Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Jai The Gentleman
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Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

I am Jai The Gentleman and this Dear Black Gay Men Podcast. It's a short, b******t-free step out of our comfort zone to talk about all the emotional ups-and-downs along the journey to happiness. Hopefully, this is our weekly reminder of how dope it is to be Black gay men who love Black gay men. 

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    My bad for making you p*ss yourself

    Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: It was an unexpected threeway that turned into a HUGE lesson. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

    17 min

  2. DEC 11

    You f***cked me four times, bruh

    Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: This entanglement left me drained...and I enjoyed it. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

    26 min

  3. DEC 4

    Open Relationship OBSESSION

    Why are open relationships EVERYWHERE. Jai The Gentleman got a DM from a viewer after his interview on the show about Open Relationships. The guests and the audience agree that poly and non-monogamous guys are everywhere. Why are these relationship types so prevalent and what can singles do about in the dating pool? The Unlikely Throuple DC: https://posh.vip/e/the-unlikely-throuple-dc-2 For more information on HIV Vaccine Trials Network: https://www.helpendhiv.org ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

    8 min

  4. NOV 6

    Black Gay Priviliege

    Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”. As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo. This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the culture must do about it. The Unlikely Throuple DC: https://posh.vip/e/the-unlikely-throuple-dc-2 For more information on HIV Vaccine Trials Network: https://www.helpendhiv.org ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

    17 min

  5. OCT 23

    F*ck people not parts

    Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”.  As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo. This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the culture must do about it. ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎶 Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️ Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

    15 min

  6. OCT 16

    I'm not ready to date

    This epsiode Jai The Gentleman does a deep dive into the dating pool: why can't we find a man. Team DBGM gets emails, DMs, mentions/tags from listeners wondering why the dating pool hasn't yielded a relationship. Jai is going through some similar woes, but has finally uncovered that it might not be the dating pool; it's actuall him. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

    13 min

  7. OCT 9

    I can't love me

    This episode Jai The Gentleman dives deep into a challenge a lot of Black gay men (and people) in the dating pool deal with: why can't he just do what I want him to? Jai unpacks how a celebration for a friend's new job turned into an internal dialogue that, he says, has held him back from a relationship. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman http://www.dearblackgaymen.com

    11 min

  8. OCT 2

    Give Grace Til It Hurts

    In this episode, Jai The Gentleman discusses a recent break-up he went through. The topic came up on a previous episode of Dear Black Gay Men where Jai talked through sexual incompatibility. Today, Jai goes a little deeper on some lessons that he uncovered after a couple months distance. The big question is, should Jai go back. Screenshot this episode, share it to your IG and let us know what you think. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop  ➡️Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join ➡️Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com 📲Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/2p9pye7s YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen 🎹Theme music by The Passion HIFI Our purpose is to be the voice of our culture: talking to Black gay men, about Black gay men and for Black gay men in ways that thinks us forward. ➡️Connect with Jai The Gentleman IG: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman

    9 min
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About

I am Jai The Gentleman and this Dear Black Gay Men Podcast. It's a short, b******t-free step out of our comfort zone to talk about all the emotional ups-and-downs along the journey to happiness. Hopefully, this is our weekly reminder of how dope it is to be Black gay men who love Black gay men. 

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  • Creator
    Jai The Gentleman
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2024
  • Episodes
    103
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2021 Jai Makokha

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