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Welcome to the go-to podcast for Christian moms who want to truly ENJOY every minute of family life!

✓ Strengthen your family relationships
✓ Grow a happy marriage
✓ Build a strong bond with your kids
... While keeping Jesus at the center of it all.

If you sometimes feel discouraged by how family life is going, you’re not alone. We live in a busy world, with a ton of distractions, and relationships really do take work. There’s not a simple answer to the messy realities of Christian family life.

But there are solutions!

On this podcast, we tackle the real-life struggles of Christian family relationships.

How do you manage hard emotions like anger and anxiety? What does conflict resolution look like in a godly marriage? Can you really enjoy your toddlers instead of spending all your time cleaning up the spills and picking up the toys?

If you’re anything like me, what you really want to do is ENJOY the crazy journey of family life.

You want to soak up every minute of time with your family. You want to be fully present in the moment with your little ones and feel connected with your husband. You want to find God’s purpose in the stressful days of mom life.

You want your marriage and motherhood to matter, not just in the here and now, but for eternity.

Well, my friend, you’re in the right place.

I’m Jess Hayes, and I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a marriage and family therapist, pastor’s wife, and mom of 4 energetic toddlers. Life is busy and full, and I am PASSIONATE about helping moms enjoy their family relationships!

Christian family life can be hard work. There can be discouragement and distractions. But your effort is WORTHWHILE and God can do amazing things in your family.

Each week here on the Love Your People Well podcast, we tackle a different topic related to family life. From faith to emotions to communication, you’ll get biblical encouragement along with plenty of PRACTICAL strategies that will help you enjoy family life and deepen those family relationships.

Looking for more?

>> Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free

>> Find the perfect devotional for the season you’re in at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals

>> Get connected to our private community and support the show by joining us at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.Patreon.com

>> Email me anytime at Jessica @loveyourpeoplewell.com

I’m so glad you’re here, my friend.

Grab a cup of tea, or start on that massive pile of laundry, as we walk together to build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships.

Hugs and blessings! I’ll talk to you soon.
💕 Jess

Love Your People Well - Motherhood, Marriage, & Family Relationships From A Christian Counselor Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT - Wife, Mom, Christian, Counselor

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    • 5.0 • 36 Ratings

Welcome to the go-to podcast for Christian moms who want to truly ENJOY every minute of family life!

✓ Strengthen your family relationships
✓ Grow a happy marriage
✓ Build a strong bond with your kids
... While keeping Jesus at the center of it all.

If you sometimes feel discouraged by how family life is going, you’re not alone. We live in a busy world, with a ton of distractions, and relationships really do take work. There’s not a simple answer to the messy realities of Christian family life.

But there are solutions!

On this podcast, we tackle the real-life struggles of Christian family relationships.

How do you manage hard emotions like anger and anxiety? What does conflict resolution look like in a godly marriage? Can you really enjoy your toddlers instead of spending all your time cleaning up the spills and picking up the toys?

If you’re anything like me, what you really want to do is ENJOY the crazy journey of family life.

You want to soak up every minute of time with your family. You want to be fully present in the moment with your little ones and feel connected with your husband. You want to find God’s purpose in the stressful days of mom life.

You want your marriage and motherhood to matter, not just in the here and now, but for eternity.

Well, my friend, you’re in the right place.

I’m Jess Hayes, and I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a marriage and family therapist, pastor’s wife, and mom of 4 energetic toddlers. Life is busy and full, and I am PASSIONATE about helping moms enjoy their family relationships!

Christian family life can be hard work. There can be discouragement and distractions. But your effort is WORTHWHILE and God can do amazing things in your family.

Each week here on the Love Your People Well podcast, we tackle a different topic related to family life. From faith to emotions to communication, you’ll get biblical encouragement along with plenty of PRACTICAL strategies that will help you enjoy family life and deepen those family relationships.

Looking for more?

>> Grab your FREEBIES at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free

>> Find the perfect devotional for the season you’re in at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/devotionals

>> Get connected to our private community and support the show by joining us at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.Patreon.com

>> Email me anytime at Jessica @loveyourpeoplewell.com

I’m so glad you’re here, my friend.

Grab a cup of tea, or start on that massive pile of laundry, as we walk together to build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships.

Hugs and blessings! I’ll talk to you soon.
💕 Jess

    A Prayer For Every Christian Mom Who Feels Weak (Praying Psalm 102)

    A Prayer For Every Christian Mom Who Feels Weak (Praying Psalm 102)

    Summertime in the Psalms Series!
     
    Psalm 102 is literally labeled "the prayer of an afflicted person." So, how can we not finish out this week without prayer?? 
     
