"To Be And Do" with Philip Amerson

Philip Amerson

Encouraging and cultivating a wider sense of mutuality and joy, the Belonging Exchangei provides resources, education, and times of celebration for congregations and local communities. One expression of this is through festivals and occasions for thoughtful reflection on faith and civic mutuality

  1. 1D AGO

    Connecting Community and Ministry: Tyler Brinks on Asset Based Development and Convening Change

    Connecting Community and Ministry: Tyler Brinks on Asset Based Development and Convening Change In this insightful episode of To Be and Do, host Phil Amerson welcomes Reverend Tyler Brinks of First Presbyterian Church, Bloomington, Indiana, for an authentic conversation about aligning identity with action, the power of connectorship, and the transformative philosophy of Asset Based Community Development (ABCD). The discussion opens with Amerson reflecting on the recurring tension many feel between “doing” and “being,” emphasizing the importance of intentional living that fuses who we are with what we do. This theme sets the stage for an exploration of ABCD, a community-building approach championed by John McKnight and Jody Kretzman, which focuses not on deficits but on the hidden and communal gifts within neighborhoods and individuals. Brinks traces his own journey with the church, describing how key mentors and a series of serendipitous associations—beginning at his home church in Michigan and later through meaningful connections in Indianapolis—brought this philosophy to life for him. He shares the pivotal influence of figures such as Reverend Fernando Rodriguez, Mike Mather, and Diamond Hargis, and the surprising intersections of their work that shaped his approach to ministry. Central to the conversation is the idea of “connectorship.” Amerson recounts a story about John McKnight, who highlighted the role of convening—bringing people together—as more foundational than traditional models of leadership. Speaker B echoes this, attributing his own emphasis on building relationships to the gentle encouragements of his parents and a personal awareness of the knowledge and wisdom found in others. The episode closes with a meditative word from Speaker B, who shares a reflection from Howard Thurman’s “Meditations of the Heart.” Using the image of the jack pine—whose seeds only open after intense fire—he inspires listeners to recognize that times of challenge may unlock latent gifts within us, pointing to new beginnings and resurrection even in the ashes. Key TakeawaysAsset Based Community Development: Real change and growth begin by recognizing and leveraging the gifts already present in individuals and communities—not focusing solely on needs or deficits.The Power of Connectorship: Convening and connecting people is a vital, often undervalued, leadership skill that enables shared wisdom and collaborative action.Embracing Unexpected Journeys: Crossroads in life and ministry frequently arise through organic relationships and open-hearted exploration.Transformation through Challenge: As illustrated by the jack pine, our deepest gifts often emerge in times of trial, offering seeds of hope and renewal.Learning to See Differently: True humanization requires acknowledging both flaws and gifts, learning to foster environments where everyone’s strengths are noticed and celebrated.

    19 min

  2. 5D AGO

    Because: After the Storm: Reflections on Belonging, Communion, and Hope for Humanity

    Because: To Be and Do: BecauseShow NotesIn this reflective episode of To Be and Do, Phil Amerson offers a brief meditation on the importance of togetherness, compassion, and the deeply spiritual act of sharing a meal. Rooted in personal experience and theological insight, the episode invites listeners to consider how everyday moments—especially coming together at the table—can become opportunities for healing, connection, and hope in a fractured world. The episode opens with a poetic introduction from Ken Medema, setting a gentle, contemplative tone: “Clock strikes 10 coffee time again. While the world is rushing to its judgment day. Judgment day.” 00:01 This reflective spirit carries through as Speaker B shares his thoughts on community, inspired by a recent retreat for pastors (the details of which are teased for a future episode). As we await that story, Amerson turns our attention to a profound image—an oil painting by Kadir Nelson titled After the Storm, depicting a diverse group of people united in hope after times of hardship 00:58. This image becomes a launching point for exploring how we might move past divisions of race, language, and nationality, envisioning a future where empathy and welcome take precedence 01:46. Drawing on theological themes, Speaker B encourages listeners to see the table—wherever it might be—as a place for Holy Communion and transformation. From Christ’s meals with those on the margins to the post-resurrection story of recognition in the breaking of bread, the episode urges us to make every shared meal a chance for connection and grace 03:17, 03:47. Three TakeawaysThe Table as Sacred Space: Amerson emphasizes that ordinary tables, where we share meals, can become powerful places of communion and reconciliation, echoing some of Christianity’s most profound stories 03:06.Radical Inclusion Over Division: The episode calls us to imagine a future beyond divisions—racial, linguistic, or national—and to actively combat indifference and othering by welcoming strangers and breaking bread together 01:46.Hope After Hardship: Inspired by Kadir Nelson’s After the Storm, Speaker B offers hope that after times of conflict and pain, there is the possibility of unity, healing, and new beginnings when we simply choose to be together 01:26. May every coffee break or shared meal become an invitation to compassion, connection, and holy presence in your daily life.

