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Are you a woman feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of a terrible relationship? Are you yearning to do something worthwhile with your life, but it seems that your problems are quicksand keeping you stuck? Join Judith Kambia Obatusa – JKO, every Thursday on the Messy Can’t Stop Her podcast as she shares life learnings and interviews subject matter experts and women who have been in your shoes but have now stepped into a life of purpose and happiness. Together we will learn how we can come out of the chaos, and also share insights on the beliefs and behaviours that affect our lives. If you are a woman who wants to step out of the messy domestic violence trenches and the parenting quagmire and mental health swamp it causes, this podcast is for you.

Messy Can't Stop Her Judith Kambia Obatusa (JKO)

    • Education
    • 5.0 • 21 Ratings

Are you a woman feeling overwhelmed by the challenges of a terrible relationship? Are you yearning to do something worthwhile with your life, but it seems that your problems are quicksand keeping you stuck? Join Judith Kambia Obatusa – JKO, every Thursday on the Messy Can’t Stop Her podcast as she shares life learnings and interviews subject matter experts and women who have been in your shoes but have now stepped into a life of purpose and happiness. Together we will learn how we can come out of the chaos, and also share insights on the beliefs and behaviours that affect our lives. If you are a woman who wants to step out of the messy domestic violence trenches and the parenting quagmire and mental health swamp it causes, this podcast is for you.

    Enjoying the Moments - Aunt Flo’s Monthly Visits and All

    Enjoying the Moments - Aunt Flo’s Monthly Visits and All

    Turning 53 brings a new chapter for JKO!  This week's episode explores the bittersweet transition into menopause, reflecting on periods and celebrating the freedom and confidence that comes with age.  JKO shares tips on savoring life's moments, big and small, even when they come with hormonal shifts. This episode is an empowering reminder to embrace the "messy magic" of life.
    References in this episode
    Healing the Heart Retreat


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    • 12 min
    Living in Alignment with Your Values: The Secret Weapon for Better Health?

    Living in Alignment with Your Values: The Secret Weapon for Better Health?

    JKO explores the surprising link between your values and your well-being. She explains how living a life true to yourself can be the secret weapon for better health, less stress, and more happiness. At the end of this episode, you will also learn how to identify your values and make adjustments to create a life that nourishes your body and soul.
    References in this episode
    Healing the Heart Retreat


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    • 16 min
    They Were My Ride-or-Die: Healing your Broken Trust and Bruised Heart from a Friend's Betrayal

    They Were My Ride-or-Die: Healing your Broken Trust and Bruised Heart from a Friend's Betrayal

    Feeling lost after a friend's betrayal? Today’s episode tackles the pain, forgiveness, and strength needed to rise above it. Learn how to reclaim your self-worth and find peace amidst the storm with biblical wisdom and personal empowerment. Stories, scripture, and the opportunity for self-discovery at the Tobago Retreat await! 
    References in this episode 
    Healing the Heart Retreat 


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    • 25 min
    How to Navigate Marriage with a Christian of Convenience

    How to Navigate Marriage with a Christian of Convenience

    This episode tackles the difficult topic of being married to a Christian of convenience. We explore the emotional toll and offer practical strategies for self-care, maintaining your faith, and building a safe and loving environment for yourself and your children. Join us as we navigate the complexities of this situation, offering honest advice and a glimmer of hope for those feeling alone and confused.
    You are not alone. There is hope.

    References in this episode
    Healing the Heart Retreat
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    • 35 min
    Embracing Self-Love: A Path to Knowing God

    Embracing Self-Love: A Path to Knowing God

    We all search for meaning, for connection with something bigger than ourselves. This episode explores the connection between self-love and understanding the divine. Learn how knowing yourself and loving yourself while embracing your imperfections in all its messy glory allows you to experience the divine.
    References in this episode
    Healing the Heart Retreat
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    • 22 min
    The Gift of Pause: How Separation can Empower Women to Learn, Forgive, Heal, and Activate Faith

    The Gift of Pause: How Separation can Empower Women to Learn, Forgive, Heal, and Activate Faith

    Feeling stuck? Don't hit fast forward! This episode delves into the transformative power of separation for women. Backed by science and real-life stories, Host Judith Kambia Obatusa - JKO explores how taking a break, whether from a relationship, job, or even yourself, can unlock incredible growth. Learn how separation fosters self-discovery, forgiveness, and inner strength. Plus, discover practical tips and an exclusive opportunity to attend the Healing the Heart Retreat taking place in May in Tobago. 
    References in this episode
    Healing the Heart Retreat
    Maria Erving
    Faith as an anchor: Activating the shield of faith to thrive through chaos
    Living a Radically Audacious Life: Tiphany Kane on journeying from subserviency to saying Heck Yes! to life on her own terms 
    Debt, Divorce and Death: 5-time Washingtonian top doctor, beauty Queen and Rotary Leader tells us how she came through the trio stronger - Dr. Pallavi Gowda


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    Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

    • 14 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
21 Ratings

21 Ratings

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Authentic, deep conversations

Judith interviews people in a way that draws out depth and authenticity beyond expectations. She makes space for the realities of struggle and messiness while also bringing inspiration and useful tools to her audience. She is a champion for strong women and very much worth your time.

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Inspired and Moved to take Action!

As I listened to JKO’s soft soothing voice I was transported to a new world filled with opportunity and hope that age is simply a number and we can fulfill our dreams at any age as long as we take action. Thank you for following your dream and sharing your voice. Blessed be Miss Judith.

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I love the positive vibes of this podcast!

I only just learned about this podcast today, and listened to an episode and I am hooked! The conversations are so current and real. I love how Judith talks so slowly, because she knows you want to hear what she’s saying! I want to savor the genuineness, and take in every sound, to feel encouraged and empowered. Wonderful!

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