Decoding Success with Matt LeBris

Matt LeBris
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Welcome to The Decoding Success Podcast - the show for high-performers who have used their trauma to fuel their success. If you have ever felt like a black sheep, someone who experienced isolation, neglect, or disconnection, you're in the right place as we guide our community to feel seen, understood, and connected to their highest selves. Matt LeBris hosts our weekly show, as he dives deep with world-renowned leaders in business, entertainment, sports, science, health, and literature, providing invaluable insights on emotional, mental, physical, financial, and spiritual well-being. Each episode features deep, transformative conversations designed to reconnect you with your true self. Our mission is to guide you on a journey of self-discovery, helping you go from feeling isolated to feeling seen, from anxious to connected, from being hard on yourself to giving grace. Whether you're seeking to identify your path to healing trauma, anxiety or dark days, make mindset shifts to step into your highest self, or break free from what no longer serves you, The Decoding Success Podcast is here to help. While you might hear some woo-woo things, make no mistake because you're going to get the real, raw, born-and-raised New Yorker out of Matt. And, with conversations featuring the likes of Mel Robbins, Grant Cardone, Dr. Nicole LePera, Patrick Bet-David, Gabby Bernstein, Dr. Caroline Leaf, Daymond John, and many more, you're bound to discover the golden nuggets you're seeking as you pursue your desire to transform your life from the inside out. Tune in to discover practical advice, inspiring stories, and powerful tools to elevate every facet of your life. Join us and become part of a community where you can thrive and become the best version of yourself.

  1. 7H AGO

    BONUS: Fear Is Costing You the Life You Say You Want

    If you say you want more — more growth, more money, more fulfillment — but fear keeps stopping you right at the edge, this episode is for you. In this solo episode, Matt breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions about success: fear isn't something you eliminate. It's something you befriend. Because fear isn't costing you comfort. It's costing you the life you say you want. You'll learn: Why fear is protection — not sabotage Why high performers misinterpret fear as a stop sign The real fear behind growth (hint: it's not failure — it's becoming someone new) How to take your next honest step without waiting for fear to disappear Through personal stories — from launching the podcast in his childhood bedroom to expanding into new arenas — Matt shares how every level of growth came with fear. Fear didn't mean he wasn't ready. It meant he was expanding. You don't have to dive in. You just have to lean in. Courage isn't loud. Courage is movement while fear is still present. The question is simple: What have you been avoiding because fear told you a story? Lean in — and let 2026 remember your name. WATCH ON YOUTUBE FREE PERSONAL BRAND STRATEGY CALL

    17 min
  2. 374. Why You're Still Fighting Yourself (Even After You've "Succeeded") | Carl Radke

    2D AGO

    374. Why You're Still Fighting Yourself (Even After You've "Succeeded") | Carl Radke

    Carl Radke has built businesses, written a book, run marathons, and built a life that looks successful from the outside. But the real story isn't about TV, ventures, or visibility. It's about surviving himself. WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE In this conversation, Carl opens up about the internal battle that shaped his life: overthinking, insecurity, addiction, self-criticism, and the quiet voice that told him he wasn't enough. He shares how sobriety forced him to face the mirror he'd been avoiding, why "one day at a time" isn't cliché but survival, and how small, consistent wins rebuild identity from the inside out. We explore the psychology behind self-sabotage, the power of returning to your childhood self, why fear is the doorway to growth, and how service and community pull you out of your own head. Carl also shares the financial, emotional, and relational cost of addiction — and how honesty became the foundation for healing. This episode isn't about alcohol. It's about the war within — and how to win it. Carl's work: Cake Eater Soft Bar (Greenpoint, Brooklyn) More Life Podcast In this episode you will: Understand why self-awareness can feel like a burden — and how it becomes your greatest asset when you stop numbing it Learn the "one day at a time" principle and how stacking small wins compounds into long-term identity change Discover why facing fear builds esteem faster than confidence ever could Hear how childhood environments quietly shape adult coping mechanisms — and how to reclaim the version of you that existed before survival mode Understand why service to others is one of the fastest ways to quiet anxiety and overthinking Learn why nothing is "above or below" you in business or life — and how humility builds real leadership Whether you're battling addiction, anxiety, self-doubt, or simply feel like you're your own worst enemy, this episode offers something deeper than inspiration. It offers a path. One day at a time. Book Your Free Brand Strategy Session Catch Matt on Instagram

