233 episodes

Parenting isn't easy, and it's normal to worry. Lynn Lyons, therapist, author, and speaker is one of the world's experts on helping parents, kids, and teens manage anxiety. She talks with co-host and sister-in-law Robin Hutson in a weekly podcast full of laughs, and practical advice without the psychobabble. At the beginning of the pandemic, Lynn and Robin started the Flusterclux podcast when their parenting retreats went on hiatus, and they're now 2 years in, talking about anxiety and worry, their love for Mr. Rogers, and the crazy things the mental health field gets WRONG about anxiety.
Anxiety Expert Lynn Lyons has been a therapist for over 30 years. She's an author of 3 books with a new one coming out in October and has traveled around the US and Canada training hundreds of audiences teachers, school nurses, counselors and parents about managing anxiety.
Flusterclux represents that feeling of overwhelm. Each episode is filled with practical advice for parents how to better manage their worry and big feelings like anger and sadness so that they are modeling healthy emotional awareness.
Lynn answers listener questions and gives parents concrete strategies for developing the traits that are their kids' best defenses against anxiety and depression later in life: flexibility, resilience, autonomy, and problem solving. New episodes every Friday at 5AM EST.
Find us at flusterclux.com https://www.facebook.com/flusterclux https://www.instagram.com/flusterclux/

Flusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry Lynn Lyons LICSW, Robin Hutson

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 374 Ratings

Parenting isn't easy, and it's normal to worry. Lynn Lyons, therapist, author, and speaker is one of the world's experts on helping parents, kids, and teens manage anxiety. She talks with co-host and sister-in-law Robin Hutson in a weekly podcast full of laughs, and practical advice without the psychobabble. At the beginning of the pandemic, Lynn and Robin started the Flusterclux podcast when their parenting retreats went on hiatus, and they're now 2 years in, talking about anxiety and worry, their love for Mr. Rogers, and the crazy things the mental health field gets WRONG about anxiety.
Anxiety Expert Lynn Lyons has been a therapist for over 30 years. She's an author of 3 books with a new one coming out in October and has traveled around the US and Canada training hundreds of audiences teachers, school nurses, counselors and parents about managing anxiety.
Flusterclux represents that feeling of overwhelm. Each episode is filled with practical advice for parents how to better manage their worry and big feelings like anger and sadness so that they are modeling healthy emotional awareness.
Lynn answers listener questions and gives parents concrete strategies for developing the traits that are their kids' best defenses against anxiety and depression later in life: flexibility, resilience, autonomy, and problem solving. New episodes every Friday at 5AM EST.
Find us at flusterclux.com https://www.facebook.com/flusterclux https://www.instagram.com/flusterclux/

    Best of: How to Raise Problem Solvers

    Best of: How to Raise Problem Solvers

    Don’t we all want to raise problem-solvers? Today we are recasting one of our most popular episodes in which we break down specific steps that parents can put into practice. 
    We must give our kids the practice of creating solutions and not fixing things for them. This episode also wraps up the third of a previously-released three-part series on the principal skills that children need for a strong foundation in mental health (along with flexibility and autonomy). We encourage you to check out these other episodes (Season 4, Episode 4 & Season 4, Episode 5; available at flusterclux.com). 

    WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS.
    Here is our first:
    Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here
    For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy.
    Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.
     
    WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE!
    We will select two listeners who complete our listener survey. We hope it is you!
     
    FOLLOW US
    Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids.
    Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram.
    Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube.

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    • 48 min
    Best of: Developing Your Kid’s Flexibility From Toddlers to Teens

    Best of: Developing Your Kid’s Flexibility From Toddlers to Teens

    A kid with a flexible brain becomes a person who can go with the flow when life doesn’t unfold as planned. Handling the unexpected is a critical skill in most scenarios. Rigidity just makes life harder. What does it mean to be cognitively flexible and how can you help your child get there?

    WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS.
    Here is our first:
    Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here
    For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy.
    Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.
     
    WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE!
    We will select two listeners who complete our listener survey. We hope it is you!
     
