Uncensored Advice For Men Josh Wilson
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From porn stars to pastors, we interview people from all walks of life seeking advice and wisdom for men on topics about sex, relationships, money, careers, mindset, health and fitness, and more. What defines masculinity?Being a man can be tough in today's age. It's okay to feel confused and dispirited sometimes. You are not alone. The Uncensored Advice For Men podcast is a testament to that statement. What makes a man? Join host Josh Wilson and our variety of guests to learn what it means to be a man through the eyes of others. This is hands down the best Podcast for men striving to come to terms with their own feelings and further understand themselves. How many podcasts out there really focus on the true nature of what it means to be a man? Dissecting, and disproving today's society's distorted view of what a man should be, This is a place for men seeking honest answers through open, vulnerable conversations with men and women. Our host Josh Wilson offers an open forum for honest conversations about what it means to be a man today. Josh has interviewed over 750 entrepreneurs and CEOs across eight podcast shows, reaching the top of the iTunes charts. He draws from his own experience as a former firefighter, entrepreneur, mentor, college instructor, real estate broker, father, and podcaster in order to help other men reach greater self-understanding on their own unique paths to the best versions of themselves. Here's a podcast for men's health that you can listen to to gain knowledge on every aspect of being a man. Need help with addiction? We've interviewed people who have been there. Need help with sex? We've talked to intimacy coaches about that. Need a parenting guide? Josh is a father of 3! Men have traditionally placed emphasis on appearing to be self-reliant and strong and so have been reluctant to reach out for help. This has resulted in a spike in the wrong direction for men's mental health. If you need some advice or perhaps you have gained wisdom the hard way and you want to share your story with other dudes, head over to www.uncensoredadviceformen.com to join in on the conversation.Here are some questions and topics that men have told us are important to them—and we cover all of these on the podcast.- Do Men Have Feelings?- How men handle breakups.- How do I get my confidence back?- How do I make more money?- What addiction is- How addiction works- How do I Overcome addiction?- How can I be a better father?- How not to be insecure?- How to be the best parent?- How to be a better husband?- How to sustain a relationship?- How can I express my feelings?- how to get over commitment issues?- how to deal with body image issues?- how to achieve financial freedom- relationship stability- How to last longer in bed?- How to lose weight?- How to get in shape?- Sexual expectations- Performance anxiety- Sexual dysfunction- How to get your sex drive back?- How to deal with different sex drives in a relationship?- How to prepare for fatherhood?- How can I be better at communicating?- How to be more reasonable?- How to be more appreciative?- Mental health and wellness- How to overcome depression- How to deal with aging?- How to build good habits- How to have great values?- How to have faith? (even when life is difficult)- How to respond to loss?- How to quit your job?- How To Become Resilient- How to be vulnerable?- How to get help?- How to take control of your life?- How to trust yourself?- Self-acceptance- How not to compare yourself to others?- How to face adversity- How to be kind to yourselfIf you would like to get some advice on these topics or perhaps come on the show and share your wisdom and advice with our audience of men—go to www.uncensoredadviseformen.com and connect with us there
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Shaping a Positive Mindset in our Kids with Scott White
Embracing a Positive Mindset: Lessons from "The Life is Too Short Guy"
In one of our most enlightening episodes, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Scott, the author of "The Life is Too Short Guy." Our conversation delved deep into the principles and stories behind his book, and I'm excited to share the insights and practical advice that emerged from our discussion.
Finding Humor and Living in the Moment
Scott's approach to life is refreshingly authentic. His book isn't a product of academic research; it's a reflection of his personal beliefs and experiences. He shared a story about his 50th birthday trip to Europe, which underscored the principle of living in the moment and seizing opportunities. It's a powerful reminder that life is fleeting, and we should make the most of our time.
The Power of Perspective
Despite being known as the "life is too short guy," Scott doesn't shy away from acknowledging his bad days. He recounted the inspiring story of Eric, a man paralyzed from the neck down who has achieved remarkable success by focusing on his abilities rather than his limitations. This story is a testament to the power of choosing and owning our attitudes, which can profoundly shape our life's trajectory.
