The Irreplaceable Man Podcast

Ian Lobas
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Welcome to The Irreplaceable Man Podcast, where we believe that every man has the potential to become the irreplaceable man and husband that he knows he is capable of being - and the one that his wife would never want to leave. Each week, we feature high-level irreplaceable men who have evolved their lives to become the best version of themselves for themselves, their families, their communities, and the world. We give our listeners a full, in-depth, unfiltered look into the systems, strategies, and support it takes to truly become an irreplaceable man.

  1. Effective, Clear, and Powerful Communication with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 312

    05/06/2023

    Effective, Clear, and Powerful Communication with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 312

    What you will learn in this episode: - The most common communication challenges men experience in their marriages. - The impact that communication challenges have on your relationship with your partner and how your partner is feeling. - Strategies for identifying the personal communication challenges you are struggling with. - Choosing which communication habits resonated with you the most and how to implement them. - Integrating these exercises into your daily life to improve your communication skills in your home and work life. - Implementing active listening techniques in your relationship. - How to best respond when your partner is not using active listening techniques. - Communicating your needs and desires more effectively to your partner. - Handling communication breakdowns in a more productive way. - Strategies to prevent communication breakdowns from happening in the first place. - How to incorporate & practice active listening - How to build upon & strengthen your current communication skills to strengthen your relationship with your partner. CONNECT WITH US: EMAIL: support@thelobasgroup.com WEBSITE: https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theirreplaceablemancommunity/ FOLLOW US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iamianlobas/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/theirreplaceablemanpodcast/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theirreplaceableman/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w #Communication #Activelistening #Improvecommunication

    57min
  2. Trust Transformed: Resetting Financial and Physical Trust with Your Spouse with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 311

    29/05/2023

    Trust Transformed: Resetting Financial and Physical Trust with Your Spouse with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 311

    What you will learn in this episode: Strategies for rebuilding physical trust by creating a safe and supportive environment Tips for rebuilding financial trust by being transparent and honest about financial matters Techniques for establishing clear boundaries and expectations around financial matters Setting clear boundaries & Expectations around physical & financial goals.  How to ommunicate effectively about what you want from your partner physically.  Addressing past traumas & triggers that affect your physical & financial world.  Why building intimacy gradually is massively important Staying patient with yourself and your spouse as you build the foundations back up.  Creating a positive physical environment for you & your spouse to feel safe.  How to set clear financial goals together and stick with them.  The benefits of creating a joint budget. Why practicing transparency will get you farther faster.  Set financial expectations & boundaries with each other and honoring your commitments.  Getting clear about each others relationship with money and how to help each other grow through it.  How to practice regular financial check-ins with your partner.  Why celebrating small wins & staying positive is crucial to your foundation & future.  Addressing underlying issues quickly and purposefully.  CONNECT WITH US: EMAIL: support@thelobasgroup.com WEBSITE: https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theirreplaceablemancommunity/ FOLLOW US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iamianlobas/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/theirreplaceablemanpodcast/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theirreplaceableman/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w #trust #physicaltrust #financialtrust

    1h1min
  3. Restoring & Rebuilding Communication & Competence Trust In Your Marriage with Meredith and Ian Lobas - Episode 310

    22/05/2023

    Restoring & Rebuilding Communication & Competence Trust In Your Marriage with Meredith and Ian Lobas - Episode 310

    What you will learn in this episode as well as questions to ask yourself and your partner to gain clarity & traction quickly!  Ways to rebuild competence trust by improving decision-making and follow-through skills What specific decision-making or follow-through skills do you need to work on to rebuild trust in your relationship? What specific actions can you take to improve your decision-making and follow-through skills? How can you hold yourself accountable to follow through on commitments and decisions? How can you communicate your decisions and actions to your partner in a way that builds trust? What barriers or challenges might you encounter in rebuilding competence trust, and how can you overcome them? What support or resources do you need to successfully rebuild competence trust in your relationship? What systems & structure can you put into place to ensure that you will be consistently rebuilding competency & reliability trust? Tips for rebuilding communication trust by being honest and transparent with your partner: What fears or concerns do you have about being honest and transparent with your partner? How can you communicate your feelings and needs in a way that is honest and respectful? How can you actively listen to your partner and validate their perspective? What specific steps can you take to rebuild trust through honest and transparent communication? How can you repair trust if you have been dishonest in the past? What role does empathy play in rebuilding communication trust, and how can you cultivate it in your relationship? Techniques for improving communication skills and building a deeper understanding of each other's needs and perspectives: What communication patterns or habits do you need to change to build a deeper understanding in your relationship? How can you actively listen to your partner and seek to understand their perspective? How can you express your own needs and feelings in a way that is clear and respectful? What techniques can you use to avoid defensiveness and conflict when discussing difficult topics? How can you build empathy and understanding for your partner's perspective, even if you don't agree with them? What role does self-reflection and self-awareness play in building a deeper understanding in your relationship? CONNECT WITH US: EMAIL: support@thelobasgroup.com WEBSITE: https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theirreplaceablemancommunity/ FOLLOW US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iamianlobas/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/theirreplaceablemanpodcast/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theirreplaceableman/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w #communication #trust #marriage

    1h6min
  4. Rebuilding Emotional & Reliability Trust with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 309

    15/05/2023

    Rebuilding Emotional & Reliability Trust with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 309

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    1h3min
  5. The 6 Types of Trust In Your Marriage with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 308

    08/05/2023

    The 6 Types of Trust In Your Marriage with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 308

    What you will learn in this episode: - The 6 Trust Types - How they are broken - How they can be repaired - Why you are breaking trust and How to stop repeating the cycle - Our story of how we broke and repaired each one of these - An exercise you can use to start doing the work now! - Much More! 12-Step Guide To Becoming An Irreplaceable Husband: http://www.Irreplaceableman.com Book a Free Strategy Call with Ian: https://calendly.com/ianlobas/group-coaching-strategy-call Sign Up for The Irreplaceable Man Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvF Monday LIVE Irreplaceable Man Podcast Recording: https://fb.me/e/4db3F08kg Thursday FREE Group Training: https://fb.me/e/UE2Qyf99 Weekly Planning Guide for Couples: https://grow.irreplaceableman.com/tim-couples-weekly-planning-guide/ 6 Trust Types Assessment: https://grow.irreplaceableman.com/6-trust-types-assessment/ CONNECT WITH US: EMAIL: support@thelobasgroup.com WEBSITE: https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theirreplaceablemancommunity/ FOLLOW US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iamianlobas/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/theirreplaceablemanpodcast/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theirreplaceableman/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w #trust #relationship #marriage

    1h6min
  6. Deepen The Trust In Your Relationship with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 307

    03/05/2023

    Deepen The Trust In Your Relationship with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 307

    What you will learn in this episode: The hidden ways trust is broken What your wife is thinking and how she feels How the little things add up to be a big deal What causes trust issues in a relationship What you can do to start to course correct Examples from our marriage on how we rebuilt Systems & Strategies you can use now. Your value outside of provider and protector The Replaceable Man Avatars CONNECT WITH US: EMAIL: support@thelobasgroup.com WEBSITE: https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theirreplaceablemancommunity/ FOLLOW US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iamianlobas/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/theirreplaceablemanpodcast/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theirreplaceableman/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w #trust #relationship #theirreplaceableman

    54min

  7. 20/03/2023

    Building Irreplaceable Trust with Meredith & Ian Lobas - Episode 306

    Episode 306 dives deep into the journey of personal growth and development in both individuals and as a couple. We discuss how being a work in progress and how taking ownership of your own growth can benefit not only yourself but also your partner. One common theme that we explore is the idea of men feeling like they have no other value in the world besides money. We challenge this notion and talk about how bad behavior can become a reflection of fear, and how showing up as the man your partner needs you to be is an important part of creating a strong, healthy relationship. We also address the unfair expectation that wives need to do all the work in marriage and the assumption that women do not need us just because they are strong. We discuss how mother's instincts and trauma triggers can impact relationships and marriages and the importance of addressing these issues head-on. Throughout the episode, we stress the importance of communication and building a strong bond of trust between partners. We talk about how changing doesn’t necessarily mean that your partner will automatically trust those changes.If you want to improve your relationship with your partner or even just yourself, check out our website and apply to join our community https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/. Quick Timestamps 00:01:53 What Meredith’s Thought Process Was When She Was About to Leave 00:04:33 When Ian’s Replaceability Began 00:05:01 Being in a Delusional State 00:06:56 Husbands Expecting Wives to Do All the Work 00:09:48 Attaching Your Value On Money 00:11:00 The Misconception Behind Being a Mediocre Husband 00:13:37 Building the Life You Want vs. Facing the Regret in the Future 00:15:16 The Assumption That Our Wives Do Not Need Us Because They Are “Strong” 00:16:40 The 12 Patterns Guide 00:22:04 Natural Motherly Instinct 00:27:24 Being Constantly Busy Is An Excuse 00:28:57 Trauma Triggers 00:30:11 Changing Doesn’t Mean Your Wife Would Automatically Trust Those Changes 00:37:10 The Karma Gross 00:42:31 Putting Down the Fear of Being Judged 00:44:21 Trusting Yourself Through Evidence-Based Action 00:50:37 The Toxicity of Not Addressing Problems 00:56:01 Membership Announcement CONNECT WITH US: EMAIL: support@thelobasgroup.com WEBSITE: https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/  FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theirreplaceablemancommunity/  FOLLOW US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iamianlobas/  FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/theirreplaceablemanpodcast/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theirreplaceableman/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w #PersonalGrowthAndDevelopment #HealthyRelationships #CommunicationIsKey