    5 min

  3. APR 17

    Finding Hope and Community in Changing Churches A Conversation with Tyler Brinks

    Show Notes: To Be and DoGuest: Tyler Brinks, Associate Pastor at First Presbyterian Church, Bloomington Episode OverviewIn this episode of To Be and Do, host Phil Amerson sits down with Tyler Brinks, a young pastor whose ministry journey traverses denominational traditions and diverse congregational settings. Together, they explore the changing landscape of mainline Protestantism, the power of hope and creativity in faith communities, and the intersection of contemplation and activism. Tyler Brinks also shares insights on the influence of spiritual mentors and the simple spirituality found in his favorite discipline: running. Three Key Takeaways1. Demographic Shifts Spark New Narratives of HopeTyler Brinks candidly addresses the statistical decline in mainline denominations such as the PCUSA and Methodists, referencing Ryan Burge’s work forecasting significant membership decreases in coming decades (03:08). Despite the sobering data, Tyler Brinks emphasizes the importance of seeing possibilities where others see scarcity. He encourages holding stories of decline in tension with counter-narratives—highlighting faithfulness and creativity that statistics often overlook. Vibrant ministry, he insists, continues to emerge even within challenging constraints (04:40, 07:40). 2. Diversity of Experience Fuels Ingenuity in MinistryFrom large, urban congregations like Second Presbyterian in Indianapolis to rural yoked churches and historically Black congregations such as Witherspoon Presbyterian, Tyler Brinks describes a ministry shaped by diverse contexts (14:03). He notes that whether facing questions of shrinking membership or merging congregations, practitioners continuously honor tradition while creatively discerning the present moment’s needs (16:34). Sharing experiences with peers across the spectrum is vital for fostering both sustainability and transformation. 3. Contemplation and Action: A Rhythmic BalanceThe conversation delves into Tyler Brinks’s deep appreciation for both contemplation and activism in spiritual life. Influenced by mentors and spiritual giants like Howard Thurman, he finds that reflective practices can catalyze change and engagement with the world (19:29). His running routine also becomes a spiritual exercise, a time for both clearing the mind and nurturing creativity—sometimes even composing sermons mid-stride (26:40). This balance of being grounded in worship and being propelled into compassionate action defines his pastoral approach. Listen for thoughtful perspectives on ministry’s future and discover how hope, diversity, and spiritual rhythm can revitalize faith communities.

    26 min

  4. APR 13

    Because: Sparkling Through Adversity: Lessons from Bob, Joe, and a Gospel Song

    In this heartfelt "Because" episode of To Be and Do, Phil Amerson invites listeners into a brief meditation on perspective, hope, and resilience through the stories of two friends—Bob and Joe. Set against the everyday backdrop of coffee and morning rituals, Phil reflects on how these two characters embody different approaches to life’s challenges and offers personal insight on navigating the spectrum between complaint and hope. Three Key Takeaways1. Your Outlook Shapes Your ExperienceThe episode contrasts Bob, the habitual pessimist, and Joe, the resilient optimist. Despite facing difficult circumstances, Joe maintains his "sparkle," holding onto hope even in the face of adversity. Phil describes how Bob met each Sunday morning with complaint and negativity, making it clear that focusing on the negative can become a pattern that colors not only your life but the lives of those around you . In contrast, Joe, even after enduring criticism, hardship, and physical decline, refuses to let these things diminish his spirit . The message: We may not have control over what happens to us, but we do have a say in how we respond. 2. The Power of Intentionally Seeking Good NewsRather than letting Bob’s negativity take center stage every Sunday, Phil interrupts the routine by asking, "What good news do you have for me this week?" This simple, intentional question challenges the cycle of complaint and gently nudges toward a different perspective. The takeaway here is that we can intentionally create space for positivity in our conversations and relationships, shifting focus from what’s wrong to what’s good—even when it feels unnatural or surprising. 3. Sparkle in the Face of AdversityJoe’s story serves as an embodiment of resilience and hope. Even as a bishop subject to criticism and betrayal, and later physically limited, Joe "sparkled" , demonstrating that hope and joy aren’t naive—they are powerful acts of courage. Drawing on Emily Dickinson’s poem, "Hope is the thing with feathers," Phil reminds listeners that hope is always present if we choose to notice. The closing reflection and reference to the gospel song "Leave it There" invite us all to work on sparkling, to lay down our burdens, and embrace a spirit of gratitude and grace, regardless of our circumstances. Whether you find yourself more like Bob or Joe, this episode encourages you to reclaim your outlook, seek out good news intentionally, and strive to "sparkle" even on tough days.

