59 episodes

A podcast convo between Bailey Garner and Toby Slough, a daughter and her dad, where they talk about real stuff, hard stuff, the stuff no one else wants to talk about and funny stuff too! "Stuff" includes parenting, relationships, community, mental wellness and more. We are so thankful you're here to listen and we pray that the Lord uses the special relationship that Toby and Bailey share along with their casual but heartfelt conversations to encourage you and to help you know that you're not alone in your struggles.



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Hey Dad... Can You Talk‪?‬ Toby Slough & Bailey Garner

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 32 Ratings

A podcast convo between Bailey Garner and Toby Slough, a daughter and her dad, where they talk about real stuff, hard stuff, the stuff no one else wants to talk about and funny stuff too! "Stuff" includes parenting, relationships, community, mental wellness and more. We are so thankful you're here to listen and we pray that the Lord uses the special relationship that Toby and Bailey share along with their casual but heartfelt conversations to encourage you and to help you know that you're not alone in your struggles.



Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/heydadcanyoutalk/support

    59 | Holiday Dos and Don'ts featuring Dad AND Mom

    59 | Holiday Dos and Don'ts featuring Dad AND Mom

    In this holiday episode, Bailey, Toby, and Bailey's parents discuss various topics related to Christmas, including when to start listening to Christmas music, putting up the Christmas tree, managing holiday decorations, preparing for Christmas travel, creating harmony in the holidays, balancing extended family and immediate family, communication and division of responsibilities, managing stressful situations, favorite Christmas traditions and memories, and advice for the younger generation. The episode concludes with a fun game of guessing Christmas song lyrics.

    Takeaways:

    Start listening to Christmas music a couple of weeks before Christmas to avoid getting tired of it.Put up the Christmas tree after Thanksgiving to maintain the holiday spirit.Find a balance between holiday decorations that are meaningful and manageable.Communicate and plan ahead to make holiday travel less stressful.Focus on creating harmony and meaningful connections with family during the holiday season.Prioritize immediate family while still making an effort to spend time with extended family.Divide responsibilities and communicate effectively to reduce stress during holiday preparations.Have code words or signals to communicate when feeling stressed or overwhelmed.Create and maintain meaningful Christmas traditions that bring joy and togetherness.Treasure and cherish favorite Christmas memories and traditions.Remember that relationships are the true reward of the holiday season.Lower expectations of perfection and enjoy the people and moments that matter most.Engage in fun activities and games to make the holiday season more enjoyable and memorable.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction00:25 Holiday Episode Setup03:01 Christmas Music and Favorite Songs03:31 Putting Up the Christmas Tree04:04 Changing Christmas Decorations06:11 Preparing for Christmas Travel07:14 Creating Harmony in the Holidays09:29 Balancing Extended Family and Immediate Family10:08 Traveling to Multiple Places12:09 Communication and Division of Responsibilities14:06 Code Words and Managing Stressful Situations21:42 Favorite Christmas Traditions23:02 Favorite Christmas Memories27:05 Advice for the Younger Generation29:52 Christmas Song Lyrics Game31:13 Conclusion

     

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    • 31 min
    58 | Holiday Real Talk: Navigating Contentment and Gratitude

    58 | Holiday Real Talk: Navigating Contentment and Gratitude

    Join Bailey and Toby in this heart-to-heart podcast episode as they delve into the raw and real emotions that often accompany the holiday season. From struggles with contentment to the challenges of balancing joy and chaos, this candid conversation explores the unfiltered side of the holidays. Bailey opens up about her journey through moments of hollowness, sharing genuine insights into combating discontentment with gratitude. Toby imparts wisdom on navigating these emotions, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging feelings without letting them dominate. Whether you're a parent, facing family dynamics, or just seeking solace during the festive frenzy, this episode offers relatable stories and practical advice. Tune in for an authentic exploration of the Merry and the Messy in this season of celebration. 

     

    Join Team Goby today!

     

    Download our most loved resource, the 40 I Ams, here and receive 3 bonus videos from Toby, straight to your inbox!

     


     Do you have a question for Dad or a topic you'd like discussed on an upcoming episode? Email your question or suggestion to bailey@beagoby.com.
     Are you more of a visual person? Check out the podcast on youtube!
     Come find us on socials! We would LOVE to connect with you there!
    Toby's Instagram
    Bailey's Instagram
    Goby Instagram
    Tik Tok
    Facebook
    Twitter

     

    Thank you SO much for listening and following along! We are excited to watch our community grow- Be sure and share this podcast with a friend or two!

    • 25 min
    57 | Setting Realistic Expectations for an Intentional Holiday Season

    57 | Setting Realistic Expectations for an Intentional Holiday Season

    In this podcast episode, Bailey and her dad, Toby, discuss practical strategies to navigate the challenges of the holiday season. They emphasize the importance of setting realistic expectations, finding small moments of self-care through the "five minutes a day" principle, and fostering a culture of gratitude within the family. They also highlight the value of taking short, intentional breaks and prioritizing what truly matters during the holidays. The episode touches on various aspects of maintaining mental wellness and spirituality amidst a busy season, offering valuable insights for parents and families looking to find balance and fulfillment during the holidays.

