Happy Side Of Neutral Marcy Ostberg

In this final episode of the season, we reveal the ultimate recipe for happiness!  Well… at least a summary of what we are taking away from all the brilliant women we heard from this season. I’m joined by my sister Heather Johnson who has been behind the scenes helping me process what we are hearing and was happy to chat about her own conclusions.

If you have been following along you will know that I said this would be the final episode. Well, another episode emerged that I think you will love. In this week’s episode, I interview one of the matriarchs of my family Jackie Ostberg. Nana is turning 95 in a few months and during this interview, she shared stories ranging from her childhood to what she’s currently reading and everything in between. Through these stories, we get a glimpse of the things that have continued to hold meaning and what has left her feeling happy as she looks back at her life.

Influencers mentioned:

The Book of Delights by Ross Gay

This week I’m joined by Corey Zehngebot. Corey is an urban designer, architect, and planner. She has worked in both government and the private sector. I know Corey from her time at the City of Boston, where she was one of the creative, outside-of-the-box thinkers that I gravitated to. But in this episode, we flipped the script and Corey mostly interviewed me. Corey has recently decided to take a sabbatical of her own. We got to talking about the value of taking this time and how to make the best use of it.

Influencers discussed:


Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents by Isabel Wilkerson
Range: Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World by David Epstein
Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor by Layla F. Saad
Civilla, a non-profit design studio reimagining public institutions https://civilla.org/
What Is Life Like When We Subtract Work From It? by Joe Pinsker The Atlantic May 23, 2022

We are taking a one-week break from the release schedule. So, while you are anxiously waiting for the next episode to drop, I would love to hear your thoughts. A few questions I have for you:


What has resonated with you from episodes you have listened to so far?
What themes have you heard across multiple guests?
Any other thoughts you want to share?

Here are a few ways you can collaborate:


For folks listening on Spotify or Anchor, you can respond to the Q+A.
Put your thoughts in this form here https://bit.ly/happysidethoughts
Or drop me a line at Marcy.Ostberg@gmail.com

Alex Lawrence has worked in both the public and non-profit sectors in roles aimed at making systems and services work better for the people they are meant to serve. She recently stepped into a big role on Boston Mayor Michelle Wu’s cabinet and is energized by the role. Alex has held many hard jobs and in her assessment of what made some life-giving and others draining she described three key ingredients to feeling fulfilled in her work. Hear from Alex about being busy and balanced and how unique the equation of finding happiness is to each individual.

Alex’s recommend influencers:


The Practice of Adaptive Leadership by Ronald Heifetz

This week on the Happy Side of Neutral I speak with Tamara Roy, a Boston-based architect, and her daughter, Via Boley, an up-and-coming artist about the challenges of being women in their fields and hear a mother/daughter perspective on searching for balance. Listen in as Tamara shares some pragmatic parenting tips born out of necessity and pushes against the idea of balance altogether.

Tammar and Via’s recommended influencers:


The Woman They Could Not Silence by Kate Moore
The Matrix by Lauren Groff
The Great Women Artists Podcast by Katy Hessel
Funny Weather: Art in An Emergency by Olivia Laing

Other things mentioned:


The Distance I Can Be From My Son by Lenka Clayton
Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff