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The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole.

We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.

Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.

You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.

If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.

You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.

This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.

The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.

You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.

This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.

There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.

You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.

You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.

And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.

This is not a “stretch goal” for you.

This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.

And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.


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Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast Steve Horsmon & Dan Dore

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The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole.

We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.

Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.

You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.

If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.

You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.

This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.

The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.

You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.

This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.

There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.

You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.

You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.

And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.

This is not a “stretch goal” for you.

This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.

And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.


Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

    The Power To Make Your Wife Feel Attracted Or Not

    The Power To Make Your Wife Feel Attracted Or Not

    I speak to a lot of men in struggling marriages who want to learn how to make their wife feel attracted to them again.

    In this episode I explain how I use horses and horse training to teach men how the way they communicate is much more powerful in creating the happy, passionate marriage they want than they might have understood before.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
     https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
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    You...

    • 3 min
    How Do I Get My Wife To Have Sex With Me?

    How Do I Get My Wife To Have Sex With Me?

    How do I get my wife to have sex with me? I was looking for that answer for many, many years in my 28 year marriage. What I found out during the breakdown of the attraction, affection, trust and respect in my marriage was that we men often try tools and tactics that do the very opposite of creating desire and attraction in our wives and then we get frustrated by her unwillingness and unreasonableness to want to have sex with us.

    In this episode I talk more about how this shows up in most men's marriages and what you need to understand to be able to turn it around.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
     https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots...

    • 4 min
    The Cure For Your Frustrating Sex Life

    The Cure For Your Frustrating Sex Life

    Do you have a frustrating sex life? Are you in a sexless or low sex marriage or relationship? Do you have a higher sex drive than your partner and end up feeling horny and frustrated at the lack of intimacy and sex in your life?

    In this episode I describe the counter-intuitive truth behind why your sex life is a constant, frustrating game of cat and mouse chase and what needs to happen to make everything change. Don't be surprised when your wife starts to initiate again.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
     https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to...

    • 6 min
    Unhappy Man Or Unhappy Marriage You Choose

    Unhappy Man Or Unhappy Marriage You Choose

    Are you an unhappy man in an unhappy marriage? Most advice to create a happier life and relationship focuses on trying to control the circumstances and manipulate your wife to get her to change her behaviour.

    In this episode I explain why your perspective and focus should be on who you are as a man, what you want and where you're headed because that's all the control you have over anything. The results from being that man are the results that are supposed to happen.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
     https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be...

    • 2 min
    Attraction Secrets Don't Apologise To Your Wife

    Attraction Secrets Don't Apologise To Your Wife

    There are many websites that will tell you the secret to attraction with your wife is don't apologise. Do you notice yourself apologising to your wife often and wishing she would apologise for her stuff too?

    In this episode I explain the difference between being overly apologetic and being unapologetic and how they both have an effect on the attraction in your relationship.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
     https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video:...

    • 3 min
    Stuck In An Unaffectionate Marriage?

    Stuck In An Unaffectionate Marriage?

    Are you stuck in an unaffectionate marriage? Is your wife cold, distant and closed off to you? Does she sit on her phone all the time or keep going out with friends rather than spend time with you?

    In this episode I talk about a different perspective that we teach men with our coaching programs. If you are willing to accept the seven day challenge I'd love to hear how it goes for you. What have you got to lose?

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
     https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/work-with-steve/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video:...

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