Raising Teens with Collett Smart

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Raising Teens with Collett Smart

When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child. Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community. For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au. The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via the Hope website, Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. 

  1. 8 DE OUT.

    S8E10 - What if your teen says they are not ok?

    Help with eating disorders - The Butterfly Foundation Help with feeling suicidal - Beyond Blue Psychologist Collett Smart discusses vital signs of mental health struggles in teenagers during Mental Health Month. Drawing on insights from Graeme Cowan, she offers six key indicators, such as changes in behavior, social withdrawal, and substance abuse. Tips include listening actively, supporting through small tasks, and encouraging professional help. Tackle the daily ups and downs of teenage life with practical strategies and a compassionate approach.  Key Takeaways: Recognising Changes in Behavior: Parents should look for sustained changes in their teen's behavior or mood over two weeks or more, which might signal underlying mental health issues. Social Withdrawal: A noticeable decrease in a usually social teenager’s engagement with friends or activities could be a red flag of mental health struggles. Changes in Appetite: Significant increases or decreases in eating habits might indicate emotional distress or potential eating disorders. Negative Talk: Expressions of hopelessness or worthlessness should be taken seriously and approached with empathy and support. Substance Abuse Signals and Tiredness: Increased use of alcohol or drugs and persistent fatigue or insomnia can be indicators of deeper mental health issues that need addressing. Notable Quotes: "Their brains are going through massive changes, and they're learning to do really hard things." – Collett Smart "You know your teen better than anyone. What you will be looking for are changes to what you consider normal for your teen." – Collett Smart "Mental ill health drains your energy. They might not feel like they want to put on a brave face for everyone when they go out." – Collett Smart "It's important to walk with people sometimes side by side or sit in the car, particularly for some teens if listening face to face is confronting." – Collett Smart "Rather than saying you need support, which may make some teens feel like they're weak or they're not good enough, I love to use Michelle Mitchell's phrase, you deserve support." – Collet   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team.   Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    13min

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    S8E9 Caring for the Carer - Graeme Cowan

    Key Takeaways: I CARE Framework: Learn how to Identify changes in behavior, show compassion, Access mental health experts, Revitalise social engagement, and the importance of Exercise. Engaging Teen Boys: Effective ways to engage young men in mental health conversations through shared activities and subtle inquiries. Self-Care for Carers: The importance of carers maintaining their own vitality, intimacy, and prosperity to provide effective support. Holistic Approach to Recovery: Emphasise the role of a holistic approach, incorporating regular exercise, healthy eating, and strong social connections. Community Resources: Utilise resources like Reach Out and Kids Helpline for additional support and information. Notable Quotes: "A conversation could change a life." – Graeme Cowan "Don't be afraid to let that [question] hold out there. Don't feel you have to fill the gap with noise." – Graeme Cowan "Self-care isn't selfish; if we don't care ourselves, there's no way we can offer support and patience and guidance for a young person who could be struggling." – Graeme Cowan "The more that a young man feels understood, the greater our capacity to influence them." – Graeme Cowan "We need to act like a VIP: vitality, intimacy, prosperity. Think each day, how can I top up those glasses?" – Graeme Cowan Resources: R U OK? – Information about the organisation and resources. Reach Out – Resources for young people and parents. Graeme Cowan's Books: Access to the "Back from the Brink" series. Kids Helpline – Support and resources for young people and parents. Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    34min

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    S8E8 - 4 Tips for Positive Self-talk

    Key Takeaways: Influence of Self Talk: The constant internal chatter significantly impacts our emotions, behaviors, and overall well-being, with both positive and negative aspects. Parental Responsibility: The manner in which parents talk to their children can shape their children’s inner voices, underlining the importance of mindful and compassionate communication. Recognition and Awareness: Encouraging teens to recognize and articulate their negative self talk can diminish its impact and pave the way for positive thinking. Challenging Negative Thoughts: Teaching teens to question the validity of their negative self talk and to reframe it in a constructive, supportive manner is crucial for mental resilience. Impact of Media and Social Influences: Monitoring media consumption and discussing its impact helps teens understand and mitigate negative influences on their mental health. Notable Quotes: "Our voice will become our child's inner voice." "Negative self talk can often be the loudest and most constant voice in our heads." "Saying sorry teaches kindness, humility, and empathy." "Helping teens challenge their thoughts by asking, 'Is this actually true?'" "Respond to negative self talk as you would to a friend—with kindness and support."   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    13min