    1h 15m

  3. FEB 17

    373. Why Most People Stay Stuck in Their Dark Season | Michael Chernow

    If you're serious about building a brand that actually moves people: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris Michael Chernow shares the brutal truth about addiction, ego, and the dangerous comfort traps that keep most people stuck in cycles they secretly hate but feel too afraid to leave. He reveals the psychological battle between faith and fear, explaining how the voice in your head that says you're not enough is often just your ego trying to protect you from discomfort — and why most people unknowingly take the bait. Michael breaks down how structure, discipline, and a 5AM routine became the foundation that rebuilt his life after overdose, and why asking for help — even when it feels humiliating — is the single habit that saved him. He opens up about growing up in chaos, battling self-hatred, surviving rock bottom, and building a life rooted not in money or status, but in love, family, and communication — the one variable research shows determines long-term happiness. 🛎️ WATCH ALL EPISODES ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/c/MattLeBris In this episode, you will: Understand how ego disguises itself as comfort and why the negative voice in your head is often a habit you've trained yourself to believe Break free from the illusion that control comes from substances, success, or validation and learn how real confidence is built through daily structure Transform your mornings by implementing a simple discipline framework that builds momentum before the world wakes up Discover why great personal relationships — not wealth or titles — are the true predictor of long-term fulfillment and happiness Master the uncomfortable skill of asking for help so boldly and consistently that it changes the trajectory of your life Connect with Michael on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelchernow/ Check out Kreatures of Habit: https://kreaturesofhabit.com/ Michael's Podcast: https://www.kohpodcast.com/

    1h 19m
  4. 372. The Hidden Cost of High Performance (And How to Fix It) with Emily Fletcher

    FEB 12

    372. The Hidden Cost of High Performance (And How to Fix It) with Emily Fletcher

    BOOK YOUR BRAND STRATEGY CALL: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris In this episode of Decoding Success, Matt sits down in person with meditation expert and founder of Ziva Meditation, Emily Fletcher, for one of the most expansive conversations the show has had to date. What starts as a discussion about stress and high performance quickly becomes a deep dive into nervous system regulation, the real definition of meditation, and why most high achievers are unknowingly addicted to chaos. If you've ever believed that stress is just "part of the game" — especially as a high performer — this episode will challenge that assumption. Because according to Emily: Stress is not the event. Stress is your reaction to the event. And more importantly… Stress is the space between where you are and where you think you should be. WATCH ALL EPISODES ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@MattLeBris What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why stress is not the price of success The difference between "high demand" and "high stress" Why most people aren't bad at meditation — they're simply untrained The difference between guided visualization and true meditation How chronic stress rewires your nervous system Why burnout is often self-created (and how to interrupt it) The concept of "internal regulation" vs. outsourcing regulation to phones, alcohol, porn, or productivity Why the present moment is the future in the making The balance of masculine (linear grind) and feminine (cycles, rest, seasons) energy in sustainable success How meditation acts as a hardware upgrade — not just a mindset shift Resources Mentioned Explore Ziva Meditation: 👉 https://zivameditation.com Free training preview: 👉 https://zivameditation.com/preview Ziva Podcast: 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@zivameditation Follow Emily: 👉 https://www.instagram.com/emilystellafletcher/

