In Your Pants with Dr. Susie G

Dr. Susie Gronski, PT, DPT | Pelvic PT | Sex Counselor
In Your Pants with Dr. Susie G

I’m Dr. Susie Gronski, your penis friendly pelvic floor physical therapist, AASECT certified sex counselor and educator. On my podcast you’ll find topics on sex, pelvic health, and expert interviews for men. I'm also the founder of a multidisciplinary pelvic health clinic for pelvises with penises (and the people who love them!) in Asheville, North Carolina. 💻 Visit our website: drsusieg.com 🥼Our diverse team can support you with: ⚡️ chronic pelvic pain syndrome 😩 sexual pain 💦 urinary and fecal incontinence 🚽 urinary urgency and frequency 💩 constipation 🍑 post pelvic cancer (penile, testicular, prostate, bladder, bowel, rectal) bladder, bowel, and sexual recovery 🍌 sexual health difficulties ♿️ bladder, bowel, sexual rehabilitation post spinal cord injury or other neurological conditions 🏳️‍⚧️ post gender-affirming surgery rehabilitation 🤓 For more pelvic and sexual health education videos, visit my YouTube channel @DrSusieGTeam Copyright: 2017 by Dr. Susie Gronski, Inc.

  1. 1 HR. AGO

    Top Dating Tips for Men: Navigating Intimacy and Sexual Health

    On today's show, we’re diving into the complexities surrounding men's experiences in dating, intimacy, and sexuality, shedding light on the challenges often masked by societal expectations. Our exploration involves dismantling myths and internalized narratives that shape the lives of men and their partners, sexually and beyond. We also discuss how thoughts and beliefs can influence our capacity for pleasure and physiological functions like erections and ejaculation. 🎟️Join us at the Men’s Pelvic & Sexual Health Summit, where dating coach Erika Davian will be sharing expert advice on “First-Time Sex: Navigating the Experience with Confidence.” Don’t miss this opportunity to explore healthy intimacy and sexual well-being! Tickets at https://sexualhealthsummits.com 💡 Looking for solutions for erectile dysfunction? Check out our episode sponsor, MainSpring Medical featuring the Vacurect: https://www.mainspringmedical.com/pages/lp-aff?aff=9 📢 To stay up-to-date on pelvic and sexual health tip and exercises, subscribe, hit the notification bell, and like this video! Episode Chapters: 00:00 Meet Vacurect! Our episode sponsor 00:50 Meet mens dating coach, Erika Davian and summary of episode 2:30 Surrogate partner therapy for hands on practice 3:32 What you should expect with a surrogate partner therapist 5:07 Difference between men’s dating coach and surrogate partner therapist 7:07 Providers who work exclusively with men: a personal reflection 11:14 Unhealthy social narratives around men’s dating and intimacy 18:30 Sensate touch focus 20:18 Thoughts and beliefs influence physical sexual function and pleasure 24:40 Why Viagra doesn’t work 26:48 Defensive reactions around women discussing men’s sexual health issues 30:00 Empathy during sex is sexy! 32:30 Connect with Erika CONNECT WITH ERIKA DAVIAN: Website: ErikaDavian.com Surrogate Partner Therapy: Sessionswitherika.com Podcast: Bachelor to Boyfriend https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bachelor-to-boyfriend/id1681585833 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erikadavian?igsh=bnppNXNnOWswYWE5 RESOURCES: Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. #menshealth #mensdatingtips #intimacy #relationshipadvice #surrogatepartnertherapy #sexualhealth #sexualwellness #dating #datingcoach #expertadvice #erectiledysfunction #performanceanxiety #pelvichealth #sexualperformance #menssexualhealth #datingadvice #sexeducation

