Fannying About (previously known as 'Real Talk For Mums')

Lara Jezeph
Fannying About (previously known as 'Real Talk For Mums')

Hey there, beautiful mum! Welcome to 'Fannying About' — the podcast that keeps it raw, real, and ridiculously relatable. We’re here to talk about all the things no one warns you about. Like how to actually keep your pelvic floor in check, juggling life with kids and finding time for your health and sanity without losing your mind. Whether it’s parenting fails, fitness wins, or just learning to laugh through the madness, this is your go-to space for honest conversations, expert advice and a little bit of fun along the way. Each week, You’ll get tips, tricks, and a whole lot of real talk.

  1. JUN 19

    EP 6: Get ‘toned’ without killing yourself

    OK let's get real about a few things...women have been lied to for A LONG time. "Do more cardio". "Eat less and count calories". "Lift light weights with more reps". If you're striving for that toned, defined, lean look and haven't been getting anywhere, this episode is for you. Lara x For feedback, comments or questions - realtalkformums@gmail.com Useful links: Mind Pump Podcast about women's bodies and exercise - https://youtu.be/kXguP3Oct9c?si=y6tchaf7TraH04W7 Sources mentioned in episode: Combat depression - types of exercise for different genders: READ The WHO and EXERCISE

    19 min

  2. JUN 11

    EP 5: The Eczema Nuisance

    Is eczema a genetic thing? Can seasons really impact eczema? What triggers eczema in children? What protocols have I found beneficial and what haven't been so helpful. What do I do now for my son's who are 5yrs and 1 yr? Useful Links: BATH FILTER - https://www.amazon.com.au/Mexi-Trading-BB-WH-Filter-White/dp/B08Y8GSVJS/ref=asc_df_B08Y8GSVJS/?tag=googleshopmob-22&linkCode=df0&hvadid=464189984291&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=6144251673855299918&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9070912&hvtargid=pla-1475081648872&psc=1&mcid=a0e2c3fc45913b61afb892b4f074f8d1 Shower filter - www.sonaki.com.au Source: Is eczema genetic? ***Disclaimer: this podcast is for general information purposes only. It does not constitute as health advice and does not take the place of consulting with your health practitioner. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are those of the guest speaker and do not necessarily reflect those of ‘Real Talk for Mums’. We encourage the listeners to use their critical judgement and use due diligence when interpreting the information and topics discussed in this podcast.

    20 min

  3. JUN 3

    EP 4: Olympic lifting with a prolapse.

    "Restricting exercise in the hopes of saving a vagina is not holistic women's health". Anthony Lo - Physio Detective We go into what a Prolapse is and whether it's really as scary as society makes out. I go into detail about my pessary experience and what I tried instead. My fear of doing anything after being told things like - 'Don't do wide stance squats". Why fear mongering isn't helpful and what you can do instead if you have pelvic floor dysfunction such as a prolapse. I discuss olympic lifts positions such as Hips thrusts and how to make tweaks to ensure you get the most from your training without leaking or causing more injury. Why the Feeling of bulging after an intense workout may not actually be an issue. If you are experiencing any of these symptoms discussed in this episode and/or the below, please see a Pelvic floor Physiotherapist. Are persistently constipated, despite treatment Feel discomfort from the bulge of tissue Experience rectal pressure or fullness after bowel movements Find intercourse painful Useful Links:

    22 min

  4. MAY 28

    EP 3: How to avoid burnout.

    Burnout is a real thing for everyone, especially mums so how do we know if we are in 'burnout' and what can we actually do about it? I share practical tools and techniques, I use that are simple, imperfect and small to help make huge differences in your life as a mum whether you are working, stay at home or both. Useful Links: Kate Kripke - Maternal Mental Health Expert - https://www.katekripke.com/work-with-me The Good Enough Mum - https://seleni.org/advice-support/2018/3/14/the-gift-of-the-good-enough-mother

    30 min

  5. MAY 21

    EP 2: Mum rage.

    Anger is just like every other emotion but it's not OK for us to express anger in society. We must be happy, positive and upbeat so as not to make others feel awkward or upset. But as mums have a lot to juggle and sometimes we just want to scream. This episode is about normalising the 'normal' and I share one of my 'rage' experiences. Mum rage is a real condition we often mistake for just anger, and is a result of extreme burnout and lack of self-care.  Next episode goes into detail on what to do to prevent burnout from happening - Episode 3 - Avoid Burnout. Don't miss out on this one and bring your notepad and pen. Make sure to follow the podcast so you're alerted when episodes are live. REAL TALK FOR MUMS I also want to introduce the 'good enough mother' for those who strive for perfection, like myself as a recovering perfectionist. For more help around the psychology or mental health of rage, there is an amazing woman called Kate Kripke who actually covers more on this topic in her episode - https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/motherhood-uncut/id1631059177?i=1000639197138 Any questions, comments or feedback please drop me an email at realtalkformums@gmail.com. Lara x

    12 min

  6. MAY 17

    SEASON 2/EP 1: Thanks for gracing us with your presence.

    Season 2!! Welcome back from me to you. Why I haven't recorded an episode in 2024. In 4mths I was diagnosed with severe depression, my mum was diagnosed with cervical cancer and my nana died. My sincerest apologies for not recording anything for 2024 but I have decided to grace you all with my presence again haha. Questions, comments and feedback, bring them on and send to realtalkformums@gmail.com Lara x

    13 min

  7. 12/22/2023

    Breaking free from the 'good girl' syndrome

    From being the good child to the anxious adult, Kate shares some examples of her own upbringing and how she has been parenting her two girls. Understand what a 'good girl' actually is and how to know as an adult if you may have experienced this type if upbringing Is being a good child actually all that bad? What's really going on when our parents want their children to be 'good'? How to bring your children up in a way that you wish to raise them without carrying your own limiting beliefs. Techniques to help parents handle behaviour thats beneficial for the child and for the parent. What adults can do to start changing the way they see themselves and move away from their good child upbringing. Useful links: Contact Kate - https://www.katekripke.com/work-with-me Kate has a programme to help women understand themselves so they can become their best self.

    59 min

  8. 12/08/2023

    How to replenish your body after pregnancy

    With dietician Cassie. What does it mean to replenish your body and why is it so important? Most common deficiencies and what nutrients are needed for what parts of the body. (*Please note: not mentioned much in episode but very important are omega3's and choline.) Supplement considerations and recommended brands that are affordable and easy to purchase. How to get nutrient dense foods in easily without the overwhelm. Practical tips for meal services Food hacks (that may surprise you coming from a dietician) to help mums access nutrient dense foods affordably. Useful info: Get in touch with Cassie - Instagram @cassandra_lawless where she shares recipes, info and links to her website and 4th trimester program. FREE pregnancy meal plan - www.cassandralawless.com/pregnancy-meal-plan 3 prenatal vitamins recommended - Naturobest, Bioceuticals, Treso

    41 min
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Hey there, beautiful mum! Welcome to 'Fannying About' — the podcast that keeps it raw, real, and ridiculously relatable. We’re here to talk about all the things no one warns you about. Like how to actually keep your pelvic floor in check, juggling life with kids and finding time for your health and sanity without losing your mind. Whether it’s parenting fails, fitness wins, or just learning to laugh through the madness, this is your go-to space for honest conversations, expert advice and a little bit of fun along the way. Each week, You’ll get tips, tricks, and a whole lot of real talk.

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