The Un-Perfected Pod

Brooke Jean
The Un-Perfected Pod

Are you a high-achieving, busy AF, perfectionistic working mama on the brink of burnout? Feeling lost, unfulfilled and like no matter what you do, it’ll never be enough? You are in the right place, mama. Welcome to the unperfected pod where you’ll be inspired to embrace your messy, shed the shoulds, and find freedom through a life unperfected. Brooke Jean is a Therapist, Recovering Perfectionist and fellow struggling working Mom on a mission to normalize normal. Following her own mid-life, shall we say awakening, she was thrust into a goosebump-worthy healing journey and life transformation . Using a blend of real life, sometimes hilarious story telling combined with her mental health expertise, she’ll teach you how to have BOTH a thriving family life and a purposeful career while gaining several hours back in your day for YOU and what lights you up! In solo episodes and interviews with other bad ass mamas and supporting professionals, you’ll get a front row to our shit shows and how we overcome some of the toughest working mom struggles. We’ll talk everything from asking for help, dealing with crippling resentment, Mom guilt, losing yourself, anxiety, negative thought patterns, s****y boundaries, mediocre relationships and more. You’ll build a toolkit of coping skills, therapeutic techniques, personal development strategies to help you let go of who you think you’re supposed to be in order to create the life you’ve always wanted. If you’re with me, press play, follow and subscribe and…LFG! Follow along on Instagram @brookejeanunperfected to see how ridiculous I am IRL.

  1. HÁ 6 DIAS

    Reclaiming Power: What Does It Mean to Truly Find Your Voice?

    In this episode of the unPerfected podcast with Brooke Jean, Brooke welcomes Sabrina Greer. Sabrina is a bestselling author, book publisher, keynote and TEDx speaker, PR strategist, and authority coach. Sabrina shares her incredible journey from being a fashion model to founding Fem Power Publications, Inc., a publishing house aimed at amplifying women's voices. She talks about her struggles in the fashion industry, the challenges of reclaiming her personal power, and how she now helps women find and use their own voices through various platforms including books, podcasts, and public speaking. Sabrina also discusses her unique 'blended publishing' model that offers a new path for female writers. Tune in to this episode as Sabrina as she dives deep into the importance of women trusting their voices, stepping out amid cultural pressures, and finding community support!   Highlights 00:00 - 05:10 Introducing Sabrina Greer: A Journey of Resilience and Empowerment ·       We welcome Sabrina Greer to the show! ·       She is the CEO of Fem Power Publications, Inc. ·       Her journey from the beauty industry to finding her self-worth and creating a platform to amplify other women's voices. ·       The importance of women reclaiming their power. ·       The necessity of filling gaps in the industry. ·       Her multifaceted roles, including book publishing, public speaking, and farming. 05:11 - 24:00 From Modeling to Authorship: Sabrina's Path to Empowering Women ·       Sabrina’s transition from city life in Toronto to owning a 70-acre farmstead an hour outside the city. ·       Seeking peace and nature, despite her lack of farming experience. ·       Facing significant industry challenges and abuse, leading her to lose personal power. ·       Her experiences led to helping women reclaim their voices and self-worth through books, podcasts, and other media. ·       Her current mission is to promote intellectual influence over superficial appearances. 