Destined To Be Jeremiah and Mallory Campbell

Do you and your significant other have a mismatched desire for sex?
 
It’s common for one person in a relationship to want to ‘bake cookies’ more often than their partner. But it can cause conflict if you’re not willing to be vulnerable and communicate what’s going on for you.
 
So, what causes our sex drive to ramp up or slow down? And what can couples do to bring their sexual desire into harmony?
 
On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss how to navigate a mismatched desire for sex in your relationship.
 
We explore the danger in shaming your partner when their sex drive differs from your own, challenging you to communicate what you want and listen with empathy to whatever your partner is going through.
 
Listen in to understand what’s behind a compulsion for sex and learn how to create the time and space for both you and your partner to feel fulfilled in the bedroom!
 
Key Takeaways How to deal with mismatched sex drives in your relationship
Why sex was Jeremiah’s go-to for so long and his attitude toward anyone who didn’t want it all the time
The relationship between the compulsion for sex and seeking approval from your partner
What couples can do to bring their sexual desire into harmony
Jeremiah’s advice for men on communicating what they want in the bedroom
The danger in shaming your partner when their sexual desire differs from your own
How to create the time and environment for you and your partner to feel fulfilled
What women can do when they’ve been caring for children all day and don’t want to be touched
The subconscious impact sexual trauma has on your libido
How sexy it is to listen with empathy and hold space for whatever your partner is going through
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Resources Imago Dialogue

Do you think you’re too busy to spend time with your partner?
Between running our own businesses and the responsibilities of parenting, our schedules are packed. But we still find time to make our relationship a priority.
What does that look like? And why is it so important?
On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss the emotional intimacy that comes from spending time with your partner and describe how making your relationship a priority improves other aspects of your life.
We explain what it means to balance independence with togetherness in a marriage and explore how healing yourself as an individual affects your relationship with your significant other.
Listen in for insight on modeling the kind of relationship you want for your children and learn how to let your partner know they’re worth it by scheduling intentional time together.
Key Takeaways How building a solid relationship impacts your parenting and business
What it means to balance independence vs. togetherness in your relationship
The danger in relying on your partner to fix your stuff or make you happy
Why it’s crucial to have a shared vision of the future with your partner
What it looks like to make time with your partner a priority and why it’s important
Why you should model the kind of relationship you want for your kids
The value of demonstrating conflict resolution in front of your children
How healing as an individual affects your relationship with your significant other
The emotional intimacy that comes from spending time with your partner
How to let your partner know they’re worth it by scheduling time together
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Resources Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk, MD

Conflict is just part of life. You can’t avoid it.
But you can navigate conflict effectively to repair and even grow your relationship.
On this episode of Destined to Be, we share our approach to resolving conflict in our relationship, describing how our internal battles impact the way we interact with others.
We explain what happens when you allow conflict to fester in your body and why couples get nowhere when we try to resolve conflict in a heightened emotional state.
Listen in for insight on recognizing the patterns of conflict in your relationship and learn how to be curious rather than critical when your partner loses their sh*t.
Key Takeaways    The relationship between conflict and our conditioned beliefs
How we create internal conflict when we blame circumstances or others for our problems
How internal battles impact our health and the way we interact with others
Why it’s only possible to repair conflict in a relationship when your nervous system is regulated
How different people react to conflict differently, e.g.: get angry or shut down
What happens when you allow conflict to fester in your body
Why it’s crucial to repair internal AND external conflict to grow in your relationship
How couples get nowhere when we try to resolve conflict in a heightened emotional state
How to develop an awareness of the patterns of conflict in your relationship
The value in asking your partner what they need when they’re triggered
How to have compassion for yourself when you lose your sh*t
How to be curious rather than critical in your approach to conflict
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Resources Mallory’s Reel on Podcasting with Jeremiah
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"Holding space and creating that is probably one of the most important things that your partner doesn't know that they need." - Jeremiah Campbell
Have you ever wondered if you are cultivating a thriving and lasting relationship with your partner?
You might think you are, but you might be overlooking some things that could help you more effectively support each other's growth—things your partner doesn't even know they need that could help you uncover unexplored depths of love and connection in your relationship.
Today, on the "Destined To Be" podcast, we're sharing some transformative insights from our couple's mastermind work. We'll guide you through thought-provoking questions that will empower you with the tools to have the meaningful conversations that foster true connection.
Jeremiah reveals the crucial element that holds the key to lasting connection and the secret that will transform your partnership. While Mallory shares the sneaky behaviors that create a disconnect and an energy leak in your relationship that can lead to significant distance between you and your partner. Plus, the one thing you aren't asking your partner that could be the key to supporting their self-growth.
Listen in as we explore the significance of open conversations in assessing the current state of your changing roles, the power of small gestures and micro-moments to fortify and deepen your connection, and other tips and insights to enhance your relationship.
This is just a preview of the types of transformative discussions we delve into in our couple’s mastermind. If you want a deeper exploration that will strengthen and support your relationship, our next couple’s mastermind is COMING SOON! Connect with Jeremiah or Mallory on Instagram to learn more, and remember to spread the word to others who might benefit from listening to the show.
Key Takeaways   The secret to captivating social media content
The sneaky behaviors that are stifling your connection
The power of uncomfortable conversations in relationships
The key to supporting your partner's desires
The #1 factor that will help you and your partner unlock LONGTERM relationship success
How to support the evolving roles in your relationship to sustain your love for the long-haul
6 ways to supercharge your relationship and foster personal growth for BOTH partners
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Resources Share the Destined to Be Podcast