    35 min
  2. SEP 13

    Sex and Spirituality: Overcoming Religious Taboos in the Bedroom

    On today’s In Your Pants Podcast, we discuss the intersection of faith and intimacy, bridging the gap between the sacred and the sexy! The discussion on religion and sexuality is often delicate and loaded with tension, especially for those who have grown up in religious communities. Our guests, Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson, hosts of the Sexvangelicals Podcast, unpack the emotional and sexual ramifications for couples navigating life in religious communities or after leaving religious communities. The conversation touches upon the challenges couples face due to adverse religious experiences and share practical communication tips to empower couples in fostering more enjoyable and fulfilling sexual experiences. If you like this video, please SUBSCRIBE, click the bell 🔔, like, comment and share. Your support helps us keep the content coming. Thank you for watching! About our guests Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson are the co-hosts of the podcast Sexvangelicals: The Sex Education the Church Didn't Want You to Have. They are both Boston-based licensed psychotherapists and certified sex therapists who work with clients in Massachusetts. They currently live in Utrecht, The Netherlands. They specialize in helping couples with negative religious backgrounds discover sexuality that works for their partnership. They enjoy traveling to places that tend to fly under the radar, long-distance hiking, cooking very spicy food, unexpected conversations, and introverted days filled with reading and drinking fancy tea. They're on Instagram, @sexvangelicals, and Substack at sexvangelicals.substack.com Connect with Julia and Jeremiah: Website: www.sexvangelicals.com IG:  @sexvangelicals FB:  @sexvangelicals Substack at sexvangelicals.substack.com Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 02:15 Relational and sexual impacts for couples leaving religious communities 06:09 Challenges people face in religious communities around sexuality 08:18 When spiritual values conflict with sexual values and pleasure 12:45 Religious narratives and purity culture impacts on sex and pleasure 19:20 Purity culture impact on men and women 20:23 Painful sex and healing with pelvic floor physical therapy 27:43 Communication tips for couples around sex and pleasure 36:18 Connect with Julia and Jeremiah RESOURCES: Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. #Religion #Sexuality #SexandSpirituality #purityculture #sexpositivefaith #Spirituality #SpiritualValues #SacredSexuality #FaithAndRelationships #ReligionAndSex #ReligiousTrauma #PelvicTherapy #PelvicPain #Vaginismus #PelvicFloor

    39 min
  3. AUG 9

    Sex Surrogate Partner Therapy

    Today, we're diving into the world of Surrogate Partner Therapy with our guest Travis Sigley. We delve into the essence of Surrogate Partner Therapy, uncover what it entails, who can benefit, and how to approach this nuanced subject within relationships. Travis will also share invaluable insights on self-care in the realm of sexuality and navigating alternatives when access to a surrogate partner therapist isn't available. So, join us as we navigate this conversation, learning from Travis's wealth of experience and dedication to fostering healthier, more fulfilling connections in the world of intimacy and sexuality. About Travis Sigley Travis Sigley is a passionate human who cares deeply about education, care, accountability, mental/physical/emotional health, and community. They have been working in the intimacy and sexuality field for 15 years. Their first business was Cuddle Therapy, started in San Francisco as the first known professional cuddling service. Through many years and iterations since, their newest venture is in Surrogate Partner Therapy, where they are currently in the final stages of certification via mentorship. Connect with Travis at travis.sigley [at] gmail.com Video Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 2:08 What is surrogate partner therapy? 03:20 How does surrogate partner therapy work? Here’s what you can expect. 06:03 Difference between surrogate partner therapy and sex work 07:18 Who could benefit from surrogate partner therapy? 09:00 How to find a surrogate partner therapist 09:54 Approaching sexual intimacy challenges as part of self-care 13:05 Communication with a partner around surrogate partner therapy 15:55 Disclosure of surrogate partner therapy to a partner 18:21 Travis’s personal inspiration to become a surrogate partner therapist 22:15 Connect with Travis Sigley RESOURCES: Surrogate Partner Collective: https://www.surrogatepartnercollective.org/ Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Resource Group: https://www.embracespt.org/ International Professional Surrogate Association: https://www.surrogatetherapy.org/what-is-surrogate-partner-therapy Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. #SurrogatePartnerTherapy #SexualHealing #IntimacyCoaching #IntimacySupport #SurrogateTherapist #SexTherapy #SexualHealth #podcast #inyourpants #spotify #youtube #asheville #NC