24:01 - 34:40 The Importance of Celebrating Small Wins ·       Sabrina recounts their transition from modeling to authorship, coaching, PR, and entrepreneurship. ·       The challenges she faced personally and professionally. ·       Her experiences led her to create a new publishing modality called 'blended publishing'. ·       Establishing her own publication company named, “Fem Power Publications”. ·       The importance of courage, confidence, and clarity in pursuing entrepreneurial ventures. ·       The necessity of action over planning. 34:41 - 48:50 Listening to Your Soul's Whisper ·       The importance of taking small, manageable steps to build confidence and achieve large goals. ·       The role of understanding one's 'why' to stay motivated despite obstacles and potential setbacks. ·       Psychological mechanisms that cause cognitive shutdown when goals seem too daunting, and offers practical advice on breaking tasks into smaller parts. ·       The emotional journey of writing a book and the significance of celebrating small achievements to maintain intrinsic motivation. 48:51 – 57:21 Connecting and Sharing Stories ·       This process of writing and publishing books. ·       Emotional and psychological challenges faced by authors. ·       Her experience working with high-achieving professionals. ·       The concept of being a 'book doula,' supporting authors through their journey. ·       Sabrina draws parallels between writing a book and narrative therapy. ·       Personal growth and transformation that occur. ·       The rarity of becoming a published author and encourages aspiring writers to take the leap. ·       Sabrina invites listeners to connect with Sabrina for support and inspiration in their writing endeavors!   Join the unPerfected Mastermind and connect with your feminine side.   Tweetable Quotes:  “Everything I wanted, I learned, and I figured out how to do it." – Sabrina Greer “Everything I do now is developing my skills so that I can do more for the people that I serve. “– Sabrina Greer  “It's not about being an influencer. No, it's your intellectual influence. How are you influencing people with your mind, with your thoughts, with your presence, with what you're saying and how you're embodying those words and how you're acting and showing up?" - Sabrina Greer *This is not medical advice. Please consult with a professional before making any changes   Sign up for my brand new masterclass, AUDACITY on December 18th at 10am MST! https://www.brookejeanllc.com/audacity FREE Perfectionism Detox Masterclass: https://www.brookejeanllc.com/perfectionism-detox Unstuck & Unstoppable Masterclass: https://www.brookejeanllc.com/unstuck-and-unstoppable FREE Immediate Calm Down Kit: https://brookejean03.activehosted.com/f/7 Get Unstuck: 5 Therapeutic Steps to Take Aligned Action: https://www.brookejeanllc.com/get-unstuck   You can connect with Brooke Jean through her: Website: Brooke Jean LLC Facebook: Brooke Jean LinkedIn: Brooke Jean Instagram: @brookejeanunperfected   You can connect with Sabrina Greer through her: Twitter (X): https://x.com/sabrinangreer LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sabrina-greer-13435341/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesabrinagreer/ Sabrina's TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RZh4DDbq5p8 The Author{ity} Archetype Quiz: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/66df39e576f1c6001596e9dd

