Ep 139: Free Range Kids! How to raise safe, self-reliant children. With author and journalist, Lenore Skenazy!

Ask Dr Jessica Podcast

Summary

This weeks podcast is with national treasure, Lenore Skenazy, who discusses the culture of fear and overprotective parenting.     She shares her personal experiences and the backlash she faced for allowing her 9-year-old son ride the subway alone in NYC. The media jumped all over it, some even called her "America's worst mom", and this experience eventually led her to write the book "Free Range Kids". 

 Lenore challenges the assumption that children are fragile and need constant supervision, advocating for independence and the development of resilience in children.   Lenore emphasizes the importance of trusting parents' intuition and tshe highlights the impact of media, litigious society, and the expert culture on parental fears.  In this conversation, Lenore Skenazy discusses the challenges of overprotective parenting and the negative impact it can have on children's development. She emphasizes the importance of allowing children to experience conflict and difficult situations in childhood to prepare them for the real world.  Lenore suggests practical steps, such as promoting collective action in schools and encouraging children to engage in independent activities, to counteract the culture of fear and foster independence in children.

Takeaways

  • Overprotective parenting can hinder children's development and prevent them from learning important life skills.
  • Experiencing conflict and difficult situations in childhood is valuable for preparing children to navigate the real world.
  • Misconceptions about safety and fear can lead to overprotection and limit children's independence.
  • Crime statistics show that the world is not more dangerous now, and it is important to challenge the perception of increased danger.
  • The media plays a significant role in shaping our perception of safety and can contribute to a culture of fear.
  • Promoting collective action in schools and encouraging independent activities can help counteract the culture of fear and foster independence in children.

Dr Jessica Hochman is a board certified pediatrician, mom to three children, and she is very passionate about the health and well being of children. Most of her educational videos are targeted towards general pediatric topics and presented in an easy to understand manner.

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