263 episodes

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

Strong Men Strong Marriages Mike Frazier, MD

    • Education
    • 4.6 • 120 Ratings

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

    3 Questions To Ask To Create More Intimacy Untitled Episode

    3 Questions To Ask To Create More Intimacy Untitled Episode

    Here are 3 questions to ask if your wife is talking about a subject you’re not that interested in:


    -How did you feel about that?


    -What did you think about that?


    -Why do you like that/why is that important to you?


    Try to understand her thoughts and feelings, as that’s what real mental and emotional intimacy is.


    Try them out today!


    Watch on YouTube here. 



    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.


    P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

    • 3 min
    Introducing the Jordan Harbinger Show

    Introducing the Jordan Harbinger Show

    I'd like to recommend the Jordan Harbinger Show. Jordan is a husband and father, and his show has recently featured some fascinating guests. Hope you enjoy checking it out.

    • 2 min
    How To Listen To Your Wife When You’re Not Interested In The Topic

    How To Listen To Your Wife When You’re Not Interested In The Topic

    When your wife starts talking about…


    -TV shows
    -Social media
    -A problem with her friend


    It can be easy to check out. You think “I don’t really care about this.”


    And so, you either PRETEND that you’re interested…


    Let your mind wander…


    Or don’t listen at all.


    But, you can actually use this as an opportunity to create MORE connection and intimacy.


    Learn how on today’s episode.


    Watch on YouTube here. 


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.


    P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

    • 15 min
    Choose To Love Well Today

    Choose To Love Well Today

    The day after Valentine’s can be pretty disappointing.


    But, at the end of the day, we get to choose how we live.


    And, according to Jesus, the best way to live is to love God, love our neighbors, and love ourselves.


    So, choose to love well today.


    Love God by thanking Him. Feel God’s love by remembering what He’s done for you.


    Love your wife by doing something kind for her.


    Love your kids by encouraging them.


    Love yourself by doing something fun today.


    Love is the secret to life.


    Learn how to do it well. And start today.


    Watch on YouTube here. 


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.


    P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

    • 3 min
    How To Make Valentine’s Day Great Again

    How To Make Valentine’s Day Great Again

    I don’t often laugh at my own titles, but I have to say, this one was pretty good.


    Valentine’s Day is tomorrow. It’s a day that we celebrate romantic love.


    Depending on where your marriage is…


    That idea may be quite depressing.


    BUT, you can STILL make Valentine’s Day great.


    By taking the  EMPOWERING stance of choosing to love well.


    Learn how to do that in today’s episode.


    Watch on YouTube here. 


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.


    P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

    • 21 min
    Don’t Use Fear And Guilt As Weapons

    Don’t Use Fear And Guilt As Weapons

    When your wife is saying she might want to leave…


    It’s easy to try to scare her or guilt her into staying.


    Unfortunately, people don’t really like to be around people who scare or guilt trip them.


    So, stop doing that!


    Learn more about how to do that in today’s episode.


    Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 


    Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena New Links Here After Upload)


    https://youtube.com/shorts/gvDWKHRslF8


    Dr. Mike


    P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…


    CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.


    You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.


    P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn.

    • 3 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
120 Ratings

120 Ratings

BP Writer ,

Meaningful podcast, not just for men

Recently came across this podcast and loved the episode about "how not to care what other people think." This episode had simple, straight-forward advice on growing self worth, self esteem and self fulfillment. A great blueprint for anyone who wants real abundance. Thank you!

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Amazing podcast

Dr. Mike delivers. This podcast is for anyone who wants to improve their relationships, no matter who they are with. There are actionable lessons in each episode that if applied will improve your life.

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Thank you for sharing. Real men lead.

5 stars

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