100 episodes

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your tween (or any age kid) about this important part of life? You are in the right place.

I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full of swears advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro.

Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.*

When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)!

When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex positive, light and fact based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen.

To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.*

I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too.

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*Not a thing.

**In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get really real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?

Just Say This! How to have sex talks with tweens Amy Lang, MA

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 127 Ratings

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your tween (or any age kid) about this important part of life? You are in the right place.

I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full of swears advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro.

Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.*

When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)!

When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex positive, light and fact based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen.

To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.*

I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too.

+ IG @BirdsBeesKids
+ FB @BirdsBeesKids
+ BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com

*Not a thing.

**In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get really real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything?

    Sex Talk Tips

    Sex Talk Tips

    In this episode (the 100th!) Amy gives you a bunch of sex talk tips!  

    • 18 min
    How to talk about unintended pregnancy

    How to talk about unintended pregnancy

    In this episode, Amy gives you a script to explain unintended pregnancy.

    • 5 min
    Signs of grooming, how to explain strip clubs and kid won't stop grabbing mom's breasts

    Signs of grooming, how to explain strip clubs and kid won't stop grabbing mom's breasts

    In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom about her daughter who keeps grabbing her breasts.  She also helps a mom explain strip clubs to her young children.

    • 24 min
    How to talk about vaginal discharge

    How to talk about vaginal discharge

    In this episode, Amy helps you gives you a script to explain vaginal discharge.

    • 3 min
    15 year old wants a circumcision and a 5 year old bum grabber

    15 year old wants a circumcision and a 5 year old bum grabber

    In this episode, Amy gives advice to a parent about circumcision at 15.  She also talks with a mom who was upset by a 5 year old's unexpected touch.  And she talks about whether the door should be open during teen hangouts.

    • 17 min
    How to explain intersex

    How to explain intersex

    In this episode, Amy helps you gives you a script to explain intersex.

    • 3 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
127 Ratings

127 Ratings

learningeachday ,

Incredibly helpful!

I love Amy’s work, her approach and the way she makes her deep level of expertise accessible, simple and clear when it comes to a very complex subject. This podcast is a MUST listen for anyone wanting to make peace with sex, raise their kids in a way that celebrates curiosity, body awareness and open communication that’s healthy and healing for the family.

Hallybelles ,

Good podcast!

Great podcast for how to talk to kids about sex

Quatzz ,

I tell all my friends to listen

Love this podcast, love Amy, love the whole approach. Amy is so genuine and likable - I always feel like she is well-considered yet clearly uncensored, and also, it so nice to have such minimal advertising. Just Say This is the embodiment of the “how it feels to listen to podcasts” meme, and I am sitting in the floor laughing at our ice cream.

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