    57min
  2. 9 DE DEZ.

    The Audacity of Being: Redefining Womanhood in Modern Society

    In the kick-off episode of Season 2, Brooke Jean unveils her new podcast studio and sets the tone for the upcoming season by delving into the concept of 'audacity.' She shares her transformative journey from corporate life to entrepreneurship, emphasizing the importance of living authentically and passionately.  Brooke also introduces the three pillars of the Unperfected brand: healing, becoming, and rising and discusses how women can shed societal expectations and embrace their true selves. Tune in to this episode as Brooke invites listeners to join her masterclass on December 18th at 10 a.m. MST called Audacity!   Highlights 00:00 – 05:55 Welcome to Season Two of the Unperfected Pod! ·        Welcome to Season 2 of the Unperfected pod! ·        Brooke introduces her new podcast studio and announces updates in branding and communication. ·        Her mission to help women and mothers embrace their true selves. ·        Finding joy and alignment in life. ·        The importance of authenticity and rejecting the pursuit of perfection. 05:56 – 16:01 Embracing Audacity ·        The three pillars of her Unperfected Method: healing, becoming, and rising. ·        Overcoming perfectionism and anxiety and embarking on a journey of self-discovery. ·        Leveraging personal frequency for a fulfilling life. ·        Brooke’s professional development, lifestyle changes. ·        The audacity it took to transform her career and personal life. ·        Brooke aims to prioritize self-care, challenge societal norms, and embrace their own power. 16:02 – 21:11 The Power of Gratitude and Desire ·        Acknowledging one's multifaceted identity and the balance between gratitude. ·        It is acceptable to want more—whether it's love, intimacy, wealth, or new experiences. ·        The societal pressures that discourage taking up space and desiring abundance. ·        Brooke encourages audacity and self-permission to seek more without guilt. ·        Overcoming internalized shame and striving for personal growth and fulfillment. 25:12 – 34:25 Building a Business in Alignment ·        Brooke discusses having 'audacity' in life — the courage to recognize one's self-worth and the importance of one's dreams. ·        The need to take personal responsibility for creating one's desired reality, and not waiting for others to make it happen. ·        The necessity of aligning one's frequency, updating identities, and reprogramming beliefs. ·        Taking consistent actions towards co-creating dreams. ·        The audacity to change one's mind about various aspects of life, such as: relationships, jobs, or personal interests. ·        Embracing change, seeking aliveness, and making unconventional choices that resonate with one's true mission and desires. 34:26 – 39:16 The Power of Audacity ·        Brooke recounts taking time off for deep personal healing, engaging in therapy, yoga, and meditation. ·        Despite financial setbacks. Brooke followed her passion for helping women in business and mothers. ·        Working at an interior design firm, which taught her valuable small business skills. How she launched her counseling and coaching business immediately after graduating. ·        Aligning her work with her authentic self, overcoming fear, and the audacity required to pave an unconventional path. ·        Her dedication has brought her fulfillment, financial success, and the opportunity to positively impact her clients' lives. 39:16 – 45:22 Invitation to the Audacity Masterclass ·        Brooke reflects on their transformative year in 2012 when she left a corporate career. ·        Brooke asks listeners to reflect on their own 2012 experiences and identify with being a light leader. ·        Brooke announces a 90-minute masterclass on December 18th called 'Audacity,'. ·        Conclusion   Join the unPerfected Mastermind and connect with your feminine side.   Tweetable Quotes:  “Now is the time that we remember who we are and we reconnect to our gifts and we fine tune our energy and we show up in the world in alignment." – Brooke Jean “We need to follow our bliss and follow what brings us to life and share that love from a place of overflow. “– Brooke Jean “It is safe and okay for you to want more, different, and better.“– Brooke Jean   *This is not medical advice. Please consult with a professional before making any changes   Sign up for my brand new masterclass, AUDACITY on December 18th at 10am MST! https://www.brookejeanllc.com/audacity   FREE Perfectionism Detox Masterclass:  https://www.brookejeanllc.com/perfectionism-detox   Unstuck & Unstoppable Masterclass: https://www.brookejeanllc.com/unstuck-and-unstoppable   FREE Immediate Calm Down Kit: https://brookejean03.activehosted.com/f/7   Get Unstuck: 5 Therapeutic Steps to Take Aligned Action: https://www.brookejeanllc.com/get-unstuck   You can connect with Brooke Jean through her: Website: Brooke Jean LLC Facebook: Brooke Jean LinkedIn: Brooke Jean Instagram: @brookejeanunperfected

    45min
  3. 11 DE NOV.

    Regulate, Realign, Rise: Embracing Your True Identity

    How can shedding limiting beliefs lead to a more fulfilling life? In this episode of The Unperfected Pod, Brooke Jean delves into the transformative power of identity work and how it shapes our experiences and perceptions of the world. She explores the importance of upgrading one's belief system to foster positive thoughts and emotions, ultimately creating a reality aligned with one's true self. Brooke shares personal practices and strategies to help regulate the nervous system, manage triggers, and shift from an outdated identity to an empowered and authentic self. She emphasizes the significance of self-care, personal responsibility, and conscious living as tools for navigating life's challenges, especially during emotionally charged times like elections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their current identity, shed limiting beliefs, and embrace the potential for a more abundant and joyful existence. Tune in to this episode as Brooke offers practical exercises and insights for self-discovery and personal growth, inviting her audience to join her in a journey towards healing, becoming, and rising!   Highlights 00:00 - 02:14 Divine Timing and Belief Systems ·        Brooke Jean shares her emotional state on Election Day in the United States. ·        Acknowledging the intense emotions and pressure surrounding the event. ·        She describes her current emotional state. ·        The challenges she is facing during this significant day. 02:15 - 12:37 Election Day Emotions and Self-Care ·        Brooke’s typical morning routine, starting with daily affirmations and expressing gratitude for their family and surroundings. ·        The importance of focusing on positive aspects of life to create a better reality. ·        Consciously avoid social media and commit to self-care and regulating their nervous system. ·        Educating others on managing triggers and emotional regulation. ·        The prevalence of projecting personal anxieties onto others. ·        Advocating for personal accountability and coping mechanisms. ·        The need for healthy distractions to prevent burnout and encourage taking breaks from high-stress situations like the election. 12:38 - 17:35 Crafting Your Authentic Identity ·        How one's identity, which is a deep culmination of self-perception, shapes how they see the world, their beliefs, feelings, and actions. ·        Brooke shares her journey of identity transformation. ·        The importance of unearthing one's true self beneath layers of societal conditioning. ·        Discomfort and liberation that comes with shedding outdated identities. 17:36 - 23:11 Becoming the Best Version of Yourself ·        The process of shedding outdated and misaligned identities to reveal one's true self. ·        The struggle of trying to adhere to incompatible roles, such as: o   The corporate achiever, o   Perfectionist, and o   Solely-identifying as a mother, which led to self-sabotage. ·        The importance of understanding the identity one wears. ·        How one’s identity impacts thoughts, feelings, behaviors, addictions, and relationships. ·        Recognizing and dismantling limiting identities. ·        Fostering healing, growth, and authenticity. 23:12 - 41:17 The Power of Upgrading Your Identity and Conclusion ·        The significant impact of identity on one's life and personal growth. ·        The power of choosing and redefining one's identity. ·        Shedding limiting beliefs and societal roles that no longer serve us. ·        She encourages individuals, especially women, to envision and become their most empowered selves by: o   Recognizing their worth, o   Potential, and o   Resilience

    41min
  4. 4 DE NOV.

    Stress Less This Season: Physical and Emotional Tools for Balance

    How could completing your body's stress cycle reshape your approach to holiday pressures? In this insightful episode of The unPerfected Pod, Brooke Jean addresses managing stress, particularly during the holiday season, by understanding and processing physiological responses to stressors.  Brooke emphasizes the importance of completing the stress cycle through physical activities, feeling emotions rather than suppressing them, and reframing negative thoughts. She discusses the physiological mechanisms of stress and offers practical tools like daily brisk walks, creative expression, and setting boundaries. to let go of societal expectations for a healthier, more present holiday experience. Tune in to this episode as Brooke encourages listeners to stop internalizing pressure and to let go of societal expectations for a healthier, more present holiday experience!   Highlights 00:00 - 03:35 Understanding and Processing Emotions ·        Brooke Jean prepares us for the holiday season. ·        Acknowledging the mounting stress and busy-ness in anticipation of events like Christmas, Black Friday, and holiday gatherings. ·        She aims to offer content that supports listeners during this hectic time. 03:36 - 13:56 The Importance of Holiday Boundaries ·        The importance of addressing rising stress levels. ·        Overcoming extreme stress during their corporate days. ·        Stress isn't about external factors but about how we internally manage and process it. ·        Your body needs to be properly discharged to avoid the buildup of stress and anxiety. ·        The necessity of releasing unprocessed emotions and trauma from the body to alleviate stress and suggests that avoiding stressors is not the solution. ·        Focusing on internal responses and maintaining a healthy relationship with stress by effectively processing. 13:57 - 23:46 Embrace and Release Emotions ·        The crucial practice of completing your stress cycle daily by engaging in a brisk 20-minute walk to move the physiological stress response out of your body. ·        How walking can help release endorphins, oxytocin, and promote neurogenesis. ·        Brooke emphasizes the importance of integrating this habit for 30 days to experience significant stress relief. ·        The other methods such as crying, creative expression, positive social interactions, and physical affection as effective ways to close the stress cycle. 23:47 - 33:15 Prioritize Your Well-being ·        Managing stress by completing the stress cycle and changing one's narrative around everyday events. ·        The importance of fully feeling and processing emotions rather than suppressing them. ·        Bodily feelings should be expressed through physical actions like crying, screaming, or walking. ·        How attributing negative meanings to events increases stress and suggests adopting a broader context to view setbacks as minor and non-defining. ·        Embracing a wide range of emotions to alleviate stress and maintain emotional health. 33:15 - 45:07 Embrace a Stress-Free Life ·        The importance of setting boundaries to alleviate stress. ·        The dangers of societal conditioning, which contributes are: o   Force continuous productivity, o   Physiological impacts of cumulative stress, and o   The importance of saying no to overcommitments. ·        Prioritizing genuine 'yes' activities and shedding obligations rooted in societal   Join the unPerfected Mastermind and connect with your feminine side.   Tweetable Quotes:  “When your context is small and you let things mean something negative about you, you're in this contraction that creates stress in the body. So, stop letting small potatoes be big potatoes. It's not that