A Morning Ritual for Positivity
Scott advocates for starting each day with a positive mindset. He suggests a simple yet effective exercise: upon waking, focus on gratitude and positivity. It may feel odd at first, but this practice can significantly influence our daily outlook and attitude.
Attitude in Action
During our conversation, Scott shared how he applied the principles from his book to his training for a half ironman. The mental fortitude required for such an endeavor is immense, and it's a prime example of how small shifts in mindset can lead to a more positive and fulfilling life.
Parenting with Positivity
As a father, I understand the importance of instilling a positive mindset in my children. Scott and I discussed how our attitudes as parents can influence our kids. He shared his experience with his own daughters, emphasizing that while they live their own lives, the principles of positivity, living in the moment, and taking chances are evident in their actions.
Advice for Dads
When asked for advice for fathers looking to train their children in positivity, the answer was clear: live it. Our children reflect our attitudes. If we embody a positive, proactive approach to life, our kids are likely to pick up on that and incorporate it into their own lives.
Discovering "The Life is Too Short Guy"
For those interested in exploring all ten principles in Scott's book, "The Life is Too Short Guy," it's available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble.com, or directly from Scott's website, lifeistooshortguy.com. Scott is also actively speaking across the country, sharing his powerful message with various organizations and conferences.
Final Thoughts
Having Scott on the show was a profound reminder of the importance of attitude in shaping not only our own lives but also the lives of those around us, especially our children. I'm grateful for the tools and insights he has provided, and I encourage you all to reach out to him and express your appreciation for his contribution to the show.
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Understanding School Safety and Security: Insights from a Secret Service Expert
I hope this message finds you well. I'm reaching out with some heartfelt thoughts and crucial insights from the latest episode of "Uncensored Advice for Men," where we tackled a topic that's close to my heart as a dad and deeply relevant to all of us who care about the young minds shaping our future: school safety and security.
In a candid conversation with Daniel Dluzneski, author of "The First Five Minutes," we dove into the complexities of keeping our schools safe. Daniel's background in the Secret Service and his expertise in school safety management shed light on the importance of communication, the role of school resource officers, and the necessity of layered security measures.
Here are some key takeaways that I believe every parent and educator should ponder:
Open Communication: It's vital to talk with our kids about safety protocols and emergency procedures. Yes, it can be tough with teenagers, but it's a conversation we must have."Run Hide Fight" & "ALICE" Training: We discussed the effectiveness and flaws of these strategies.Safety First: Daniel stressed the importance of not rushing into a potentially dangerous situation at school. Instead, we should have a plan and work with school administration to ensure the safety of our children.Proactive Parenting: We can't sit back and hope for the best. Engaging with school boards and advocating for improved safety measures is a step we all need to take.Beyond Metal Detectors: Daniel pointed out that metal detectors alone aren't enough. We need proper training for school staff and a comprehensive approach to security.The Role of Teachers: The responsibility on educators is immense, and we discussed the support they need to protect our kids effectively.I want to extend my deepest gratitude to Daniel for sharing his wisdom. His passion for school safety is infectious, and I'm confident that our discussion will inspire positive action.
If you're as moved by this topic as I am, I encourage you to listen to the full episode. Daniel's insights are invaluable, and together, we can contribute to creating safer environments for our children.
Stay safe, stay informed, and let's keep this conversation going. Your thoughts and feedback are always welcome.
P.S. Don't forget to check out Daniel's book, "The First Five Minutes," available on Amazon, for more in-depth strategies on school safety. And as always, feel free to reach out to Daniel with any questions or to continue the discussion on school safety.
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Finding Purpose and Joy in Work and Life with Richard Haddrill
Embracing Personal Growth and Finding Purpose
Hello, gentlemen, and welcome to my blog. I'm Josh, your host at the "Uncensored Advice for Men" podcast, and I'm thrilled to share with you a conversation that's not only enlightening but also deeply personal. My mission is to challenge you, to broaden your horizons, and to support you on your journey of personal growth.