     

    Join Team Goby today!

     

    Download our most loved resource, the 40 I Ams, here and receive 3 bonus videos from Toby, straight to your inbox!

     


     Do you have a question for Dad or a topic you'd like discussed on an upcoming episode? Email your question or suggestion to bailey@beagoby.com.
     Are you more of a visual person? Check out the podcast on youtube!
     Come find us on socials! We would LOVE to connect with you there!
    Toby's Instagram
    Bailey's Instagram
    Goby Instagram
    Tik Tok
    Facebook
    Twitter

     

    Thank you SO much for listening and following along! We are excited to watch our community grow- Be sure and share this podcast with a friend or two!

     

    • 28 min
    56 | Parenting with Intentionality

    56 | Parenting with Intentionality

    Join Toby and Bailey as they dive into the complexities of parenting in a fast-paced world. Discover the power of intentionality in nurturing your child's character, fostering resilience, and building a solid foundation. Learn how to let your child embrace struggles, failures, and frustrations, and how to avoid the temptation to rescue them. By intentionally delivering key messages of love, persistence, and the importance of character qualities, you can guide your child toward success and prepare them for life's challenges. Don't miss this insightful conversation filled with practical wisdom for parents of kids in various stages.

     

    Join Team Goby today!

     

    Download our most loved resource, the 40 I Ams, here and receive 3 bonus videos from Toby, straight to your inbox!

     


     Do you have a question for Dad or a topic you'd like discussed on an upcoming episode? Email your question or suggestion to bailey@beagoby.com.
     Are you more of a visual person? Check out the podcast on youtube!
     Come find us on socials! We would LOVE to connect with you there!
    Toby's Instagram
    Bailey's Instagram
    Goby Instagram
    Tik Tok
    Facebook
    Twitter

     

    Thank you SO much for listening and following along! We are excited to watch our community grow- Be sure and share this podcast with a friend or two!

     

    • 28 min
    55 | Navigating School Refusal

    55 | Navigating School Refusal

    Kick back and tune in as Bailey and her dad, Toby, dive into the rollercoaster of school refusal in kids. They share stories, down-to-earth advice, and those heartwarming family moments that hit you right in the feels. Toby's all about finding that balance between understanding your child's worries and setting firm boundaries. They chat about reaching out for help when things aren't clicking and how pushing through resistance builds resilience. If you're a parent dealing with school-related blues, give this chat a listen—it's like getting advice from a trusted friend over coffee. So, grab a cup and enjoy this candid conversation packed with love and wisdom.

     

    Team Goby Membership - join here!

     

    Download our most loved resource, the 40 I Ams, here and receive 3 bonus videos from Toby, straight to your inbox!

     


     Do you have a question for Dad or a topic you'd like discussed on an upcoming episode? Email your question or suggestion to bailey@beagoby.com.
     Are you more of a visual person? Check out the podcast on youtube!
     Come find us on socials! We would LOVE to connect with you there!
    Toby's Instagram
    Bailey's Instagram
    Goby Instagram
    Tik Tok
    Facebook
    Twitter

     

    Thank you SO much for listening and following along! We are excited to watch our community grow- Be sure and share this podcast with a friend or two!

     

    • 23 min
    54 | Overcoming Parenting Overwhelm

    54 | Overcoming Parenting Overwhelm

    In this heartfelt episode, Bailey and her father Toby engage in a candid conversation about the ups and downs of parenting. As they catch up, Bailey recounts a particularly challenging morning with her youngest daughter and expresses her feelings of overwhelm and uncertainty. Toby, drawing from his own experiences and wisdom, offers guidance on recognizing the signs of emotional depletion and the importance of using available tools to cope. They discuss the tendency to feel isolated during tough times and emphasize the power of seeking support from friends and communities. With vulnerability and reassurance, this episode reminds listeners that the challenges they face are shared by many and that small steps toward self-care and communication can lead to progress and contentment. Grab your tissues for this one!

    Download our most loved resource, the 40 I Ams, here and receive 3 bonus videos from Toby, straight to your inbox!

     


    Do you have a question for Dad or a topic you'd like discussed on an upcoming episode? Email your question or suggestion to bailey@beagoby.com.
    Are you more of a visual person? Check out the podcast on youtube!
    Come find us on socials! We would LOVE to connect with you there!
    Toby's Instagram
    Bailey's Instagram
    Goby Instagram
    Tik Tok
    Facebook
    Twitter  

    Thank you SO much for listening and following along! We are excited to watch our community grow- Be sure and share this podcast with a friend or two!

    • 17 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
32 Ratings

32 Ratings

MCOYE ,

Great podcast!

Such an uplifting and encouraging podcast! The simple beauty of a great relationship between a father and his daughter is one that I can see healing many who listen. I look forward to this weekly!

DavidTatm ,

Great job

Great job, congrats on episode 1, look forward to hearing more in the future.

plopped81 ,

Hey Dad Can We Talk?

Loved it! This podcast is real about life, God’s Grace, and we don’t have to be perfect! And the voice breaking with emotion shows vulnerability and love! It’s good! Thanks for a great new beginning.

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