409 episodes

The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole.

We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.

Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.

You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.

If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.

You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.

This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.

The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.

You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.

This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.

There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.

You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.

You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.

And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.

This is not a “stretch goal” for you.

This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.

And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.


Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast Steve Horsmon & Dan Dore

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The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole.

We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action.

Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face.

You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men.

If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you.

You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness.

This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain.

The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone.

You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you.

This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men.

There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself.

You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances.

You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry.

And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality.

This is not a “stretch goal” for you.

This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living.

And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time.


Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

    How To Calm Your Anxiety About Your Pending Divorce

    How To Calm Your Anxiety About Your Pending Divorce

    Searching for information on how to calm your anxiety about your pending divorce? It's one of the most difficult, emotionally crippling events that can happen to a man - I know, I've lived through it and now support hundreds of men going through the same fears, doubts and uncertainty.

    In this episode I talk about where the anxiety comes from, what causes it and how you can take action now to start changing that.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video:...

    • 4 min
    Are You Letting Your Fear Define Your Life?

    Are You Letting Your Fear Define Your Life?

    Are you letting your fear define your life and relationships? So many men I speak to have a paralysing fear of how their wife or boss or friend or colleague is going to react to them if they really say what they want to or be who they want to be.

    In this episode I use an analogy to show how you can choose a totally different way to be as a man, lover, husband, father, leader and creator of the life you really want.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video:...

    • 5 min
    Help Your Wife Relax & Trust You To Lead

    Help Your Wife Relax & Trust You To Lead

    Do you want to help your wife relax & trust you to lead the relationship to more fun, more passion, more relaxation, more intimacy and more adventures?

    In this episode I talk about how you can bring a common skill we use every day, multiple times a day into your marriage and watch as it changes everything for the better.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13h36xaBvyTPVAES4-4rXw?sub_confirmation=1
     
    You...

    • 5 min
    Respond To Your Wife's Criticism As A Calm Masculine Man

    Respond To Your Wife's Criticism As A Calm Masculine Man

    Would you like to know how to respond better, as a mature masculine man? Are you struggling with your wife's criticism of you? Do you keep getting triggered, upset and resentful at the most pointless arguments?

    In this episode I talk about why this is an essential skill to learn if you want to save your marriage opr rekindle connection, passion and intimacy in your romantic monogamous relationship.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video:...

    • 3 min
    Is Your Wife Thinking About Divorcing You?

    Is Your Wife Thinking About Divorcing You?

    How do you know if your wife is thinking about divorcing you? Are there signs that can help you be prepared? How do you avoid the worst thing happening and have the best chance of saving your marriage?

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't WANT to...trust us on that.
     
    Sign up to receive our email newsletters for lots more free tips and advice here: https://archive.aweber.com/stevemain
     
    Subscribe to be notified whenever we upload a new video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC13h36xaBvyTPVAES4-4rXw?sub_confirmation=1
     
    You can watch all our videos here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/video-library/
     
    Or read our blog articles here:...

    • 3 min
    Wife Pulling Away Feels Like You're Going To Die

    Wife Pulling Away Feels Like You're Going To Die

    Is your wife pulling away from you and your marriage? Have you heard your wife say one of the following things?

    I’m done.
    I’m just numb.
    We’ve never had a connection.
    I just need space and I don’t know if I’ll ever want to be with you again.
    I’m just not romantically attracted to you anymore.
    I think we need to separate/divorce and see where this goes.

    In this episode I talk about how we men think about marriage and place all our sense of self worth and confidence on her and the relationship, which ultimately undermines our ability to be a confident, strong, masculine man and leader of the relationship.

    In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
     
    We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
     
    It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
     
    Most men don't.  
     
    They are too busy taking care of everyone else.  Too busy minding the store and making the money.  
     
    They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
     
    But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
     
    You can only improve your inside game with other men.
     
    We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
     
    Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization. 
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
     
    If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
     
    What if this next year everything changed for you?
     
    That's what we want for you brother,
     
    We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
    https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
     
    We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
     
    If you want to learn more about how to take a bigger step toward being a clear-headed, confident man of action, then find out more here: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
     
    We would be thrilled to help you get there - our first discovery call is always free and always gives you a BIG boost of confidence. You WILL become a clearer, stronger, more confident man only through other men. Your woman cannot take you there - and she doesn't...

    • 4 min

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