    Join me today for a sweet time of prayer together, praying through this psalm and the overwhelming emotions that sometimes accompany Christian family life, marriage, and motherhood.
     
    hugs & blessings,
    Jess
     
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    ✨ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show and dive into our July 2024 focus area - a 30-Day Challenge Diving Into The Psalms! ✨
     
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    RESOURCES RELATED TO THIS EPISODE:
    FREEBIE: FREE 45-Day Bible & Prayer Guide
    DEVOTIONAL: Finding Joy In The Journey 40-Day Devotional on Motherhood
    READ NEXT: 10 Reasons Why You’re Struggling With Out Of Control Emotions As A Christian Mom
    LISTEN NEXT: Episode # 131 - 4 Things A Christian Mom Can Do When She’s Feeling Sad Or Depressed
      
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    GET HELP ENJOYING YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS:
    Manage Emotions
    Communicate Well
    Fruitful Faith
    Happy Marriage
    Joyful Parenting
    Home & Family Life
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON (and enjoy our monthly challenges!)
     
    GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE in my Etsy shop (most items under $5)
     
    FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL (dealing with many family-related topics)
     
    I’d love your encouragement with a 5-star written review! And make sure to copy the link to this episode and text it to a friend to encourage her too.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.
     
    ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
     

    • 6 min
    Feeling Weak, Feeling Weary, But Trusting God’s Faithfulness (Studying Psalm 102)

    Feeling Weak, Feeling Weary, But Trusting God’s Faithfulness (Studying Psalm 102)

    Episode 202 // Summertime in the Psalms Series!
     
    I love the tagline for Psalm 102. “The prayer of an afflicted person who has grown weak and pours out a lament before the Lord.”
     
    What Christian mom hasn’t sometimes felt afflicted? Weak? Filled with lament and struggle?
     
    Today’s episode is for you, my friend. And for me. And for all of us who feel weak and weary sometimes!
     
    Join me for encouragement, hope, and 3 practical takeaways from this beautiful psalm.
     
    Let’s dive in.
     
    hugs & blessings,
    Jess
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    ✨ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show and dive into our July 2024 focus area - a 30-Day Challenge Diving Into The Psalms! ✨
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    RESOURCES RELATED TO THIS EPISODE:
    FREEBIE: FREE 45-Day Bible & Prayer Guide
    DEVOTIONAL: Finding Joy In The Journey 40-Day Devotional on Motherhood
    READ NEXT: 10 Reasons Why You’re Struggling With Out Of Control Emotions As A Christian Mom
    LISTEN NEXT: Episode # 131 - 4 Things A Christian Mom Can Do When She’s Feeling Sad Or Depressed
      
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    GET HELP ENJOYING YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS:
    Manage Emotions
    Communicate Well
    Fruitful Faith
    Happy Marriage
    Joyful Parenting
    Home & Family Life
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON (and enjoy our monthly challenges!)
     
    GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE in my Etsy shop (most items under $5)
     
    FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL (dealing with many family-related topics)
     
    I’d love your encouragement with a 5-star written review! And make sure to copy the link to this episode and text it to a friend to encourage her too.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.
     
    ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
     

    Praying Through Discouragement And Hardship (Praying Psalm 62)

    Praying Through Discouragement And Hardship (Praying Psalm 62)

    Summertime in the Psalms Series!
     
    Reading the Scriptures is so life-giving. There is so much wisdom, encouragement, hope, and peace!  
     
    This week, we've looked at Psalm 62 and the practical action steps it points us toward during seasons of discouragement and hardship. Today, let's take it a step further and pray together through this beautiful psalm.
     
    Join me for a short prayer today, and let's find encouragement together in God's goodness and his Word.
     
    hugs & blessings,
    Jess
     
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    ✨ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show and dive into our July 2024 focus area - a 30-Day Challenge Diving Into The Psalms! ✨
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    RESOURCES RELATED TO THIS EPISODE:
    FREEBIE: FREE 45-Day Bible & Prayer Guide
    DEVOTIONAL: Finding Joy In The Journey 40-Day Devotional on Motherhood
    READ NEXT: Feeling Like A Burnt Out Mom? Here’s How To Enjoy Christian Family Life More
    LISTEN NEXT: Episode #171 - 3 Helpful Scriptures For When You’re Feeling Distracted And Need To Re-focus On What Truly Matters In Family Life (Episode #171)
      
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    GET HELP ENJOYING YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS:
    Manage Emotions
    Communicate Well
    Fruitful Faith
    Happy Marriage
    Joyful Parenting
    Home & Family Life
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON (and enjoy our monthly challenges!)
     
    GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE in my Etsy shop (most items under $5)
     
    FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL (dealing with many family-related topics)
     
    I’d love your encouragement with a 5-star written review! And make sure to copy the link to this episode and text it to a friend to encourage her too.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.
     
    ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
     

    5 Practical Action Steps For When You’re Feeling Discouraged (Studying Psalm 62)

    5 Practical Action Steps For When You’re Feeling Discouraged (Studying Psalm 62)

    Episode 201 // Summertime in the Psalms Series!
     
    You aren’t here to just grit your teeth and survive raising your kids. No way! No, you are here to figure out how to ENJOY family life. 
     
    Yes, family life is messy. It’s chaotic. We all get frustrated, we get overwhelmed, relationships can discourage us and life can be really hard. 
     
    And Psalm 62 has exactly the wisdom we need for THOSE parts of Christian family life. 
     