What are boundaries?
Boundaries help you define what you are comfortable with—they reflect your self-awareness and your understanding of what aligns with your values.
Setting boundaries is an essential practice that empowers us to create a safe and healthy environment for ourselves, promoting greater personal well-being and more fulfilling relationships.
But we must be specific and self-aware to establish boundaries that truly serve us.
Today, on the "Destined To Be" podcast, we're diving deep into boundaries and shedding light on the importance of setting (and upholding) boundaries that align with our core values and personal well-being.
Mallory provides valuable insights on the various types of boundaries and practical tips for protecting yourself from absorbing negative energy. While Jeremiah shares his perspective on boundaries, specifically in the area of time management and setting clear boundaries to prevent others from encroaching on your valuable time. Plus, how to help your children set boundaries that protect them.
Listen in to discover how boundaries can enhance your self-respect, strengthen your relationships, and help you pave the way for more personal growth and fulfillment.
We'd love to hear from you; connect with Jeremiah or Mallory on Instagram, and remember to spread the word to others who might benefit from listening to the show.
Key Takeaways   How boundaries help define how you want to be treated by others
The 3 crucial elements of setting boundaries
The one thing that hinders boundary setting
The most challenging boundaries to set (hint: this one is essential for personal growth)
How identifying core values can help you make decisions that align with your energy
The most potent boundary setting practice
How setting physical boundaries can help promote autonomy (hint: this is VITAL for your children)
Why it’s vital to your emotional well-being to shield yourself from carrying others' emotional baggage
The most significant benefit of setting time boundaries and limiting your commitments
Getting past the discomfort of communicating your boundaries to break generational patterns
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When I discovered the book Be: A No-Bullsh*t Guide to Increasing Your Self Worth and Net Worth by Simply Being Yourself, I dreamed of one day going to the author’s agency for a deep dive into my brand.
Two years later, we’re returning from a VIP branding session with Jessica Zweig and her team. And the experience was transformative for me as an individual as well as our relationship.
But what do you do if you’re changing, and it brings up uncomfortable feelings for your partner? Or if your partner’s transformation brings up uncomfortable feelings for you?
On this episode of Destined to Be, we discuss what it looks like when you’re open to receiving a new version of your partner after a personal development retreat or an event like Jessica’s.
We explain what to do if your partner is triggered by your growth and describe the challenge of developing a relationship with your emotions—especially for men.
Listen in for insight on acknowledging your emotions as an indicator that something needs to change and learn how to identify what you need and ask for it rather than avoiding your feelings.
Key Takeaways   How Mallory discovered Jessica Zweig’s branding book Be
Mallory’s dream of going to Jessica’s agency for a branding session
How Mallory got to do an 8-hour VIP branding session with Jessica and her team
Why we acknowledge our relationship as a third entity that’s open to growth and healing
How Mallory’s VIP day impacted her individually and at the relationship level
What it looks like when you’re open to receiving a new version of your partner
What to do if your partner is triggered when you come home from an event
The challenge of developing a relationship with your emotions (especially for men)
The consequences of getting stuck in or avoiding your feelings
How emotions are an indicator that something in your life needs to change
Our advice for men on how to identify what you need and ask for it
How to be present for your partner without trying to fix them
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Resources Be: A No-Bullsh*t Guide to Increasing Your Self Worth and Net Worth by Simply Being Yourself by Jessica Zweig
Jessica Zweig’s Claim Your Light Retreat