Meet Richard : From Detroit to CEO
In a recent episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Richard, a man whose life story is a testament to hard work and dedication. Richard grew up in a working-class neighborhood in Detroit and climbed the ladder of success to become the CEO of three different companies. He's a man who's seen the business world from the top and now enjoys a balanced life of work and play in what some might call "retirement mode."
Identifying Potential: The Green, Yellow, and Red Flags
With experience managing over 10,000 employees, Richard has developed a keen eye for spotting potential winners—and warning signs. He warns against the "I" person who claims to have achieved everything alone, as teamwork is crucial. Failures aren't necessarily a red flag; they're learning opportunities. However, a pattern of failures or a lack of commitment can be concerning. For key hires, Richard even recommends psychological profiles to ensure a good fit with the team.
The Journey to Self-Discovery
I got candid with Richard about my own journey. I've been called a "dumpster fire" due to my varied career path, but it's been a process of self-discovery. I've learned the importance of finding one's gifting and talent, and it's a message I want to share with all of you. It's never too late to find your way.
The Importance of Purpose and Enjoyment in Work
Richard and I discussed the critical role of purpose in a man's life, especially after retirement. He believes in planning for what comes next and finding joy in your work. Whether it's engaging employees on the manufacturing line or empowering field techs to be consultants, making work meaningful is key
The Game of Life and the Joy of Mentorship
Looking forward, Richard cherishes watching his sons grow and contributing to charitable causes. He finds joy in mentoring others and advises men to make a difference in the lives around them, not just through charity but through everyday actions and guidance.
Conclusion: Embrace Life and Share Your Wisdom
To all the men out there, young and old, remember that your experiences are invaluable. Don't hesitate to mentor and share your wisdom with the next generation. If you're interested in mentoring or sharing your story, reach out to us at uncensoredadviceformen.com. Stay tuned for more episodes, and remember, life is a game to be enjoyed—stay fully alive in your pursuits.
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Escaping Communism and Finding Success in America with Joel Gandara
From Struggle to Success: The Joel Story
A Journey from Cuba to Entrepreneurial Triumph
I recently had the pleasure of sitting down with my good friend Joel, a South Florida native with a remarkable story of resilience and success. Today, I want to share with you the insights and life lessons from our conversation.
The Early Years: A Leap of Faith
Joel's journey began in the communist country of Cuba, where his family faced the harsh realities of a life without freedom. In search of a better future, they embarked on a perilous 12-hour boat ride to America during the Mariel boatlift of 1980. Joel's parents took a significant risk, but their courage laid the foundation for the incredible life that awaited them.
Overcoming Adversity: The American Dream
Growing up in California, Joel faced the challenges of poverty and cultural assimilation. Despite these obstacles, he was determined to seize the opportunities his new home provided. His gratitude for being in the United States fueled his drive to succeed without making excuses.
A Turnaround at 19: Hard Work Pays Off
Joel candidly shared his early missteps, including getting arrested at 18 and 19. These experiences were pivotal, leading him to a decision that would change his life. At 19, he committed to working two full-time jobs, saving diligently, and by 22, he achieved his goal of buying a house. This accomplishment was a testament to his work ethic and determination.
The Million-Dollar Milestone: A Lesson in Fulfillment
One of Joel's most significant achievements was reaching a net profit of $1 million with his business. While this milestone was emotionally significant, it also shifted his perspective on success. Joel realized that true fulfillment comes from internal growth and meaningful relationships, not just financial gains.
Beyond Material Wealth: The Pursuit of Happiness
Joel's story took an interesting turn when he sold his successful underwear business, which catered to a market he didn't personally resonate with. This decision allowed him to align his professional life with his true passions, emphasizing the importance of authenticity over material success.
The Essence of Personal Growth
Throughout our conversation, Joel stressed the value of focusing on what truly matters in life. He warned against the pitfalls of chasing external validation and material possessions, advocating for a life centered on personal values and inner growth.