    1h1min
  8. Purpose Comes From Pain With Raylen Davis - Episode 305

    14/03/2023

    Purpose Comes From Pain With Raylen Davis - Episode 305

    Episode 305 examines the choice between victimhood and taking ownership of your life, and how it impacts your success. In this episode, Raylen Davis from the Elevated Coaches Academy joins us to discuss the power of leaning into discomfort to achieve success. We explore the importance of focusing on the emotional and inner self, and how mentorship can be a powerful tool for growth. We also discuss the detrimental effects of creating meaning around things and the steps to take in turning your life around. Raylen shares insights on choosing between victimhood and letting go of it, and decoding the formula for success. Taking full ownership and responsibility of your life and marriage is essential to finding fulfillment, as is being present and understanding your authentic desires. We delve into how to access the power that is already within you, the benefits of slowing down to speed up, and how a serving mindset and language can transform your life. As Raylen says, "purpose comes from pain." Join us as we explore this concept and gain valuable insights on how to live a more purposeful life. Listen to the episode and learn more from https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/. Quick Timestamps  00:04:47 Raylen Story About Programming 00:06:47 Leaning Into Two Things for Success 00:07:46 Focusing on the Emotional Side (the inner self) 8:27-9:56 IAN GOLD 00:09:58 Power of Mentorship 00:12:06 Creating Meaning Around Things 00:12:59 Raylen’s Defining Moment 00:16:10 Creating Meaning Around Things 00:16:34 Decoding the Victim and Success Formula 16:59-18:15 IAN GOLD 00:18:55 Taking Full Ownership and Responsibility 19:41-20:52 IAN GOLD 21:34-23:46 IAN GOLD: Ball Off the Foot 00:23:57 Taking Responsibility 00:25:55 Being Present 00:31:04 Understanding What You Want 31:56-36:50 IAN GOLD: Defining Success 00:37:14 Self-Mastery by Robert Green 00:38:00 Power vs. Force 00:38:39 How to Access the Power That Is Already in You 42:57-44:19 IAN GOLD: Slowing Down 45:22 - 47:36 Should & Could Mindset 00:47:38 Power of Cold Plunge 00:49:07 Serving or Not Serving 01:00:00 Purpose Comes From Pain Books or Articles mentioned: Self-Mastery by Robert Green & Power vs. Force by David Hawking Connect with Guest ❤️ Website: elevatedcoachesacademy.com 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raylendavis/ 📩 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/raylendavis/ FOLLOW US ON: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iamianlobas/ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/theirreplaceablemanpodcast/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theirreplaceableman/ YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLRr94kEsddMBWz9fArFP2w #victimhood #takingresponsibility #purposefrompain

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Welcome to The Irreplaceable Man Podcast, where we believe that every man has the potential to become the irreplaceable man and husband that he knows he is capable of being - and the one that his wife would never want to leave. Each week, we feature high-level irreplaceable men who have evolved their lives to become the best version of themselves for themselves, their families, their communities, and the world. We give our listeners a full, in-depth, unfiltered look into the systems, strategies, and support it takes to truly become an irreplaceable man.

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  • Criado por
    Ian Lobas
  • Anos de atividade
    2018 - 2023
  • Episódios
    151
  • Classificação
    Explícito
  • Copyright
    © Ian Lobas
  • Site do podcast
    The Irreplaceable Man Podcast