    24 min
  4. JUL 12

    3 Ways to Orgasm Without Ejaculation

    🔥🔥 Learn more from men’s sex coach Taylor Johnson at our world-premier online Men’s Sexual and Pelvic Health Summit, November 9-10, 2024. This summit is for men and the people who love them. 🎟️ Get your discounted tickets now. Prices go up in October! In today's In Your Pants Podcast episode, I dive deep into the topic of non ejaculatory orgasms for men, enhancing sexual pleasure, and building sexually satisfying relationships alongside certified sexologist and men's sex coach, Taylor Johnson. Taylor brings a wealth of practical wisdom, offering authentic strategies for men to immediately enhance and prolong their sexual pleasure without ejaculating. We unpack the intricate layers of internal sexual scripts and societal gender expectations that often breed performance anxieties. We dissect the influence of pornography on sexual experiences and expectations and explore how couples who have drifted apart emotionally and sexually can reignite the flames of their intimacy. Tune in and engage your senses because this is one episode you certainly won't want to miss. ABOUT THE GUEST: Taylor Johnson is a certified sexologist and sex coach for men, who is dedicated to helping men thrive in sex, life and relationships. CONNECT WITH TAYLOR JOHNSON: Website: www.taylorjohnson.life Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson Podcast**:** www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast Orgasmic Mastery Course**:** https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/ EPISODE CHAPTERS: 00:32 Introducing men’s sex coach Taylor Johnson 01:50 3 strategies to enhance men’s sexual pleasure without ejaculating 03:00 The most powerful sexual tool to last longer in bed 06:54 How to have a whole body orgasm 09:15 Slowing down sexual intercourse 11:08 Non ejaculatory orgasm versus ejaculatory orgasm 13:53 Solo masturbation and self-pleasure practices to train ejaculation 16:55 Delayed ejaculation and ejaculating for stress relief 20:00 Your partner’s sexual expectations influence sexual pleasure and satisfaction 22:30 Communication is key for a satisfying and pleasurable sexual relationship 25:00 Personal experience of not ejaculating during sex 26:17 How to deal with performance worry and pressure during sex 34:08 How does pornography impacts erections, ejaculation, and sexual relationship dynamics? 39:00 Sexually re-connecting with a partner after being “sexless” for some time 43:56 Connecting with Taylor Johnson RESOURCES: Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. #prematureejaculation #sexualwellness #sexeducation #ejaculationcontrol #menshealth #pelvichealth #ashevillenc #pelvichealthspecialists #pelvichealthasheville #northcarolina #sexcoach #erectiledysfunction #intimacy #relationshipadvice #orgasm #pleasure

