104 episodes

If you are separating or divorcing, this podcast is for you. Our host, Tamsin Caine is a Chartered Financial Planner and divorce specialist. In series one, Tamsin talks to professionals who can help you to make the right decisions about moving forward with your divorce to reach an amicable solution. In series two, Tamsin talks to real people who have been through divorce and have come out the other side. As well as seeing how you can manage amicable divorce, guests also offer their thoughts on what they would have done differently.

The Smart Divorce Podcast Tamsin Caine

    • Society & Culture

If you are separating or divorcing, this podcast is for you. Our host, Tamsin Caine is a Chartered Financial Planner and divorce specialist. In series one, Tamsin talks to professionals who can help you to make the right decisions about moving forward with your divorce to reach an amicable solution. In series two, Tamsin talks to real people who have been through divorce and have come out the other side. As well as seeing how you can manage amicable divorce, guests also offer their thoughts on what they would have done differently.

    A week in the life of a Divorce Coach

    A week in the life of a Divorce Coach

    Do you really know what a divorce coach does, how they prepare for a meeting or keep on top of everything happening in the divorce world? In this episode, Tamsin speaks to top divorce coach and author, Claire Macklin about those and many other questions regarding her work

    Claire Macklin
    Claire is one of the UK’s leading Break-up and Divorce Coaches and author of "Break-up: From Crisis to Confidence", the essential guide for anyone facing a sudden separation.  Claire offers bespoke coaching to support individuals through break-up, so that they can create new and vibrant lives.  She is a Master NLP Practitioner, divorcee, and parent to two teenage boys. She is also a former solicitor. Using all of her professional and personal experience, Claire has built a thriving coaching business, helping clients all over the world to recover from break-up or divorce.

    https://www.clairemacklincoaching.com
    Tamsin Caine

    Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.
    You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using https://bit.ly/SmDiv15min. She is also part of the team running Facebook group Separation, Divorce and Dissolution UK
    Tamsin Caine MSc., FPFS
    Chartered Financial Planner
    Smart Divorce Ltd
    https://smartdivorce.co.uk
    P.S. I am the co-author of “My Divorce Handbook – It’s What You Do Next That Counts”, written by divorce specialists and lawyers writing about their area of expertise to help walk you through the divorce process. You can buy it here https://yourdivorcehandbook.co.uk/buy-the-book/
     
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    • 43 min
    A week in the life of a barrister

    A week in the life of a barrister

    Have you ever wondered what a barrister does in their working week when they’re not in a meeting with you? In this episode, Tamsin is joined by leading family barrister Rhys Taylor to find out more about what his work involves.

    With his depth of knowledge in courtroom advocacy and client advising, Rhys joins us on the Smart Divorce Podcast to unravel the complexities of family law. His candid insights from the dual perspectives of a barrister and part-time judge illuminate the behind-the-scenes of legal strategy, from the preparation of pivotal written notes for FDR hearings to the subtle art of steering clients toward amicable resolutions.

    This episode isn't just about the inner workings of the legal system; it's a masterclass in the human element of law. You'll hear firsthand how a barrister like Rhys balances the roles of advocate, advisor, and sometimes, peacemaker. The detailed anecdotes shared provide a window into the emotionally charged world of divorce cases, where barristers do much more than argue points of law—they foster understanding and cooperation in the face of discord. Our discussion with Rhys also sheds light on how the direct public access scheme empowers individuals by allowing them to seek advice straight from the experts.

    We wrap up with practical wisdom you can apply should you ever face the challenges of divorce litigation. Whether it's the strategic importance of managing client expectations or the nuanced dance of compromise and persuasion, Rhys Taylor's expertise is a lighthouse for those navigating these difficult waters. Tune in to gain invaluable insights from a barrister who not only represents his clients but also shapes the legal landscape, ensuring that every voice in a family law dispute is heard and validated.
    To learn more about our podcast sponsor Ampla Finance – access their product guide here: https://bit.ly/3IeqmucOr complete enquiry form https://bit.ly/3W4J7pz and one of the team will be in touch.

