38 episodes

Not So Sexy gets into the gross, real, fun, and most importantly sexy parts of human relationships and life. We talk about sex and how that impacts how we live, who we meet, and what we do.

Sex is part of our everyday lives and it impacts so much of what we do. However, when we talk about it we couch in in soft language or we just don't get to the nitty gritty details. This podcast explores with curiosity and gets to the core of sex.

Because talking about sex should be easy.

Hosted by standup comedian Alexander Cabana.

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    • Comedy
    • 4.4 • 7 Ratings

Not So Sexy gets into the gross, real, fun, and most importantly sexy parts of human relationships and life. We talk about sex and how that impacts how we live, who we meet, and what we do.

Sex is part of our everyday lives and it impacts so much of what we do. However, when we talk about it we couch in in soft language or we just don't get to the nitty gritty details. This podcast explores with curiosity and gets to the core of sex.

Because talking about sex should be easy.

Hosted by standup comedian Alexander Cabana.

    Not So Sexy - Season 4 Tails from A High End Sex Worker

    Not So Sexy - Season 4 Tails from A High End Sex Worker

    We are back with Season 4 of Not So Sexy! We hope over this very long break you've been falling in love, getting your back blown out, and having messy breakups. Everything that means you're alive. 
     
    This week we spoke with Amy Taylor, a high end sex worker. She talked with us about working for billionaires, what she would do if she could change the laws for sex work, how she manages to stay safe, and gives some advice for anyone wanting to do this kind of work. 
     
     

    • 57 min
    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 7 - Advice from a sex therapist

    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 7 - Advice from a sex therapist

    This week we interview Angela, a sex therapist.  She talks to us about how to have the best sex, what it means to be in an abusive relationship, and shares with us details about her divorce. Even an expert in relationships can sometimes get it wrong. It's always good to remember that.
     As always if you have questions, comments, etc - email us at NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com 
    Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross 
    Check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast
     

    • 40 min
    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 6 - Advice from a sex worker

    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 6 - Advice from a sex worker

    How many of you think sex workers are "Ladies of the Night" or have only experienced them through movies and TV? If you're like "Yup, that pretty much sums it up for me" then you and I are on the same page. This week we talked to Rose Love who is a sex worker. She tells us about her dating life, how she interacts with clients, she gives us insight into the profession (and it is a profession) and she reminds us to love ourselves.
     
     As always if you have questions, comments, etc - email us at NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com 
    Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross 
    Check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast
     

    • 35 min
    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 5 - Naughti Gras

    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 5 - Naughti Gras

    What would a sexually liberated, zero shame, totally sexy group of people look like? Think leather, tons of leather. This week Not So Sexy goes on location to a premier erotic art show - Naughti Gras. We touched soap that looked like a dick, got spanked, and talked to people about all things sex.
     
    As always email us at NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com 
    Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross and check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast

    • 19 min
    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 4 - Personal Grooming

    Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 4 - Personal Grooming

    How much hair is too much hair? How often should you shave or is going full Brazilian too far? This week on Not So Sexy we explore these questions and more. Also, our host Alex now has to go get a Brazilian wax which he may or may not live stream ;).
     
    As always email us at NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com 
    Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross and check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast

    • 41 min
    Not So Sexy™ Episode 32 - Power Dynamics

    Not So Sexy™ Episode 32 - Power Dynamics

    Power - that is a big word in our lives. On this episode of Not So Sexy we explore what power means in relation to sex. How it affects how we couple, how it affects our interactions with other people, how it even affects our bodies.
    What does power mean for you? Do you feel powerful in your life, relationship, during sex?
    As always you can reach out to us on NotSoSexyPodcast@gmail.com 
    Tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross or message us on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast. We'd love to hear from you.
     

    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

4.4 out of 5
7 Ratings

7 Ratings

FullMoon1989 ,

Big Fan

Hands down my favorite podcast. Super fun, intelligent, insightful, and inclusive chat about entertaining sex/relationships topics.

EAPYT3 ,

Hilarious Truths

🙌 Well done podcast that has some embarrassing stories and raw confessions that we can all relate too. It’s a great comedic spin on some difficult topics that hopefully helps ease the uncomfortableness of this gross thing we call “sex”. It’s a great listen to learn from and share with a partner to discuss their views. 12 out of 10 recommend. 👍

ThugWife618 ,

A very insightful podcast on the not so pretty side of sex and relationships.

Absolutely loved it. It's open, thoughtful, and incredibly entertaining.

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