
162 episodes

Strong Men Strong Marriages Mike Frazier, MD
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4.5 • 84 Ratings
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Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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How To Forgive Yourself
You’ve made mistakes in your marriage.
Whether those are “mosquito” mistakes, like doing “nice things” for your wife, expecting, attention, appreciation and affection back, getting frustrated when you don’t get it, then exploding in anger or escaping into pornography or other things…
Or more serious mistakes like pornography or infidelity.
And, it can be tough to forgive yourself for those mistakes.
You tend to swing between beating yourself up about them (“I’m the worst. How could I do this to my wife? What kind of example is this to my kids?”)...
And saying “Let’s just forget about it and move forward.”
And your wife is caught in the crossfire of these swings. If she says “I forgive you,” you tell her that you’ve done too much wrong. If she brings up the past, you say “Let’s just move past this.”
There’s a better way. Learn what it is in today’s episode.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
You’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you! -
How To Be Confident In Your Decisions At Home with Michael Jaquith (The Catholic Life Coach For Men)
Michael Jaquith, The Catholic Life Coach For Men and I discuss what it takes to find true confidence in your decisions at home.
We also discuss how to grow in your faith, fatherhood, and have more success in your work.
If you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is wanting more sexual, mental and emotional intimacy in his marriage...
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Why This Podcast Might Not Be Enough To Change Your Marriage
You’re a faithful podcast listener. You read books. You take courses. You learn as much as you can to create sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife.
And, you’re making some steps in the right direction.
But, you’re not quite where you want to be.
Or, you make some progress, then seem to slip back.
It’s not that you need to listen to one more podcast or find just the right book.
Your brain needs to change.
And to do that, you need to do 3 things:
#Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns
#Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
#Repeat those new patterns until you are strong and attractive on default
Without those three steps, all the podcasts and books in the world will make no difference.
And as much as you learn, you won’t be able to see your own patterns clearly without an outside perspective.
Even if that’s what you do for work (like me).
I had to get my own coach to see my negative patterns, replace them with new ones, and then create something where I had accountability to practice those new patterns every day.
I am accountable to my guys for my practice just like they’re accountable to me for their practice.
So, if your marriage isn’t where you want…
Let’s get to work.
CLICK HERE to apply to join Strong Men Strong Marriages.
Dr. Mike
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Why “I Forgot” Isn’t Good Enough
Do you find yourself saying “I forgot” to your wife often?
Do you come home and realize that you forgot to pick something up from the store?
Does your wife ask you repeatedly if you did something she asked you to do?
It may not seem like a big deal. Usually the things you forget are small.
But, those small things are slowly eroding trust in your marriage.
And, they’re showing your wife that she’s not really your #1 priority.
And, it could be one of the reasons that you are not experiencing the mental, emotional and physical intimacy that you are wanting in your marriage.
Instead, do what it takes to make SURE you remember to follow through on what you tell your wife you’ll do.
That builds trust, shows her that she’s your #1 priority, and creates opportunities for mental, emotional and physical intimacy.
Watch or listen to today’s episode to learn tips on how to MAKE SURE you remember, including my personal practice on this.
Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
You’ll fill out an application, then we’ll schedule a call to discuss your application. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! -
How To Grow Your Self Confidence, Self Worth And Self Esteem - Proven Secrets And Strategies
This bonus episode is actually a module from my program, Strong Men Strong Marriages, that I wanted to share with you.
It will help you:
-Understand EXACTLY how to build your self confidence
-Help you stop beating yourself up to get to the "next level"
-Unlock new sources of self esteem and motivation
-How to keep your motivation AND be grateful for what you have now (the secret to living in abundance)
-How to base your self worth in something BESIDES money, status, or the other "self worth booby traps" that keep you in comparison to others... and therefore make you act arrogant and narcissistic or feeling like a loser
-How to get your worth from God and use your gifts to bless the lives of your family and those around you
This is a summary of what I've been on a quest for for MANY years and feel like I've finally found.
The secret to living in true abundance and love.
Now, just hearing this information will be powerful.
But, to really rewire your brain so that this is your new DEFAULT...
Come join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.
We'll help you:
-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
-Repeat those new patterns until you are attractive on default
-All while living true to Christian values.
CLICK HERE to apply now.
I'll see you inside!
Dr. Mike -
When Your Wife Is Worried Your Changes Won't Last
You feel like you’re making good changes.
But, your wife keeps bringing up the past. Or she tells you that she’s not sure you’ll keep your changes up. Or she just seems unimpressed by your changes overall. Or she tells you that your changes will be helpful for your next wife.
So, you get frustrated. And that frustration proves to her that your changes are not permanent.
Instead, you need to shift your goal. You need to STOP focusing on changing her mind about you…
And START focusing on being who you want to be and who God wants you to be.
Then, you need to follow a specific process to change the way you think, feel and act…
So that you become the “new you” on default.
Watch on YouTube here.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Are you ready to become a stronger, more attractive man that sets an incredible example for generations to follow? And are you ready to create passionate mental, emotional and sexual intimacy in your marriage?
If so, then apply to join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages
We’ll help you:
-Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting
-Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
-Repeat them until your brain is rewired to be attractive on default
-All while living true to Christian principles
So that you have the fun, passionate marriage that you’ve been waiting for. And become the example for generations to follow.
Let’s get to work! CLICK HERE to apply now.
Customer Reviews
Christian marriage book episode
Enjoyed your comments but hoping you will regain your testimony in the church. Leaving out the Book or Mormon, other scriptures, and modern day prophets is a big disappointment. Hoping you will come back!
Great Christian based marriage help
My spouse and I have been listening together and it helps foster communication about our own marriage problems. Not everything applies but it brings up a lot of good talking points that we need to talk about.
Phenomenal marriage podcast
The first marriage podcast that I’ve listened to that addresses Christian sexuality in a way that honors wives. This is life-changing to hear for both men & women.