Marriage Unhindered

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Marriage Unhindered

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

  1. 21 HR. AGO

    Approaching a spouse about an affair

    Doug shares advice with a listener who just found out his wife is having an affair. He talks about how difficult the first conversation will be, but that through prayer and professional help, the marriage can still be saved. Doug shares a story by Alice Von Hildebrand from her book By Love Refined. In this letter, Alice discusses table manners with her friend who is distraught over her husband’s eating habits. Alice talks about the differences between men and women and how these differences give us the opportunity for compromise. Happiness depends on recognizing the differences and adapting to show our love for one another. Listener questions and comments: Joe - I just found out my wife has been having affair for the last three years. I haven't talked to her about it and she doesn't know that I know. What is your advice? (5:47) Resources: By Love Refined https://sophiainstitute.com/product/by-love-refined/?srsltid=AfmBOor1NPi20B5Dg7_UNa1usDV3UApRUyhnPlK1-lzCJ18DjtdwwCa6   Rekindled Hearts https://relevantradio.store/products/rekindled-hearts-book

    50 min

  2. 1 DAY AGO

    Healing from emotional scars

    Doug and Monica Hinderer give advice on childhood emotions and discuss the importance of stressing that the intellect controls the emotions and it is critical to teach children to think the right way. Doug and Monica also share what to do if you were raised in a highly critical home and give tips for what to do if you are in an abusive relationship. Listener questions and comments: Jack – I was raised in a very critical and negative family. It's affected my life. When I was in the military, my family didn't support me. Angela – I grew up and experienced a lot of emotions and now I see the same in my children and don’t know how to deal with them because I did not have much support when I was young. From an early age, children have to be taught to control their own emotions. It is good to teach them to pray to their guardian angel. Maria – I unfortunately had to choose divorce because my husband didn’t treat me with respect. I sometimes wonder if I made right decision. Mary – I separated from my husband who was physically and verbally abusive. I have a 6-year-old son. Did I do the right thing? Resources: Catholic Mom Calm https://catholicmomcalm.com/

    50 min

  3. 2 DAYS AGO

    Reconciliation after divorce

    Doug unpacks a case study from Impossible Marriages Redeemed by Leila Miller. Overcome by grief from her sister’s death, the wife in this story decided to file for divorce. After her husband’s remarriage, and much prayer. the couple ultimately reconciled. Doug discusses how big emotions can lead to bad decisions and that the secret to overcoming grief is focusing on helping other people. He speaks to the power of prayer and how the intercession of Mary can thaw the coldest of hearts. Listener questions and comments: Joe - My wife won’t work with me at all. What advice do you have for this situation where my wife focuses only on herself? She wants to get a divorce and is getting advice from coworkers. Resources: Impossible Marriages Redeemed https://www.leilamiller.net/impossiblemarriagesredeemedpdf   Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/ Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   Catholic Therapists https://www.catholictherapists.com/

    51 min

  4. 3 DAYS AGO

    When the wife is the primary breadwinner

    Doug discusses how marriage is affected when the wife is the primary breadwinner. Callers weigh in with their perspectives and experience. Doug shares the pros and cons when the wife is the primary breadwinner Listener questions and comments: Mike - My wife has made more money for the last 40 years. Why would that be perceived as a problem?   Is there any Catholic position on this? Sarah - I was the sole breadwinner, and my husband wasn't working at all. I got a ton of backlash, he accused me and we are now separated. Carol - I stopped working when I had my twins. My husband was always at work and now my children resent me. Talks about the “Turkey Plate” Janet - I have worked to be the breadwinner of my house. It went very well, but seven years into it, I stopped and I'm now divorced.

    50 min

  5. 4 DAYS AGO

    Overcoming procrastination and saving marriages

    Doug shares possible reasons why a husband has no interest in intimacy, how a wife can overcome procrastination, and what to do if your husband is a party animal. Doug unpacks the value of suffering and shares how it can unite us with the love of Christ. Listener questions and comments: Frank – I’m not married but I enjoy the program. How do I know God’s plan in my life? John – I am not Catholic. I want to save my marriage. She is Catholic but does not want to work on the marriage anymore. I can’t go into my own home. I have not done anything to warrant this treatment. Mabel – I think I found evidence of cheating. How do I bring it up with my husband?

    51 min

  6. FEB 15

    Valentine’s Day Dating Advice

    Doug shares first date red flags, his list of what to avoid, and what to look for on a first date. PLUS: The Friday Rant! First date red flags: arriving late, using the phone too much, high jacking the conversation, talking about your ex, debating everything, being overly touchy, expecting intimacy, complaining about everything, and splitting the bill. Listener questions and comments: Susie - I am single and looking for Mr. Right. I have no Valentine and am looking for one. I am perturbed. Can you help me? Dee - Men should always pay the bill, not just on the first date. Lane - Valentine's Day is a ploy for selling candy, cards, and jewelry. Sarah - I have been married for 3 years - the best 3 years of my life. I prayed to St. Valentine for my husband. Debbie - I use Valentine's day to do self-development and do something for myself. I know how to be single with love. Liz - Valentine's Day is just another Day. My husband bought flowers the first two years but we don’t celebrate anymore. Ricardo - I am 23 years old and listening. This is very refreshing to hear you say all this about relationships. Sheila - I also try to bow to God's will. I am getting married at the age 60. Resources: Rekindled Hearts https://relevantradio.store/products/rekindled-hearts-book

    50 min

  7. FEB 14

    Loving and affirming your children

    Monica Hinderer joins Doug discussing how to make sure your children know you love them. They share the importance of affirmation, setting boundaries, and being honest and authentic. Doug tackles a listener email in which a mom asks if it is OK for her daughter to go on an overnight trip with her boyfriend’s family. Doug and Monica weigh the pros and cons. Callers share their opinions. Listener questions and comments: Julie - We are missing a much bigger picture here. It’s likely that this boy will have a different outlook. I think that this is a bad situation. You shouldn’t be dating if this boy is not in a position to marry. Maria - Should a parent have to reveal that they learned the hard way to their kids when telling them why they shouldn’t do something? Maureen - I disagree with allowing a daughter to stay overnight. I think temptation will increase each time. Juanita - How long have these two been dating? If this is just a boyfriend/girlfriend thing I disagree. Marcel - This child is way too young. The families need to get to know each other better.

    51 min

  8. FEB 13

    Qualities of a good husband

    Doug unpacks the qualities of a good husband. He stresses the importance of a wife’s primary place in her husband’s life, husbands being emotionally available, mutual love, and respect. Doug also unpacks the 5 intimacies in marriage. How do you honor your father and mother and still honor your wife and children? Doug answers this email question reminding the listener that it is important to protect your wife physically, emotionally and spiritually from everyone. This does not mean you disown your parents but that the wife comes first before everything else Listener questions and comments: David - What's the best way to find a good marriage therapist? Connie - My husband has to go to California once in a while for work. He doesn't want to tell me when he's coming back and now he hasn't talked to me in five days. Mario - My girlfriend lives with her parents and her son from a previous relationship. They're a higher priority than me and we all live together. What should I do?   Resources:   Catholic Therapists https://www.catholictherapists.com/   Catholic Psychotherapy https://catholicpsychotherapy.org/   The Bible and Marriage: The Two Shall Become One Flesh https://stpaulcenter.com/product/the-bible-and-marriage-the-two-shall-become-one-flesh-a-catholic-biblical-theology-of-the-sacraments/

    51 min
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Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air every Saturday from 11am – 12pm CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

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  • Creator
    Relevant Radio
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    199
  • Rating
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