    45min
  5. 28 DE OUT.

    Avoiding Holiday Burnout: Setting Boundaries and Finding Joy

    What if you could truly enjoy the holiday season by setting effective boundaries and prioritizing your well-being? In this insightful episode of The unPerfected Pod, hosts Brooke and Meghan delve into the challenges that come with the holiday season, such as overcommitment, grief, and loneliness. They discuss the misconceptions surrounding boundaries, emphasizing that they should foster connection rather than isolation. Meghan shares her practical advice on managing mental health, understanding codependency, and maintaining self-care routines. She highlights the importance of clear communication, emotional intelligence, and being intentional with time and activities to create joyful and meaningful holiday experiences. Tune in to this episode as Meghan provides listeners tips on prioritizing your needs, embracing small changes, and seeking professional support to navigate holiday stress effectively!   Highlights 00:00 - 02:02 Introducing Meghan Olson ·        We welcome Meghan Olson ·        Their struggles with technical setups. ·        Dealing with such obstacles. 02:03 - 16:31 Codependency During the Holidays ·        Overwhelming tasks and the pressures of holiday expectations. ·        Grief and loneliness from lost loved ones or distant relationships. ·        Misconceptions about boundaries, focusing on personal actions rather than controlling others. ·        Importance of clear communication when establishing boundaries. ·        Positive impacts of setting boundaries, including reduced guilt and healthier relationships. 16:32 - 21:13 Redefining Your Holiday Experience ·        The prevalence of codependent behaviors, particularly among women who feel the need to manage others' emotions and maintain harmony. ·        Codependency is not just about seeking validation but also includes the less obvious 'rescuer' mentality. ·        Recognizing and separating one's self-worth from the emotional states of others, particularly during stressful times like the holidays. ·        How workaholism can also be a form of codependency. 21:14 - 25:29 Setting Boundaries for a Joyful Holiday ·        Codependency during the holiday season, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection. ·        They encourage individuals to question why they feel obligated to meet others' expectations. ·        Reassess your holiday traditions to align with their own values and desires. ·        The struggle of trying to please everyone, leading to stress and resentment. ·        Reflecting on what personally matters most during the holidays to create a more fulfilling and less burdensome experience. 25:30 - 37:28 Finding Joy in Solitude ·        Establishing clear boundaries to avoid burnout, such as limiting social commitments and budgeting. ·        Taking baby steps to reduce stress by setting time limits for family visits and cutting back on pressure-inducing traditions. ·        Recognizing the importance of genuine downtime and self-care, particularly for women and mothers. ·        Emphasizing the need for free time without responsibilities and ensuring personal decompression. ·        Addressing the emotional challenges of processing grief and the societal pressures of holiday expectations while highlighting the value of simplifying and prioritizing personal needs. 37:29 - 43:43 Final Thoughts and Embracing Your Unique Holiday Journey ·        Strategies for managing emotions and setting boundaries during the holiday season. ·        Allowing yourself to feel emotions without running from them: Being intentional about honoring traditions or creating new ones, Focusing on activities that bring personal joy even without a large family network, Avoiding harmful comparisons to others' seemin

    46min
  6. 21 DE OUT.