    So join me today, friend, to take a look at the 5 “R’s” that we find here in Psalm 62. When things are rough, these 5 action steps are straight from God to encourage your heart and keep you on the right path. 
     
    Let’s dive in.
     
    hugs & blessings,
    Jess
     
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    ✨ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show and dive into our July 2024 focus area - a 30-Day Challenge Diving Into The Psalms! ✨
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    RESOURCES RELATED TO THIS EPISODE:
    FREEBIE: FREE 45-Day Bible & Prayer Guide
    DEVOTIONAL: Finding Joy In The Journey 40-Day Devotional on Motherhood
    READ NEXT: Feeling Like A Burnt Out Mom? Here’s How To Enjoy Christian Family Life More
    LISTEN NEXT: Episode #171 - 3 Helpful Scriptures For When You’re Feeling Distracted And Need To Re-focus On What Truly Matters In Family Life (Episode #171)
      
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    GET HELP ENJOYING YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS:
    Manage Emotions
    Communicate Well
    Fruitful Faith
    Happy Marriage
    Joyful Parenting
    Home & Family Life
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON (and enjoy our monthly challenges!)
     
    GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE in my Etsy shop (most items under $5)
     
    FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL (dealing with many family-related topics)
     
    I’d love your encouragement with a 5-star written review! And make sure to copy the link to this episode and text it to a friend to encourage her too.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.
     
    ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨

    A Prayer For Purpose And Joy In Your Christian Family Relationships (Praying Psalm 100)

    A Prayer For Purpose And Joy In Your Christian Family Relationships (Praying Psalm 100)

    Welcome to our Summertime in the Psalms Series!
     
    This week, we've found joy and purpose in Psalm 100. Today, join me as we pray through this psalm together - for ourselves and our families.
     
    May God bless you and your family with joy, peace, and grace that only He can give! May He fill your home with worship and with knowledge of him, and draw you closer to him in thanksgiving and praise. 
     
    Join me for a time of prayer today.
     
    hugs & blessings,
    Jess
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    ✨ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show and dive into our July 2024 focus area - a 30-Day Challenge Diving Into The Psalms! ✨
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    RESOURCES RELATED TO THIS EPISODE:
    FREE 45-Day Bible & Prayer Guide
    Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy Devotional Workbook
    Finding Joy In The Journey 40-Day Devotional
      
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    GET HELP ENJOYING YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS:
    Manage Emotions
    Communicate Well
    Fruitful Faith
    Happy Marriage
    Joyful Parenting
    Home & Family Life
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON (and enjoy our monthly challenges!)
     
    GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE in my Etsy shop (most items under $5)
     
    FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL (dealing with many family-related topics)
     
    I’d love your encouragement with a 5-star written review! And make sure to copy the link to this episode and text it to a friend to encourage her too.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.
     
    ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨
     

    3 Keys To Celebrating, Enjoying, And Finding Meaning In Christian Family Life (Studying Psalm 100)

    3 Keys To Celebrating, Enjoying, And Finding Meaning In Christian Family Life (Studying Psalm 100)

    Episode 200 // Summertime in the Psalms Series!
     
    We are celebrating 200 episodes today!!! So what better psalm to study together than psalm 100. This is a song of praise, thanksgiving, and celebration of who God is and how we interact with him. 
     
    In only 5 short verses, there is so much richness in this psalm. Join me to look at the 3 keys we find here to lead us in Christian family life!
     
    And to celebrate 200 episodes, can I ask you to leave a review of the show? If you’ve listened even to 1 episode and you’ve decided to come back again, a quick click on the “Write a Review” button, click the 5 stars (hopefully!) and leave a short comment - it’s quick, easy, and so meaningful!
     
    Thanks for listening, friend :-) Let’s dive in!
     
    hugs & blessings,
    Jess
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    ✨ Join us inside our Patreon community to support the show and dive into our July 2024 focus area - a 30-Day Challenge Diving Into The Psalms! ✨
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    RESOURCES RELATED TO THIS EPISODE:
    FREE 45-Day Bible & Prayer Guide
    Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy Devotional Workbook
    Finding Joy In The Journey 40-Day Devotional on Motherhood
      
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    GET HELP ENJOYING YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS:
    Manage Emotions
    Communicate Well
    Fruitful Faith
    Happy Marriage
    Joyful Parenting
    Home & Family Life
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    SUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON (and enjoy our monthly challenges!)
     
    GRAB A QUICK PRINTABLE in my Etsy shop (most items under $5)
     
    FIND THE PERFECT DEVOTIONAL (dealing with many family-related topics)
     
    I’d love your encouragement with a 5-star written review! And make sure to copy the link to this episode and text it to a friend to encourage her too.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    DISCLAIMERS: I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.
     
    *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *  *
     
    Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life while raising little ones at home. Together, we’re building healthy, happy, and holy family relationships - with Jesus at the center of it all.
     
    ✨ Grab tons of free resources, devotionals, and biblical encouragement at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com ✨

    • 14 min

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