    1h 12m

  5. FEB 5

    371. Meals By Cug: Why Caring Less Might Make You More Successful

    Get Guided Support on Building Your Brand If you're looking for clarity, strategy, and guidance on building a personal brand that actually feels like you, book a free brand call here: 👉 https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris In this episode of Decoding Success, Matt LeBris sits down with Danny Mondello—better known as Meals By Cug—for a raw, funny, and unexpectedly deep conversation about success, pressure, and why caring less might actually be the key to winning. Danny never chased fame or money. He was simply cooking, filming what he was already doing, and staying consistent. Over time, that approach turned into millions of followers, major brand partnerships, and the launch of his Brooklyn café, Casa Cugine. What sets this conversation apart is Danny's mindset. While most high performers obsess over outcomes and identity, he takes a radically different approach—one built on simplicity, emotional detachment, and living an "easier" life. In this episode, he shares why stress doesn't belong in success and how worrying less has helped him last longer in the creator economy. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why caring less can actually lead to better results How emotional detachment becomes a competitive advantage The difference between building for passion vs. pressure Why consistency beats talent in content creation How Danny went from hobby to business without burning out What really makes content perform (hint: it's not the algorithm) How Casa Cugine became both a business and a creative hub Why success doesn't need to feel heavy to be meaningful Connect with Danny / Meals By Cug: Casa Cugine (Brooklyn Café): https://www.casacuginebrooklyn.com/ Meals By Cug on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meals_by_cug/ Meals By Cug on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Meals_by_cug

    51 min
  6. 370. Robbie Bent (Co-Founder, Othership): I Built the Dream… But I Was Wearing Armor

    JAN 27

    370. Robbie Bent (Co-Founder, Othership): I Built the Dream… But I Was Wearing Armor

    YOUR PERSONAL BRAND CAN LEVEL UP... START HERE: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/ Robbie Bent reveals why entrepreneurial success, high performance, and constant pressure can disconnect you from the very self you're working so hard to elevate. After years of scaling a fast-growing company, Robbie found himself battling anxiety, founder stress, and emotional burnout — even while living the dream on paper. He shares how operating in "armor" — overwork, intensity, and survival mode — helped him achieve success, but left him feeling tense, overwhelmed, and internally disconnected. But here's the breakthrough: achievement didn't feel fulfilling until he stopped chasing validation and started building from purpose, creativity, and genuine connection. The real shift wasn't external success — it was learning how to feel safe, grounded, and present while still pursuing ambitious goals. Whether you're an entrepreneur, high performer, or driven professional dealing with burnout, anxiety, or success that feels empty, this conversation will help you understand the hidden mental health cost of achievement — and how to grow without losing yourself. WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@MattLeBris In this episode you will: Recognize the emotional cost of chasing success from fear instead of authenticity Identify the "armor" behaviors that keep high achievers stuck in survival mode Understand why money, status, and recognition can't create lasting fulfillment Learn how to strive for excellence without tying your worth to outcomes Discover why creating meaningful work reconnects you to your true self OFFER: Robbie is offering you a complimentary experience at Othership. DM or Email Matt to claim the offer.  Check out Othership here: https://www.othership.us/ Connect with Robbie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiebent/ Connect with Robbie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbiebent/

    51 min
  7. 369. Why Betting on Yourself Feels Lonely (But Pays Off) w/ Lil Mo Mozzarella

    JAN 20

    369. Why Betting on Yourself Feels Lonely (But Pays Off) w/ Lil Mo Mozzarella

    YOUR PERSONAL BRAND LEVELED UP STARTS HERE: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris What does it really take to bet on yourself — especially when the path feels isolating and uncertain? In this episode, I sit down with Lil Mo Mozzarella to talk about leaving a stable career, stepping into comedy later in life, and why real confidence is built through action, not approval. We unpack the loneliness that comes with growth, the importance of protecting your value, and how turning pain into purpose is often the key to long-term success. This conversation is about earned self-belief — the kind that comes from showing up, taking risks, and staying in the game even when it's uncomfortable. WATCH EVERY EPISODE ON YOUTUBE HERE: https://www.youtube.com/@MattLeBris In this episode, we cover: • Why betting on yourself can feel isolating • How Mo pivoted into comedy • The cost of chasing validation • Protecting your value in business • Turning pain into purpose • Why regret is heavier than failure Connect with Lil Mo Mozzarella 🎤 www.lilmomozzarella.com 😂 Tour Dates 📲 @lilmomozzarella

