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Dear Shandy Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
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4.9 • 3.1K Ratings
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Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them.
Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!
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Q&A! Bi-Curiosity, Sister Read Your Journal & Does Imitation = Flattery? - Ep 321 -Dear Shandy
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy you meet online copies something from your dating profile and pastes it to his while you're still dating, is it a secret message or just straight-up plagiarism? If you know you're bi-curious but your (straight) wedding isn't far away, is it now or never to act on your curiosity? And if your sister purposely reads your journal and finds the not-so-nice things you wrote about her, who's the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:35 - Q1: Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?
13:17 - Q2: AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice?
26:58 - Q3: Might Bi-Curiosity Kill This Cat?
46:02 - Q4: I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help!
59:05 - Q5: To What Lengths Should My Friend Go To Get Paid Back By Her Ex?
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
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Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Smooth Fists, Rough Personality - Ep 320
Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!
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Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:55 - Episode 3 Kick Off
2:53 - Spencer’s 1-On-1
8:09 - Group Date #1
28:34 - The Next Day
28:50 - Group Date #2
32:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
41:48 - Rose Ceremony
43:13 - Andy’s A-Game
45:39 - Fashion
49:23 - Shandy Word Watch
52:24 - Shandy’s Predictions
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
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Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Devin Gets A Pearl Necklace - Ep 319
Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!
Thank you to our sponsors...
- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!
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Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors...
- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off!
- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
4:28 - Episode 2 Kick Off
4:54 - Group Date #1
20:57 - Marcus’ 1-On-1
26:58 - Group Date #2
38:47 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
47:05 - Rose Ceremony
37:38 - Fashion
49:50 - Andy’s A-Game
51:49 - Shandy Word Watch
55:40 - Shandy's Predictions
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
More Dear Shandy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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A Day In The Life Of Dave Neal - Ep 318
We're thrilled to debut a new series in our episode lineup, A Day In The Life! These are episodes dedicated to meaningful, intimate conversations with your favorite people!
Our first ever A Day In The Life guest is none other than Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of The Rush Hour podcast! This is a man who never seems to sleep, and our curiosity finally got the best of us so we decided to ask him for ourselves: Where does he find the time to do so much? What's the hardest thing about running his empire? Where is the weirdest place he's ever recorded, and what has been a "pinch me" moment in his meteoric growth? Listen on to find out!
Thanks to our sponsors!
- Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order!
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More Dave Neal:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dnealz/
- The Rush Hour Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bachelor-rush-hour-with-dave-neal/id1651903715
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DaveNealComedian
- Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TashaAndDave
Our Love Fest with Dave and Courtney:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/58ISPLY0eDbs3aZgU6ajjP?si=LfM1QAuZTr6voWSAbrI5Qg
Referenced video of Dave watching The Bachelor with Gilbert Galon (our producer Gabby's brother):
https://youtu.be/eDvnH94Awfs?si=rPT0Dl06I0alykw4
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Dave Neal!
6:42 - A Day In Dave’s Life
8:30 - Is It Ever Too Much?
15:22 - How Does His Online Business Affect His Comedy And Vice Versa?
18:52 - What’s The Hardest Part Of The Dave Neal Empire?
41:10 - The Clayton Echard Story
50:05 - Has He Ever Recorded In His Underwear
51:56 - Does He Have Help?
53:35 - Dave Neal Vs Reality Steve
57:35 - Imposter Syndrome
1:05:04 - Anyone He’s Been Starstruck To Have Met
1:12:38 - What Did Dave Neal Want To Be When He Grew Up?
1:14:43 - His Top 3 Podcasts
1:18:26 - How Did A Baseball-Loving, American Shirt-Wearing, Blue-blooded American Male Get Into Reality Dating TV?
1:20:03 - Rapid Fire Questions
1:26:32 - Shandy Debrief
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
More Dear Shandy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Jenn Tran Makes History And A Historic Makeout - Ep 317
Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!
Thank you to our sponsors...
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Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor...
- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
3:27 - Episode 1 Kick Off
7:04 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails
15:24 - Jenn’s Toast
15:58 - Notable 1-On-1 Time
20:17 - Truth Or Dare
22:36 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d
35:31 - First Impression Rose
37:14 - Andy’s A-Game
38:41 - Fashion
40:40 - Shandy Word Watch
43:40 - Shandy’s Predictions
53:32 - Wild Cards
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
More Dear Shandy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy
More Sharleen
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com
More Andy
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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Q&A! Dating a Guy Who's TOO Handsome, A 14-Year Situationship, & Right Guy, Wrong Timing? - Ep 316
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're seeing is TOO good-looking, how to escape the insecurity spiral? If you've planned your friend's bachelorette party AND bridal shower and she can't even remember your birthday, is it worth the confrontation or does she get a bride pass? And if he was the right guy at the wrong time, when circumstances change, could the time be right? Finally, Shandy gives a pep talk to a Shandy newly out of a situationship of 14 YEARS. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
Thanks to our sponsors!
- Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop!
- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month!
- Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars!
- Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase!
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:32 - Q1: The Guy I’m Seeing Is TOO Attractive—Help!
14:41 - Q2: I’ve Planned Her Bachelorette AND Bridal Shower And She Can’t Even Wish Me A Happy Birthday??
22:31 - Q3: Was It Right Guy But Wrong Timing? If So, What If Circumstances Have Changed?
33:20 - Q4: My Future Sister-In-Law Doesn’t Seem To Like Me—What Should I Do?
43:21 - Q5: I’m Newly Out Of A 14-Year On-And-Off-Again Situationship—Help Me, Shandy!
If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com
Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy
Follow us!
Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy
Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt
Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations
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Customer Reviews
Love Dear Shandy
Sharleen and Andy are the best! I so appreciate their refreshing, honest perspectives. You can tell they really care about this podcast and their Shandys. I originally started listening to bachelor recaps but am now a listener of all episodes. Keep up the great work!!
‘Shame and Marketing don’t mix well’
That might be true, Andy, but you too sure do! I look forward to your podcast every week, and at this point, I’m completely caught up on every episode.. so always wanting more.
So keep doing what you’re doing, and good luck with the marketing. And the shame. ✌🏼
meh
Wow, a joke about how you can’t assume someone’s gender in 2024. So clever!