329 episodes

A snarky but affectionate dissection of dating reality shows — and what they say about all of us. Hosted by Emma Gray and Claire Fallon, who created the popular podcast Here To Make Friends, Love To See It is a weekly recap podcast about The Bachelor franchise and beyond. We laugh, we cry, we break down every episode in obsessive detail, and we unpack all the weird messages pop culture sends us about love. Join us on this journey

Love to See It with Emma and Claire Stitcher & Claire Fallon, Emma Gray

    • TV & Film
    • 4.3 • 4.9K Ratings

A snarky but affectionate dissection of dating reality shows — and what they say about all of us. Hosted by Emma Gray and Claire Fallon, who created the popular podcast Here To Make Friends, Love To See It is a weekly recap podcast about The Bachelor franchise and beyond. We laugh, we cry, we break down every episode in obsessive detail, and we unpack all the weird messages pop culture sends us about love. Join us on this journey

    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e6

    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e6

    We are back on our collective Virgin Voyage for week 6 of Rachel and Gabby’s journey. Today, it’s just the two of us and we’re ready to dive in. Somehow, we’re already just a week away from Hometowns!

    • 1 hr 39 min
    FBOY Island’s Tamaris Knows She Chose Right

    FBOY Island’s Tamaris Knows She Chose Right

    Here’s to women weeding out f-boys and securing that bag! We were both huge fans of the wildly entertaining dating show FBOY Island. So, we are super psyched to talk with one of the outstanding leads. Joining us to give us the REAL, UNFILTERED INSIDE SCOOP, is none other than the f girl queen herself, Tamaris.

    • 1 hr 13 min
    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e5 with Daryn Carp

    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e5 with Daryn Carp

    Who needs to travel to Europe when you can simply watch The Bachelorette, a travel documentary series with some light kissing? Here to join us in discussing the attractions and traditions of Belgium is the wonderful Daryn Carp, Bravo personality and host of Shaken and Disturbed.

    • 1 hr 55 min
    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e4 with Kelsey McKinney

    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e4 with Kelsey McKinney

    It’s week four of our favorite reality show… a little something we like to call “Let’s Destroy Rachel’s Confidence.” It’s an uplifting docu-series about what happens when two beautiful, brilliant women are tortured by a bunch of producers and editors for mass entertainment. Today we’re joined by the wonderful Kelsey McKinney of Defector Media and the Normal Gossip podcast!

    • 1 hr 55 min
    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e3 with Amanda Montell

    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e3 with Amanda Montell

    It’s week three of the Gabby and Rachel co-season of The Bachelorette. The two women are desperately clinging to their friendship, while the show (and the men) seem more and more determined to pit them against each other. This week, we’re joined by author of the books Cultish and Wordslut and host of the Sounds Like a Cult podcast, Amanda Montell!

    • 1 hr 42 min
    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e2 with Brittany Luse

    ‘Bachelorette’ S19e2 with Brittany Luse

    Welcome to Love to See It, a podcast about men with six-pack abs and the decisions that ‘FEMALES’ get to make for themselves. Claire is on a much-deserved vacation, but luckily we have a wonderful guest to help us break down this week’s episode of The Bachelorette: Brittany Luse, host of the podcast For Colored Nerds!

    • 1 hr 50 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
4.9K Ratings

4.9K Ratings

Paradise fitness ,

Constructive criticism? Why so much vocal fryyyyyyyy?

I’m a loser who watches the Bachelor/ette and then listens to 3 to 4 podcast about each episode, HTMF always being a must listen. That said, I miss the feminist fails which was my favorite part of every episode. Also I’m not sure which of the ladies does this, but sometimes the vocal fry is so bad I have to shut it off. It’s like listening to the radio back in the 80s when the station was crinkly and didn’t come in clearly. It distracts me from the great content. Aside from that, all the stars.

musicloverCMS ,

My fave podcast 💖

After listening for seasons and seasons of the bachelor franchise recaps and more, Emma and Claire feel like my friends and I now need their takes on all media I consume. I love their paid podcast rich text (worth it) and just want all the goodness in the world for them. I love how they balance each other out on the pod and their snarky banter. Bachelor specific this is definitely my favorite pod, really strikes a balance between GOR intensity, feminist critique, and humor. Worth a listen, even if you’re not watching what they’re talking about (never watched the courtship but yes I listened to every ep)!

lady_rara_621 ,

Over the top and exhausting

This used to be my favorite bachelor podcast but it just takes itself too seriously these days. And the man-hating has gotten out of control. Hard disagree with their take on Tino simply daring to SPEAK HIS MIND. If the gender roles were reversed you would have applauded this. Rachel has been a whiny and self-indulgent Bachelorette who’s insulted the guys who are there for her every time she spirals and cancels an event. The fact that Claire and Emma continue to denigrate the guys and side with Rachel makes this feel like they’re just trying to out-woke everyone else. It’s become a really annoying listen.

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