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    • 36 min
    Your Vision for Your Divorce

    Your Vision for Your Divorce

    In today’s episode, Tamsin Caine is joined by divorce coaches Julia Moreno and Sally Jackson. We explore a profound and empowering question: Who do you want to be during your divorce? We'll discuss how you can establish a vision for your divorce, cultivate your best self, and navigate this journey with integrity and grace.

    Sally Jackson
    Sally is a divorce coach who specialises in enabling divorcing professional midlife women to gain clarity, make empowered decisions, and take courageous action, saving them time, money and stress.

    Julia Moreno
    Julia is a divorce coach and family law solicitor with a mission to offer individuals and couples a kinder and better journey in their separation and divorce, taking into consideration the wellbeing and needs of the family.
    Sally and Julia have joined forces as founders of the Reclaim Your Life Retreat, specifically created to empower and positively transform women experiencing separation and divorce.
    https://sallyjacksoncoaching.com/
    https://www.juliamoreno.co.uk/
    https://bit.ly/reclaimyourliferetreat

    Tamsin Caine

    Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.
    You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using https://bit.ly/SmDiv15min. She is also part of the team running Facebook group Separation, Divorce and Dissolution UK
    Tamsin Caine MSc., FPFS
    Chartered Financial Planner
    Smart Divorce Ltd
    https://smartdivorce.co.uk
    P.S. I am the co-author of “My Divorce Handbook – It’s What You Do Next That Counts”, written by divorce specialists and lawyers writing about their area of expertise to help walk you through the divorce process. You can buy it here https://yourdivorcehandbook.co.uk/buy-the-book/
     
    To learn more about our podcast sponsor Ampla Finance – access their product guide here: https://bit.ly/3IeqmucOr complete enquiry form https://bit.ly/3W4J7pz and one of the team will be in touch.

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    • 43 min
    Helping young children to deal with divorce

    Helping young children to deal with divorce

    Navigating the stormy seas of divorce is a daunting journey, especially when little ones are aboard. Estella Newbold-Brown, dedicated family law solicitor and author, extends a lifeline to families with her heartwarming children's book ‘Isla and Quinn – The Sunflowers’

    Estella Newbold-Brown
    Estella is a partner and head of family law at the South London law firm, Amphlett Lissimore, and has been guiding and supporting people through their separations for around 17 years. Her specialism is divorce – the financial aspects of divorce, unmarried couples separating, and children work.  Estella is a Resolution Accredited Family Law Specialist in cohabitation law, financial claims for children (Schedule 1), and medium-high net worth divorce cases. She also acts for frequently act for high profile clients in the entertainment industry.
    In 2024, Estella was an expert contributor to Sarah Wayne’s book, Sperm Not Included - the UK’s most comprehensive baby-making manual for sperm-free couples.
    Alongside her work as a family law solicitor, Estella has written two children’s books, the second one being specifically aimed towards family lawyers to provide as a resource for their clients and for parents who are separating to buy and read to their children.   ‘Isla and Quinn – The Sunflowers’ has been written from the perspective of not only a family lawyer, but also, Estella is a teenager of divorce, so understands the emotions that a child would feel.

    You can buy Isla and Quinn - The Sunflowers at  https://amzn.eu/d/cy5SZXg.

    If you would like to work with Estella, contact her at https://www.allaw.co.uk/people/estella-newbold-brown/. 
     