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    S8E7 Helping Teens Learn Self- Compassion - Dr. Veya Seekis

    Listen to a Past Episode from Dr. Veya Seekis here - TikTok and Body Image To learn about Dr. Veya's work, at Griffith University or her Paper on TikTok This episode, Collett Smart teams up with Dr. Veya Seekis from Griffith University to discuss the transformative power of self-compassion in raising teens. Delve into actionable insights on acknowledging emotions, soothing techniques, and the difference between self-compassion and self-esteem. Listen as they explore practical steps for parents and teens to foster self-compassion, ensuring healthier emotional development and well-being. Key Takeaways: Definition of Self-Compassion: Self-compassion involves acknowledging one's pain, recognising it as a shared human experience, and offering oneself kindness, as one would to a friend. Comparison with Self-Esteem: While self-esteem is contingent on success and external validation, self-compassion provides a stable, internal framework for managing stress and emotions. Traffic Light System: This practical approach uses red for stopping and acknowledging feelings (mindfulness), amber for recognising shared humanity, and green for practicing self-kindness. Benefits for Teens: Practicing self-compassion helps mitigate stress, prevents rumination, and may alleviate symptoms of anxiety and depression, making it a vital skill for teenagers. Pilot Program Insights: Dr. Seekis’ school program shows that self-compassion techniques can be successfully integrated into the curriculum and can impact teens' ability to manage stress effectively. Notable Quotes: "In a nutshell, self-compassion is really just learning to be your own best friend." "When we are being self-compassionate, we are acknowledging that we're in pain, understanding that this pain is not unique to us, and showing ourselves some kindness." "Self-compassion is an emotion regulation strategy. It helps us in those moments when we're stressed, disappointed, or in pain." "The traffic light system uses red to stop and acknowledge feelings, amber to recognise shared humanity, and green to practice self-kindness." "Self-esteem can only be high during positive outcomes, whereas self-compassion offers a way to manage emotions irrespective of external success or failure."   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    42min

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    S8E6 - Location Sharing Apps

    Key Takeaways: Open Communication: Essential for integrating tracking apps harmoniously within the family. Parents should discuss and agree with their teens on how and why apps are used. Modelling Healthy Tech Use: Parents should exemplify balanced, respectful tech habits, reinforcing mutual trust in the family. Evaluate Pros and Cons: Weigh the benefits and concerns of tracking apps with your teens to ensure their comfort and privacy are considered. Regular Review and Adjustment: Periodically reassess the necessity and impact of these apps to adapt to your teen’s growing need for independence. Focus on Mutual Trust: These tools should foster trust and respect, not control; ensuring healthy emotional and developmental growth for teens.   Notable Quotes: "Our children don't live in the same time as we grew up in, and so we have to parent differently for a different time." "Boundaries are always about love and support and age-appropriate safety." "Family use of the location apps doesn't imply mistrust, but rather reflects our commitment to their well-being and that we love them." "It's very healthy for children to express these feelings and want some independence." "This is just one small aspect of teaching children the importance of mutual respect and open communication, because those are the foundations of healthy relationships." Past Episodes Mentioned in Episode Digital Nutrition - Listen on Spotify Internet Gaming Disorder - Listen on Spotify   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team.   Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    14min

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    S8E5 Grandparents and Teens - Dr. Michael Carr- Gregg