    4 min

  5. APR 10

    Why Neighborhoods Matter: Exploring Faith, Community, and Connection with Tim Soerens

    In this compelling episode of the To Be and Do podcast, host Phil Amerson welcomes Tim Soerens, executive director of the Parish Collective, for an enriching conversation about what it means to be the church in the neighborhood and how that impacts both individual lives and communities. Listeners are taken on a journey that weaves together stories of playful evangelism, real-life examples of neighborhood flourishing, and the deeper meaning of church as a connective force in society. The episode opens with Amerson reflecting on Soerens’ writing in “The New Parish” and his more recent book, “Everywhere You Look.” Soerens explains the mission of the Parish Collective: to connect people who seek to be and become the church right where they live, emphasizing the importance of reorganizing church life around local relationships that actively pursue the well-being, or “shalom,” of their neighborhoods 01:09. Conversation Highlights & TakeawaysThe Power of Place-Based FaithSoerens discusses how focusing on the neighborhood allows the church to ask, “What is God doing here and now, with these people?” rather than simply striving for bigger services or attendance numbers 12:58. This localized approach shifts the conversation from competition among churches to collaboration for the flourishing of the community.Weak Ties and Neighborhood CohesionThe discussion delves into the social science of “weak ties” or “bridging relationships.” Speaker A and Soerens recount how simple, repeated encounters—like seeing a neighbor at the grocery store—can gradually foster connective tissue in a community 16:55. This relational glue is essential for lasting change.Leadership as Convening, Not ControllingThe role of leadership is reimagined as “convening” rather than commanding. Drawing on insights from Peter Block and John McKnight, Soerens highlights the radical impact of leaders who focus on connecting people, rather than simply leading them 24:46.The Unique Role of the Church in SocietySoerens argues the church, unlike any other institution, is uniquely positioned to serve as the connective tissue among different sectors—business, education, politics, and more—bringing neighbors together for the common good 14:50. Whether you’re a pastor, layperson, or someone who simply cares about the place you call home, this episode is full of ideas and stories to help you “be and do” in ways that can transform your own neighborhood, one connection at a time.

    26 min

  6. APR 6

    "Because": A Long Obedience Toward Multicultural Faith Lessons from Broadway United Methodist

    In this reflective "Because" episode of To Be and Do, Phil Amerson revisits a pivotal period serving as pastor at Broadway United Methodist Church in Indianapolis, sharing personal anecdotes and hard-earned wisdom about building a truly welcoming church community. Weaving together Biblical references, personal stories, and social observations, the episode confronts the realities and aspirations involved in embracing multiculturalism—both in faith communities and society at large. Key Themes1. The Challenge and Commitment of Multicultural CommunityPhil highlights the ambitious and intentional mission statement adopted by Broadway United Methodist Church in 1986: to become a multicultural Christian community that seeks, welcomes, and values all people. This brings out a theme of aspiration versus lived reality. Despite admitting their naivety in striving for such ideals celebrates the commitment to inclusivity that has endured for 40 years , even as the community grappled with hard lessons and social challenges. 2. Confronting the Power of Fear and TribalismThe episode does not shy away from acknowledging the forces that undermine multicultural efforts. Speaker B discusses how tribalism, fear, and resentment have historically eroded goodwill—not just within their church, but across society and global alliances . In one vivid example , manifestations of discrimination and bigotry are likened to masked ICE agents in urban America, underscoring the persistent threats to genuine inclusion. Yet, the congregation’s mission remains a countercultural witness to God’s love for all neighbors . 3. The Enduring Value of Hope and Long-Term FaithfulnessDespite setbacks and societal cynicism, Phil questions whether such aspirations are truly naive. Drawing from the teachings of Paul and referencing Eugene Peterson’s phrase, “a long obedience in the same direction” , the episode encourages listeners to persist in the slow work of building loving, inclusive communities. The ultimate message is not to lose hope or retreat into isolation, but to keep striving for the reality of God’s kingdom on earth. Notable Quotes“The gift of knowing others who differed in a community of acceptance could never be erased.” (03:40)“Stay at it, good friends. Don’t get stuck in privatism or self pity.” (04:29) Tune in for a thoughtful meditation on faith, community, and the courage required to love beyond boundaries.

