Growing Up In Polygamy

Growing Up In Polygamy
Growing Up In Polygamy

Sam sharing what it was like growing up in the polygamous FLDS group, his experiences leaving the group when he was 18 and his journey to where he is now. His wife Melissa is his co-host, asking the questions that everyone from the outside is thinking. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

  1. Ex-FLDS Reacts to NEW Sister Wives S19 E6 | Is Duty Enough in Polygamy?

    6 HR. AGO

    Ex-FLDS Reacts to NEW Sister Wives S19 E6 | Is Duty Enough in Polygamy?

    In this episode, Sam, who grew up in the FLDS community, and his wife Melissa sit down to share their reaction to Sister Wives Season 19, Episode 6. They dive into the complex dynamics of polygamous marriage, exploring whether "duty" is enough to sustain a relationship in a polygamous religion, and if love even matters. Drawing from their personal experiences—Sam’s upbringing in a polygamous household and Melissa’s mainstream Mormon background—they provide unique insights into the challenges faced by Kody, his wives, and their family. Join us as we break down the episode’s key moments and discuss the real-life implications of "doing your duty" in a plural marriage. #SisterWives #FLDS #Polygamy #ExMormon #Reaction #SisterWivesSeason19 #Marriage #DutyAndLove 00:00:00 Exploring the Balance Between Duty and Love in Polygamous Marriages 00:03:15 Nostalgia for Large Family Gatherings 00:06:50 Emotional Reflections on Family Changes 00:10:27 David Woolly's Family Background and LDS Connection 00:13:50 Jealousy and Inequality in Polygamous Relationships 00:18:35 Christine's Swift Journey to Finding Her Soulmate 00:20:45 Discussion on Christmas Plans and Family Dynamics 00:24:13 The Role of Spiritual Beliefs in Marriage 00:27:56 Understanding Loyalty and Duty in Relationships Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    32 min
  2. Exclusive Interview: Ex-AUB Members share Inside Scoop on Sister Wives and the Brown Family

    4 DAYS AGO

    Exclusive Interview: Ex-AUB Members share Inside Scoop on Sister Wives and the Brown Family

    In this exclusive interview, Sam (Ex-FLDS) and Melissa (raised LDS) sit down with Melanie and Cory, two former members of the AUB (Apostolic United Brethren) church—the same polygamous group the Brown family from Sister Wives came from. Melanie, the daughter of the current AUB prophet, and her husband Cory share their personal experiences and unique insights into Kody Brown and his four wives. Having known the family personally, Melanie and Cory provide an inside look into the real dynamics behind the show and the polygamous lifestyle portrayed on Sister Wives. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more interviews and reactions about polygamous communities, fundamentalist religions, and Sister Wives! 00:00:00 Did Cody Really Love Mary? 00:06:14 Discussion on Cody's Relationships and Choices 00:13:23 The Complexities of Legal Adoption in Polygamous Families 00:19:49 Mary's Journey in the Brown Family 00:26:00 Navigating Plural Relationships and Favoritism 00:32:11 The Challenges of Self-Governance in Restrictive Religions 00:38:40 Christine's Journey to Finding Love Again 00:44:48 Misalignment in Relationships 00:51:10 Community Secrets and Liberation 00:57:28 Conclusion and Thanks Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    58 min
  3. Ex-FLDS Reacts to NEW episode of Sister Wives S19 E5 | Kid's Side of the Story

    OCT 16

    Ex-FLDS Reacts to NEW episode of Sister Wives S19 E5 | Kid's Side of the Story

    In this episode, Sam, an ex-member of the FLDS (Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints) and Melissa react to the latest drama from Sister Wives Season 19 Episode 5. Titled "Kid's Side of the Story," this reaction video dives deep into the ongoing tension between Kody Brown, his wives, and their children. Sam and Melissa break down the emotional struggles, family dynamics, and the impact Kody’s decisions have on his relationships with both the wives and the kids. As they share their unique perspectives, Sam draws from his upbringing in a polygamous community, while Melissa adds insights from her mainstream Mormon background. Watch as they offer a fresh take on the unfolding family drama and the complex relationships that are central to Sister Wives. 00:00:00 Cody's Shocking Admission 00:03:29 Cody's Dream of a Big Family 00:07:03 Eating Placenta: A St. George Midwife Trend? 00:10:38 Breastfeeding Practices in FLDS Communities 00:14:12 Family Dynamics and Shared Breastfeeding 00:17:56 The Emotional Impact of Divorce and Spirituality 00:21:29 Cody's Accountability and Abandonment Issues 00:25:15 Janelle and Gabriel's Emotional Conversation 00:28:58 Importance of Genuine Apologies and Accountability 00:32:41 Outro and Upcoming Topics Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    33 min
  4. AUB Prophet’s Daughter & Husband Share Their Journey Out of Polygamy

    OCT 12

    AUB Prophet’s Daughter & Husband Share Their Journey Out of Polygamy

    In this powerful interview, Sam and Melissa sit down with Melanie and Cory, a couple who bravely left the polygamous AUB (Apostolic United Brethren) church. Melanie, the daughter of the current prophet of the AUB, shares her harrowing experience of being married as a child bride within the church, and how she found the courage to escape in adulthood. In this emotional conversation, Melanie opens up about the pressure of growing up under her father's leadership, the challenges of living in a polygamous community, and the pain of breaking free from a coerced marriage. Cory shares his own perspectives and how they've built a new life after leaving the AUB. #Polygamy #AUB #ExclusiveInterview #EscapingTheAUB #ExPolygamist #ChildBride 00:00:00 Early Marriage and Abuse in FLDS 00:06:48 The Belief of the 144,000 and Its Impact 00:14:02 The Beginnings of Endowment Houses 00:20:31 Preparing for a Unique Wedding Ceremony 00:26:41 Seeking Approval and Spiritual Validation 00:33:58 Facing a Crisis of Faith and Polygamy 00:40:51 Unconventional Relationship Beginnings 00:47:22 Legal Battle for Child Custody 00:53:52 Living Without Organized Religion Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    1h 1m
  5. Ex-FLDS Reacts to Kody’s Ego and Broken Family Ties | Sister Wives S19E4

    OCT 9

    Ex-FLDS Reacts to Kody’s Ego and Broken Family Ties | Sister Wives S19E4

    In this episode, Sam (an ex-FLDS polygamous community member) and Melissa dive into Season 19, Episode 4 of Sister Wives. They break down the tension between Kody and his adult children, exploring how his ego and pride are preventing him from mending these important relationships. Sam and Melissa provide their unique insights, drawing from their own experiences growing up in polygamous and LDS communities, and discuss the emotional struggles that come with family separation, pride, and broken communication. Join us for an honest reaction and deep discussion on the complexities of family dynamics in plural marriage! 00:00:00 Sister Wives Season 19 Episode 4: Family Tensions Explode 00:02:42 Cody's Family Dynamics and Ego Struggles 00:05:37 Tensions Rise at Thanksgiving with Cody and Robin 00:08:25 The Expectations of Polygamous Marriage in Fundamentalist Mormon Communities 00:11:21 Understanding First Love vs. True Love 00:14:02 Authenticity vs. Performance in Family Dynamics 00:16:54 Family Struggles and Emotional Boundaries 00:19:31 The Impact of Justifying Actions on Relationships 00:22:14 Cody's Struggles with Accountability and Relationships Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    26 min
  6. Escaping Child Bride & Polygamy: Hannah's Inspiring Journey and Book