    Rediscovering Pleasure: How to Embrace Joy and Face Pain

    How much of your energy is spent trying to lift the mood of a room? In this episode of the Unperfected podcast, host Brooke Jean dives deep into the themes of emotional self-care and authenticity, particularly emphasizing how women can navigate their emotional landscapes. Brooke discusses the importance of creating sacred spaces for relaxation and self-care, transforming negative thoughts with positive affirmations, and the necessity of setting emotional boundaries. Listeners learn about the significance of allowing oneself to experience both pain and pleasure, the power of morning affirmations in achieving life goals, and the value of being present without succumbing to 'good girl' conditioning. Tune in as Brooke shares practical strategies such as daily self-checks, grace, and self-care rituals!   Highlights 00:00 - 06:18 Embracing Pleasure and Intuition ·        Brooke encourages listeners to create special, meaningful spaces within their homes to enhance daily life. ·        She shares her personal practices of utilizing sunlit spots in her home office for meditation and self-care. ·        You do not need to spend money to create a cozy and sacred environment. ·        The importance of forming consistent habits to nurture the mind, body, and spirit. 06:19 - 20:27 Fall Break and Family Support ·        Brooke’s journey of personal growth and transformation through art and positive affirmations. ·        A struggle with peel-and-stick wallpaper leads to a profound moment of accepting imperfection. ·        Overcoming negative thoughts and the transformative power of positive affirmations. ·        Brooke’s path to becoming healthier, achieving pregnancy, and professional success. ·        Key principles shared are: o   The importance of gratitude, o   Intentional thought reprogramming, and o   Early morning positivity routines. o   Constant positivity is unrealistic. ·        A foundation of gratitude contributes vastly to personal fulfillment and overall well-being. 20:27 - 25:36 Performing to Manage Others' Emotions ·        The challenges of managing fall break with limited childcare support and expressing gratitude for their husband's participation. ·        Brooke critiques societal expectations on women to always be accommodating. ·        The psychological conditioning that compels women to prioritize others' needs over their own. ·        Acknowledging issues and encourages women to ask for help when they need it. 25:37 - 35:15 The Power of Allowing Others to Feel ·        The habit of emotional shape-shifting, where individuals, especially women. ·        Alter their behavior to manage others' emotions and energetic states. ·        The importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and staying true to one's authentic state. ·        The tendency to take on others' emotional burdens. ·        The significance of self-care, and encourage embracing one's natural energy. ·        Practical steps are provided for checking in with one’s emotional and energetic state daily. ·        Allowing oneself to exist as they are without the pressure to change others' states. 35:16 - 43:38 Balancing Pain and Pleasure ·        The importance of taking responsibility for one's emotions and energy. ·        The need to develop the capacity to handle unpleasant emotions, engage in regular self-care, and allow oneself and others to experience and process their feelings. ·        The connection between the ability to handle pain and the capacity to experience pleasure. ·        Encouraging self-awareness and compassionate experimentation with emotional boundaries.   Join the unPerfected Mastermind and connect with your feminine side.   Tweet

    44min
  7. 14 DE OUT.