    5 min

  7. APR 3

    Rediscovering Church: Interdependence, Hope, and Joy in the Parish Collective with Tim Soerens

    In this compelling episode of To Be and Do, Phil Amerson welcomes Tim Soerens, a pastor, author, and leader in the Parish Collective, to explore how interdependence is vital for both personal and communal flourishing. Together, they dive into the evolving role of the church, the legacy of John McKnight, and how finding hope and joy is essential for leaders, especially in times of rapid change.Three Major TakeawaysAsset-Based Community Development and Neighborhood FocusThe conversation begins by honoring John McKnight and his foundational work in asset-based community development (01:26). Tim shares how McKnight’s belief in uncovering ordinary gifts within every neighborhood profoundly shapes his approach to ministry. Rather than focusing solely on decline or challenges, the episode emphasizes that each community possesses a “multiplicity of gifts” (03:04), ordinary heroes, and untold stories waiting to be discovered and celebrated.Rethinking the Purpose and Model of ChurchBoth speakers reflect on the end of Christendom and the necessity to reimagine what church means today (10:24). Tim discusses his journey: moving from an attractional Sunday-centric model to an incarnational, place-based approach — highlighting the Parish Collective’s core question: “How do we be and become the church in our everyday lives through relationships, pursuing the hopes and dreams of God?” (09:26). They underscore the importance of clarity about the church’s purpose, noting how many institutions (like libraries) have clear functions, whereas the church’s purpose is often ambiguous (14:37).Hope, Joy, and the Necessity of Slowing DownThe episode closes with practical wisdom for today’s pastoral leaders. Tim emphasizes that hope springs from asking “What is God up to here?”, a question that transforms perspectives and inspires even in ordinary moments (15:36). He connects this to the search for joy, suggesting it often emerges when leaders slow down, listen deeply, and share meaningfully with others (17:45). The importance of retreat, rest, and interdependence is echoed — reminders that hope and joy are as essential as oxygen in today’s fast-paced world. Listen in for a timely, thoughtful exploration of what it means to be the church, recover joy, and discover hope in every place and relationship.

    22 min

  8. MAR 30

    Because: Walking the Edge Reflections on Poetry Life and Faith in a World of Paradox

    In this reflective episode of To Be and Do, the theme of living on the edge—spiritually, emotionally, and within our conflicted world—takes center stage. , Phil Amerson, invites listeners to pause for a meditative moment, weaving together poetry and poignant observations to spark contemplation about faith, paradox, and the spaces we inhabit. The episode opens with a gentle scene: the clock strikes ten, signaling coffee time—a recurring motif reminding us of the simple, comforting rituals that anchor our days 00:01. But as the aroma of coffee wafts through the air, there’s an awareness that the outside world rushes toward its own “judgment day,” a subtle prompt for listeners to consider both the gravity and moments of grace in daily life. Phil Amerson, recognizing the transformative power of poetry, shares verses that linger and provoke. He introduces “The Wanderer” by Walter Wangren Jr., a Lutheran pastor and dear friend. The poem reflects on the experience of being a “world rim Walker,” traversing the precipices between night and day, certainty and doubt 00:54. Amerson’s reminiscence about Wangren’s life and the continuing relevance of his work adds a layer of intimacy, bridging the personal and the universal 01:38. The journey continues with a poem from Christian Wiman, “Hard Night,” capturing the stark landscapes of desert and ice, and questioning the “space between” affirming that our existence unfolds in the paradox—the uncertainty and possibility suspended in those in-between places. Drawing from current events, Amerson reflects on the crises facing humanity: wars of choice, the devastation in Gaza, Lebanon, Somalia, and Ukraine . Despite this, the message is one of resilience and hope. “We are the walkers at the edge,” he concludes, urging us to live with integrity and intentionality: to “be a person who does what you believe and believes what you do” . Key TakeawaysReflection Through Poetry: Poetry can provide a valuable mirror for the complexities of life, offering calm contemplation in the face of chaos.Embracing Paradox: Life often unfolds in the liminal spaces between extremes—night and day, faith and doubt, war and peace.Witnessing and Compassion: Acknowledging the suffering in the world stimulates a compassionate response and encourages us to walk thoughtfully and bravely.Living Authentically: There is power in aligning our actions with our beliefs, serving as “edge walkers” who navigate uncertainty with integrity.Everyday Rituals as Anchors: Simple moments—like coffee time—can ground us and create connection, even amidst turmoil As the episode closes, the invitation remains: pour a cup, sit with an old friend, and live each day with love and laughter.

    4 min
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