    46 min
  5. JUN 7

    Signs You Need a Sex Therapist: Expert Advice with Nicoletta Heidegger

    Today we’re talking about the benefits of seeing a sex therapist. You’ll learn what a sex therapist is, how they can support your sexual wellbeing, and the signs when you should reach out to one. We cover genital and pelvic pain in people with vaginas and penises and how incorporating play into sex can actually reduce pain and enhance pleasure. Lastly, our guest shares her unique therapeutic approach with horses and how she incorporates equine therapy with discussions around sexual topics and intimacy. This episode is truly one of a kind. If you enjoy listening or watching this podcast, be sure to share your favorite episodes and leave a raving review wherever you watch or listen. Your ongoing support is what keeps the content coming! About Nicoletta Heidegger Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Los Angeles. She received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University. When not working with clients, she teaches seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health. CONNECT WITH NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER: Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/ Twitter: @slutsscholars https://x.com/slutsscholars?lang=en Podcast Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:53 What is sex therapy? 02:43 Signs and symptoms that you should see a sex therapist 04:57 Shame and stigma around sexuality that we should challenge 07:53 Sexual pain, vulvovaginal pain in women 09:12 Causes of pelvic pain in men and women 10:20 Hormone mediated vestibulodynia and vaginismus 12:39 Strategies and resources to support those with pelvic and sexual pain 15:50 Play is essential for pleasure and sexual satisfaction 18:25 Sex and horses (equine therapy) 22:30 Connect with Nicoletta Heidegger RESOURCES MENTIONED ON TODAY’S SHOW: International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health: https://www.isswsh.org/ Dr. Lisa Valle, MD https://www.oasiswomenssexualfunctioncenter.org/dr-lisa-valle Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, MD: https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/ Tightlipped: https://www.tightlipped.org/ OTHER RESOURCES Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH DR. SUSIE AND TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. Hashtags #SexTherapy #SexualWellbeing #SexualHealth #Therapy #MentalHealth #Intimacy #PelvicPain #SexualHealing #PainRelief #EquineTherapy #SexualEducation #NicolettaHeidegger #SexTherapist #PlayForPleasure #PelvicPain #Vaginismus #SexualPain #PelvicFloorTherapy #PelvicHealth #Asheville #NorthCarolina

    24 min
  6. APR 12

    Science of Sexual Arousal with Dr. Nicole Prause, PhD

    🔥 The Science of Sexual Arousal and Orgasm! 🔥 Join Dr. Susie Gronski, PT, DPT and neuroscientist Dr. Nicole Prause, PhD as they explore the complexities of human sexuality! This video takes you from arousal to climax and beyond. Dr. Prause debunks pornography myths, offers strategies for erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation, and discusses her new research on Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome. For a full breakdown of topics, check out the timestamps below 👇. Meet Dr. Prause: Nicole Prause, PhD, is a neuroscientist and licensed psychologist. She studies human motivation, especially the physiology of orgasm on the brain and the health effects of pornography. Connect with Dr. Prause:  Visit her website: [www.liberoscenter.com](http://www.liberoscenter.com/) Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LiberosCenter  Follow her on Twitter: [@NicoleRPrause](https://twitter.com/NicoleRPrause?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor) Episode Chapters: - 00:00 Intro - 01:55 The science behind arousal and orgasm - 02:59 What is the peri-orgasmic flow state? - 03:19 How is climax triggered? - 03:40 Orgasm differences in men and women - 05:25 Sexual response cycle in men and women - 08:18 What can help you with arousal and orgasm? - 09:43 Strategies to help you get to your climax - 11:40 What happens in your body before you climax? - 12:49 What happens in your brain during orgasm? - 15:35 Mindfulness practices helps have better orgasms - 17:13 Does pornography cause erectile dysfunction or delayed ejaculation? - 20:20 How does pornography affect sexual health? - 24:15 Dispelling pornography myths - 25:19 Pornography problems versus pornography addiction - 30:12 Challenging anti-pornography groups - 32:09 The problem with semen retention, noFAP groups - 35:12 Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome (POIS) - 40:48 Connect with Dr. Prause RESOURCES: Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ ___________________________________________________________________________ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. #SexualHealth #OrgasmExploration #ArousalScience #PornMyths #ErectileDysfunctionHelp #DelayedEjaculationTips #POISAwareness #SexEducation #MythBusting #HealthResearch #SexualWellnessTips #SexualEmpowerment #HealthySexuality #MindfulPornConsumption #ResearchInsights #SexualRevolution #RelationshipAdvice #SelfCareJourney #BodyPositivity #WellnessCommunity #Pelvicfloor #PelvicHealth #PelvicSpecialists