    Master Your Monkey Mind & Embrace Authenticity

    What if you could transform your self-doubt into self-empowerment?   In this episode of 'The Unperfected Pod', Brooke discusses the importance of not subscribing to the negative thoughts that our minds often generate. She introduces her new program 'Unstuck and Unstoppable', aimed at helping women overcome perfectionism and embrace their true worth. The program targets those who feel disconnected from their intuition and are guided towards insight, self-compassion, and resilience. Brooke shares personal anecdotes about their journey in a long-term relationship and how it's been a year of healing and growth. She discusses topics that include dealing with negative thought loops, understanding subconscious beliefs, and using therapeutic techniques to rewire the mind for positivity and success. Listeners are encouraged to recognize and manage their thoughts, creating a life full of authenticity and fulfillment.   Highlights 00:00 - 16:58 Program Announcement: Unstuck and Unstoppable Brooke introduces her new program called 'Unstuck and Unstoppable.' It highlights personal growth topics such as: Identifying barriers Parts work Reconnecting with one's highest self Focusing on evolving together despite differences, emphasizing healing and deepening connection. Transitioning into managing overwhelming thoughts. Brooke advises listeners to stop believing every thought as the brain often misleads with anxious narratives.   16:59 - 25:57 Deep Dive: Understanding and Managing Your Thoughts The pervasive issue of anxiety and negative thought patterns that have intensified post-pandemic. The staggering fact that 80% of our daily thoughts are fear-based lies, often repetitive and ingrained in our neural pathways. The negative thought loops stem from absorbed beliefs and experiences, especially trauma, forming during early childhood years. Awareness and observation of these thoughts, emphasizing the importance of not believing every thought that arises. Identifying and challenging these thoughts, one can align more with their higher, 'CEO self', which embodies inherent worth and positive action. Self-confidence enables a person to filter thoughts non-judgmentally, ultimately managing anxiety and fostering a healthier mindset by listening to one's intuition and feelings.   25:58 - 33:12 Managing Relationship Misunderstandings Common misunderstandings in relationships, particularly how people often misinterpret their partner's actions as a lack of love or effort. The importance of shifting away from negative thought patterns by focusing on one's intuition and heart rather than automatic mental responses. Techniques such as pausing, breathing, naming the thought, and then releasing it are recommended to disrupt negative cycles. Methods-like brain spotting and journaling are suggested to reprogram the subconscious. The practice of gratitude and positive focus to cultivate beneficial neural pathways and improve relational perceptions.   33:13 - 39:08 Rewiring Your Brain for Positivity The process of transforming negative neural pathways into positive ones. Emphasizing the importance of facing and releasing unpleasant feelings rather than avoiding them. Focusing on positive thoughts to release 'feel-good' hormones and promote emotional well-being. The need to consciously choose positive thoughts and experiences to rewire the mind and improve one's life. Brooke shares how she overcame negative thoughts through diligent inner work, resulting in a life they love. Managing thoughts consciously, aligning spiritual and scientific approaches to improve one's mental and emotional state.   39:09 – 42:18 Final Words and Program Invitation The importance of disrupting negative thought patterns and creating new neural pathways for personal growth. Brooke promotes a program called 'Unstuck and Unstoppable' which is designed to help individuals manage their 'monkey mind', release emotions, and connect authentically with themse

    42min
  8. 7 DE OUT.