    40 min
  8. 368. Why Shame Is Blocking the Life, Love, and Intimacy You Want w/ Stefanos Sifandos

    JAN 13

    368. Why Shame Is Blocking the Life, Love, and Intimacy You Want w/ Stefanos Sifandos

    LEVELING UP YOUR PERSONAL BRAND STARTS HERE: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris Most people think they're stuck because they lack discipline, confidence, or clarity. But what if the real reason you're not experiencing deeper intimacy, freedom, and fulfillment… is shame you don't even realize you're carrying? In this episode, I sit down in person with Stefanos Sifandos for a raw, honest conversation about the invisible force shaping our relationships, our self-expression, and the parts of our lives where we keep holding back. We explore why shame doesn't usually announce itself loudly— it hides in avoidance, performance, people-pleasing, and silence. And more importantly, we talk about what it actually takes to move through it. This is a conversation about what has to die for real intimacy to begin, why healing can't happen alone, and how being truly seen is the gateway to everything you say you want. WATCH ALL EPISODES ON YOUTUBE GRAB STEFANOS' NEW BOOK HERE  In This Episode, We Explore: Why shame is the hidden barrier to intimacy, authenticity, and growth How shame disguises itself as fear, procrastination, and "playing it safe" The difference between being "self-aware" and being truly integrated Why what you avoid emotionally tends to repeat in your life How shame shows up in relationships, communication, and self-expression Why healing happens in safe relationships—not in isolation What it actually means to stop hiding and allow yourself to be seen This Episode Is For You If: You feel successful on paper but disconnected internally You struggle to fully open up in relationships You keep repeating patterns you understand but haven't outgrown You feel like something is blocking your next level—but you can't name it You're ready to stop performing for love and start experiencing it --  If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who's been hiding parts of themselves too — or someone you want to feel closer to. And as always, if you enjoyed the conversation, leave a review. It helps more people find the show — and more importantly, find themselves.

    1h 19m
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Welcome to The Decoding Success Podcast - the show for high-performers who have used their trauma to fuel their success. If you have ever felt like a black sheep, someone who experienced isolation, neglect, or disconnection, you're in the right place as we guide our community to feel seen, understood, and connected to their highest selves. Matt LeBris hosts our weekly show, as he dives deep with world-renowned leaders in business, entertainment, sports, science, health, and literature, providing invaluable insights on emotional, mental, physical, financial, and spiritual well-being. Each episode features deep, transformative conversations designed to reconnect you with your true self. Our mission is to guide you on a journey of self-discovery, helping you go from feeling isolated to feeling seen, from anxious to connected, from being hard on yourself to giving grace. Whether you're seeking to identify your path to healing trauma, anxiety or dark days, make mindset shifts to step into your highest self, or break free from what no longer serves you, The Decoding Success Podcast is here to help. While you might hear some woo-woo things, make no mistake because you're going to get the real, raw, born-and-raised New Yorker out of Matt. And, with conversations featuring the likes of Mel Robbins, Grant Cardone, Dr. Nicole LePera, Patrick Bet-David, Gabby Bernstein, Dr. Caroline Leaf, Daymond John, and many more, you're bound to discover the golden nuggets you're seeking as you pursue your desire to transform your life from the inside out. Tune in to discover practical advice, inspiring stories, and powerful tools to elevate every facet of your life. Join us and become part of a community where you can thrive and become the best version of yourself.

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