Order of Man Ryan Michler

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 tips to help men overcome the challenges of single fatherhood. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
 
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Do not neglect yourself Learn to stack time Discipline and consistency trumps everything else Speak well of their mother Grease the grooves Learn to keep things lighthearted Shine as an example Tell your kids the truth, but don’t burden them When your kids are not with you, you should still be with them Eat dinner with your kids  
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(3:10) What are some strategies around implementing the confidence/competence loop?
(13:40) How do you balance out your alone time in a relationship or marriage?
(18:30) What are some strategies for managing a new wife and step kids?
(21:50) How do you approach the topic of death with someone who's health is extremely poor?
(36:00) How should I approach women at the gym who I’m interested in?
(39:00) How do you motivate others to be invested in their work?
(47:40) How do we validate feelings that others have that we don’t agree with?
 
 
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All of us agree that the currently political system isn’t working, regardless of where we sit on the political divide. With the federal government consolidating and amassing power, it’s increasingly difficult to see how they’re serving the people instead of the beast it’s become.

But what is the answer? Is there a solution that moves us closer to what America’s founding fathers had envisioned nearly 250 years ago. My guest today, Max Borders, joins us to talk about the concepts in his newest book, Underthrow: How Jefferson’s Dangerous Ideas Will Spark a New Revolution. We talk about what it truly means to be free, the idea of a “national divorce,” where socialized services work and where they go too far, the power of decentralization, how innovation is act of subversion, and the difference between and overthrow and an underthrow to change the world.
 
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Community governance Constitution of Consent Downsides to dissolution of the United States A “national divorce” done wrong Why would a new constitution be any different Overthrow is violent, “underthrow” is peaceful Understanding the origin of rights The current system no longer serves us Subversive innovation  
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 3 steps to help you leverage your strengths to achieve more and serve others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
 
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Identify what you are good at: Ask other people what they value in you What are people asking your advice for? What are you doing when time moves the fastest? Invest in your strengths Never be ashamed to share your talents and gifts with the world  
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Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today!
Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.
Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos are together “in-person” for a rare occasion to take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. 
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
 
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(4:00) What things would you recommend men do when they are feeling lonely?
(11:30) How has 9/11 impacted you and how do you think it has impacted the country?
(16:50) As men, should we share our most intimate struggles with our significant others?
(22:50) Do either of you experience a shame spiral?
(26:00) How can I start a fundraising operation without taking time away from my work or other obligations?
(30:00) I am curious about your opinion on how to get people to buy into a mission?
(34:50) When you started OOM, how long was it until you created a steady revenue stream?
(39:30) What can I do to help gain trust back after my wife engaged in an emotional affair?
 
 
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If you’re a father (or plan to be one), I know how it is to feel completely inadequate to be the type of dad your children need you to be. Self-doubt, challenging life circumstances, and past emotional trauma all combine to create the perfect storm of insecurity in raising your sons and daughters right.

My guest today is New York Times Bestselling Author, Gary John Bishop and today he joins me to talk about his latest book, Grow Up: Becoming the Parent Your Kids Deserve. We cover such a wide array of topics in this conversation including why you should question your past and how to heal from it, the value of “empathetic intelligence” and how to use it effectively with your kids, how responsibility supersedes truthfulness, overcoming shame and guilt from parenting mistakes, and what it means to truly forgive someone.
 
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Parenting is rewarding - and frustrating We’re not always going to get it right Challenges of parenting after divorce Your kids are always observing you Your kids will come to their own determinations Kids are “traumatized” by different things Kids assign their own meaning to events We need to be clear with our kids about why we are doing what we are doing Don’t box your kids in Teaching your kids to be truthful is key Self-punishment is a way to distract You can’t get to forgiveness and hang onto blame  
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