Fearful Avoidants Need THESE 3 Things to Connect After Conflict

The Thais Gibson Podcast

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Struggling to reconnect with a fearful avoidant partner after a fight? Learn the three game-changing steps to rebuild trust, resolve conflict, and bring you closer than ever before.

In this episode, Thais Gibson outlines the three essential steps fearful avoidants need to reconnect after conflict. Discover why validating feelings, offering transparency, and creating preventative strategies are key to rebuilding trust and deepening your bond. Watch now to learn how to transform conflict into a powerful opportunity for connection and lasting harmony.

00:00:00 - Introduction: 3 Steps Fearful Avoidants Need After Conflict

00:00:25 - Step 1: Why Validating Feelings is Critical

00:01:08 - How Validation Helps Fearful Avoidants Let Their Guard Down

00:02:00 - The Difference Between Validating Feelings vs. Behaviors

00:02:21 - Step 2: The Importance of Transparency and Context

00:03:42 - Why Understanding ‘Why’ Behind Behavior Builds Trust

00:04:00 - How Fearful Avoidants Use Hyper-Vigilance to Feel Safe

00:05:01 - Step 3: Strategies to Prevent Recurring Issues

00:05:50 - Why Preventative Strategies Create Reassurance

00:06:32 - Taking Action to Improve the Relationship

00:07:03 - How Conflict Can Bring You Closer, Not Drive You Apart

00:07:20 - Final Tips for Building Trust and Connection

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