Raising Christian Kids Lee Ann Mancini

“If you look at how our behaviors are built, it starts with our relationships, experiences, and genetics. From those three, you get these beliefs that influence your thoughts and your emotions that are automatic throughout the day, which influence your behaviors. So, if you want to truly change your behaviors, you begin with gratitude because it changes your perception, changes your belief about something, and changes your thoughts and emotions.” – Dr. Danny Huerta.
Dr. Danny Huerta oversees Focus on the Family’s initiatives that equip mothers and fathers with biblical principles and counsel for raising healthy, resilient children rooted in a thriving faith. He is a bilingual psychologist, licensed clinical social worker, and author of 7 Traits of Effective Parenting. Dr. Huerta has maintained a private practice in Colorado Springs since 2003 and has served families through Focus on the Family since 2004.
During this episode, Danny shares his insight and practical advice for raising healthy, resilient children rooted in a thriving faith. Dr. Huerta discusses the reasons for writing 7 Traits of Effective Parenting, including the need for practical steps for parents and the lack of a roadmap incorporating important principles for effective parenting. Danny also outlines the assessment, What Are Your Parenting Strengths? and how it provides a means for parents to determine their top strengths, possible strengths, and areas of growth as parents.
The 7 traits of effective parenting:


Adaptability: Be open to adjusting to your child's changing needs and behaviors. Show them flexibility while establishing consistency in routines and rules.
2. Respect: See your child clearly with love and care. Recognize their unique personalities and affirm their value and worth consistently.
Intentionality: Be purposeful in your interactions with your child. Take deliberate steps to spend quality time together, engage in meaningful conversations, and foster a strong bond.
Steadfast Love: Demonstrate unconditional love, support, and presence for your child, especially during challenging moments. Your consistent love provides a secure foundation for their growth.
Boundaries and Limits: Establish and communicate clear boundaries guided by love and respect. Provide the necessary guidance and correction to shape your child's behavior and character.
Grace and Forgiveness: Embrace a culture of forgiveness and grace within your family. Teach your child the importance of acknowledging mistakes, seeking forgiveness, and extending grace to others.
Gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude in your family. Encourage expressions of thankfulness, foster a spirit of appreciation, and model gratitude in daily interactions.

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“We've been so exposed the last few years to cancel culture. It's, "If I don't agree with you, I'm going to get louder and more dominant, and I'm going to tear you apart." And how do we model to our kids that we are called to love through that process?” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.
Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”!
During this episode, all three ladies tackle the question of how parents can help kids stand up and stand strong in their convictions in a world filled with peer pressure and differing ideologies. They discuss practical strategies for navigating disagreements within the family, facing pushback in public schools, and dealing with friends and family members who may challenge their faith.
Key Takeaways:


Encouraging kids to live out their convictions in the face of disagreement from family members.
Acknowledging the challenges of having family members who reject faith and teaching kids not to be judgmental but to instead live out their faith in front of them.
Emphasizing the importance of modeling peaceful and accepting behavior within the family.
Praying over kids and encouraging them to walk in a manner worthy of their calling while at school.
Teaching critical thinking and the ability to engage in intelligent conversation about faith.
Encouraging kids not to worry about negative opinions from peers, as it's only for a short period of time.
Encouraging an unoffendable attitude and gracious response to differing beliefs.
Modeling curiosity and showing genuine interest in understanding others' viewpoints.

“What we always taught our kids is don't be angry with a blind person for being blind. If they don't have the mind of Christ, then they don't see life with a biblical worldview. So rather than being self-righteous, pharisee, and judgmental, live your faith in front of them.” – Rhonda Stoppe.
Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books.

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“Honestly, if there's one thing that I pray for daily, I pray for the Lord to give America solid Christian families where husbands love their wives and children are raised in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” – Alex McFarland.
Alex McFarland is the leader of Alex McFarland Ministries and a religion, youth, and culture expert. He is also the creator of Viral Truth Clubs, and has authored or co-authored more than 20 books, including The Assault on America: How to Defend our Nation Before It’s Too Late!, 10 Issues that Divide Christians, The God You Thought You Knew, and more. He is the Director of Worldview and teaches in the School of Practical Government for Charis Bible College. Alex currently co-hosts Exploring the Word on the American Family Radio Network and the Truth and Liberty TV broadcast and is the host of The Alex McFarland Show.
During this episode, Alex shares his expert knowledge about the vital role of Christian families, the impact of his latest book 100 Bible Questions and Answers for Families, and the importance of equipping and empowering young people.
Key Takeaways:


Content from his newest book, focusing on parenting and addressing difficult topics with children.
The book's influence on families, particularly children's interest in biblical discussions.
Emphasis on the importance of godly men in families and a call for men to be committed to their role as the priest of the home.
Acknowledgment of the need for both Christian husbands and fathers to raise counterculture Christians.
The vital need for more strong Christian churches.
Anticipation of revival and a call to action to protect children from negative influences.
Background and growth of the Equip Retreat Camps:

The approach concerning discipleship and apologetics at the camps.
Children's capacity to understand deep truths and their appreciation for substantial teachings.
Aim to provide a meaningful and impactful learning experience for youth.