    Tamsin Caine

    Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.
    You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using https://bit.ly/SmDiv15min. She is also part of the team running Facebook group Separation, Divorce and Dissolution UK
    Tamsin Caine MSc., FPFS
    Chartered Financial Planner
    Smart Divorce Ltd
    https://smartdivorce.co.uk
    P.S. I am the co-author of “My Divorce Handbook – It’s What You Do Next That Counts”, written by divorce specialists and lawyers writing about their area of expertise to help walk you through the divorce process. You can buy it here https://yourdivorcehandbook.co.uk/buy-the-book/
    To learn more about our podcast sponsor Ampla Finance – access their product guide here: https://bit.ly/3IeqmucOr complete enquiry form https://bit.ly/3W4J7pz and one of the team will be in touch.

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    • 32 min
    Help, We're Separating! Reboot

    Help, We're Separating! Reboot

    In this special 100th episode of the Smart Divorce podcast, we welcome back our first ever guest, the wonderful counsellor and hypnotherapist Susan Leigh for a reboot of that first discussion. What are the things you should do and think about at the beginning of your divorce journey? Listen in to find out.

    Susan Leigh
    Altrincham, Cheshire, South Manchester counsellor, hypnotherapist, relationship counsellor, writer & media contributor. She's author of 4 books, 'Dealing with Stress, Managing its Impact', '101 Days of Inspiration #tipoftheday' and 'Dealing with Death, Coping with the Pain'; her fourth book, 'Your Divorce Handbook, It's What You Do Next That Counts', is a collaboration between two family lawyers, a mediator, financial planner, mortgage specialist & her wellbeing support, containing the latest information.  To order a copy or for more information, help and free articles visit http://www.lifestyletherapy.net

    Tamsin Caine
    Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.
    You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using https://bit.ly/SmDiv15min. She is also part of the team running Facebook group Separation, Divorce and Dissolution UK
    Tamsin Caine MSc., FPFS
    Chartered Financial Planner
    Smart Divorce Ltd
    https://smartdivorce.co.uk

    P.S. I am the co-author of “My Divorce Handbook – It’s What You Do Next That Counts”, written by divorce specialists and lawyers writing about their area of expertise to help walk you through the divorce process. You can buy it here https://yourdivorcehandbook.co.uk/buy-the-book/


    To learn more about our podcast sponsor Ampla Finance – access their product guide here: https://bit.ly/3IeqmucOr complete enquiry form https://bit.ly/3W4J7pz and one of the team will be in touch.

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    • 42 min
    Could litigation funding help you get fair legal advice?

    Could litigation funding help you get fair legal advice?

    In this episode, Tamsin talks to Hollie Orgee from litigation funding experts Ampla Finance about how their product can be used to ensure spouses are getting fair legal representation. This is particularly relevant where there has been financial or economic abuse or coercive control in a relationship.

    Hollie Orgee

    Hollie Orgee, is the Partnership Director at Ampla Finance. With seven and a half years of experience as a family lawyer in Birmingham, Hollie brings invaluable expertise to our team. At Ampla Finance, we specialize in providing fair and transparent financial solutions tailored to individuals facing divorce and inheritance tax. With over 50 years of lending experience, we offer bespoke services designed to ease the financial strain during challenging life changes. Hollie's leadership ensures our clients receive the support they need to navigate these transitions with confidence and clarity. We're here to make a difficult time more manageable, providing flexible and compassionate assistance every step of the way.
    Tamsin Caine
    Tamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.
    You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using https://bit.ly/SmDiv15min. She is also part of the team running Facebook group Separation, Divorce and Dissolution UK
    Tamsin Caine MSc., FPFS
    Chartered Financial Planner
    Smart Divorce Ltd
    https://smartdivorce.co.uk
    P.S. I am the co-author of “My Divorce Handbook – It’s What You Do Next That Counts”, written by divorce specialists and lawyers writing about their area of expertise to help walk you through the divorce process. You can buy it here https://yourdivorcehandbook.co.uk/buy-the-book/
    To learn more about our podcast sponsor Ampla Finance – access their product guide here: https://bit.ly/3IeqmucOr complete enquiry form https://bit.ly/3W4J7pz and one of the team will be in touch.

    Support the Show.

    • 31 min

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