Conclusion: The True Meaning of Success
Joel's personal journey is a powerful reminder that success is not solely defined by what we own or achieve externally. It's about who we become, the relationships we nurture, and the lives we touch along the way. As men in 2024, we face unique challenges, but Joel's story inspires us to pursue a path of authenticity and meaningful fulfillment.
Thank you for joining me on this episode of Uncensored Advice for Men. I hope Joel's story has inspired you as much as it has inspired me. Remember, it's not just about the destination; it's about the journey and the lessons we learn along the way.
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The Need for Competition with Michael Russo
I'm thrilled to share with you some highlights from a recent conversation I had with Mike Russo on Uncensored Advice for Men. Mike's a jack-of-all-trades from Jacksonville Beach, Florida—a devoted husband, father, business owner, and a sharpshooter in competitive marksmanship. We dove deep into topics that hit home for all of us: fear, uncertainty, perseverance, fatherhood, and the thrill of competition.
Here's a sneak peek of what we unpacked:
🎯 Facing Fears and Embracing Uncertainty: Life's full of surprises, and Mike and I chatted about how to tackle them head-on. We shared stories and strategies on how to keep pushing forward, even when the path ahead is foggy.
👨👦 Fatherhood First: Mike opened up about his role as a dad to two young boys and how it shapes his identity more than anything else. It's a reminder that our jobs don't define us—our relationships do.
🏆 The Competitive Edge: Mike's journey into professional marksmanship is nothing short of inspiring. He gave us the inside scoop on what drives him to excel and how a strong support system (shoutout to his amazing wife!) is crucial for success.
💪 Perseverance Pays Off: Whether it's running his own headhunting firm or hitting the bullseye, Mike's dedication is a testament to what we can achieve with hard work and passion.
🤝 The Power of Support: We got real about the importance of having someone in your corner, especially when chasing your dreams. Mike's story is a powerful example of how love and support fuel our ambitions.
🎶 "Everything is the Best for Me": This phrase, borrowed from a song lyric, has become a mantra for Mike. It's about finding the silver lining and making the most of every situation.
I can't wait for you to join us on this episode. Mike's insights are not just for the fellas; they're universal lessons we can all learn from. So, if you're looking for a dose of motivation, a touch of camaraderie, and some genuine conversation, tune in to the latest episode of Uncensored Advice for Men.
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Out of the Psych Ward with Shawn Lesser
In this episode of Uncensored Advice for Men, I had the privilege of sitting down with Shawn Lesser, a man whose journey through the peaks and valleys of mental well-being is both harrowing and inspiring. Shawn bravely opened up about his personal battle with depression, his time in a psych ward, and the crucial turning points that led him to seek help.
Here's a glimpse of what we delved into:
🧠 The Stigma of Men's Mental Health: We tackled the tough topic of why society often forces men to suffer in silence and how breaking this cycle starts with open conversations.
👨👩👧👦 Family Observations: Shawn shared the impact his mental state had on his family, revealing the often invisible ripple effects of our internal struggles.
🌱 Growth Through Adversity: Shawn's story is a testament to the idea that sometimes our darkest moments can lead to profound personal growth and a renewed sense of purpose.
🔄 The Power of Community: We discussed the importance of finding a supportive community where men can speak freely about their feelings without judgment.
📓 Journaling & Gratitude: Shawn offered practical tips like speaking into his phone each morning to clear his mind and regularly practicing gratitude to maintain mental balance.
🤝 Helping Others to Help Yourself: Shawn found solace and strength in reaching out to others, a reminder that our own healing can be found in service to those around us.
I'm incredibly grateful to Shawn for his vulnerability and wisdom. His experiences remind us that no one is alone in their struggles, and together, we can create a space where seeking help is not only accepted but encouraged.
If Shawn's story resonates with you or if you're curious about the tools and habits that can help navigate the complexities of mental health, I invite you to tune in to the full conversation. Your journey to understanding and healing might just begin with this episode.
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