    OCT 5

    Escaping Child Bride & Polygamy: Hannah's Inspiring Journey and Book

    Join us as we sit down with Hannah Stauber, who bravely shares her journey from being a child bride at the age of 14 to finding the strength to escape the oppressive world she was raised in. Now a passionate advocate for personal freedom and healing, Hannah tells her powerful story and discusses her inspiring book, Give Yourself Permission. This eye-opening conversation delves into the challenges she faced, her path to reclaiming her life, and the message of hope she wants to share with others. Don't miss this compelling interview! Hannah's book:👉 https://amzn.to/3BAXcFeHannah's Website: https://hannahstauber.com/ Chapters: 00:00:00 Teenage Marriage and Control 00:03:38 The Life of Tom Green and Polygamy 00:07:20 The Experience of an Arranged Childhood Marriage 00:11:05 Early Grooming in Fundamentalist Groups 00:14:55 Early Life and Family Background 00:18:56 Struggle with Leaving a Religious Community 00:23:06 Overcoming Control and Finding Strength Through Faith 00:26:54 Overcoming Oppression and Self-Discovery 00:31:19 Writing and Healing: Collaborating on a Book Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    35 min
  7. Ex-FLDS Reacts: NEW Sister Wives Season 19 Episode 3

    OCT 2

    Ex-FLDS Reacts: NEW Sister Wives Season 19 Episode 3

    In this episode, Sam, an ex-polygamist, reacts to Sister Wives Season 19, Episode 3, where the Browns face an awkward wedding reunion that brings their fractured relationships to the forefront. Kody seems more connected with Robyn than ever, while Christine and Janelle appear distant and uncomfortable. We dive into the tensions, Kody's divide with the family, and Mykelti’s birth, which temporarily brought Christine and Robyn together despite their differences. Let us know in the comments if you think the family can heal, or if the damage is permanent! 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more reactions, insights, and behind-the-scenes stories from the world of polygamy. 00:00:00 Sister Wives' Heartbreaking Episode 00:02:47 Awkward Family Wedding Post-Split 00:05:46 The Challenges of Ending a Polygamous Relationship 00:08:45 Challenges of a Plural Relationship and Family Dynamics 00:11:47 Robin's Children's Expectations and Family Dynamics 00:14:44 Family Dynamics and Sacrifice 00:17:44 Impact of Family Tensions on Children 00:20:30 Navigating Family Dynamics with New Arrivals 00:23:37 The Impact of Reality TV on Children’s Lives 00:26:44 Can Family Wounds Ever Truly Heal? Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    27 min
  8. The TRUTH About Mormon Temple Garments: TV vs. Reality

    SEP 28

    The TRUTH About Mormon Temple Garments: TV vs. Reality

    In this video, Sam and Melissa dive deep into the topic of Mormon temple garments as portrayed in the TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. As people who once wore these sacred garments, they answer common questions about their purpose, why they are so important in Mormonism, and how they’ve fostered a culture of judgment based on whether or not someone is wearing them. 00:00:00 The Significance of Mormon Garments in Faith and Judgment 00:04:21 Understanding LDS Temple Garments 00:08:39 Understanding LDS Garment Practices 00:12:52 The Significance of Temple Garments in Mormon Faith 00:17:20 Evolution of Garment Wear in LDS and Fundamentalist Groups 00:21:48 Navigating Garment Wear in Everyday Life 00:25:45 Secret Lives of Mormon Wives: Controversy and Perception 00:30:00 Transitioning from FLDS Garments to Modern Clothing 00:34:54 Navigating Identity and Clothing in Faith Transitions Join our NEW Patreon HERE: https://patreon.com/growingupinpolygamy If you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.org At Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world." If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamy Insta: @growingupinpolygamy New website is now up! www.growingupinpolygamy.com Theme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to us! growingupinpolygamy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

    40 min
4.7
out of 5
55 Ratings

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Sam sharing what it was like growing up in the polygamous FLDS group, his experiences leaving the group when he was 18 and his journey to where he is now. His wife Melissa is his co-host, asking the questions that everyone from the outside is thinking. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/growingupinpolygamy/support

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