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FreedHearts Susan & Rob Cottrell, FreedHearts
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- Religion & Spirituality
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4.9 • 222 Ratings
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"Deconstructing religious baggage with laughter and love! Changing the conversation on love and inclusion." Susan Cottrell is the Mom of two LGBTQ children; the founder of FreedHearts; an international speaker with a viral TEDx talk; a pastor and theologian; an acclaimed author; and a fierce advocate and ally. In her unique tender, relatable style, Susan is a prominent voice of unconditional love and lavish inclusion. Powerful, authentic, and relevant in today’s society, Susan has a lot to say. The Advocate calls her their “Favorite Affirming Matriarch.” OutSmart magazine calls her "The Mother of all MamaBears!" Reverend Ashley Harness from Auburn Seminary says, “Susan has this fierce, loving, don’t mess with me, Mom vibe.” If you have been excluded, or if someone close to you has been excluded because of who they are or who they love - or maybe you have been the one doing the excluding - the FreedHearts podcast is for you. Join Susan, along with her husband Rob, on the journey. You are not alone. Welcome home!
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Does the Church Actually Teach us to Hate God??
Today, we talk about the Teaching of Contempt for God – and how the church actually teaches us to hate God!!We may not realize that, amidst the singing of praises, and saying, “Oh God is so good!” but all of it is over a trapdoor of seething contempt for a God who we are taught is capable of some horrible stuff.That’s our understanding from religion, and it's by design! Why??So, they can keep you in the pews and add the conditions that if we just do the right things, believe the right t...
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Does the Church Actually Teach us to Hate Ourselves?
You only can define God or even think about God in relation to us and the relationship with us.So, it’s important to know who are we.Today, we talk about the church’s teaching of contempt for YOU. How the church actually teaches us to hate ourselves!We talk about who we are, and how God, the Universe, Spirit, really truly feels about us. In the midst of all the hate and attack out there, wow – we really need this.We need to find that peace, the kingdom of heaven Jesus said is right now, that ...
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Having Fun with SLOTH and GLUTTONY!
Let's have some fun with sloth and gluttony!Have you been told you’re not working hard enough, that you just want things handed to you while you sit around and do nothing? Isn’t that the trope? That you just need to work harder, and that if you’re not making it, it’s your fault!Mohamad Safa says, “People aren’t going hungry because we cannot feed the poor. People are going hungry because we cannot satisfy the rich.” Yes!Billionaires, politicians roll around in power and money, working t...
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Yikes! What About ENVY and WRATH?
Today, we talk about envy and wrath. Yikes, scary!Breathe. We are all okay. That’s why we are deconstructing this -- to free our hearts from this fear.People in power often accuse and shame us in the very things they do!It’s all about projecting. They project onto us their sins, their crimes. That sleight of hand, that narrative keeps us focusing on our own hearts, and not on theirs.Our goal here is to free us from the shame and guilt that is poured on to us so others can maintain their power...
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Oh Baby… Let’s Talk All About LUST!
We’ve been deconstructing the so-called "7 Deadly Sins" — and today we talk about LUST!The non-affirming church makes rules telling you that you’re lustful—your beautiful relationships are demeaned and reduced to being about lust—because there is no room in the church to affirm you.And we ask: Why the heck does it matter what religious leaders say? Why do people’s lives turn on the approval or non-approval of these authority figures?This is our 150th episode… and we are going to have some fun...
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GREED: Is There an Upside??
Have you ever wondered why the conservative nonaffirming rules-based church is so upside-down? They focus downline, shaming and threatening regular people who are just trying to live.Meanwhile, these leaders are hiding rampant child sexual abuse and promoting teachings that are racist, misogynistic, queerphobic, especially transphobic.We’ve been talking about how the teachings of religion are Teachings of Contempt, at every level.In this episode, we continue our deconstruction of the "7 deadl...
Customer Reviews
Fantastic podcast. Brilliant people. I love these two! So much.
I really appreciated the episode on the church teaching us to hate ourselves. It’s the hardest area to deconstruct, further depending on what all and how much is behind it. It’s easy to give grace to others, it’s hard to for ourselves. It’s also hard when we feel we’ve fallen from grace from those we believe love us most. The idea behind Robert and Susan’s grandchild just learning by existing and experimenting was a loving example of what it was always supposed to be for all of us throughout life. It doesn’t stop when we learn to walk and talk and listen. Dolores Cannon says this is Planet Trauma and we come here to learn. Learn through experimenting, learn through our mistakes, learn through interactions. And every life cycle we get better. This is a common theme in FreedHearts of graceful tenderness towards others and ourselves and valuing and celebrating one another’s lives and what we offer. Loving because we exist and breathe and not because we fit a certain mold. Loving just because. Loving inclusively. Making room at the table. Creating the world of our daydreams that makes room for all without judgment. I appreciate the reminders each episode brings and the time Robert and Susan take to make these episodes in the midst of all their business. They have good hearts and good intentions and lots of love they intentionally shower us through their work. This lesbian appreciated them and loved them dearly.
- Shae Rosemary Limtiaco, LGBTQ Founder of Ethereal Connections, Podcast Host of ClairView Chronicles, and Paranormal Investigator with AGHOST
Best podcast EVER
Thanks for bringing common sense spirituality to a very noisy evangelical world! Can’t get enough of these podcasts- you guys are the best at pulling back the curtain and exposing the real truth! Y’all are The. Best!!
Bless you both!
Finding you both and this podcast has been at the most perfect time in my life! Thank you for speaking the TRUTH and LOVE of Jesus Christ!