dive into the key strategies for creating a thriving blended family. They discuss the importance of building trust with stepchildren, emphasizing that the biological parent should take the lead in discipline while the stepparent focuses on connection. They explore how to find your lane—leaning into n...

    29 min

  4. FEB 5

    105. The Questions We’re Too Scared to Ask, Part 2

    Description: We’re back with Part 2 of one of our most vulnerable episodes yet—because some questions in marriage are too important to ignore. Last week, we unpacked some of the biggest fears that keep couples stuck, and today, we’re digging even deeper. We’re talking about: 💬 Why does sex feel like an obligation instead of a connection? 👩‍👧 Why do I feel like the default parent while my spouse gets to "opt in" to parenting? (Spoiler: This isn’t just a struggle for women!) 💔 What if my marria...

    30 min

  5. JAN 29

    104. The Questions We’re Too Scared to Ask, Part 1

    Description: Some questions feel too big, too scary, or too painful to ask out loud—especially in marriage. But avoiding them doesn’t make them disappear. In this episode, the Vallotton's tackle the hardest, unspoken questions that can haunt relationships. Jason and Lauren dive into topics like: ✅ Have we fallen out of love or are we just stuck in a rut? ✅ What if I’m not attracted to my partner anymore? ✅ Is it normal to feel lonely in my marriage? ✅ Can we ever repair the damage from past b...

    35 min

  6. JAN 22

    103. What Story Do You Want Your Kids to Tell About Love?

    In this episode of Dates, Mates, and Babies with the Vallottons, Lauren and Jason dive into one of the most profound questions parents face: What story do we want our kids to tell about love? Together, they unpack the meaning of true love, exploring how it can be demonstrated in everyday life and in relationships within the home. Topics Covered What is love and what is it not? We have love because it was given to us. It doesn’t start with us, it starts with God.Love is a powerful choice. ...

    27 min

  7. JAN 16

    102. Motherhood in Crisis: Erica Komisar on Raising Mentally and Emotionally Healthy Kids

    In today’s episode of Dates, Mates, and Babies with the Vallottons, hosts Jason and Lauren Vallotton sit down with renowned psychoanalyst and author Erica Komisar to explore the profound challenges and rewards of parenting. Erica, a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW), brings years of expertise in child development and the psychological aspects of motherhood and fatherhood. She has authored two insightful books: Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years MattersChick...

    54 min

  8. JAN 8

    101. From Hidden Battles to Breakthrough: Winning the Year in Love and Life

    What if the greatest battle you’re fighting isn’t with your spouse, your kids, or the world—but with yourself? On this episode, the Vallottons dive into the messiest parts of who we are—the stuff we shove aside but desperately need to face if we want to grow in life, faith, and relationships. Jason and Lauren explore the significance of identifying your inner conflicts, the impact of your past experiences, and the role of seeking support in overcoming these hidden struggles. • Discussi...

    39 min
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We’re the Vallottons, and we’re passionate about people! Every human was created for fulfilling connections in relationship and family, but it’s not always what comes easiest! We know this because of our wide range of personal experiences as well as years of working with people. So we’re going to crack open topics like dating, marriage, family and parenting to encourage, entertain and equip you for a deeply fulfilling life of relational health.

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