    42 min
  7. MAR 15

    Men's Unique Mental Health Challenges

    Join Dr. Susie Gronski, a Pelvic Health Specialist and AASECT Certified Sexuality Counselor, along with Tom Jeffords, LCS, a Mental Health Clinician, as they explore the distinctive mental health challenges men encounter. In this episode, we tackle the stigma surrounding men's mental health, the barriers preventing men from seeking support, and delve into the neurobiology of mental well-being. Our conversation extends to the vital role of social support, the intersection of mental health with chronic illness and sexual dysfunction, and the transformative potential of therapy. Gain insights into the unique struggles men face, learn the indicators prompting help-seeking, and discover how to select the right mental health provider. Lastly, we address ways partners can play a supportive role in men's mental health journeys. Meet Tom Jeffords, LCSW: Tom Jeffords, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in Asheville, NC, holds a Master of Science degree with a focus on the Psychology of Culture, complemented by a graduate certificate in Applied Thanatology: Aging, Death, and Dying. Specializing in men’s health, anxiety, depression, spirituality, grief, and loss, he employs a strengths-based and trauma-informed approach. Tom integrates somatic-based treatments, polyvagal theory, yoga, Reiki, meditation, and reflexology to foster resilience and empower patients to navigate life's complexities. With a commitment to therapeutic trust, he creates a safe environment for transformation, tailoring sessions to individual goals through various modalities, influenced by attachment theory and neurobiology. Episode Chapters 00:34 Intro, Welcome Mental Health Clinician Tom Jeffords, LCSW 01:00 Why is there stigma and embarrassment around mental health in men? 02:09 Why are men challenged to seek mental health support for themselves? 03:50 It’s not “all in your head,” exploring connections with neurobiology and our mental health 06:35 Change is possible! There is plasticity in our biology and psychology 08:45 Social support improves quality of life and reduces pain 09:35 Mental health supports men and their partners living with chronic illness, pelvic pain, and sexual dysfunction 13:49 Talk therapy is like surgery for your nano molecules 16:44 Mental health empowers and supports building resilience, confidence, and inner strength 20:59 Unique mental health challenges men struggle with compared to other genders 25:59 Signs and symptoms of when someone should seek mental health support 28:15 How to choose the right mental health provider? 29:10 Mental health resources and questions to ask your provider 32:20 How can partners support men with their mental health challenges? 32:20 How can partners support men with their mental health? RESOURCES: Free sexual health and pelvic health resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program CONNECT WITH TOM JEFFORDS, LCSW: Website: https://drsusieg.com/mental-health-therapy-for-men CONNECT WITH DR. SUSIE AND HER TEAM: Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/ ___________________________________________________________________________ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. #MensMentalHealth #BreakTheStigma #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthAwareness #EndTheSilence #SelfCare #SupportForMen #Mindfulness #ChooseTherapy #HealthyMasculinity #NorthCarolinaTherapists #PelvicHealthAsheville #AshevillePelvicCare #AshevillePT #AshevillePelvicHealth #NCPelvic

    38 min
4.9
out of 5
35 Ratings

About

I’m Dr. Susie Gronski, your penis friendly pelvic floor physical therapist, AASECT certified sex counselor and educator. On my podcast you’ll find topics on sex, pelvic health, and expert interviews for men. I'm also the founder of a multidisciplinary pelvic health clinic for pelvises with penises (and the people who love them!) in Asheville, North Carolina. 💻 Visit our website: drsusieg.com 🥼Our diverse team can support you with: ⚡️ chronic pelvic pain syndrome 😩 sexual pain 💦 urinary and fecal incontinence 🚽 urinary urgency and frequency 💩 constipation 🍑 post pelvic cancer (penile, testicular, prostate, bladder, bowel, rectal) bladder, bowel, and sexual recovery 🍌 sexual health difficulties ♿️ bladder, bowel, sexual rehabilitation post spinal cord injury or other neurological conditions 🏳️‍⚧️ post gender-affirming surgery rehabilitation 🤓 For more pelvic and sexual health education videos, visit my YouTube channel @DrSusieGTeam Copyright: 2017 by Dr. Susie Gronski, Inc.

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