Encouragement for multi-church events to rally Christians and spread the message of Christ.

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“But to make our home a reflection of heaven on earth, we also need to be thinking about God's characteristics, who he is, and how we can demonstrate that in our homes. How can we ultimately have a sense of security, a sense of peace and protection, a sense of order?” – Lori Wildenberg.
Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group.
During this episode of MOMents with Lori and LeeAnn, both ladies discuss how you can make your home a reflection of heaven on earth. They explore spiritual, emotional, and physical aspects, emphasizing the importance of prayer, meditation, and modeling virtuous behavior for our children.
Key Takeaways:


Demonstrating God's characteristics and encouraging the Fruits of the Spirit.
Modeling a close relationship with God and including children in spiritual practices like singing praise and praying.
Being able to manage fear, anger, and sadness.
Reflecting God's holiness in emotional responses.
Building trust in God during challenging situations.
Physically, room by room, anointing oil and praying over each room.
Incorporating scripture and crosses in the home.
Placing plaques and Bible verses throughout the home to create visual reminders of Jesus.
Emphasizing the importance of forgiveness in the home environment.

“I do believe the reason that God has given us the emotion of anger is so that we can understand what perhaps injustice looks like for someone else, see that we can stand up to that bully. Things like that, those are good things. That's a good way to express anger. That's a holy way.” – Lori Wildenberg.
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Mary DeMuth is an international speaker, podcaster, and author of nearly 50 books, fiction and nonfiction. As an avid Bible reader, she has guided many people into the Scriptures to supercharge their faith. Through God’s healing, Mary has overcome a difficult past to become an authentic example of what it means to live a brand-new story. She loves to help others “re-story” their lives through the books she writes. Mary lives in Texas with her husband of 33 years and is mom to three adult children.
During this episode, Mary talks about the vital role of impactful communication and how to empower adult children while maintaining a strong, supportive relationship. Mary shares insights from her book, Love, Pray, Listen: Parenting Your Wayward Adult Kids with Joy, offering practical advice, biblical perspectives, and even a free resource of personalized prayers. She addresses the complexities of modern parenting, covering topics such as differing political views, approaching concerns about adult children, and leveraging scriptures like 1 Corinthians 13 to guide parenting at any age.
Key Takeaways:


Discussion about the challenges of establishing healthy boundaries and managing expectations with adult children.
The shift in the parental role from control to support and advisory.
Misconceptions about perfect parenting and the need for adapting to changing dynamics.
Importance of impactful communication at different stages of parenting.
Advice for setting up healthy communication patterns with young children to carry into adulthood.
Emphasizing the shift from control to relationship-based parenting as children grow older.
Navigating differing political views within the family.
Dealing with adult children heading down the wrong path and how to approach the situation. How Scripture can help navigate parenting adult children.
The application of love as the most important virtue in parenting.

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“Can we just be challenged enough to say, "It's going be dirty and messy and hard, but at the same time, would we want to go to heaven any other way?" And if we want to raise kids, I pray for my kids every day that they chase after the God-sized dreams. But if we want that, then we have to do that ourselves - we have to model it. And so, my challenge for myself and my family and for all of us is to envision that.” – Cynthia Yanof.
Cynthia is a wife, mother, podcaster, blogger, and everyday girl who is committed to not taking herself too seriously. She hosts the popular MESSmerized podcast and spends her days laughing, parenting, and praying for her family to chase after their God-sized dreams. Her first book, Life is Messy, God is Good, is available now on Amazon.
During this episode, Cynthia discusses the impact of adoption on family dynamics, the importance of living with the end in mind, and the transformative power of faith. Cynthia shares personal stories of parenting struggles and triumphs, highlighting the need to challenge oneself and live life unafraid of getting messy.
Key Takeaways:


The lies parents believe, such as being defined by their kids' successes and failures, feeling inadequate, or seeking universal acceptance.
Navigating the messy moments of parenting with faith and humor.
Empowering parents to align their beliefs with God's truth.
Encouragement for parents to help their children envision their future through exposure and support.
An anecdote about Cynthia's son's struggles with reading in first grade and how it led to unexpected positive qualities in him as a teenager.
Emphasizing the importance of believing in God's plan for children, even in difficult times.
Cynthia's experience with foster care and the transformation it brought to her and her family.
The impact of adoption on the family's dynamics and the spiritual growth resulting from stepping out in faith.
The inspirational story of a secret service agent during the 9/11 attacks, emphasizing the idea of not going to heaven in a clean suit.
Encouragement for parents to live each day with the end in mind, embracing the call to do the hard things and model godly perseverance for our children.

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