    How to Break Free from Perfectionism and Thrive

    In this episode of the unPerfected Pod, Brooke talks about overcoming perfectionism through mindset transformation, embracing imperfection, and setting realistic goals. Brooke discusses core subconscious beliefs formed in childhood that influence thoughts and behaviors, emphasizing the importance of reshaping these beliefs to become unstuck and unstoppable. Viewers are encouraged to identify unhealthy beliefs, reprogram them with supportive affirmations, and adopt a growth mindset that sees failure as a learning opportunity. Tune in as Brooke as she tells us that the goal is to change one's mindset to foster personal growth and success.   Highlights 00:00 - 01:47 Understanding Perfectionist Mindsets Introducing module two titled “Breaking Free from Perfectionists Mindsets”. The module focuses on overcoming perfectionism. The three subcategories under this module, aimed at addressing and understanding perfectionist tendencies. 01:48 - 05:59 Core Beliefs and Conditioning The three aspects of personal development:  o   Mindset transformation o   Embracing imperfection o   Setting realistic goals It focuses on mindset transformation, for perfectionists who feel stuck due to a cycle of negative beliefs and thoughts. How subconscious beliefs are formed during childhood through conditioning and social influences.  The beliefs influence perceptions and behavior and can either hold individuals back or empower them, depending on whether they are positive or negative. The goal is to identify and transform these core beliefs to become “unstoppable”. 06:00 - 08:53 Identifying and Reprogramming Beliefs The impact of core beliefs formed by past experiences on an individual's perception of intelligence and worth. How these beliefs can become ingrained as neural pathways leading to a cycle of negative thought patterns and stress. Brooke suggests a method to break this cycle by encouraging self-examination of both healthy and unhealthy beliefs. Rewriting negative beliefs into affirming ones and repeatedly reinforcing them to effect a positive change in mindset and actions. 08:54 - 13:35 Embracing a Growth Mindset Brooke encourages individuals to assess their beliefs. Distinguishing between healthy and unhealthy ones. Replacing the unhealthy beliefs with more supportive and realistic ones. The importance of shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, where perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking are replaced by the belief that everything is “figureoutable.” Embracing the idea that life’s challenges are either lessons or blessings. Individuals can become more resilient and motivated to take action. Fostering continuous personal growth and reducing self-limiting perceptions. 13:36 – 18:34 Conclusion and Homework The importance of shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset to become “Unstuck and Unstoppable.”  Brooke talks about the need to clean up and reprogram subconscious core beliefs:  o   To affirm worthiness o   Capability o   Positivity Leading to transformative effects on one's perception and actions in the world. Creating new neural pathways through strategies like writing and stating affirmations consistently, with a focus on neuroplasticity. The role of the 'CEO self' being always in a growth mindset, where learning and evolving are continuous processes.  Embracing challenges as lessons or blessings and focusing on mindset change as a path to achieving personal and professional growth. Tweetable Quotes:  “Everything in life is either a lesson or a blessing." – Brooke Jean   “If we want to become unstuck and unstoppable, we have got to adopt and embody a growth mindset.“ – Brooke Jean   “We have to change our mindsets, the things you're telling yourself are keeping you stuck. You're routable.“ – Brooke Jean   *This is not medical advice. Please consult with a professional before making any changes   Sign up for my FREE Perfectionism Detox Masterclass! https://brookejean.squarespace.com/perfectionism-detox   DOORS NOW OPEN for the Unstuck & Unstoppable Masterclass! https://www.brookejeanllc.com/unstuck-and-unstoppable   FREE Immediate Calm Down Kit: Get your free guide here   Get Unstuck: 5 Therapeutic Steps to Take Aligned Action https://brookejean.squarespace.com/get-unstuck   You can connect with Brooke Jean through her: Instagram: @brookejeanunperfected Facebook: Brooke Jean LinkedIn: Brooke Jean Website: Brooke Jean LLC

    19min
5
de 5
77 avaliações

Sobre

Are you a high-achieving, busy AF, perfectionistic working mama on the brink of burnout? Feeling lost, unfulfilled and like no matter what you do, it’ll never be enough? You are in the right place, mama. Welcome to the unperfected pod where you’ll be inspired to embrace your messy, shed the shoulds, and find freedom through a life unperfected. Brooke Jean is a Therapist, Recovering Perfectionist and fellow struggling working Mom on a mission to normalize normal. Following her own mid-life, shall we say awakening, she was thrust into a goosebump-worthy healing journey and life transformation . Using a blend of real life, sometimes hilarious story telling combined with her mental health expertise, she’ll teach you how to have BOTH a thriving family life and a purposeful career while gaining several hours back in your day for YOU and what lights you up! In solo episodes and interviews with other bad ass mamas and supporting professionals, you’ll get a front row to our shit shows and how we overcome some of the toughest working mom struggles. We’ll talk everything from asking for help, dealing with crippling resentment, Mom guilt, losing yourself, anxiety, negative thought patterns, s****y boundaries, mediocre relationships and more. You’ll build a toolkit of coping skills, therapeutic techniques, personal development strategies to help you let go of who you think you’re supposed to be in order to create the life you’ve always wanted. If you’re with me, press play, follow and subscribe and…LFG! Follow along on Instagram @brookejeanunperfected to see how ridiculous I am IRL.

Você também pode gostar de

Para ouvir episódios explícitos, inicie sessão.

Fique por dentro deste podcast

Inicie sessão ou crie uma conta para seguir podcasts, salvar episódios e receber as atualizações mais recentes.

Selecionar um país ou região

África, Oriente Médio e Índia

Ásia‑Pacífico

Europa

América Latina e Caribe

Estados Unidos e Canadá