    FOLLOW US
    Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids.
    Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram.
    Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube.

    VISIT OUR SPONSORS FOR SPECIAL OFFERS JUST FOR YOU:
    Go to hellobello.com/FLUSTER, to get thirty percent off your first customized bundle, AND a full-size freebie product of your choice.
    Sign up for Greenlight today and get your first month free when you go to greenlight.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to earthbreeze.com/FLUSTERCLUX for forty percent off your subscription!
    Get 20% off your first order when you go to LIQUIDIV.com and use code FLUSTER at checkout.
    Get 20% OFF Honeylove by going to honeylove.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to zocdoc.com/FLUSTER and download the ZOCDOC app for free. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.
    Our listeners get an additional 15% off an annual Master Class membership at MASTERCLASS.com/FLUSTER.
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    • 43 min
    Best of: Developing Your Kid’s Autonomy: How Controlling Are You?

    Best of: Developing Your Kid’s Autonomy: How Controlling Are You?

    In Season 4, we offered a three-episode series in which we unpacked Lynn's big triad: Autonomy, Flexibility, and Problem Solving. These essential skills help prevent mental health issues from developing, and, of course, Lynn will tell you how to nurture them in your children. We tackle autonomy in this episode and the important question every parent should ask: "How controlling am I with my kids?"

    WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS.
    Here is our first:
    Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here
    For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy.
    Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.
     
    WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE!
    We will select two listeners who complete our listener survey. We hope it is you!
     
    FOLLOW US
    Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids.
    Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram.
    Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube.

    VISIT OUR SPONSORS FOR SPECIAL OFFERS JUST FOR YOU:
    Go to hellobello.com/FLUSTER, to get thirty percent off your first customized bundle, AND a full-size freebie product of your choice.
    Sign up for Greenlight today and get your first month free when you go to greenlight.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to earthbreeze.com/FLUSTERCLUX for forty percent off your subscription!
    Get 20% off your first order when you go to LIQUIDIV.com and use code FLUSTER at checkout.
    Get 20% OFF Honeylove by going to honeylove.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to zocdoc.com/FLUSTER and download the ZOCDOC app for free. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.
    Our listeners get an additional 15% off an annual Master Class membership at MASTERCLASS.com/FLUSTER.
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    • 42 min
    Best of: Listener Questions on Handling Child Outbursts, Perfectionism, and Doubting Your Therapist

    Best of: Listener Questions on Handling Child Outbursts, Perfectionism, and Doubting Your Therapist

    In this recast of a Season 5 episode, we answer listener questions from three different families with five-year olds about handling big emotions and fears. Rigidity, disappointment, tantrums, new schools…issues that most parents of all kids will encounter! And, we have a conversation on those red flags that might lead you to consider a new therapist.

    WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS.
    Here is our first:
    Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here
    For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy.
    Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.
     
    WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE!
    We will select two listeners who complete our listener survey. We hope it is you!
     
    FOLLOW US
    Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids.
    Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram.
    Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube.

    VISIT OUR SPONSORS FOR SPECIAL OFFERS JUST FOR YOU:
    Go to hellobello.com/FLUSTER, to get thirty percent off your first customized bundle, AND a full-size freebie product of your choice.
    Sign up for Greenlight today and get your first month free when you go to greenlight.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to earthbreeze.com/FLUSTERCLUX for forty percent off your subscription!
    Get 20% off your first order when you go to LIQUIDIV.com and use code FLUSTER at checkout.
    Get 20% OFF Honeylove by going to honeylove.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to zocdoc.com/FLUSTER and download the ZOCDOC app for free. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.
    Our listeners get an additional 15% off an annual Master Class membership at MASTERCLASS.com/FLUSTER.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 50 min
    Best of: Use This Summer to Practice DIY Exposure Therapy

    Best of: Use This Summer to Practice DIY Exposure Therapy

    When children are hesitant or afraid of something, they often avoid, refuse, or even explode. The good news? You can work with your child on your own using the principles of exposure therapy, role playing and front loading. Here’s your DIY plan for stepping in and developing more resilience. 

    WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS.
    Here is our first:
    Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here
    For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy.
    Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.
     
    WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE!
    We will select two listeners who complete our listener survey. We hope it is you!
     
    FOLLOW US
    Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids.
    Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram.
    Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube.

    VISIT OUR SPONSORS FOR SPECIAL OFFERS JUST FOR YOU:
    Go to songfinch.com/FLUSTER and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!
    Sign up for Greenlight today and get your first month free when you go to greenlight.com/FLUSTER.
    Our listeners get an additional 15% off an annual Master Class membership at MASTERCLASS.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to zocdoc.com/FLUSTER and download the ZOCDOC app for free. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.
    Get 20% off your first order when you go to LIQUIDIV.com and use code FLUSTER at checkout.
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    • 37 min
    Handling Our Own Anxiety About Our Kids Becoming Teenagers

    Handling Our Own Anxiety About Our Kids Becoming Teenagers

    This episode tackles a relatable and critical question from a listener: what do I do about my own anxiety as my child goes from kid to tween to teen? The key is learning the difference between normal adolescent development and your parental anxiety’s desire to take charge. 

    WE'VE MADE PLAYLISTS OF OUR EPISODES TO HELP YOU FIND RESOURCES ON SPECIFIC TOPICS.
    Here is our first:
    Parents of Anxious Kids, Start Here
    For those brand new to the podcast, we suggest starting with this playlist featuring Lynn Lyons and the 7-part anxiety disruptor series as well as a 3-part series on the skills most helpful in managing anxious kids: flexibility, problem solving, and autonomy.
    Consult our Spotify profile for the most up-to-date selection.
     
    WIN A COPY OF THE ANXIETY AUDIT COURSE!
    We will select two listeners who complete our listener survey. We hope it is you!
     
    FOLLOW US
    Join the Facebook group to get news on the upcoming courses for parents, teens, and kids.
    Follow Flusterclux on Facebook and Instagram.
    Follow Lynn Lyons on Twitter and Youtube.

    VISIT OUR SPONSORS FOR SPECIAL OFFERS JUST FOR YOU:
    Go to songfinch.com/FLUSTER and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value!
    Sign up for Greenlight today and get your first month free when you go to greenlight.com/FLUSTER.
    Our listeners get an additional 15% off an annual Master Class membership at MASTERCLASS.com/FLUSTER.
    Go to zocdoc.com/FLUSTER and download the ZOCDOC app for free. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.
    Get 20% off your first order when you go to LIQUIDIV.com and use code FLUSTER at checkout.
    Go to melin.com and use code FLUSTER at checkout for 30% off.
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 22 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
374 Ratings

374 Ratings

From120475639 ,

Fantastic resource and engaging delivery

This podcast always has the most helpful and useful information and I love listening to it. Lynn Lyons is a treasure who is insightful and passionate about helping families and individuals with their worry, stress, and anxiety. She lays out helpful framework and tools in an easy to understand format. I highly recommend this podcast.

FC groupie 4 eva ,

FC groupie

I am the mom of a 6 year old with selective mutism, social anxiety, all the sensory problems, rigidity, and global thinking patterns, and this podcast has changed our lives for the better as a family. Have been listening for 6 months now. Forget “the Rogan experience” , “the daily” and all those other highly followed podcasts….. THIS is the true life altering stuff. Flusterclux should be a required listen, right there next to birthing and nursing classes. I am a total groupie now, and recommend to listen to my parent friends all the time.

Acdresqr ,

Life changing!

I found Lynn and Robin, about a year ago, with the help of God, the universe, or some extremely insightful algorithms. Whatever the reason, I am so grateful to both of them for sharing their wisdom and humor with us! With their support, my eyes have been opened to the sticky brain patterns I’ve had my whole life (I am 47), how they have hindered my mental health, and how those patterns affect my children and all my relationships. I am forever grateful to both of you for offering me this new perspective on life and how I can affect change for myself and those I interact with at home and at work.

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