    Key Takeaways: Importance of Grandparents: Grandparents provide emotional stability, a sense of continuity, and resilience-building for grandchildren. Building Relationships: Key strategies include discovering the grandchild's interests, participating in their milestone events, and documenting family histories. Respect and Boundaries: Grandparents must respect the parenting styles and boundaries set by parents to avoid conflicts. Dealing with Technology: Collaboration with parents on screen time rules is essential, alongside encouraging non-screen-related activities. Supporting Special Needs: Grandparents should educate themselves about neurodiversity and adapt their interactions to meet the needs of their grandchildren. Notable Quotes: "A key component of resilience is having an adult in your life that I've referred to as a charismatic adult, someone from whom you can draw strength." – Dr. Michael Carr-Gregg "Your job as a grandparent is to celebrate diversity, to recognise that, for example, ASD affects one in every 100 Australians." – Dr. Michael Carr-Gregg "The most important thing is to remain neutral. You can't take sides. You've got to prioritise the wellbeing of the children." – Dr. Michael Carr-Gregg "What grandparents should never do is undermine parental authority, offer unsolicited advice, criticise parental choices." – Dr. Michael Carr-Gregg "The birth of a grandchild results in a sort of heartfelt, unconditional love that actually is an equal sequel to what they felt for their own children." – Dr. Michael Carr-Gregg Resources: Dr. Michael Carr-Gregg’s Book: Grandparents   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    26min

  7. 27 DE AGO.

    S8E4 - Research into GEM thoughts

    Key Takeaways: Gratitude's Impact on Well-Being: Practicing gratitude can significantly improve happiness, optimism, and even physical health. Collett references research showing that people who focus on gratitude feel better about their lives and visit the doctor less frequently. Empathy and Mirror Neurons: Empathy is crucial for fostering caring relationships and is neurologically wired into our brains through mirror neurons. Learning to understand and share others' feelings can significantly enhance social bonds and personal growth. Mindfulness Through STOP: The STOP acronym (Stop, Take a breath, Observe, Proceed) is a practical tool for parents and teens to integrate mindfulness into their lives, helping reduce stress and improve emotional regulation. Modeling Desired Behaviors: Parents and carers play a critical role in teaching these traits by modeling gratitude, empathy, and mindfulness themselves. Collett emphasizes the importance of adults demonstrating these behaviors consistently. Practical Techniques: Collett provides specific, actionable strategies, such as writing thank-you notes, keeping a gratitude journal, and observing the physical manifestation of emotions through breathing exercises. Notable Quotes: "Gratitude is a thankful appreciation for what we receive, whether it's tangible or intangible." "True empathy involves being able to take the perspective of others." "It's important for us to give empathy to people who think differently to us. That is true empathy." "The most effective method for teaching empathy is actually to show them empathy." "Practicing gratitude every day, just for a two-week period, actually pulls the brain out of negative thinking."   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team.   Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    18min

  8. 20 DE AGO.

    S8E3 GEM Thoughts - Hugh Van Cuylenberg

    About Hugh Van Cuylenberg and The Resilience Project Purchase the GEM Conversation Cards  from The Resilience Project Key Takeaways: Integrating GEM Thoughts: Practicing Gratitude, Empathy, and Mindfulness can significantly improve mental well-being and resilience. Parental Involvement: Engaged parenting and modeling resilience can positively influence children’s ability to handle life’s challenges. Importance of Structure: Establishing family routines like shared meals and structured activities helps maintain connection and teaches important social-emotional skills. Mental Health Awareness: Understanding that resilience does not eliminate struggles with mental health but equips one to handle them more effectively. Adapting to Change: Being flexible and adapting parenting strategies to meet the changing needs of children and adolescents ensures better support and fosters resilience. Notable Quotes: "When I was with these kids in India, I saw them practicing gratitude, empathy, and mindfulness every day, and they were so unbelievably happy." - Hugh Van Cuylenberg "I want my kids to experience life's ups and downs because I think they help make the highs so much higher." - Hugh Van Cuylenberg "The best memories I have of childhood would not have happened if I had a device in my hand." - Hugh Van Cuylenberg "My goal is to give teenagers those 36 months of their life back by keeping them off social media until they are 16." - Hugh Van Cuylenberg "Practicing GEM—Gratitude, Empathy, and Mindfulness—doesn't mean you won't struggle. It means you'll have the tools to handle those struggles better." - Hugh Van Cuylenberg Resources: The Resilience Project: theresilienceproject.com.au Hugh van Cuylenberg on Instagram: @theresilienceproject__ The Imperfects Podcast   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    39min
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When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child. Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community. For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au. The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via the Hope website, Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. 

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    Hope 103.2
  • Anos de atividade
    2021 - 2024
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    Raising Teens with Collett Smart

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